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@amandacooper9229 5 сағат бұрын
And if you're spouse refuses to participate? Or will not let you get involved other than being a tool gofer?
@camronroman2029 7 сағат бұрын
I know that I have toxic traits that I am in the process of eliminating because I want everything with my love and my actions keep pushing her away. Watching this video was immensely helpful because it helped me realize more of the behaviors I was expressing in a negative way that was causing a lot of tension between my girlfriend and I. I am in the process of becoming a better partner for us, I want to stay on the right track
@laurakosch 8 сағат бұрын
The disclaimer does not adequately address the objection to this analysis.
@laurakosch 8 сағат бұрын
So… sometimes the partner who is abusive or not supportive is the same one who cheats. This analysis really misses the point in answering the question of “why did the affair happen”. The stale horrid state of the marriage may be the result of the unhealthy state of the unfaithful party.
@محمدمنتكم Күн бұрын
صفت٢٥ن٢٥ن٢٤ت١٤ت١٤تقاقا٣ا٣ل٣ف٣ل َ!
@bruceglaude8969 3 күн бұрын
Just get away men! The sex ain't worth the nutbag!😅
@varup7483 4 күн бұрын
What if your partner doesn't want to participate or schedule any connecting conversations or relationship rhythms and believes it has to be spontaneous? Meaning doesn't want to work on establishing rhythms, Says it should all happen spontaneously including physical connection. What can I do?
@RelationShots Күн бұрын
@@varup7483 Do your best to show them that’s not a realistic expectation for marriage. Watch a video together or seek some counseling to get a different perspective
@varup7483 23 сағат бұрын
@@RelationShots thanks a lot! I am very blessed to have come across your video. We watched a different video of yours about emotional intimacy and it really opened the way for our communication and my partner came up with solutions like we have to do some common activities together to spend time and build emotional connection. It really helped in understanding and we realized how important it is to have an open communication. Thanks to you! You have helped us in rebuilding our lost emotional connection. We realized that since we have a strong foundation, we just took things for granted rather we should keep building our connection especially after a decade of marriage.
@RelationShots 7 сағат бұрын
@ that’s great to hear you were able to discuss it and come up with some practical ways to get connected again! 👏🏼👏🏼
@varup7483 57 минут бұрын
Thank you so much 🌞. Can you please share the pillow talk sheet, the link in the description doesn't seem to work.
@justinaabiodun8820 4 күн бұрын
Thank you for this sir. It was really helpful. Coming across this message was very timely and an answered prayer. I have been trying to access the books sir, it keeps directing me to an error page. Please can you guide me on how to go about it. Thank you.
@aaronturner876 5 күн бұрын
Appreciated the video. Thanks!
@RelationShots 4 күн бұрын
@@aaronturner876 glad you enjoyed
@jaredshowers1 6 күн бұрын
I'm partially the victim and 100% the escape artist.
@womensdayministries7834 7 күн бұрын
If you're partner has erectile disfunction and diagram isn't helped, what do you do?
@RelationShots 7 күн бұрын
@@womensdayministries7834 if there is erectile dysfunction then you certainly have to look at other ways to navigate your sexual intimacy. I think the key is doing it together
@whatsthepoint7548 9 күн бұрын
dont know what to do anymore man, we argue alot, she threatens divorce and the next day appoligizes, says shes sorry, i can win for losing, ive done everything to make our sex life better but nothing works, i treat her like a queen, but i get shut down constantly, im not small, thats not it, she always says it hurts, ive asked her to find out why, no answers there, i dont wanna do it now because i dont wanna hurt her, i dont know what to do
@whatsthepoint7548 9 күн бұрын
I'm dealing with this right now, my wife doesn't try at all, she says I drink too much, I've tried to cut back, she always finds a way to go put her daughter to bed, which gives her the opportunity to not be around me, and a reason to sleep in her daughter's
@Keepitkind7 9 күн бұрын
Politics! Ugh
@jaredshowers1 10 күн бұрын
How about recording yourselves and watching that?
@RelationShots 9 күн бұрын
@@jaredshowers1 Whats your goal in doing that? Do you both watch yourselves together? Do you watch by yourself and masturbate?
@jaredshowers1 10 күн бұрын
Bro I've been the worst about emotional connection to my wife. 4 kids later. Divorce papers are ready. She's my girl. Im gonna fight. Thanks for the content. It's helped immensely in the last 2 weeks. 😭💯🙏
@ofosuappiahonline6866 11 күн бұрын
The best insight so far. Sacrifice ourselves as Christ did for us. God bless you.
@DorisBiggs-dj6vu 11 күн бұрын
1st time watcher…Man, I had to actually force my gaze from his eyes and stop the video. I thought I was being hypnotized!
@RelationShots 11 күн бұрын
@@DorisBiggs-dj6vu hahahaha. I don’t have any hypnotic powers, not sure what was happening 🤷🏻♂️…you’re getting very sleepy, now sleep! 😴🤣
@bishopcurryiv7744 12 күн бұрын
Great message Eric!
@RelationShots 11 күн бұрын
@@bishopcurryiv7744 thanks bro
@theluckshow9617 12 күн бұрын
Definitely a mind shift from what’s being displayed out in the world. Thank you Eric…
@Gazzele00 13 күн бұрын
WOW! I've never heard anyone explain the sacred nature of the marriage covenant and altar in such detail. Never with the focus on sacrifice vs a mindset of what you think you should get/deserve. 💯 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
@jaredshowers1 13 күн бұрын
Straight fire bro!! ❤️🔥 💯 God is restoring my marriage of 10 years for you practical teachings. This is within a 4 week time since I found your channel! Thanks for your help and time
@RelationShots 11 күн бұрын
@@jaredshowers1 that’s awesome! Glad to hear things are improving 👏🏼👏🏼
@jaredshowers1 15 күн бұрын
Amazing content bro. The download for the free guide intamicy doesn't work? Just clicks and nothing happens.
@RelationShots 14 күн бұрын
@@jaredshowers1 maybe you have a popup blocker on. I just clicked on link and it took me to website where you can download
@RelationShots 11 күн бұрын
@@jaredshowers1 if you can’t get it just email me, [email protected], and I’ll send it to you
@jaredshowers1 18 күн бұрын
So good bro. Fire. 💯
@RelationShots 18 күн бұрын
@@jaredshowers1 glad you enjoyed!!
@lizardgirl797 19 күн бұрын
My partner has been having an emotional affair with his opposite sex friend. It's to the point that he has allowed her to denigrate me to him, calling me crazy, refusing to meet me and saying she only wants to see him, etc. I'm willing to end things with him unless this behaviour changes drastically. Not to mention the fact that he goes out with other women without my knowledge. It's impossible not to believe he is or is attempting to cheat. It has created such distrust and has been the major breakdown of our relationship. I feel like I should just walk away and find someone who respects me and our relationship.
@RelationShots 18 күн бұрын
@@lizardgirl797 That’s definitely not a healthy dynamic to have a partner who allows their friends to put you down. And it’s very hard to have deep intimacy and vulnerability with someone you can’t trust because they don’t tell you they are out with other women. I would absolutely set some healthy boundaries in these areas and if he is unwilling to adjust his behavior and acknowledge how it’s impacting you, you may need to step away. You deserve better
@RTJr. 19 күн бұрын
Being that Clara and I have known you for quite a while, we've heard some of this, and there was language we hadn't heard. Either way, this was very beneficial to us and led to a great conversation last night. Also, it was refreshing to hear you teach again in that type of setting. We've missed that.
@RelationShots 18 күн бұрын
@@RTJr. appreciate you Rodney!
@eddylhdl2688 19 күн бұрын
I lied to my gf about venting to my family (particularly my sister which they both aren’t on good terms) about our problems. I lied to her face and she caught me red handed when she asked me to look at my phone and I did show her and she saw the messages. I was scared of conflict because it’s normally not a healthy conflict resolution we have. We have a daughter as well but I have broken her trust before and all the progress I have made is gone. We haven’t had a healthy relationship and I am taking this time to really reflect our relationship and see what is the right direction to go because we are having problems regularly and our daughter is seeing it and feeling it. I just want my gf to be a great mother and myself be a great father together or apart.
@RelationShots 18 күн бұрын
@@eddylhdl2688 good to hear you are taking some time to reflect on the relationship. You definitely need the ability to address issues and manage conflict in the relationship if it is going to be healthy. If you are avoiding that or feel like you can’t do it, your only outlet will be others…and you’ve seen how that isn’t healthy
@Keepitkind7 19 күн бұрын
Conservative Radio is a huge problem too. It is angry, fear-mongering and patronizing. It aims to divide. My husband won't stop listening. He thinks I'm the enemy...not just respectfully disagreeing. He's in a sour mood. I'm trying, but it's very difficult.
@RelationShots 18 күн бұрын
@@Keepitkind7 I would agree that any talk news or news radio is fear mongering on both sides. Definitely not a good thing to be taking in daily 🤦🏻♂️ Can’t wait for this political season to be over
@Dadsezso 19 күн бұрын
My wife had a hysterectomy nearly 9 years ago and that's when all intimacy ended. No kisses, and only friend type hugs since then. She is very closed lip about it and won't discuss it with me or especially anyone outside like a therapist. I love her and won't ever leave her but she is more like a friend now and I have grown disinterested in her sexually after rejection for so many years. This will be the rest of my life now.
@theluckshow9617 20 күн бұрын
Man I miss this guy at the One…
@PrepareHisWay 20 күн бұрын
ME TOO... ESPECIALLY AT COUPLES CONFERENCE!
@RelationShots 18 күн бұрын
@@theluckshow9617 appreciate the love bro!!
@RelationShots 18 күн бұрын
@@theluckshow9617 Appreciate the kind words. I miss my One fam!! 🫶🏼
@jaredshowers1 21 күн бұрын
I totally neglected and abandoned my wife through miscarriage like 7. It's horibble of me. She has divorce papers ready. Theres much more. So much more. If I started from the beginning you wouldn't believe me.
@zionthomas6871 21 күн бұрын
Thak you for your help .
@RelationShots 21 күн бұрын
@@zionthomas6871 glad you enjoyed it
@claratatum8156 22 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 guilty of work husband... Although he was not attracted to the opposite sex so never crossed a line. 😂😂😂 He cuts for Rod and I. ❤
@jaredshowers1 22 күн бұрын
My wife has divorce papers ready to be signed... 10 years married. I've missed all this. Awful.
@searain1573 23 күн бұрын
I have a question. How comfortable are most couples actually are with each other? I heard that most couples are actually shy around each other and don't like getting naked around each other, so they avoid getting naked around each other. Most couples will never be naked around each other. I heard that most couples actually are not comfortable around each other, and I heard that most couples don't actually have sex due to how shy they are around each other.
@millicentmutizamhepo2331 24 күн бұрын
He just refuses and won’t say why 😢
@jaredshowers1 24 күн бұрын
Some great books to get are understanding the purpose and power of men and understanding the purpose and power of woman by Dr myles munroe. And the purpose and power of marriage. So much amazing content in them it will transform you and your marriage/relationships.
@alexr6470 25 күн бұрын
What to do? Divorce her and find another woman!
@16sunnyday 25 күн бұрын
"they are wired/predisposed to feel more negative emotions..." I disagree. Women in North America feel their emotions and are more aware of their emotions and the emotions of others. Men in North America aren't given the same attention growing up to develop this emotional intelligence and empathy. They often aren't asked to, and if they figure it out, then they are likely to excel more in management positions. Leadership requires a high EQ (emotional quotient.) That's all for now ✌️ This is me, Paisley
@MrCox2121 26 күн бұрын
Do not get married. Women play sex for love and resources. Men play love for sex. Only to find that once married, the wife cuts off the sex eventually. Unfortunately, she already has control over your resources.
@lisar2801 Ай бұрын
How do I even start a conversation I find this tricky,
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
Sometimes scheduling a time to begin a conversation is the best approach. Asking your partner, "Is there a time we could sit down and talk about...."
@michaelboulware1240 Ай бұрын
So where is this all going? If there is less benefit for women then are all women going to be single in a few years? Should i avoid relationships now that I'm divorced? Is it even worth it?
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
@@michaelboulware1240 I don’t think you avoid relationships. Marriage is beneficial for both people when you select a partner who has shared values, common interests, connection, etc. I was just trying to push back in this video on the rhetoric out there about women just using men and divorcing and therefore men shouldn’t get married.
@michaelboulware1240 Ай бұрын
I wish I had seen your content sooner. I lost connection with my wife and I let her do too much in the house. Divorce sucks. It hurts like hell but I'm becoming a better man. I will be watching and sharing more of your content. Thanks
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
@@michaelboulware1240 That’s all we can do. Get better and do better when we know better. Good for you!
@michaelboulware1240 Ай бұрын
I just went through a divorce. I couldn't watch this video last year. This is very helpful.
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
@@michaelboulware1240 Sorry to hear you had to experience that loss of your marriage
@amandakaras356 Ай бұрын
My Husband, Alex and I have been married for 5 years, and together for 11 years. I feel hurt and unloved by our family because they do not approve of me, they only come over when my husband is home, they don't show much interest in getting to know me when we are together, and they avoid spending alone time with me. My Husband is also frustrated and hurt because he does not know how to fix this. We have tried addressing our concerns to them, and we get stonewalled. What can we do? Any and all advice is appreciated. Thank you.
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
@@amandakaras356 Are you saying you feel unloved by his family? They only come around when he is there? If so, I think he should communicate the expectation that you both have for their behavior and then set whatever boundary you feel is necessary for your marriage. Could be something like “if you’re not going to show any interest in getting to know my wife or connecting with her when you come over, we won’t invite you over.”
@amandakaras356 Ай бұрын
We feel unloved by both sides. My family has been invited to our house and they never show up. His family only comes over when he is here. I am a work from home Homemaker, so I am home all the time, and Alex works full time days. We have made it clear to both sides that we want to spend more time with them, by letting them know we would like to get together for coffee/lunch/dinner. We have gotten 0 response from my side and special occasion response from his side.
@amandakaras356 Ай бұрын
Congratulations!
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
@@amandakaras356 Thank you!!
@amandakaras356 Ай бұрын
#4 open up to your wife about your needs❤
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
@@amandakaras356 that would require humility and vulnerability…we don’t want any of that! 😂
@bobbydagger5039 Ай бұрын
If she had a three-legged stool, I could tell her which would be the most important leg to hold onto
@loreliem665 Ай бұрын
I like to feeled loved and appreciated the DAY after sex especially and of course before sex....
@candacekuhn8589 Ай бұрын
Wow. Nailed it. Watched this together. Crickets...
@jose-anneleclair7561 Ай бұрын
excellent info! thanks so much for sharing!
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
@@jose-anneleclair7561 glad you found some value in it!
@jose-anneleclair7561 Ай бұрын
@@RelationShots my husband liked it too & we went through the questions together yesterday 🙌🏼
@RelationShots Ай бұрын
@@jose-anneleclair7561 awesome! Even better 👏🏼👏🏼