Hey Alexis! I hope you and your family are doing well, Chris
@Kianistani26 күн бұрын
This is an excellent conversation and the interview was conducted really well. It should have a lot more views. This is an important topic.
@garymulspАй бұрын
A lot of so-called experts on mental health don't know what they are talking about.
@fionagoddardpsychicclairvo5660Ай бұрын
Mothers are the first point of contact for a baby, abd if the mother is narcissistic or psychopathic she will implement triangulation and tranfer her rage into the scapegoat child The family does need to be thoroughly examined for the sake of the child, as many families are to blame particularly the psychopathic/narcissist mother Professor sam vakin goes into great detail about how these "dead" mothers create the child to be psychopaths/narcissists. The Golden Child in a narcissistic family will appear to do well - im referring to your comment about ine child showing the traits but the other child is doing well, or appearing to. Please dont let the mothers off the hook so easily
@le_th_2 ай бұрын
What this mother went through is, no doubt, terrible, and is *textbook* infant/toddler behavior for a child born with psychopathy. Yet, we have to be careful with this anecdotal evidence from a parent/parents. This "evidence" of other children doing fine is *not* enough to suggest this child is a psychopath. My own mother, diagnosed narcissist, scapegoated my older brother so badly, beating him from a *very young* age, and she admits to doing this BEFORE he was even 18 months old, and she will argue with you and any other professional to this day that HE was the problem from birth, when SHE was the problem all along. For a long time, she even convinced our father that our older brother was the problem, and she used the same "evidence" that her daughters were not behaving in the "horrible" way he was. My older brother could have *easily* been MISdiagnosed by a clinician with conduct disorder as a child because he turned to sniffing model airplane glue at age 10, had multiple attempts to run away, where he would tell our older sister that he was running away because he was afraid that our parents were going to kill him. At age 10, he had two grown adults...semi-professional athletes (baseball and tennis)...beating him as an adult team of abusers. My brother would run away, and law enforcement would bring him right back, which meant he would be abused even WORSE when he returned, because....god help anyone...if you make a narcissist look bad in public, like having their runaway 10 year old caught by law enforcement and returning to the house after being told he was afraid his abusive parents were going to kill him, only to find our drop dead gorgeous mother and even more gorgeous father standing before them with their beautiful daughters behind them. We looked like the perfect, beautiful, healthy family in a lovely clean, organized, beautifully decorated home, with nice clothes and plenty of toys. Plus, and this was salient, every single one of us KNEW if we told anyone, the beating we would get would be so much worse, again, because publicly outing a narcissist of any kind is the WORST narcissistic injury they can incur, so their wrath is going to make you wish you WERE dead. Clinicians MUST require more evidence than just what a parent says because no one plays the role of "the victim" better than a narcissist, and also use their other children as examples of them being "a good parent". NOTE: I am not suggesting this woman is a narcissist. Let me make that clear. I am saying that *some* parent lie through their teeth in order to "keep up appearances" and the scapegoat innocent children from BIRTH before the child has an opportunity to even take their first breath on this planet, they are *immediately* cast in the role of scapegoat having done nothing wrong aside from being born and existing. Narcissists will tell you ALL the list of (their) grievances that a infant/toddler/preschooler/young child did to cause them to "spank" them (they can minimize abuse to being deserved discipline after everything else has failed), when the child is wetting the bed, running away (for fear of being KILLED), and resorting to use of drugs, early sex, and/or alcohol abuse in an attempt to mitigate the trauma of their existence. My brother was the kindest, most down to earth person, and he would give you the shirt of his back, buy everyone in the family Christmas gifts, spending all his money, and he didn't have a pretentious bone in his body. He simply had the misfortune of being born to a vicous, abusive, admiration-seeking narcissist who would play the role of victim when she was the abuser. I don't want this to happen to other children who are scapegoated, so please require MORE than just one parent's perspective. Oh, and our father obtained his undergraduate degree in psychology, so it wasn't as if he didn't realize our mother was the problem, but she had him fooled for a long, long time. Ugh, and to hear her talk about how "The mother is always the one who is blamed". She was a full-blown child abuser, but her narcissistic delusions were her defense against admitting that she was a monster, it was always the little child's fault for being nothing but a child who didn't know any better.
@axewieldingmilena3 ай бұрын
1:16:01 She's actually showing arousal over psychopaths here - body langauge. I think part of her interest in them is a little bit sexual. She's blushing here over it. And stroking her cheek cause it's a sign that she wants to be stroked by THEM or someone.
@autismslove19103 ай бұрын
This discussion was on the lack of accessibility to mental health care for AAC users and what measures are being taken when crisis occurs.
@jackson325 ай бұрын
That was the first time I ever had feelings of sympathy for someone with primary psychopathy, meaning they were born with it through something important missing or too small in their brain. It is very sad when we start talking about babies not having enough normal feelings to want to be picked up. Makes me feel that this can be a very lonely and tough way to come into the world.
@allinix75 ай бұрын
Not really
@le_th_2 ай бұрын
The brain of a psychopath cannot process oxytocin, the bonding hormone, and oxytocin is what bonds mother and children, primarily through breastfeeding, but also through physical touch (just like psychologically healthy adults like cuddling). Oxytocin is the hormone that bonds parents and children, friends, family members, and us to our pets and vice versa. Since the psychopathic brain cannot process oxytocin (or the hormones that make the rest of us feel fear when our life is in danger), they have no desire to be picked up as infants or toddlers. All they need is food, shelter, and survivable temps. They are fully self-contained units and do not need anyone else, except when they get to be about 10 years old they generally start feeling the drive for sex kick in (from what I've been told from both male and female psychopaths). You should know that psychopaths are not disturbed or sad about any of this. They do NOT long to be held or picked up, although I do know of a couple of adults who claim to be psychopaths (who can verify if this is even true???) who claim to enjoy cuddling because "it feels good" which makes me think they're more "sociopaths" (factor 2 psychopaths, made that way by early childhood neglect/abuse) than factor 1, ice cold, psychopaths who are that way from birth. They never feel lonely. They are incapable of feeling depressed. What they generally "feel" toward others humans is total and complete indifference. Oh, but they do suffer from PERVASIVE boredom, to a degree that it makes them desire to be around others just so they can have some people to "f*ck with"...as one stated to me, or to entertain, manipulate, dupe, or for sex. They feel ZERO pain, suffering, or any other negative feelings about being a psychopath. They perceive the rest of us as boring, weak, and deserving of abuse (like this mother), manipulation and exploitation. They are COMPLETELY INDIFFERENT. Thus, don't spend one second of your time thinking they are lonely when they prefer to be alone (and free of having to wear their social mask for you and me) and just be themselves.
@jackson322 ай бұрын
@@le_th_ You may be right with what you say. This has to do with the brain and heavy duty psychology,, and few studies have gone far into this, so it is hard to know exactly what is going on with these people. I think the studies simply looking at the behaviors of known psychopaths' are accurate in their conclusions of how these people act and think and feel in the world. What is really going on deep down in these people is not well understood. Many have been sexually molested and tortured when young, so there is that to take into consideration. People tend to act out what happened to them in childhood in their adult lives. So a super angry person with no feelings at all for other people may be a much bigger threat to society than someone who simply has no empathy for others. The people at the very top of the pyramid of power brainwash and manipulate even very high level members of the club. They make sure things are very compartmentalized. There are lies on top of lies on top of other lies. The brainwashing done on high level club members tend to be in the direction of making sure they never develop any kind of conscience. Rituals like the the cremation of care at the bohemian grove are aimed at this goal.
@irieknit6 ай бұрын
Is there evidence that the child programs are effective across other disorders that have challenging child externalizing behaviours, eg FASDs? Dr Marsh mentioned other countries that help for child-parent violence but didn't specify them? So many questions about how secondary psychopathy presents and comorbidity. I hope you could interview again. The parent abandoned their safety boundary, and I wish they had a reminder within the interview especially since facial recognition is a thing.
@Poppy-yx8js7 ай бұрын
Does Dr. Marsh have information about who has been stalking me locally?? I have incurred significant costs in damages to my property from a harassment campaign I think she knows about. Someone doxxed me to her. I need to collect evidence. They broke my heating system and damaged thousands in landscaping costs . Killing my plants. I am curious what kind of story was told to get this over on people. I has lost probably 1M in total because I was prevented from working for many years. There is a toxic family member involved. Please notify me if someone knows who did this. The district attorney and police refused to help me and I might now have permanent trauma to my brain from the harassment.
@Poppy-yx8js7 ай бұрын
I think the goal is to try to prevent these things from escalating in future. It’s life ruining to be the recipient of online hate and local harassment. We can’t stop it unless we can hold the main individual who has kept it going accountable. Please think about trying to help. I was physically assaulted as a result. I’m going to need people to come forward.
@Poppy-yx8js7 ай бұрын
I listed a tiny portion of the financial loss - also stolen photos - sentimental items I’ve saved - thousands in clothes. Irreplaceable items my father bought. Please look into it. I’m trying to recover my property. Time matters.
@Poppy-yx8js7 ай бұрын
I have stolen photos and sentimental items/ other gifts from my father stolen from me. Thousands in clothes stolen. I’m trying to recover my property. I need the individuals identified.
@Poppy-yx8js6 ай бұрын
And it would be great if you could encourage platforms like American psychological association to stop cyberstalking & bullying me.
@Poppy-yx8js6 ай бұрын
It’s grand theft from my home. That’s a felony. All items that are mine. Paid for by me. Any help is appreciated. I need the property recovered.
@sbdsinc83667 ай бұрын
What a heart wrenching and perplexing thing to realize your child has these traits and to deal with the abuse. I realize my brother had these issues. Indeed we all knew that he was prone to stealing g and lying but had no idea what he was truly capable of later in life in terms of stealing, fraud, financial abuse etc. it is for sure comforting to hear others insights and experiences, but it’s sad as well
@Poppy-yx8js10 ай бұрын
So I just want to add here. She has mentioned twice that other children in a family doing fine is evidence that the parents are not to blame. I just want to suggest that in future you may want ( or Dr. Marsh) may want to dig deeper with that as evidence. Give more clarity as most of us who have some knowledge about child abuse know that often an abusive parent picks a scapegoat to bully and another child as a golden child, so it’s unclear to me how one child being OK and another having behavior issues is evidence that this is entirely heritable. There are many families that have very well concealed emotional abusers.
@jackson325 ай бұрын
Good point. People should do a thorough accounting of the treatment of children and not automatically trust anyone who was alone with the child.
@le_th_2 ай бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree. Narcissistic abusers, especially mothers, are the consummate "victim" when they talk about the child they scapegoat, and their desire to keep up appearances and be admired in public makes it very easy for them to lie, minimize their abuse, exaggerate the behavior of the scapegoat, and to justify everything they do and do not do to the scapegoated child. The truly are momsters to the child they scapegoat for doing nothing other than being born, and often the other children are afraid to say anything about the abuse because they see what the abusive mother (or father) does to the scapegoat, and they don't want to be next in line for it. We *must* have more actual evidence, not just anecdotal evidence from a parent/parents.
@suhailshafi10 ай бұрын
Why did you participate in the war in the first place if you think invading and attacking other countries is such an awful idea ?
@Kianistani26 күн бұрын
I. Think he has come to the realisation with hindsight. Nationalism and a false sense of patriotism messes up young minds and this is not something that happens in the US alone. All nation states recruits armies on exactly that same premise.
@alicetorres4459 Жыл бұрын
My prayers are always with you Mike,I knew your mama well rip Josie
@alicetorres4459 Жыл бұрын
My prayers are always with you, God you,I knew your well ,rip Josie
@JDdr86 Жыл бұрын
WHY CAN'T THIS GET MORE VIEWS?????❕️‼️❗️❓️⁉️❔️❕️❕️
@le_th_2 ай бұрын
I've consumed more content on the Cluster B disorders AND psychopathy (factor 1 and 2) since 2014 than I can tell you, yet this wasn't recommended to me until today, October 2024. Seriously. I'm SUPER intellectually curious, too. The algorithm is good, but not stellar on KZbin.
@ryancraig9352 Жыл бұрын
Survivor? KZbin code for narcissist?
@TomGraham-mk2wl11 ай бұрын
Ssh, the grown ups are talking.
@selmo6376 Жыл бұрын
I'm going through depression, a tough one and I'm drug resistant. Today was my third procedure of ect. I'm praying it will work.
@enshrinehd Жыл бұрын
I am sending you prayers for success.
@wilfredgrady Жыл бұрын
'promo sm' 🌷
@enshrinehd Жыл бұрын
My 19 year old is now considered treatment resistant. After 7 years of 14 types of pharmaceutical products that did not work, numerous psychiatrists, therapists and therapies of all types we are turning to ECT. Not one of her professionals suggested this except for her current therapist. We need to remain hopeful so we can help our girl no matter what
@selmo6376 Жыл бұрын
How is she now ? I'm on my third procedure of ect.
@enshrinehd Жыл бұрын
@@selmo6376 we completed 11 without the kind of marked results the doctor would deem as successful. According to these lack of positive results, it is therefore assumed that she has BPD. Apparently, ECT does not work with personality disorders.
@sterlgirlceline Жыл бұрын
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@sabriyadobbins6421 Жыл бұрын
The story with the letter is heartbreaking Omg
@sabriyadobbins6421 Жыл бұрын
Just so beautifully inspiring. I appreciate what you shared on the coping skills and just being so open with your journey Jackie! Wow so impactful
@TerryManlove12 жыл бұрын
Huge problem in NC and elsewhere is lack of adequate treatment for affected loved ones
@Primotutor2 жыл бұрын
I ran across this video presentation today as I pursue ECT treatments again. I appreciate this so much. Thank you. So true what speaker said about psychiatrists viewing ECT as a last option. This has to change!
@jacquelinelewis57692 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the content. I will look for this movie HUSH
@jacquelinelewis57692 жыл бұрын
I do agree there is increa in mental health challenges since Covid started and before.
@jacquelinelewis57692 жыл бұрын
Thanks for providing this information. I do agree that mental health talk within the Black community has been limited.
@terryabate92312 жыл бұрын
Larry thank you for your story. I too have paranoid schizophrenia.
@juliancoatley91072 жыл бұрын
He had no place to live, no place go because he was denied the right to affordable, safe and decent housing because he has a mental disability. He was left in a homeless state in a crisis center for nearly 3 months begging with teary eyes to come home, to a home that he was denied by a Government entity because he has a mental disability, as proven in a court of law. He cried, "Moma, may I come please, I am sorry I have mental illness". He later said "To them I was not good enough to live with my wonderful and highly supportive mother in affordable and decent housing, I was only good enough to them because I have a mental disability, to live in BAD, SCARY AND VERY DANGEROUS group homes of A1SERIOUS NEGLECT, ABUSE, EXPLOITATION, HEALTH HAZARDOUS CONDITIONS and CRIMINAL INTERFERENCE WITH FAIR HOUSING". As an Advocate due to passion and a Fighter for civil rights with us all having such rights regardless of race or color, I am seeking to have someone to assist me with creating a Public Service Announcement to bring public awareness on the issue of illegal housing discrimination towards members of a protected class/ the mentally ill for public awareness and a change in behavior. The PSA will focus on a loving family of two, a loving mother and son who were separated by illegal housing discrimination as proven in a court of law. The son was denied the right to affordable, safe and decent housing because he has a mental disability. This lead to him being placed in facilities investigated by the NC Department Of Health And Human Services ("DHHS") which found them all to be with A1 SERIOUS NEGLECT, ABUSE, EXPLOITATION, HEALTH HAZARDOUS CONDITIONS and CRIMINAL INTERFERENCE WITH FAIR HOUSING. The son has been threatened in a Nigerian owned and operated group home by a staff member to go outside and fight with him. The "DHHS" documents called it to "tear up some grass". The son was also grabbed by the neck in another Nigerian owned and operated group home because he forgot to cut a light off. He also witnessed the same staff member fighting with another group home client. After the son was denied the right to affordable, safe and decent housing, the highly supportive, living and biological mother was then wrongfully denied the right to remain Legal Guardian of the son because she had no place for him to live. The treatment towards this victim of illegal housing discrimination as proven in a court of law is beyond words. In a group home his once clear face was bitten horribly by BED BUGS were these bugs were found in EVERY living space of the facility except the kitchen and it was infested with what looked like "German" roaches to an Exterminator. These roaches were found in areas where food and food supplies were stored. Photos of the males face as bitten will make you SICK! This home was with mold and many more horrible conditions. What is written here is just the "TIP" of the iceberg. The mother has nearly 50 pages of substantiation from the NC "DHHS". The case has created "Irreparable harm" and has likely become a "pattern" or "common" practice of illegal housing discrimination. Because the son reported the NIGHT MARE group home conditions to the mother who in turn reported such to the NC "DHHS", they have been retaliated against to the point of not being able to even visit each other and go to lunch and the like. Due to the illegal and proven housing discrimination, the mother and son will never be the same. There needs to be public awareness to this devastating case of proven in a court of law, illegal housing discrimination, which we call a MONSTER of INJUSTICE. If anyone has experience in creating a PSA or can assist me with such, it will be greatly appreciated. I can be reached by preferably texting or calling to 919-441-0443. It will be greatly appreciated. Thanks.Show lessREPLY
@tamarabradberry92992 жыл бұрын
God bless you and thank you for sharing your story. My 33 year old son was diagnosed at about the age of 27. He is also on and injectable medication. I will tell you what, his illness brought me to my knees. I don't know where I would be without Jesus. We just take it one day at a time.
@abusednomoresilence2 жыл бұрын
Greetings and thank you. 😊
@katherineday90932 жыл бұрын
Very smart young lady !!!!
@katherineday90932 жыл бұрын
Very smart young lady!!
@katherineday90932 жыл бұрын
I thank the lord for this platform, I just wish more people would support this KZbin station.
@NAMINorthCarolina2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Katherine!
@katherineday90933 жыл бұрын
I like this conversation! Thank You guys!
@ericas.56033 жыл бұрын
That's great!!! I am happy you and your daughter can move ahead now. I hope it gets easier for you... interesting talks ladies!! Nami family to family really helped my dad help me also with peer to peer.
@charlittaburruss89583 жыл бұрын
Telling your Story is so important that brings about continual healing. Pearlie Williams is very honest about her life and knowing her for about a year or so she is a Beautiful Person. She deserves the Blessings that she will get now and in the future. We all have a Story of overcoming.
@ericas.56033 жыл бұрын
I felt inspired to reconnect with my old relatives and play an instrument at home. Thank you for sharing this. It's helpful to be aware. Social isolation and anxiety isn't fun
@ericas.56033 жыл бұрын
Very interesting and we'll put. Thanks for sharing your story with us all.
@katherineday90933 жыл бұрын
Ii was a little girl, she use to run to my Mom and Dads house to escape some of the abuse.Perlie has been an inspiration to so many people! Thank You Jesus for bringing her this far!!
@ericascotti4 жыл бұрын
That's interesting ☺️ how inspiring.
@haywardjeblomey65054 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter that 9/10 people are delusional, you need to stop brainwashing them. You need to stop encouraging fantasies and phobias. You need to stop enabling people to live in their fantasies and fear the boogeyman.
@leannthomas21034 жыл бұрын
GUNS SAVES LIVES !
@chakarbugti51784 жыл бұрын
bro your content to good! i always support you!Can we Support each other