Almsot cry-laughed, there's so many tips, techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words of Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.
@remiglogorski954620 күн бұрын
Hi ! Nice to see You 😊❤
@juliasansone621121 күн бұрын
You two are beautiful humans ... Learning so much about how to do This from you 🫶
@zookeeperchrisАй бұрын
Very nice video, on why people ask questions when you say no. I think may do that as a defence response. As you say, we search out connection and so when someone does not want to connect with us, our fear pushes us to find out why, because if it is due to us, we want to change that to survive.
@arcad3Ай бұрын
Personally, I find this weird. (Warning: male perspective) "**speaking about inviting to the intercourse**" and not only In therapy people are learned about communication. Verbally. Why we have to guess the intonations? Seriously? I think, we need to educate the other way. As you've said, just "no" raises questions. And the better way is to explain why, not just reject the person. Rejection hurts. If we translate it to the reason, it is not a blunt rejection, but a projection of feeling, which allows better co-understanding. " I'm not in the mood " , " I do not feel okay right now" , " I do not want this right now ", " I do not feel for you as you feel for me" , "Let's not *do it* right now, let's do *this thing* instead "or even " I feel pressured and I want to leave" are good examples, in my opinion. For every rejection, there is a reason and it better be communicated. This is something I've implemented with all of my partners and everybody was happy about it. I wish all men (and woman &n-b persons) could react to all of this adequately, this is why we need to develop empathy in society and study sex ed. Your thoughts?
@sexedforyouАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing your perspective! We deeply believe that we each have a right to self-determination and informed decision making. We love using this podcast platform to share about our favorite tools and we're always happy when someone shares their thoughts and feedback. I love your points about rejection. Rejection can be so painful. At training we spent hours and hours disecting the "why" behind the pain of rejection. The phrasing you're using sounds a lot like what The School of Consent would teach as the WILLINGNESS SCALE or WANTING SCALE. It can be very helpful and beautiful to share "not right now" etc. I also believe that there are instances where individuals feel they have no choice due to power imbalances or personal trauma. There are times when a simple "no," or a removal of the body from the space/person is all we can offer, and if so, that is fully enough. I agree 100% with your belief that we all need more empathy training and comprehensive sexuality education! :) Thank you again for your thoughtful response!! - L
@arcad3Ай бұрын
@@sexedforyou Thanks for detailed response! And now I agree. Sadly, there are many people with trauma. We all are traumatised in our own way... Some people need time to feel safe, some need communication, some need something else...
@robyndalzen7044Ай бұрын
Love this!!!
@sexedforyouАй бұрын
Sooo thankful for all you taught me last week! I'm still glowing. xoxo - Lauren
@remiglogorski9546Ай бұрын
😊❤👍🥰🥰
@sexedforyouАй бұрын
Thank you for the love! - L
@NiladriMal-h1e2 ай бұрын
So amazing podcast. I really love your content and you both are looking very GORGEOUS!!!
@NiladriMal2 ай бұрын
So amazing podcast I really love your content and you both are looking very gorgeous ♥♥
@Max-d-s9e2 ай бұрын
Can i be your paypig ❤😊
@NiladriMal3 ай бұрын
Hey Lauren and Holland your Podcast is really amazing and I saw your every episodes.
@sexedforyou2 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@NiladriMal2 ай бұрын
@@sexedforyou Most welcome Lauren. But I noticed that your channel's subscriber and views count are too low. I think your video's thumbnails can be made more eye catchy or attractive and shorts video's editing style and quality can be made more better, then your channel's subscribers and watch time will increase very fast. This changes will monetize your channel very quickly and you can generate a good income from You tube. Please let me know your opinion 😊
@soundmind1743 ай бұрын
Love this video! Where can I find the coverage of Bridgerton Season 2?
@sexedforyou3 ай бұрын
Here you go!! kzbin.info/www/bejne/qZXEmZ2arqpsn9E
@yaniquedickson82763 ай бұрын
I died at "I was trying to come off as bookish" 😂
@sexedforyou3 ай бұрын
We love H's honesty!!!!! hahahah
@pierrecamus3 ай бұрын
This Videocast is so healthy, pleasure affirming, and educational. Great work.
@sexedforyou3 ай бұрын
This means the WORLD to us! Thank you!
@chad67793 ай бұрын
Love the topic and conversation. You guys are the best!
@sexedforyou3 ай бұрын
Thank you!! <3
@juliasansone62113 ай бұрын
Omg this made me cry. Thank you! ❤
@SuperMar10GalaxyBro4 ай бұрын
Much needed!! Saving this for reference, thank you!! 😊 🎉
@sexedforyou3 ай бұрын
Yay!! So glad to be helpful 🤍
@SuperMar10GalaxyBro2 ай бұрын
@@sexedforyou 🤍🤍🤍
@chad67794 ай бұрын
I really like this content! So accessible and real
@sexedforyou4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@remiglogorski95464 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤👍👍👍
@sexedforyou4 ай бұрын
<3
@pierrecamus5 ай бұрын
This is such an informative and interesting channel. Well done.
@sexedforyou4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! We really appreciate that <3
@sunnyprasad74375 ай бұрын
I feel less confidence when sex toys are there for vulva owners because I didn’t find sex toys for penis owners. Why is this gap? If inclusiveness sex education knowledge would have been imparted, sex toys for both sexualities would have been addressed on the same page.
@sexedforyou3 ай бұрын
We argree! Working on it!! Thanks for your feedback!
@sunnyprasad74372 ай бұрын
@@sexedforyou Thank you. I feel dissatisfied discontented after awareness about sex toys for women though I encourage women in having sex toys. I never wanna feel dissatisfied always and wanna have sex toys for men also just like women.
@sunnyprasad74372 ай бұрын
@@sexedforyou (contd) Also I believe that pleasure is inclusiveness and it is a MUST. Sex toys are inclusiveness. The pressure of prejudice and stereotyping has impacted a lot in having sex toys that I wanna like to express myself. I never acknowledge in depending always on Female orgasm. Male pleasure is equivalent to female pleasure. I too love orgasms just like female.
@revmark7156 ай бұрын
Do you pay your intern or has Lincoln freed the slaves.
@sexedforyou3 ай бұрын
Great question! We believe in compensating for work. Our intern's contract was carefully negotiated between all parties so that they felt they were gaining value from the experience. All that said, it was purposefully a short contract because we do not believe in unpaid labor.
@gretchenwells19506 ай бұрын
This has been such an amazing experience to listen to! As somebody who is starting their journey into sexual wellness education this podcast has been incredible! Not only to help ease some of the nerves of starting in this industry, by listening to your stories, and your experiences and your views, but also as a person being able to hear experiences that I can relate to day-to-day where “ research meets reality” is absolutely beautiful. Thank you so much for what you do!
@sexedforyou6 ай бұрын
This means the world to us, Gretchen. Thank you so much for listening. We are so grateful that our stories, experiences, and research are helpful to you and so many others like you! We couldn't do this without YOU!! SO much love, Holland <3
@tracereraser77118 ай бұрын
So needed this right now! Thank you for sharing your time and resources ❤ will be sharing with my girls!!
@sexedforyou8 ай бұрын
Ah! So happy to hear that & glad you enjoyed it! :)
@exploreyourdreamlife8 ай бұрын
Thanks for making this video on sexual compatibility in couples. Any tips on handling different sex drives in couples? I’m impressed, I liked this video and subscribed!
@sexedforyou8 ай бұрын
Thanks for the comment! We're glad you enjoyed! We chat about sex "drive" in many of the episodes, but we'll absolutely make a video dedicated to this!
@SuperMar10GalaxyBro11 ай бұрын
Like the encouragement and that fresh way to view enoughness ❤🎉
@sexedforyou11 ай бұрын
thank you!
@marciagomes3306 Жыл бұрын
True that my sista
@sexedforyou Жыл бұрын
thank you!
@Ranger1200 Жыл бұрын
Resonated with me. Retiring in a month. Need a walk about but where?
@sexedforyou Жыл бұрын
Which one did you need most? Silence, solitude, or stillness?
@disco4535 Жыл бұрын
Im thankful for women like this. So many homeless cats adopted, no man getting hitched to this. Win win
@Dorothyredshz Жыл бұрын
Yes !!!!!
@curtisfinckel6833 Жыл бұрын
No offense to her, I would never date her to be on her own
@rarelyaccurate6252 Жыл бұрын
Lots of masturbation by this one. 😂
@RPGMelodySage Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! 🎉🎉😊
@matthewsmith8999 Жыл бұрын
And, when us men think or act like this it's not the same meaning because there is something wrong with us is womens eyes.
@ShakaarGaleed Жыл бұрын
Hey, I feel this. I'm in this very mindset, even as a man. I've just gotten so over the dating scene that being alone gives me more pleasure than trying to please someone else...and failing. Whether because the goal posts get moved arbitrarily or because the person I'm trying to please just isn't worth the time or effort.
@sexedforyou Жыл бұрын
exactly! way to take care of yourself!
@iHUNTdeadThings Жыл бұрын
This is one if the dumbest proclamations I have ever heard.
@shermanwilliams668 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 She being funny right ? 😂😂😂😂
@adroitclips1695 Жыл бұрын
I think this means you respect yourself and why waste time with someone who isn’t interesting to you. The competition is hard for some people and others find it easy. I know people that couldn’t last a week with themselves.
@sexedforyou Жыл бұрын
agree!
@rubentapia3298 Жыл бұрын
Ok.......
@jeremygoddard6752 Жыл бұрын
BIG OLE’ red flag 🤣😂😊
@Noah-b6r9l Жыл бұрын
Wtf 😂
@lyndseyeshelman5936 Жыл бұрын
🎉🎉 Congrats!!!! ❤❤❤
@sexedforyou Жыл бұрын
thank youuuuuuuu
@RichardG-ee4vs Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
@Melvin-ky8yy Жыл бұрын
Great job! It's thrilling to make her eyes roll back while she uncontrollably quivers with pleasure, I went with what I mentioned last week and now she can’t have enough. I did it go’ogling the latest by Merle Winestol and now she’s the one dragging me back for more lol.
@hollandbankston195 Жыл бұрын
Love this!! :)
@DrWoofOfficial Жыл бұрын
Have some respect for your sisters. They’re called WOMEN! Remember that word when it had a definition?
@sexedforyou Жыл бұрын
We use inclusive language at Sex Ed For You to ensure that everyone feels welcome here. We understand that while some vulva-owners do identify as women, not all do! Thank you for watching. <3 Holland the intern
@DrWoofOfficial Жыл бұрын
@@sexedforyou could you please tell me the appropriate term for a man. also, i think saying female is less dehumanising than vulva owner there are plenty of women who are offended by being called “vulva owner” which means it is an exclusive term
@sexedforyou Жыл бұрын
@@DrWoofOfficial you are welcome to your opinion and we support your values! On our channel we will use the terms we feel are most welcoming. Feel free to follow pages that support your ethics!
@DrWoofOfficial Жыл бұрын
@@sexedforyou yeah sure but i just wanna know why a woman being offended by these terms is any less important than a transwoman feeling offended by a term. majority of women personally identify as women. isn’t it offensive to misidentify someone?