Don’t judge yourself bro with that don’t judge others or you will judge yourself

relatable

The visuals were a bit distracting as well.

What do you know of being allistic? Besides it's unfortunate that the work environment has become awkward, but if there were no bigger repercussions isn't everything quite allright overall? What exactly does this "define" you as?

Hey! Don't beat yourself up there! You are innocent. Nothing was intentional on your part. Just adhere to the guidelines they've given you. 😊 It must have been embarrassing - but they must really like you a lot to take the time to tell you how you can do better in your job. No more self recrimination, okay? 💙

@@Mantras-and-Mystics I'm sorry, I don't agree with the "they must like you to help you do better" comment (no offense). See, that's like saying a bully likes you enough to make you stronger. I mean, yeah, the chef said she was telling me this stuff to make me successful, and that she just wanted to make I understand, but I'm not entirely sure I trust her word. It could be a patronizing cover-up. Kind of like, "I can't go on a pity date with this person, that's mean and hurtful," when you _really_ mean, "Ew, I don't want to date this pitiful person at all." Besides, I don't think they like me at all. Besides, having fought through the blinding guilt, I finally saw where the chef went wrong herself. 1. Bringing me to my boss's office formerly, instead of just some hallway for a respectful sensitive talk (with just her, for only a minute or two). 2. Being firm and restrictive about touching people. All or nothing isn't really fair, especially when you just compromise and loosen up a bit. I'd leave people who don't seem to like me so much alone. Besides, a middle-aged man and woman from the dining department have casually touched my arm and shoulder; it's not creepy. I should've asked the chef what the difference was between that and my "creepy" touches. 3. She was insensitive when she said to my boss "Is there anything you want to add?" That made me feel like a bad guy, who was nothing more than worthy of reprimand. 4. She did not own the way she treated me. No apologies, nothing. You don't make someone feel like that and not consider it. 5. Which leads us to this: the next day, she asked me how I was. Why the heII did I not say, "Uhh...I'm sorry, why would you ask me that question after yesterday? Not to sound rude or sarcastic, but did you really think I would say "good"? And that point is fair. Why _did_ she ask after the way she treated me the previous day? So as you can see, I am full of resentment toward her; I _own_ my mistake, _but_ ...I still think the two women embellished how "bad" it was. If a coworker doesn't seem particularly outgoing or pleasant, no causal touches then; if they do (and this is college kids we're talking about), I don't see the harm in the innocent touches I've gotten from friendly people. Like I said, it's not creepy. And now we're at a boiling point. I'm actually thinking about telling the chef (however the conversation would come up) that I almost got hit by a car last week. Now yes, that might seem cruel and spiteful, but maybe that's best. If I disliked and judged someone immensely, I would let it go and appreciate them if something bad almost happened to them. Maybe it's good if she and my boss found out I almost got kiIIed.

Not sure but seems you gonna be ok I read in here spirit of defiance girl in you now all you got to do is stop with the emotions

@@kevinedwards7079 my emotions?