As a police officer for the past 45 years, it's the 'Dirty Little Secret' that governments around the world don't won't you to know. Women are OVERWHELMINGLY the instigators and perpetrators when it comes to Domestic Violence, Child abuse & Child murder. For the past 60 years, there has been a war against the safety and protection of men and boys.
@dogsontherunproduction7336Ай бұрын
Thank you for acknowledging this injustice. Why do you think males are not protected?
@abdullahbinkhalidndlovu74342 ай бұрын
The accent is more South African!! We speak the same!! Just a bit differnt Tradition!!
@dehydratedrhombus24732 ай бұрын
Fix your cameras. Geez.
@S.L.T.P.E.3 ай бұрын
Comment in support
@hghyfyfiugou44483 ай бұрын
Erin is honestly a treasure. She knows firsthand that domestic violence is generational and has nothing to do with gender and has done groundbreaking work for women by founding the world's first female shelter, and right after it the first male shelter too though sadly it didn't survive like the female one. She's so intelligent and speaks such truth she had to be banned from her own shelter and effectively banned from the country.
@frederickngwenya40823 ай бұрын
They nation is called: Masoshangane/ Machangani The language is: Tsonga / Xitsonga The king : Soshangane Nxumalo, Nghunghunyana Nxumalo The Kingdom: The Ndwandwe Kingdom Lots of love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
@Striker8854 ай бұрын
There aren’t women like this in the field because they’ve chosen the easy path
@dogsontherunproduction4 ай бұрын
Going against the narrative of domestic violence creates enemies in women who do not want to accept that women abusers exist.
@doodlebob20232 ай бұрын
most women are pretty happy to not have to be held accountable for being violent and abusive. the irony is they will still say the man is abusive even if he isnt at all. i'm almost 30. been in multiple relationships, and i've decided to not ever get married. in this day and age marriage is not what it was intended to be. a man being a slave to a woman goes against nature.
@maryannecomment33025 ай бұрын
I do not believe it is 50/50 among men and women. In most cultures, men are the perpetrators and the victims are women and children. But there are definitely violent women as well. Domestic violence is terrible, whether the victim is a man or a woman, that does not make any difference.
@MattHurstbridge2 ай бұрын
As a police officer for the past 45 years, it's the 'Dirty Little Secret' that governments around the world don't won't you to know. Women are OVERWHELMINGLY the instigators and perpetrators when it comes to Domestic Violence, Child abuse & Child murder. For the past 60 years, there has been a war against the safety and protection of men and boys.
@melanieelepen31805 ай бұрын
God bless your efforts
@unarinethambatshira92055 ай бұрын
Interesting that's exactly how we sing hogo in Venda 💪💪💪 Ngomani
@collintitus76745 ай бұрын
❤️💜💙💚🇿🇦
@ElouiseRaats6 ай бұрын
Thank You Yah
@BuhleNkqayi-ql6bd6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this wonderful video of lóve from kwandà
@ralphz12386 ай бұрын
I WAS RAPED BY A WOMEN POLICE LAUGHED AT ME
@mommysnofun6 ай бұрын
This is the truth. 💔
@Vid78726 ай бұрын
Pro-life missions are basically in the business of replacing fathers with food stamps. These missions claim to be pro-family when in actuality they will do anything to make sure the mother doesn't need help from a man. How is that a family? They put her on a pedestal and throw her accolades & freebees that she wouldn't have gotten if she were married. If I point this out to them, they hiss at me
@jamesdumisani48476 ай бұрын
Thank you guys for sharing love and don't stop spreading love ❤❤❤❤
@dogsontherunproduction73366 ай бұрын
Sending love xx
@VathiswaBodlisa6 ай бұрын
Keep up the good work my brother Laston ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@dogsontherunproduction73366 ай бұрын
Laston is amazing
@SaltySeaQueen-nn8wm7 ай бұрын
This wonderful, incredible Woman..❤️
@dogsontherunproduction73366 ай бұрын
We agree!
@johnm847 ай бұрын
She is an incredible woman.
@dogsontherunproduction73366 ай бұрын
Erin has done so much to change narratives
@MXTV11637 ай бұрын
Africa we are 1
@nicolaigroeling75839 ай бұрын
Nuhr
@EricMHowardII-yh1rn9 ай бұрын
Men do not talk about domestic violence because of shame and indifference.
@loganblackwood29229 ай бұрын
I mentioned this to a woman recently, she instantly said I was wrong and went on a tirade about Trump. Someone I thought was an intelligent person but no, the pervasive "whatever women do is good and whatever men do is bad" narrative is so tied up in the female psyche, they will never believe men are victims of women. The poor sons of these women.
@loganblackwood29229 ай бұрын
Nothing has changed for men. It has only gotten worse and more pronounced and who is to blame? Men, as always. Men start avoiding women? Who is to blame? Men, again, as always. I think men need to rethink contributing to a society that takes our money to persecute us.
@HasaneDennis-jv9il9 ай бұрын
Ngoma ya hina ndzhavuko wa hina
@ArjayMartin10 ай бұрын
You should have many more views and subscribers. It is great quality work...
@dogsontherunproduction73366 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@flygonkerel78110 ай бұрын
Metoo is bullshit
@rootcanal718811 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Is there a full length presentation also?
@dogsontherunproduction73366 ай бұрын
Sorry I didnt reply sooner please email me and I can forward to John [email protected]
@rootcanal71886 ай бұрын
@@dogsontherunproduction7336 Thank you! I will do that. Aaron Clarey did a video on male suicide also: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hWndlKtrqZKIrqs
@lordmarco11 ай бұрын
#mentoo
@drsharkey11 ай бұрын
Great video. Well done Odette xxx
@dogsontherunproduction73366 ай бұрын
Thanx Sharkey
@neilgulati7918 Жыл бұрын
Most abused men will not identify or report. I'm not sure they'll even be counted if they do.
@loganblackwood29229 ай бұрын
Laughed at in some cases. Then arrested once the woman calls when he defends himself.
@Alex-sr3ez5 ай бұрын
Agreed! My then-wife routinely hit/slapped me, broke personal military mementos of mine, tried to isolate me from family and friends, etc. I took the abuse. 3 years into our marriage she cheated on me. When I confronted her about the cheating we got into an argument with her denying clear evidence that she had indeed cheated. The argument grew heated to the point that I left the house and went on a long walk as I knew she’d have eventually resorted to violence if the argument continued. This made her even more angry so she got in her car, drove around the neighborhood until she saw me walking and then drove up behind me onto the sidewalk and hit me from behind. She wasn’t going that fast and other than knocking me to the ground it didn’t injure me. There were eye witnesses. I called the police. They showed up and took witness statements and then told me that because I wasn’t injured there wasn’t anything they could do! 😮. They referred me to the county’s domestic violence department and recommended I see them about options for filing a protective order against her. I went to their office and explained I was the victim of domestic violence and wanted assistance with their services. They literally told me with a straight face that they didn’t usually handle complaints by men and that there was nothing they could do without proof of injury even though I had documents showing eye witness statements to her abuse!!! I divorced her and am much happier now but I will never forget how my complaints were treated with dismissive disdain by both the cops and the office of domestic violence.
@BadHonkyTonks Жыл бұрын
As a social worker I received many referrals from probation and payroll regarding male perpetrators of domestic violence. On every occasion the female victims would also identify as perpetrators and demanded help for their own behaviour. When I tried to explain this to my colleagues you can guess the reaction. For me these professional environments were always toxic and increasing became more so resulting in my resignation. I could not compromise my own ethics or principles. Whenever I tried to think whether I could compromise to safe my job I immediately felt physically sick . I had no option but to resign from a six figure salary! I suffered financially but I am still my own person.
@loganblackwood29229 ай бұрын
Leaving only the people that are toxic and will not care to go against the narrative for the good of the perpetrators.
@pakohbadajoz Жыл бұрын
I just want to say: Saints and Satanas doesnt exist. It just diaconus lies.
@susibonitacsncionbonitovid4279 Жыл бұрын
Muchas gracias hay niños varones pasándolo muy mal de ocho años
@gregallan2842 Жыл бұрын
Thanks guys and well done. I've given this video a plug on LinkedIn.
@jimpreston3017 Жыл бұрын
Excellent presentation. Top quality expert.
@JosedelaMancha Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THIS!
@CanEqualParenting Жыл бұрын
In Canada, this abuse is a serious problem, which has been ignored by governments. The politicians have funded women-only services, which turns family courts into abusive, father removal machinery. It is a feudal system, like the Canadian residential schools which the government and courts admit were cultural genocide. The courts are exploiting the bias and dishonesty of the gender-apartheid domestic violence industry for the profit of vested interest. The solution is political reforms of the family courts and the law so that no fit parent loses a child to this exploitative system.
@nickheath1927 Жыл бұрын
This needs to be spread far and wide.
@dogsontherunproduction Жыл бұрын
Please share to raise awareness.
@malefriendlymedia Жыл бұрын
A powerful use of stories to open up space for new awareness to take hold.
I'm from malamulele limpopo south Africa and these people are talking my 100% language
@albertnkuna5480 Жыл бұрын
Hogo, that's nice
@Thembanetor7 Жыл бұрын
Aii our tribe is lost.... where do we come from Mozambique, Zimbabwe or South Africa. Yoo I'm lost now
@pastornyaxtiarah1276 Жыл бұрын
Remember border/bounderies were done by the white colonialists
@tutotutot5193 Жыл бұрын
all 3
@PaloSant4 ай бұрын
Originally from Tanganyika ( Great lakes region) and trekked down south into present day South Africa. Then during the Mfecane time of Shaka Zulu they trekked upwards again and settled in Limpopo SA, Zimbabwe and Mozambique. Also note that these borders qe have now are colonial borders not the borders we had before colonialism. That's the issue Malema has been preaching about a borderless Africa and some South Africans think he's crazy. If you come to Zimbabwe you will also find Tswana, Venda and Sotho speaking people. They are Zimbabwean but are Sotho, Venda and Tswana.
@DBKtoday2 Жыл бұрын
When I was young (yes kinda old now) if the girls went out together, and knew there was to be drinking, we spoke about who was to be the guardian of the small group. That meant that we were to not drink as much and keep an eye out for the others. Like a designated driver so nobody gets hurt. We never drank alone, we never lost sight of each other - especially end of the night. This created the skills of the guardian (or “cop blocker” as we called it) to say no very firmly to a man seeking a “night activity”. We learned, not just how to do this for others, in this way, but for ourselves as well. We were responsible. Now should a gal decide that she wanted the “midnight activities” she had to convince her friend which gave her time to think about it and hear another viewpoint. 😂 I think what happens today is that the Radical Feminist encourage eternal victimization and a sense of not having any responsibility for themselves when they can fix their “buyers remorse” by claiming rape. Which, I understand can award financial gains in the UK. 🤷♀️ Unless a person is drugged in their drink or clearly unable to function and carried away, they chose to leave themselves vulnerable and if both parties have been drinking who is to say that it is the male who is less vulnerable to an action they may regret in the light of the next day? I do not think that we should teach young woman not to be responsible for themselves; that they are infantile eternal victims to men. This does not seem like an empowering message at all if we wish to produce strong, responsible, capable females. The Radical Feminists are taking it too far in their clear Misandry and this is in many ways very harmful to society. I recently watched a video of a young female in Illinois, US who killed two people drunk driving incident and was incapable of taking responsibility for her own actions it seems appropriate to mention it here for some reason.
@clemahsiziba2664 Жыл бұрын
Hoko i thumbuluko wa cichangana . Hanyauliwa la Zimbabwe