Sure gets complicated when the wife’s parents are triangulating, pushing, pulling the husband and wife against each other and simultaneously playing innocent in the entire ongoing situation. I can only say this in hindsight of 43 years of marriage and a restraining order against the mother and grandmother of my wife after an attempted kidnapping of our one child. This attempt was in 1992 after 14 years of marriage and for my wife brought clarity to her and her life experiences growing up in her family. What a rough journey, it’s over, thankfully.
@JoshFoster-l7t Жыл бұрын
How do you tackle it?
@FrancescaAnastasi11 ай бұрын
Trust your reality, stay calm, be assertive without being defensive, and ideally limit contact. Best to contact a professional to guide you through your specific circumstances.
@JoshFoster-l7t Жыл бұрын
It's hard when you have narcissistic parents and when the people around me at work were trying to confuse me and hoover and trying to break my family apart. To the point where I did not know who to turn to in regards to the situation and circumstances I was put under. Even now, I struggle with it people pleasing and giving gifts but only following what someone I trust tells me when the person tells me to give them a sorry card and I did but I think the relationship between me and that boss has ended completely. What do I do? I nearly ended up in a psychward after being put through severe psychological torture to the point of no return by the work environment? They gaslighted me and abused me in subtle ways.
@FrancescaAnastasi Жыл бұрын
I'm truly sorry to hear that you've been through such a challenging and distressing situation. It takes tremendous strength to open up about these experiences. Your well-being is a top priority, and reaching out for support is a courageous step. It sounds like you've been dealing with a lot, and it's completely understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed. In times like these, having someone to talk to can make a significant difference. I encourage you to consider calling a counselor or the national domestic violence hotline to get the resources you need- there are trained professionals available to offer guidance and support. Remember, you don't have to face everything alone. There are people who care about your well-being and are ready to provide assistance. Take that step for yourself, and don't hesitate to reach out. You deserve support, understanding, and healing. 🌟💙
@JoshFoster-l7t Жыл бұрын
@@FrancescaAnastasi Thanks for the reply Francesca . Here is the thing i did call Nation Domestic Hotline but they go we can't help you because you are not male and B) This happened at work and I saw them use psychology to break perfectly healthy families apart and they use science as a brainwashing tactic and I feel that I am now part of a system and game that's rigged and no matter what I do I cannot fight against because it will have an equal and opposite reaction on me and my loved ones. My boss elevated himself into a higher positions and most of his employees were on his side and he got away with sleeping with girls fresh out of high school and University at the previous corporation I was working in and I was being forced to resign otherwise I would have ended up in a body bag or pressure me and put me through brutal tyranny and psychological torture where I could not tell reality from fiction and be pressured to do things against my nature. I was also being prevented to help myself in those situations where I felt frozen and unable to move or defend myself and my reactions were being controlled and brainwashed against my will. I saw them do that other people in that Department where people's personalities changed beyond recognition. I have tried reaching the ethics and merit protection boards but they go since you are no longer a member we cannot help you. The thing is the team member use passive aggressiveness and I couldn't see it the abuse whether it be physical or verbal or psychological coming. Sadly, the people in power will always get what they want/ need and by the time abused has happened a long time has passed and I slowly begin to realise what really happened and some of it is really confusing and you become mentally drained or have a mental blank around those toxic people and no matter what myinstinct are slow to react and the abuser was able hypnotise the workplace around me to their specification and manipulate me and treat me like a puppet and they will always get to travel the world for free and I do think what's the point in all of this where my self esteem was being eroded and it was not fault but they are so good convincing that it is my fault and that I am the problem and no matter how successful I will be they are going to end up stealing it from me whether it be money or partners or kids. I saw them break apart families just so they could continue the child support or medicare system that they have here in Australia. Sadly, I can't prove it because no one believes me and these people in power are two faced a**holes and B**tches who have absolute power.your
@yourlocalcity1 Жыл бұрын
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@thebluecat3925 Жыл бұрын
Hi I would love a talk around how this impacts the person it happens to after a long term situation with it and how this is not just a romantic relationship thing that it happens from parrent to child, employees to bosses visa versa, friend to friend and this dynamic around flying monkeys, doormat'ed partners that defend the situation. Personally I've gotten less receptive of all types of "up-talk", and there's a difference between beeing critical around praise and getting angry and defensive because of it.
@Andy-ht2jb Жыл бұрын
*Promosm* ❣️
@Sebbe_Myhre Жыл бұрын
This is true since Mike oxlong has shown the same habits
@lilyjane1011 Жыл бұрын
True. They Come in all colors.... Different personalities, different games ..
@carmenvalentic66032 жыл бұрын
No regrets! I'm grateful for all of the stepping stones throughout 2022 because they, along with previous years, keep adding to the foundation of my life. <3
@pl78082 жыл бұрын
important information..thank you for getting it out for more people to see and understand.
@FrancescaAnastasi2 жыл бұрын
it's a very important topic <3
@carmenvalentic66032 жыл бұрын
I can actually relate to this, reactivity fuels the actual abuser's tactics.
@katrina51042 жыл бұрын
promosm
@terrythesailboatcoach20372 жыл бұрын
It's always fun to get into it with you Francesca! Thanks so much for having me back!
@FrancescaAnastasi2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure! We'll do it again :)
@FrancescaAnastasi2 жыл бұрын
Apologies for the poor sound quality.
@olikane5303 жыл бұрын
Rock On Anna! :-)
@susarruda3 жыл бұрын
Your channel is very talented and grow so fast and have a great summer day
@JennieKitching4 жыл бұрын
i love this but the sound quality is such that I cannot tolerate it. Is there any way you can reload with improved sound?
@AmadeusFrazier4 жыл бұрын
Wow! I'm falling in love with your channel!
@FrancescaAnastasi4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Very kind. I see you also have an interview series,
@christoles62565 жыл бұрын
I hate my teacher that’s her ewww
@FrancescaAnastasi5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching this behind the scenes podcast interview. Do you know any adults with ADHD? Please like and share this video with someone who may benefit from it.
@DanielGutierrez-Catalina5 жыл бұрын
Great interview!
@PuovinCambodia6 жыл бұрын
Brother Nath Keo | Liked
@ekowarsih6 жыл бұрын
Please Like & Subscribe my Channel also... Thanks
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for listening to this episode. Would love to hear your take away or 'ah-ah' from this episode!
@DiepNguyen-we2jj6 жыл бұрын
best vid
@AmeerBakhtiarGamingExpert6 жыл бұрын
I have subbed u I hope u will sub me back😊
@tharealmdancestudio6 жыл бұрын
LOVE your silly dance
@tharealmdancestudio6 жыл бұрын
Love the two sides of the ocean
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
... it was a very surreal moment
@tharealmdancestudio6 жыл бұрын
Ok! I love how you got so adorable just before sharing your "singing hairbrush" sorry but seeing that side of you just made my day.
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
oh yes... the signing brush. I know others have done it too, first time sharing this publicly though LOL
@tharealmdancestudio6 жыл бұрын
Recently I had to make a reinvestment in my window of my studio, it was something I was thinking of but "didnt have it in the budget" but yet I knew my window needed to be redone, clairty, brand just needed update. Well I had to do and I have to say... its been only a month since this investment of update and change and it has truly already made a difference. As well I recently began really watching "social media business" tutorials to learn some of the new streamline things, tips and tricks and swallowing that pride instantly made a difference in how I use it and my time it takes to use. it.
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
Excellent! Good on you for stepping up your marketing. Anything you do in that direction is a piece of the puzzle and each piece can bring more business.
@tharealmdancestudio6 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the realness I see when you begin to speak of the women, what you saw, and where it lead you.
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
Thank you... it certainly is a journey I had not imagined I'd be on...
@tharealmdancestudio6 жыл бұрын
Have totally had classes that had no one show up! My heart hurt but I had to get over that and examine, for one time slot I knew it just needed time to get out there and now its one of my popular classes and the other I had to let go as it was not right. So the "seeing the potential vs the desire" was key for me
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
Your intuition led you well. Glad you did not give up on the class that had no shows. What changed? Was it a timing issue? the way you marketed it? or...?
@CustomHookah6 жыл бұрын
Nice Video! I subbed your channel would be nice if you sub back :) Have a nice day!
@annann36426 жыл бұрын
Good!!!
@anastasiaolson62376 жыл бұрын
re: "do your homework" - YES! And do your *own* homework. I've seen/heard so so many newbie business owners asking questions like "What should I charge for [brief description of service or product]?" Asking questions from your peers is fine, and it's great to have a group of people you can obtain feedback from, but many questions can't be answered by anyone except yourself.
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
Yes, and it helps to have expert guidance, vs peers, as well if one can't figure it out.
@Mrmujakkir6 жыл бұрын
hi, how can I contact with you
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
The contact information is in the description of the video
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
contact info is in the description
@SueFerreira756 жыл бұрын
Francesca Anastasi, I love this podcast with Roger Killen! May Roger have another 50 years of organizing events and inspiring us all. 😀😀
@defaaraa61246 жыл бұрын
always Succsess
@CharmaineHammond6 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for having me on your show. So enjoyed talking about collaboration and sponsorship.
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
Totally my pleasure. So much good info! xo
@terrythesailboatcoach20376 жыл бұрын
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@obbygaming69996 жыл бұрын
She's my vice principal
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
where?
@msimath6 жыл бұрын
Brothe, I subscribe to your channel. Now you subscribe to my channel.becuse one subscribe needs for all. ভাই, আমি তোমার চ্যানেল টি subscribe করেছি। এখন তূমি আমার চ্যানেলটি subscribe করে দাও। কারন একটি subscribe এর সবার প্রয়োজন।
@missionbellydance6 жыл бұрын
I'm the one with the ah-ha moment, I'm proud to say. And I echo wholeheartedly Malika Smith's comment! Tha Realm Studio is a zen place to learn, cozy, warm, friendly and safe. Nicci is a wonderful teacher and mentor who has helped me reach my dance goals.
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
So wonderful you found your ah-ah! Wishing you to find many more and share with us.
@missionbellydance6 жыл бұрын
I see much more dancing in my future! I have been blessed through my relationship with the dancers at Tha Realm and Nicci in particular. I doubt I'd still be dancing if I hadn't found my way there, or as mentally healthy as I am today. Nicci is an amazing teacher and Sister in Dance. Wise and wonderful.
@wandasmith68696 жыл бұрын
Nicci is a wonderful teacher and mentor. If you have a chance to take are classes with Nicci, grab it. It change my mind, my soul and my life.
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the feedback. So good to hear the impact Nicci has had on you as a teacher and mentor. How long have you been dancing?
@FrancescaAnastasi6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! I'm curious, are you guilty of making any of these?