Woman sounds like she s perfection in person...rather bitchy sound
@NickpaintbrushКүн бұрын
Hi, I stopped drinking 5 days ago, the only problem is I'm not tired at bed time but feel super tired when it's time to get up about 9 hours later!
@BrookDye-p4jКүн бұрын
Alcoholics love alcohol. They love it more than anything else. No matter what. The alcohol is what they want more than love. They will use any excuse to keep drinking it. They will throw everything good in their lives away to keep drinking it. They can love and they do love. They love the alcohol and how it makes them feel. They love it. Don’t ever believe that they will love you enough to give it up. Alcoholics love alcohol.
@caterinadelgalles87832 күн бұрын
Day 7 as of midnight 😊
@TellYourStory2 күн бұрын
@@caterinadelgalles8783 well done!
@TheTropics43 күн бұрын
I have a friend that wants to date me. He's an admitted alcoholic and is waiting to get into rehab. He's always been kind, considerate and respectful to me. However, the thought of getting emotionally & romantically involved scares me terribly & caused my anxiety to heighten worse than normal. My parents were alcoholics and my ex-husband still is. I've been single for 16 yrs. I must go with my gut instinct and only remain "friends" with him.
@TellYourStory2 күн бұрын
@@TheTropics4 I would have to agree with your choice.
@davidovicc10 күн бұрын
Ut has no cure. If they are in recovery they replace even after many years. All includ8ng all of my childhood friends are gone to drugs.
@longfamily713411 күн бұрын
“Addiction” is not a disease. Let’s stop with that nonsense or we won’t win the war.
@2Drezik15 күн бұрын
I ruined my life for a girl i cared so much for. I was prepared to love her fully, with her alcohol problems. I broke my wifes heart (18y together) and called it quits to be with her. Girlfriend dumped me out of nowhere today. I had spoken to her about her drinking habits and stuff the other day. My soul and heart are broken to pieces. She indeed chose the bottle or because to afraid of other stuff. Damn.
@vixter2819 күн бұрын
Thx for your video ! ❤
@globugsgarden021420 күн бұрын
Your video nailed it!
@Anona_Meows22 күн бұрын
My mom has been sober 20 years. But she still manipulates and gaslights. She is always the victim and twists my words and intentions around. Suddenly, I'm the problem. She will say anything to be right, nomatter how hurtful. I am 40 and I feel like I'm 13 again. I recently tried so hard to get some validation and acknowledgement for some things from my childhood. I am the scapegoat child, and she projects all issues on me. I call it out, and she will deny it and turn it around. And her favorite "the past is the past" But she got to call me her "selfish sister" when I was a child and take out her childhood on me. If they don't work on themselves apart from the alcohol, those traits stay. My mom is in her 70's, and I don't think she will ever change. I've got a boomer and alcoholic all in one lovely toxic package. She goes to AA meetings still, but never therapy. So if you're in recovery and have kids who were affected, for the love of god, please work on your toxic personality traits.
@JC-bn6cp23 күн бұрын
One day at a time
@douglasbriel610325 күн бұрын
I fell in love with an amazing girl. I didn't know she was an alcoholic until months later. I love her so much, but it's really like she can't believe me She knows that I'm hot for her, but doesn't think someone can see her as more. She keeps making decisions that harm herself. She gives me just enough attention to make me not give up, but she won't commit. Thirty years ago I swore off women, then the who touched my heart has so much damage. They say you can't save people, but she means so much to me.
@Colleen-ln7wk25 күн бұрын
Someone I love is going into rehab can I had no idea what to expect or what they would be going through. Thank you for sharing your experience. I pray my loved one can find a happy life again.
@momentumliberty51427 күн бұрын
Amazing❤
@richardbaer71128 күн бұрын
Day 5. Very low energy and diarrhea. Already lost 2 pounds
@nickvstheuniverseАй бұрын
I’m on day 3 right now still going strong! I have not gone a full week in a very long time and I’m 30. I feel so much better already! I do smoke weed though which helps with the anger haha
@momentumliberty514Ай бұрын
Insightful, brilliant❤
@TellYourStoryАй бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@momentumliberty514Ай бұрын
28:30 ❤
@kenearnest3921Ай бұрын
If they don't admit they have a problem or want to get help nothing else matters !!
@lucid_truth0910Ай бұрын
I love weed I wish I ain’t have to quit but I ruined my life
@lucid_truth0910Ай бұрын
Finna only do 30 days
@lillyherndzАй бұрын
Great video. Thank you
@kaylastawasz9230Ай бұрын
I'm confused.... Why is it that my bf is actually much nicer when he's drinking and acts like a lunatic when he is not drinking?
@robs1714Ай бұрын
Day 3 my sleep quality is comatose level
@TellYourStoryАй бұрын
Sounds about right! You probably needed it!! Great job!
@robs1714Ай бұрын
@@TellYourStoryat day 6 right now and my resting heart rate is down 20bpm to 70bpm
@Auditoruk-u6jАй бұрын
I’m a alcoholic and I love my fiancé tovpieces I keep taking things out on her I’m trying to get help but I’m scared I’m 19 and been drinking since 16 and I love my fiancé tovpieces I hate taking my problems out on her and I can’t stop having emotional breakdowns it’s breaking my heart cause I never used to be like this 😞
@MarkSmith-tp6zcАй бұрын
Where's the medical proof of the 'allergy of the mind'? It is about will. If you have the will to recover then you have the will to start and keep drinking. As someone who chose to drink to dangerous levels I really have grown cynical about all the gurus and 'professionals' who advocate these newly created diagnoses.
@TellYourStoryАй бұрын
I agree there is no “physical proof” that alcohol is an allergy, but maybe think of the term as a metaphor for “will power”. Substitute one for the other and now practice, practice, and practice some more the ability to put the bottle down. Now we are all in the same game! Working on our selves, and the will power to move forward!!
@FourthWayRanchАй бұрын
For thousands of years people lived their entire lives in misery.
@asiaslife80452 ай бұрын
Thank you, your words are so beautiful it's brought tears to my eyes. That man you see in the picture is my husband of 15 years and he's an alcoholic. I love him and we've been through gobs of heartbreaking issues but Jehovah God has always helped us . And I know he's the answer to this problem but mu husband has to allow him in his life.
@rjzavala872 ай бұрын
Im checking in on monday for alcohol. Nervous but looking forward to it. It's time. Ty for the insight and im glad to see ur doing good, bro.
@frigidmonk2 ай бұрын
Nice to see you’re doing your own thing for you. 👍 Thanks for the video! My lady has had it with my drinking and we’ll, dropped her at her place this PM and I got NO goodnight 💤 message for me... she’s got a history of punishment with the silent treatment…and here we are again. It’s a long story…I stopped drinking a month before I met her…no ETOH x 5 years over relationship but she’d not a problem solver but instead when stressed would pack up leave…many many times instead of trying to work out difference…ghosting, silent treatment etc…and such. Abbreviated story for sure…I guess I should have let her just move on but too dependent and it’s hard for me to be alone. Yikes!😮 Eventually, I started drinking again. It’s been about 3 yrs on the sauce and I’m miserable. We’ve been together on and off again and well, she ghosted me again today. I hate this. Sorry to ramble. Got to sleep and get 3-4 hrs before I get up for work. I liked your video and wanted to reach out. Thanks brother. I happy to hear you’re doing ok. It gives me hope to hear that a fellow alcoholic is living life. Be well!
@natscat47522 ай бұрын
I would never dream of getting involved with another alcoholic having done it once. They are always either thinking of when they can drink or hungover. Mine was verbally abusive too when drunk, bundle of fun. I watched him put himself before his kids and finally got out. It doesn’t get better very often as alcoholism is a progressive disease. My advice would be if it’s a problem at the beginning of a relationship 🚩 🚩 🚩
@Lexiscrustyworld2 ай бұрын
It seems he has NO KNOWLEDGE, NOR EXPERIENCE of what he is talking about. He is simply reading from articles, and repeating information. LAME.
@OGRH2 ай бұрын
1:26 "Meth that was a big one for awhile-really big one for awhile." Interviewers Response Verbatim: 1:31
@a.schweighardtАй бұрын
came to the comments for this lol
@user-io9eh6ej1z2 ай бұрын
Day 8!! I know this time has to be it or it’s gonna be the end of me.
@TellYourStory2 ай бұрын
@@user-io9eh6ej1z you can do this!!
@SalvadorCortez-py3jhАй бұрын
I'm in day 8 too
@Equitable_Street_Access_SF2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video. Even if it seems like people don't appreciate this video that you have made, there are many, many people out there that deeply appreciate this video. I loved an alcoholic for 3 and 1/2 years and it's sad that he chose alcohol over me, because I feel so deeply in love with him and I miss him so much, but I just have to remember that he can't love and he has a disease. He will always be in my heart and he will always be a cherished memory. He's not dead, but I'm speaking of him as if he is because he socially isolates and pushes me away and almost sometimes acts in a cheating manner, but I know deep down he's a really wonderful man (as silly as that sounds, but he is). All I can do is pray that he recovers one day, but until then, I have to get on with my life.
@ClareLeamore2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@user-qn1kz7dk3t2 ай бұрын
Yo, those chemicals are used to SYNTHESIZE meth. It's just organic chemistry for synthesis. The final product doesn't have drain cleaner or aceton ect in it. The only product you are ingesting is methamphetamine hydrochloride that's it. All drugs use strong acidic bases, volatile solvents ect fir chemical reactions to mutate and create new molecules. It's just misinformation saying you are ingesting all those chemicals in your final product
@user-qn1kz7dk3t2 ай бұрын
I love bath slats ❤! My favorite one is MDPV and A-PVP. I also love. Methamphetamine too❤. Though when i brew my own shake and bake it's ok, but not as good as Mexican shards❤
@19katsandcounting2 ай бұрын
Most of them are narcissists.
@CMoore85392 ай бұрын
Awesome Interview!!🫡 Thumbs up!👍 and shared out.❤
@abraham73302 ай бұрын
So I just need Gatorade bottle lithium tin foil acetone drainer fluid n crushed up sudafed?
@user-qn1kz7dk3t2 ай бұрын
These are the ingredients. Gatorade bottle Psudeoephdeine Ammonium nitrate Lithium strips Table salt Sulphuric acid Roloson lighter fluid Sodium hydroxide Mason jars about 3 of them Coffee filters Aquarium tubing 20oz soda bottle Hair dryer Pliers/ pipe cuttera to open Lithium battery casing Acetone Epson salt An evaporation dish
@FrankFriedrich-lc6ie2 ай бұрын
Sorry but rehabs is not always the right answer , because it's all based on the 12step program and IV see people go in and out, aver and over again 3 present rate not good
@lynnepaquette41242 ай бұрын
This is me. I told my family to leave me alone and was very cruel about it. The guilt and the shame of horrible I am and hurting them over and over is just killing me.
@Romiegirl-jq4rj2 ай бұрын
I used to call alcohol my husbands “mistress”, his first love. He defiantly loves me, has learned to put himself first and his health. Drinking is still on the table for occasions of celebrating something. But after finding out he had cirrhosis he stopped the insanity. It took a seizure, head injury from the fall and an overnight in the hospital to snap him out of it. It’s like the universe smacked him upside the head. A year later he’s happy again, working again after a year off, and our marriage has gotten a LOT healthier too. It is possible, and it is possible for them to love but NOT when in active addiction. It’s like they are in another reality.
@jarkachalmovianska7812Ай бұрын
The moment they drink again all the ,love, is gone. You live under constant threat and in stress. Not worth it. Its not love. Its codependency at best.
@charliewhon6548Ай бұрын
I also call beer my husband’s blond lover.
@Romiegirl-jq4rjАй бұрын
@@jarkachalmovianska7812 you can stereotype and box in everyone’s experience and relationship into that category. But not everyone is having the same experience, level of commitment, love, empathy and progress being made or not.
@CJ-yx9mj2 ай бұрын
It is very hurtful to love an active alcoholic. When he doesn’t care enough to do rehab and learn to take responsibility for his actions, it’s better to be alone than in such a relationship. I am happy, mostly for himself, that my partner finally went to rehab. We will see…
@Renee12072 ай бұрын
"An addict lies to keep their addiction going" As the loved one of an alcoholic, it sounds silly but I've literally googled "Why does an alcoholic lie?" to try and find a rational reason how such a kind good person can turn into a complete lier. That line so far has really helped me. Thank you!
@d_navhxi2 ай бұрын
Hi, im dealing with a breakup rn. My gf broke up with me 2 months ago bc of her addictions. She drinks and smokes a lot and she also have a little weed addiction. I knew she wasn’t in a stable state of mind when i first met her and I knew this was gonna be hard but I still wanted to try to make this work. She broke up with me bc she said she was feeling selfish of trying to keep me in her life, knowing shes incapable of giving me something stable. I told her its more selfish of her to push the people that love her away. I wanted to help her. I know its not my job, but help her in a moral way yk? She told me she doesn’t wznt to become dependent of my help, bc if one day im not in her life anymore, she wouldn’t know how to deal with it. I understznd that point. She said shes aware of the fact that shes not doing well, but she not in the mental state of trying to get better. Its complicated to leave someone you love, knowing theyre suffering, knowing they still love you. Do I let go? Do I wait for her? Im questioning our whole relationship rn, that’s how I found this video, im trying to understand. Thank you, and im sending love to whoever is living the same. P.S sorry for my English, its not my native language
@cato12132 ай бұрын
Hey I'm going through very much the same thing with an ex gf who is an alcoholic. I understand your pain. For me, I have my life to live too, even if I truly believed that she was special. I hope one day she comes back healthy, free from her vices, and ready to give our relationship another shot. I know I would accept her again with open arms. But what if she never gets better? What if, in the time spent apart, she loses the unique feelings she had for me? I will have put my life on hold for nothing. No, the only way forward is to let go. Anyways, we can't provide support to them or future partners if we aren't physically and mentally healthy ourselves. I'm rooting for you. Please take care of yourself.
@KJxxoo2 ай бұрын
My partner has an alcohol problem. I’ve never felt genuine love from him. I don’t feel he even truly loves our kids. It’s all superficial and more about how things look to the outside world. And yes, I’m making plans to leave with the kids for our own mental health.
@raymondlin87282 ай бұрын
I miss rehab, the people, the safe environment. Im drifting now....😢