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@s.m7256 2 күн бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to you, even more sorry you are feeling as you do behind the event. You said it yourself, no matter where you go, by being Black, you’ll experience people who will treat you a certain way. F, them, hold your head up high. Walk with pride. Don’t shrink yourself. It may not be easy, but F them, find a safe space mentality. Be safe physically!! As a Black person, we constantly have to question interactions, daily!!! Don’t give them the win, because trust me, regardless of them seeing you or not, they know they intimidated you. Next time, take your time, do your shopping, and keep it moving. What I do, especially in white areas as I travel, get in, get out, get gone. If I’m that uncomfortable, I walk away. What you’ve experienced happens EVERYWHERE!!! Also, THANK YOU FOR LIVING OUTSIDE THE BOX!!!
@AfroWellnesswithAysha 12 күн бұрын
I quite literally relate so completely. Unfortunately it can be hard to find a place in the world. I’ve heard lots of black queer women like Merida and playa del Carmen. Also I’ve heard Asia like Thailand and Vietnam are nice places. I’m so pros of you whatever you do! Keep the faith and protect you and yours and have plans in place to have community
@moongoddessaries 17 күн бұрын
As a black woman who just moved to the midwest, I experience microaggressions here almost daily so I feel your pain.
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 16 күн бұрын
@moongoddessaries I hope things get better for you, keep your head up ❤️
@Pookie-t3m 25 күн бұрын
Honey, your mere presence intimidated her that’s why she tried to stop you❤I’m so sorry that happened to you 💕💕
@ZaneChandy Ай бұрын
Hey QOD. I’m so sorry for your experience and I’m truly heartbroken by your story. It’s really sad to see people who have deep hatred toward someone because of how their hair or their skin color looks. Honestly, you’re so brave for sharing your story and I’m really glad I was able to see it. I can sort of relate to your situation. I was raised in Florida in also a diverse community. However, not too long ago I estranged from my family after they found out I had bipolar disorder. I also moved to a small town (Ames, Iowa) because I thought it would be a better experience for me as a brown Pakistani and it would be more safer. I have experienced a lot of racism here. In fact, it’s been a traumatic experience for me. I never knew how much racism was so systematically ingrained in the US. I can only imagine what it’s like in your shoes. I sometimes wonder also where else can I go since even my own family doesn’t care about me. Please do keep us posted on your situation and I hope and pray to God that it improves. May God protect you and be with you always. Always remember, you deserve the best in life dear friend. ❤️🙏🏽
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 21 күн бұрын
@ZaneChandy thank you for sharing your experience Zane. I hope you continue to persevere through your hardships and do what you can to take good care of yourself ❤️
@TheEpiphany101 Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry ❤
@BIGMAMMA183 Ай бұрын
I am sorry to hear of your plight. Unfortunately, we do share this world with negative, nasty people. We cannot prevent the way others treat us. However, we can control our reactions to it. This white woman is nothing, try not to take her actions towards you to heart - keep strong my sister and thanks for sharing.❤
@tinabaygboe6879 Ай бұрын
💜💜💜💜
@joshuabeldo2656 Ай бұрын
❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾crazy you’ll be around I’ve been there…
@JohnMacFarTV Ай бұрын
awesome coverage!
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
@@JohnMacFarTV thank you!!!🙏🏿
@piashadononfroy1261 Ай бұрын
COME TO NEW MEXICO I GOT YOU SISTER❤TRULY I MEAN THAT HIT ME UP
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
@@piashadononfroy1261 you’re so kind! New Mexico is on my list of places to visit, would love meet up one day. I also just subscribed to your channel ❤️
@piashadononfroy1261 Ай бұрын
SUBSCRIBED BC I WANT YOU TO KNOW YOU GOT THIS KEEP LIVING YOUR DREAM HOLD AND DONT FOLD NEVER FOLD YOU HEAR ME MY SISTER AND 👑 QUEEN❤
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
@@piashadononfroy1261 this really made my day. Thank you so much for you kind words. I promise to never fold, my ancestors won’t allow it ❤️
@paprikahoney Ай бұрын
I am so sorry, I hope you are feeling better *sending hugs*
@piashadononfroy1261 Ай бұрын
FEEL HER SO MUCH LEFT THE DIRTY SOUTH BC OF RACISM I WILL NEVER GO BACK NEVER EVER ITS SO DEPRESSING AND SO UNFORTUNATE ❤
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
@@paprikahoney thank you! I’m feeling waaay better since this incident
@knickasaki7962 Ай бұрын
I’m digging the podcast studio…!looks cool with the view out the windows and the sound is pretty on point! Great job!
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
@@knickasaki7962 thanks so much! My goal is to get 1% better with each upload. I appreciate the support ❤️
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching everyone! Feel free to share your thoughts & opinions below. Timestamps👇 :00 Intro 1:20 Discussing Jay-z Allegations 2:22 Jay-Z’s Response 5:04 History of Jay-Z 10:15 Examining Black Excellence 13:28 Parasocial Relationships 14:13 Cognitive Dissonance + JayZ Defenders 17:17 Inconsistencies In The Victim’s Story + How Trauma Creates Distorted Memories
@Tkeece Ай бұрын
I’m sorry you had to experience this
@tattoosNplants Ай бұрын
This is my first time viewing your content and I loved it. Amazing perspective and presented very well. Keep it coming 😊
@bumpiejohnson4110 Ай бұрын
@@tattoosNplants hopefully 1day we can have a conv on your views on the topic....
@tattoosNplants Ай бұрын
@ the day has come
@bumpiejohnson4110 Ай бұрын
@@tattoosNplants let me no when u ready....
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
Thank you! I will def keep the content coming ❤️
@bumpiejohnson4110 Ай бұрын
U NEED 2GET THAT HATE OUT YOUR HEART....
@tattoosNplants Ай бұрын
What hate? Why you yelling?
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
It’s the love in my heart that allows me to speak out against those who abuse their power & harm others…
@tattoosNplants Ай бұрын
@@Qu3stOfD3stiny keep loving!! Keep speaking up and backing victims. Love this response. Class and couth
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
@@tattoosNplants you’re so kind, thank you ❤️
@HovitoBaby Ай бұрын
@@tattoosNplants the victim went on the news and lied
@CameronCourts Ай бұрын
Let me get this straight. Jay Z is falsely accused of a heinous crime by an unwell woman who has been caught in several lies with the help of her ambulance chasing lawyer, and people feel that the right thing to do is pick apart Mr. Carter's statement to find "red flags"? To be falsely accused is to be abused. It is a traumatic experience. He is a victim, and this is victim-blaming. When the guilty-until-proven-innocent ideology falls flat and exposes itself as extremely flawed and wrong, there is never any reflection on how the accusation and public scorn has mentally impacted the falsely accused. People just move on as if their participation in this person's anguish was justified. In fact, they truly believe it was justified.
@scorpionoir4952 Ай бұрын
She was definitely profiling you and she had to save face in order to keep the store from getting in legal trouble. File a complaint and leave public reviews as a caution to other black people in the area.
@Qu3stOfD3stiny Ай бұрын
@@scorpionoir4952 I’ll def leave a public complaint as well. Thank you for your advice ❤️
@simpkinsfranklin 2 ай бұрын
Glad to come across your channel real hip hop talk right now music has been awesome this year.
@LaurenLove-c7s 2 ай бұрын
You edited this video soooo well 😍
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
@@LaurenLove-c7s thank you baby! 🥰❤️
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
Part One of our Wicked review starts at 3:42. Part two will be available this weekend! Thanks for watching everyone❤
@norwoodsstokes3883 2 ай бұрын
Doechii's ABNH.....was one of those one's.....hope she's opening 4 KDot & Sza....on that mew tour they jus announced.......🐊🐊🐊🐊🙌🏽🙌🏽💪🏽💪🏽💯
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
Whew! Adding Doechii to the lineup would make this tour even more bullet proof! 🐊 ❤
@rahbeeuh 2 ай бұрын
Is hip-hop or music in general your SpIn? Whether it is or not it was still great that you shared a bit of it here.
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
Yes! Music has been a special interest of mine since a kid. I also DJayed house parties + clubs from 2014-2019. I focused more on hip hop, house, and r&b. Those genres still have my heart ❤️ 🔒
@rahbeeuh 2 ай бұрын
@@Qu3stOfD3stiny I figured as much. I'm Autistic with ADHD (AuDHD) and even before I read your bio I sensed you were Autistic. Auti-radar picked it up 😅 So cool you got involved with music and still seem to have love for it. That's incredible! 🎉 Anyhoo, it's amazing seeing the joy and care your SpIn brings you 🫶🏾 may that continue.
@jennlynn3236 2 ай бұрын
I dont know how i got here. But i loved the video❤
@rahbeeuh 2 ай бұрын
Hey Jenn! Fancy seeing you here 😅❤
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! The algorithm came through, I’m happy you’re here ❤
@Empty-oh7du 2 ай бұрын
such a gem! so happy I came across your channel 💌
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! Im happy you did too ☺️
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
The Kendrick Lamar chat starts at 2:02! Thanks for watching and feel free to leave your favorite tracks from GNX or any music you’re currently listening to. ❤
@colinwesss 2 ай бұрын
Great video, I love the passion you have for hip hop
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
@@colinwesss thank you! I had fun recording this one ❤️
@showmecute 2 ай бұрын
Beautifully done❤
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
@@showmecute ❤️❤️❤️
@AdorestheMoon 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for being honest about not voting. I think fear voting and choosing between wrong and horrendous is NOT something I believe we should just believe are our only choices. JUST to uphold a false belief of civic duty or ancestral battles. I believe it's been clear on so many governmental levels there are issues on all levels. When we have to vote on genocide now or brutality to specific groups of people we have already chosen the wrong path. Good luck on your plans loves! I'm working on building a homestead, with like minded and energetic people! You GOT it Keep Going!!!! 🥰💗💞
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 2 ай бұрын
@@AdorestheMoon Best wishes to you and your homesteading goals! We have a lot of work to do but I believe we can still accomplish our wants/needs within smaller groups of likeminded people ❤️
@bodhisattva2348 3 ай бұрын
The places i would never live. Nope
@Natural_S3l3ction 3 ай бұрын
Sending you lots of love, peace & internet hugs!💖💕💕 Small towns always tend to have ppl with small minds living in them, they're a different kind of breed for me. I couldn't do it, I'd feel like I have to watch my back 24/7 and that's not a way to live.
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@Natural_S3l3ction thank you so much! I think the first small town I lived in spoiled me so I had less fear about moving to another one but boy was I wrong. I know I’m protected but I still have to be hyper vigilant of my surroundings when leaving my home
@yamiyo6050 3 ай бұрын
Yt ppl are the worst
@aleco444 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, sorry this happened to you😢❤keep your head up sis❤️🙏🏾
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@aleco444 thank you for listening to my story! I won’t allow this incident to break me and feel super grateful for your kind words ❤️❤️❤️
@allansheffler 3 ай бұрын
Im trying not to be negative because you seem very fragile But this is why wokeness, and the mindset that produced it, is a disease. Im raising my daughter's to not see racism in everything that makes them upset and when they do experience it to not let it break them. Also what is with this thing where we cant acknowledge that white racism ISNT the root of all evil and pretend like everybidy else is so much better than the so called bleach demons? Do you really think Africa would be a great place for a 1. Queer. 2. Woman to live? That is insane and wishful thinking that if you get away from the evil whites everything will be heavenly. Sadly until we (black people) look honestly at ourselves well never have any functioning safe prosperous society where we run it and only we live there. In the mean time look for solutions for the next generation that dont involve ignoring WHY people associate our skin color with crime. I dont like when women tense up when i get in an elevator but i understand why and that does take SOME of the anger out of me.
@Howtomakegamecards 3 ай бұрын
Where can you go? Sacramento. I always understood the Sierra foothills to be sundown country. The last time I was up there I was confronted by Karen for taking nature photos. Don't cry move!
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@Howtomakegamecards funny you should say this because I experienced the most physical/violent racism in my life by a man at a bar in Sacramento 🙃 thanks for your “advice” though…
@J.J568 3 ай бұрын
They will all reap what they sow.
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@J.J568 so shall it be ❤️
@hobaaize6474 3 ай бұрын
I’m so so sorry that this happened to you I really hope u will get better and feel well soon :(🩷🩷
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@hobaaize6474 thank you for sharing well wishes. I feel a lot better and very appreciative of all the support I’m receiving. I’m very grateful ❤️❤️❤️
@doret21 3 ай бұрын
Enjoy your life with your wife I’m so sorry this happened to you 💔
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@doret21 thank you so much, I’m keeping my head up! 😊
@iSourOrange 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing because a lot BW experience this. Im sorry you experience this. I hope you feel better. I pray your situation get better. May God protect you.🫶🏾💕
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@iSourOrange thank you for saying this ❤️ I contemplated deleting this video out of embarrassment or backlash but I’m so happy I decided to leave it up. Thank you!
@iSourOrange 3 ай бұрын
@ Aww, I totally understand! I’m the same way. As a Black woman with a congenital condition, it often feels like the world isn’t made for me either. I get where you’re coming from-I’m emotional, too, and still figuring out the best way to navigate racist, mean, or obnoxious people without breaking down. Seeing you share your experience and vulnerability really helps; it’s comforting to know I’m not overreacting and that we do have the right to feel the way we do in these situations. Thank you for being so open !
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@ ❤️I felt this real deep. It’s gets really hard navigating life in our bodies, so it’s only right that we release these heavy emotions in our own way. We need more safe spaces to talk about our intricate struggles, thank you for sharing some of yours ❤️🙏🏿
@Rollacoastertycoon 3 ай бұрын
Lmao
@allansheffler 3 ай бұрын
Cut it out idiot. She may be a little too fragile for your shyte.
@ADayOfflofi 3 ай бұрын
I’m sorry that happened to you. Thank you for sharing.
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@ADayOfflofi thank you for listening, I’m keeping my head up ❤️
@RicoJamesJones 3 ай бұрын
Hit me up with your girlfriend.. she is gorgeous… And I got a crush on her
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@RicoJamesJones my wife is very gorgeous, thank you for watching 🥰
@adfeefee9215 3 ай бұрын
Aweee ya’ll just so cool and make me smile so much! Sending lots of love and warmth!
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
😊😊 We love you Adrienne!!! THANK YOU 🙏🏿
@billthecreator2350 3 ай бұрын
Please get aND Filter and get SanDisk Extreme Pro sd card 256 gb. It's the very best quality for the DJI Pocket 3❤❤
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your suggestion on the sd card! I plan on getting a ND filter kit really soon so I can feel more comfortable shooting outside with the Pocket 3 ❤️
@billthecreator2350 3 ай бұрын
Great vibes and camera, Congratulations ❤❤😊
@juliemorrow2039 3 ай бұрын
Congratulations on finishing school.
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
She said, “ aweee, thank you!“ 🥹🥰
@juliemorrow2039 3 ай бұрын
New subscriber 👍
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for subscribing! ❤️❤️❤️
@showmecute 3 ай бұрын
Love this. Love seeing your home. ❤❤❤
@Qu3stOfD3stiny 3 ай бұрын
@@showmecute Thank you mama Jenny! ❤️❤️❤️