How is this not a world wide classic?

I grew up in an incredibly conservative and misogynistic area of Michigan. I hate to admit it, but growing up I had the “boys will be boys” mindset- it’s all I had ever known. One day, I was listening to music on shuffle and this song came up. It moved me so deeply that it really shook my perception of how I, and others, treat women in society. Six years later, I have made a lot of progress on how I treat women and other marginalized groups, I still have a lot of progress to make. I just wanted to say thank you to Stella for making this music. To anyone listening that relates to this song, I hope you’re recovering and I hope you find yourself immersed in peace and healing soon.

Love love love this song.love love love stella Donnelly

Still so powerful

go crazy over this

Stella... A womanist .. you are a disgrace..... A propogandist. Good luck with those cats.... And that brain washing...... You are doomed...

My favorite song, so comforting anytime the flashbacks come and ruin my day, refusing to leave my head.

THIS IS INSANE!! MY GOD!!

This song fucking slaps so hard!

Thank you for this song. I feel seen after realizing I was practically desensitized and groomed by a man 11 years older than me.

This video is simply gorgeous.

This song continues to be a valuable educational resource. Please if you have watched this, share this song , share the message and use it to open up discussions. IMO the lyrics are a message to ardently challenge the idea of stereotypes, explicitly that males behave in a certain manner simply because they are male and have no self control over their actions and the impending consequence. If we accept the ‘boys will be boys’ stereotype, we are accepting the problem of all stereotypes and being complicit with acceptance. Challenge acceptance of stereotypes….boys will be boys is not an accepted stereotype. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie “ The problem with stereotypes is not that they are untrue, but they are incomplete. They make one story the only story.”.

Why isn't she more popular?? :'(

She reminds me a lot of Regina Specter

the new album is sick!

Loving this!

one of a kind artist nothing like her

（*0ω0）b゛

Loved the new LP. Stella didn't disappoint with this one!

옛날에 1집 LP샀었는뎈ㅋ 노래가 맨날 좋노

absolutely beautiful. an inspiration

I'm in loooove with this music

Iove this one! This album has such a look!!!

pure class, stella's one of the best voices in indie rock

Мило 🥰

Well done 👍

We need more similar artists.

loving all the new tunes !

TW After being called a whore and saying I wanted it, this song hit to hard. I was only 5. Barely in school..

siempre lloro con esta canción T-o-T

girls will be gurls...

My friend suggested me this song and then I heard it. Idk I felt really relieved and at peace hearing this song. I felt like I couLd feel the song diffusing into my Mind and my body. This song is the voice of every oppressed individual

Japanese hiphop unit, Namedaruma uses mosquito as beat. so i come here her song is so gooood!!!👍👍👍

September 30th. Just know that it is not your fault and it will never be your fault. You didn’t deserve it. You’re still gold. I love you.

It happened for 4 years. From my 8 to my 12. Raping me, abusing me and making me feel like a piece of sh1t all my life. Like I was nothing, useless and worthless. That I better never exist. Now, more than ten years after, he s still free, building his own family with a nice girlfriend while I m wondering when I will be able to look at the mirror and see something else than an ugly and fat garbage who should be better dead than alive. Happy me ♡

Better to buy a sex toy than put up with a fucking idiot for 40 years.

Thank you Stella! This song is a masterpiece! ❤️

This song was played on the radio after the female anchor spoke about her own experiences on the street as a reaction to the murder of Sarah Everard last week. I literally had to pull over and stop the car because I had tears in my eyes. What happened to decency? To kindness? Us men need to lead by example. Believe your female friends when they tell you about these things: they are not overreacting. Walk them home when they don't feel safe. Raise your goddamn voice when you see something suspicious happening and step in before it gets worse. If this had happened to somebody I knew, I don't know if I could have lived with it. Fuck this is devastating.

Thank you Stella. (Perhaps we should all forward a copy to Christian Porter's Office?)

Thank you.

I love this song, but hate how people only show one side of victims.. There are two sides, one that covers and hides another side that is actually a lot worse, they use their own body against them after because they believe that's all that's good with them... <- I know this side because I got this side...

it wasn't as strong as most of the comments here, but it still had an impact. I wish they had done something.

Stella...you saved my life. Thank you.

Hey guys, the comments are full of victim-blamers and people who deny the personal venting aspects of this song so be careful please

Anyone else here for English study?

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