4:19 No, mate. Time does not force anything. Time is never a problem. The problem is the presence of incompetents who cannot plan effectively and end up with crisis after crisis out of which they try to wriggle out by ‘prioritising’. An earthquake is a crisis. The sudden death of someone close to you is a crisis. The rest are perfectly preventable events that should not impact me. And, please, try to be less patronising. 👋
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@andreamundt6 күн бұрын
Omg 💓 I´ve never felt that familiar with a Work! 💌 Dear fellow HSPs - Thank you for this video, it´s a beautiful and touching one for sure! Sigh ~ ~ I´m not alone. 👍
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@allenmgreen9910 күн бұрын
Fantastic segue!! You've were great 15 years ago, and you keep getting better!! Looking forward to more of these videos!
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@シンプルマイキー14 күн бұрын
How courageous this lady is! Big thank you for her openness & honesty! from JAPAN
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thank you for this...
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@karenkrogsgaard19 күн бұрын
I just love this conversation ❤
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@BrightningTheWorld22 күн бұрын
Love the sharing ❤
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@facundopereyra845528 күн бұрын
im new to question 4. last night i wanted to work on the tought " My dog could get lost forever in the street", then i asked my self What would this situation be like without thought? , and even i didnt got an answer, i did felt like attachment toughts arising (if i let go this tought im going to abandon my dog, even when my dog is completely okay).
@theworkasmeditation27 күн бұрын
Question 4 is a powerful question and it requires a gentle hold. Great work noticing the attachment thought, "If i let go of this thought, I'm going to abandon my dog." You could even question that thought first before continuing with your inquiry. Keep in mind that question 4 is just a thought experiment. You don't have to let go of any thought. Just notice the difference in your inner experience with the thought (question 3) and without the thought (question 4). This will show you how this thought affects you on an experiential level. That's the only purpose of it. Then try some turnarounds and look for a perspective that feels more balanced (less stressful) if you can find one.
@facundopereyra845527 күн бұрын
@@theworkasmeditation thanks a lot todd, today i worked again on question 4 and it was the first time i experienced Who would i be in that situation without the tought. Kinda strange being honest. Thanks for the advice, i almost forgot that its a tought experiment ☺️🤝
@femkekuiken6370Ай бұрын
This episode is so eye opening for me. It really showed me how I am too taking a situation to use it to bolster a story about me being unworthy and so totally different than most people I meet. The yahoo turnaround made the shift for me and brought me, like the courageous lady doing the work, to my habitual 'easy' way out not taking any responsibility for me owning that the person is not fitting in for me. I am a people pleaser and live with the idea that I have to be nice to everybody. And I expect people to treat me the same way. When they don't, I feel rejected. It's so eye opening to really feel this turnaround and to make it a living turnaround; showing the courage to just be honest and in doing that taking responsibility of my own happiness and bypassing the vicious circle of being the victim. Wow, what a gift to receive from someone else doing Her Work on My Work. Thank you!
@solomonherskowitzАй бұрын
What about emotions tho
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@AnaraDamenova2 ай бұрын
I had kinda same feelings, in my perception, my uncle was disrespectful, so I got 3 times more disrespectful towards him , then I did the work and found out that I could be nicer and kinder in that situation 😅 hopefully 🤞 next time I don’t react!😊 ( the situation: he wanted to smoke outside and I wanted to let free my 3 dogs 🐕 2 of them are angry)
@claresmith92612 ай бұрын
What’s the problem if he smokes outside?
@AnaraDamenova2 ай бұрын
@@claresmith9261 we had lots of guests visiting, they were eating playing running dancing outside) dogs 🐶 were in their enclosures half of the day, in the evening everyone agreed to go inside to drink tea , and it was time for dogs to run little and do their things and then go to sleep!!! but my uncle wanted to smoke every 5-10 minutes… and when I explained to him that they need to do their things 💩 because they were closed all day , he didn’t want to understand… so I got angry
@twilit2 ай бұрын
don’t get why they can’t do their thing with him out there but not the point it’s about the escalation i get it
@AnaraDamenova2 ай бұрын
@@twilit because they can bite him .
@claresmith92612 ай бұрын
@@twilit How do you mean escalation!!
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@fernandatarrech2 ай бұрын
such an amazing worksheet
@claresmith92612 ай бұрын
Yes and I think we all can relate to what she’s saying so much 🙏
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@yvettenieto41822 ай бұрын
I ate a lot of these health food cookies-i stopped a while ago. I had a recent thought- isn't the intellect useful?-your answer helped.Thank you.
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@Raul-lc4gh2 ай бұрын
wonderful share 🙏
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@jessicaburns2 ай бұрын
Thank you Todd!
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@facundopereyra84552 ай бұрын
You are a genius todd, i prefer you before byron katie 100% 😊
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@claresmith92613 ай бұрын
Yes, thank you Todd for all these videos, just wondering have you any on addictions or over eating, would greatly appreciate it 🙏
@theworkasmeditation2 ай бұрын
Thanks, Clare. Here is a link to my website where you can find articles, a video, and a podcast episode on addictions. Scroll down on that page and load more to see more options. www.theworkasmeditation.com/?s=addiction
@claresmith92612 ай бұрын
@@theworkasmeditation Thanks 🙏
@jessicaburns3 ай бұрын
This video was so helpful!!!! Thank you. I am working on this