This works great we use it!❤ they love reversing the rolls too and getting to be the parent 2:02 that certainly is still respect. It’s not iníciate obedience, but that shouldn’t be the goal! Much better for kids to learn compromise and discussion than be subservient through life ❤
@CnK20114 күн бұрын
NOURISHED I loved this episode of Empowered to Connect with Dr MacNamara. Very inspiring and insightful. Thank you for all you do.
@LauraJohnson-t5x9 күн бұрын
Great instructor!
@elgeebee525012 күн бұрын
bdsm vibes ew
@elgeebee525012 күн бұрын
her baby talk is psychopathic!!!!!!! too much, terrifying, evil-ish
@mansi896318 күн бұрын
What abour disorganised attachments? Do we not have hope bruh? 🥲
@gmdw123Ай бұрын
U r amazing
@jameson69302 ай бұрын
When u get told about yourself
@evalina980002 ай бұрын
1. Giving voice a. Make plans 2 listen 2 ur keiki👂🏽 b. Wen dey speak b prepared 2 come front & center, look into der 👀 c. If u can, touch der shoulder or cheek d. Say yes, niño wat do u need? e. B prepared 2 meet da needs wen u can f. Wenevah u can, say yes 2 a request, do g. Wen u have 2 say no, let dem know dey r still heard 🔊
@evalina980002 ай бұрын
🤔 Muchas gracias
@PM-dl1iu3 ай бұрын
Beautiful thank you
@amandas6334 ай бұрын
Incorcendinatle
@samanthasmith83764 ай бұрын
This is great! Thank you ❤️
@meganmindcreates5 ай бұрын
I know Im not a child anymore but I remember that snuggles were a must. I was called a velcro child. But that quickly stopped when I was a teen. I didn't know why but as years went by I can see that I am not close to my mom as I was before. When she unexpectedly touch me I jerk back. I wasn't want for the touch... But anyways I am 21 years old and My mom has said Why dont you act your age. there were lots of neuro stuff that happened in the past and I am a bit slow. ive also notice my mom changed a lot these past few months and I am not used to that. She's very different.
@Handler13005 ай бұрын
Insane high quality and engaging video, Sending my love from Rajeshs basement ❤, nigga
@Handler13005 ай бұрын
Insane high quality and engaging video, Sending my love from Rajeshs basement ❤, nigga
@Handler13005 ай бұрын
Insane high quality and engaging video, Sending my love from Rajeshs basement ❤, nigga
@Handler13005 ай бұрын
Insane high quality and engaging video, Sending my love from Rajeshs basement ❤, nigga
@Handler13005 ай бұрын
Insane high quality and engaging video, Sending my love from Rajeshs basement ❤, nigga
@Handler13005 ай бұрын
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@Handler13005 ай бұрын
Insane high quality and engaging video, Sending my love from Rajeshs basement ❤, nigga
@Bidoof-kylekable5 ай бұрын
Oh yes love watching this in class 🍆💦🍑🤫🤭
@afeusse7 ай бұрын
No Drama Discipline-" What happened, What could have been done differently, What do we need to do to make this right?"
@kellybryant94748 ай бұрын
Definitely a needed topic! Thanks
@jordanbetts15728 ай бұрын
This applies on societal level to populations.
@summertaylor34158 ай бұрын
I found this to be a very practical way to look at and build our own personal community.
@tabathazsigray84908 ай бұрын
used time in for 18 years and it works!
@feliciaadolphson49009 ай бұрын
I agree with some of what you are saying. Punishment is not always the answer. But I never hear you bring up what God says about teaching and discipline. How is it that we have outsmarted God?
@trauma-informedacademy9 ай бұрын
Watching from Hyderabad, India. I am a Trauma-Informed trainer. Excited to learn from you guys.
@EmpoweredtoConnect9 ай бұрын
Awesome! Thank you!
@AmitSarkar019209 ай бұрын
nice video
@Sweaterchicken10 ай бұрын
Time out where they can see us is very effective at getting our son to calm down. Super Nanny strategy FTW
@mikaelaluna335310 ай бұрын
Fantastic explanation of self-regulation.
@AmitSarkar0192010 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤nice video❤❤❤❤
@trauma-informedacademy10 ай бұрын
Watching from Hyderabad, India
@AmitSarkar0192010 ай бұрын
Welcome
@AmitSarkar0192010 ай бұрын
nice video
@AmitSarkar0192010 ай бұрын
nice video
@Clemywemyy10 ай бұрын
I loved this ❤!
@Artsrock3611 ай бұрын
I hear what your saying but what about the child who does not respond to this?
@juanitahilliard4534 Жыл бұрын
Such an amazing insight what you can learn on by watching these videos
@dallasbrown4189 Жыл бұрын
All the parents should be reading her books and following her. she is so good in what she is doing.
@trauma-informedacademy Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this special podcast, listening from India.
@EmpoweredtoConnect Жыл бұрын
Thanks for listening!
@devondavis7456 Жыл бұрын
really inspired by this post! praising God for its timely message for our family with a 10 yr old daughter who just attended her first birthday sleepover, in which the birthday girl received a phone as her big gift. my husband picked our daughter up the next day and she started telling us about how much she enjoyed the party UNTIL the phone gift, which in turn prompted the rest of the guests to pull out their phones. she said it rendered her feeling isolated and reading a book the rest of the time because she doesn't have an electronic device. it was a good opportunity for us to reiterate our position on electronics for her at this point, and preemptively think about how we could handle this situation when she hosts her first sleepover soon (decided we'd respectfully request that guests shut off whatever devices they plan on bringing until we have a designated "do your own thing time period" throughout the night). as a family that values emotional intelligence behind our faith, we are intentional about providing opportunities for our daughter (an only child) to learn how to relate to friends/family/peers/people, from as healthy a place as possible. its hard to get to know someone/build strong relationships/learn more about yourself , etc...if your face is glued to a screen. I am especially grateful for learning about how deceptively benign some of these online gaming platforms present themselves to be. that's extremely unnerving for me as a mother of a girl-child. it will definitely help us to make a more informed decision about electronics for her when the time comes. it's important that we teach our children about impulse control and executive functioning as early as possible. especially as it relates to the subject at hand. however my personal experience has been that the parents who are so eager to hand their children an electronic device without considering the child's current state of maturity, its implications, and not having a concrete system for proper useage/boundaries in place surrounding the device, are the same parents who in turn shame/guilt/berate said child for NOT demonstrating the capability to do so. in my opinion, it unfortunately has to do with parents failure to help foster self-regulation/management in their formative years. we were blessed to have run across a particular tool that was extremely effective when our daughter was a toddler. it involved expectation setting, natural consequences and sharing the power with her when we could. we'd simply tell her where we were going (ie; target to get cat litter, Daddy's shaving cream, snacks). we'd tell her our expectations (ie; when we get out of the car please use your "safe hand" - magnet that taught her to place one hand on the vehicle to prevent her from running into traffic...please use walking feet/inside voice...please look with your eyes and ask before touching/ grabbing, etc.) we shared the power (ie; if we have time/you've been such a good helper today that we can look at books/toys/whatever you like! Come and set your timer *she'd grab our phone and use the alarm function to set a timer usually based on age sometimes longer/shorter...bonus - helped with number recognition at that age. when the alarm went off it was an audible alert for her signaling it was time to transition). **full transparency - we are eternally blessed that like my husband, our sweet girl is by nature inherently mild-mannered and maintains a gentle spirit. we don't take for granted how much her temperament has contributed to the success we enjoy living a quiet and peaceful life as a family, especially as we have intentionally helped guide her to her current developmental stage. be that as it may she is still a little human and has had moments of upset that we were thankfully able to help her navigate before they escalated into full-blown tantrums. mainly because as a proud homemaker, I had the precious commodity of time to do so. and I did! with great honor and gusto! I took EVERY chance afforded to me, to give her the tools she needed to manage those moments of big emotions, praying that she'll be able to use them to help her for years to come. in my position, it was my duty. I owed it to her, our family, her friends, her future husband; to set her up for success. that meant sometimes being late to events/appointments. not being able to attend functions. stepping out of a restaurant, movie, etc. all in the name of teaching her how to self-regulate. it was inconvenient, annoying and sometimes unfair. but we stand by our decision as we see how making those sacrifices back then have helped, her become the well-adjusted preteen that our sphere of influence have come to know and love so much. 💜 lengthy post I know! 😁 but I just felt led to share our experience of being purposeful as opposed to perfect. setting expectations and being consistent with communication and consequences. and how ultimately, she was mature enough to understand that when it comes to personal screen time for her in our home, it's a "not yet" situation; and she's ok with it! keep up the PHENOMENAL work ETC!!! I shared these podcasts with almost everyone I know! peace and blessings 🙏🏽
@Smeg4Head Жыл бұрын
10yr old video, 60k views and 600 likes haha - that says it all, what an utter load of absolute rubbish. "Lets reinvent parenting", yeah sure because you're smarter than the accumulated knowledge of countless generations... good luck to the future
@frisco61 Жыл бұрын
She doesn’t get near enough recognition for the work she did with children from “hard places.” We lost her way too early.
@katrastubblefield4583 Жыл бұрын
This was incredibly helpful for my kiddos! We grew our family on the first day of lockdown 2020 with an 18 mon old & a 13 year old! Our 7 year old was adopted back in 2016. I can not thank you enough for making this episode!
@EmpoweredtoConnect Жыл бұрын
So glad it was helpful! Thanks for letting us know!
@marieausdenmoore5941 Жыл бұрын
I'm close friends with people working in law enforcement child trafficking unit, electronic crimes, plus we are active in the adoptive community. Can you be more specific to how trauma of the job affects the family, but also family with children from disruption and hard places?
@EmpoweredtoConnect Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this question - we have a similar episode on the docket to record soon, we'll try to tackle this question when we revisit this topic!
@curtiskennedy1481 Жыл бұрын
'promosm'
@bacaworld7095 Жыл бұрын
So grateful for this woman all these years later! ❤
@Acorn_artflower Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the information and right to the point explanation