Yep you’re legit lol. All these things I’ve found to be true for me too! Except the cups. I wish I responded well to them. Great video 👍

So great to see another one of your videos! Congrats on baby number 2!!! Sadly I couldn’t breastfeed for as long as I wanted to, but your tips have given me some hope for next time

How do you use arnica gel? I assume it's post partum but not a lot of resources online talk about how specifically to use it post partum.

My husband bites his nails. Im hoping he can replace the baby nail file tool

I have consumed SO many of these types of videos, and yours are seriously the best!!!!

Very helpful

This was such a good video!! Currently 32 weeks so getting ready to prep for the hospital in the next couple months. Thank you ❤

I wished I had packed for a longer stay. I ended up having a c section and had only packed for a two days.

Great video 😊

This was the BEST video like this I have watched! THANK YOU!

Im pregnant in australia and have been told hospital provides nothing. I must bring everything myself including nappies

I just started and, as someone who took their donut pillow to a hospital, I was told by a midwife its not a good idea to use it cause it puts strains on your stitches and can stretch them out. That being said. I’m for sure taking some sort of pillow to sit on this time around as well cause it does make a difference. Just not one with a whole in a middle.

Currently 5 months Postpartum and really going through it. Everyone said don't worry things get easier, but I really feel it's getting harder. Appreciate your honesty. Feeling I need to seek help for the anxiety and depression. TY

One of the first videos that was actually really helpful! Subscribed:)

Torturing yourself with a natural child birth doesn’t make you or your baby any healthier! Epidurals are a life saver for first pregnancy’s which progress slower and make you exhausted and overwhelmed. I can’t believe society still makes moms feel guilty for being pain free.

Love this thank you for sharing!

girl it depends on the hospital you go to and the state you live in lol

Love the video bm what camera are you recording on ?

I do not like the Hakka, I kept knocking it with my arm or baby, Elvie has a much cooler design now that you can put in your bra to catch the milk.

Any car seat except safety first… they are so hard to handle!

Thanks for sharing ur links! I’ve only used cold calm and the osc… lol so the other two will be good to add to my arsenal.

Please do a video on baby wipes!

Hi! First time pregnant mom, would you be able to do a video on how you freeze/store your breast milk using the milk trays and bags? I’m trying to find the best sustainable way and not use those small single use disposable bags

Just found your channel. I really loved your frankness. Yes, you can never go back to who you were pre- baby. New subscriber, vlogger & mother in waiting. Grateful to find your channel, thanks Tian & keep shining 🇿🇼💚💜💛🇬🇧

13:39 Best facial expression ever XD

Maybe this applies in other countries, here in South Africa, you literally need to buy yourself everything. Our public hospitals are in bad conditions for both workers and patients, let alone babies. Our public hospitals are over crowded. You can give birth today and tomorrow you are on the floor with your baby because there are not enough beds. I don't wanna go to the one of getting infections and children dying in hours after birth with no explanation. I wish we were able to do home births rather than being in hospitals. The situation here is depressing. I've seen myself going through PTSD without even knowing.

What's Good Tian.... It's Nick and Andrea!

I relate to you so much because I’m such a clean person and doing my house chores was always a priority. Having my first child I had to switch mindset and let those things go so I wouldn’t go crazy. Hearing your experience validates so much of what I was feeling. Thanks for sharing videos with us.

“Relationships over things”. This is brilliant and something I will definitely need to practice when my first baby arrives in August. Thank you for your wise advice! 💕

Thank you sooooo much for sharing this information. I found it super helpful and your editing is really clever and funny! I just subscribed to your channel and I am looking forward to learning more from your content! 🥰

Nothing beats the giant water bottle and crushed ice they give you at the hospital (or at least at the hospital where I live). One less thing to pack!

Dear Tian, you radiate positive energy! I wish I could see more videos from you!

Wow this video was such a blessing.. I’m pregnant and still in the mindset that I can do it all on my own (w/ the help of my husband). Ik a village is important but I’m picky and want “perfect” people to be around which ik is not realistic.

This is super helpful!

You just return what you don’t use or doesn’t work. I combed ALL the internet advice and most of it went by the wayside when reality hit. ps - love your videos, very down to earth

The hospital will give you what you need. We didn’t plan to have the baby when we did and we did have a hospital bag in the car, we didn’t get it for like 3 days. We hauled everything out in a wheelchair 😂

I’ve watched this twice now 😂 trying to make sure it all gets in there!

Awesome video, Tian!

TIAN I LOVE YOU 🤟

I can’t tell you how fast I clicked on this video

First time mom here. My son is 6 weeks old today 🥺 Our breastfeeding journey was rough and short lived I’m sad to say. We had lots of issues but the biggest was weight gain for my son. I was using the Haakaa religiously every time I nursed him and I was also able to get a pretty good freezer stash in the beginning. What I didn’t know until we saw a lactation consultant was that I was taking milk away from him before he got to it. So all that milk I was able to store up was actually supposed to be going to him, not just extra let down that would’ve been wasted. I’m not sure if it’s well known that you don’t use the Haakaa on the side baby hasn’t gotten to yet, or if that’s not usually an issue with other women. I was having a supply issue on top of it so it could’ve just been an issue for us. I did suction it on pretty well to my breast to extract more (that’s how I saw another lactation consultant using it on KZbin. You squeeze the reservoir area, flip the flange back and put it on that way). I’m not sure if that’s how you are supposed to put it on that way. My thinking was if I was “taking that milk away” then my body would think I needed more. Clearly it was an issue for my son and I. So basically my comment is just to say I did love the Haakaa while I used it, but I kind of starved my son without realizing it. I think it’s a great product just make sure you are using it properly and don’t be a silly lady like me. Like I said I’m a new mom and we are trying our best over here!!

Your cloth diapering routine would be a great video! 👍

Your registry videos were very helpful, thank you!

All of your videos are very helpful!

You are so wise and I love you & your videos! ❤

I would to watch a video where you talk in depth about cloth diapers. I'm pregnant and want to use them on my future baby

Hi Tian, could you do the things that you think should go in a hospital bag?

Such good information!! Not overly talkative, straight to the point. And I love the bottle and feeding information. Thank you sooo much for making this video!!

Yes you explained exactly how I felt finding out I was pregnant!! This was very well spoken. I was in that mindset of not needing anyone but having a baby really made me start to become more selfless and think about my baby, in doing that I believe that God really gave me a better life that is not all about me. I was not happy before, and life is about loving and sharing especially motherhood. Although we weren't ready It made me happy to have a life that was adding more joy instead of living on my own. Love all the tips you shared about community and faith, you sharing your faith and experience helped me remember how important it is for me to focus on it at this time! I am about to have my first baby soon and I just trust in God for the entire process. Would love to hear more videos on your faith, as well as how the delivery went for your baby. God bless you!

Thank you so much for sharing, it was so encouraging for this soon mom to be!! Thankful for a Christian perspective🙏 My first is coming in Jan, and for some reason I've been experiencing a lot of guilt and feeling so unprepared lately. Trusting God though in this new chapter, I know everything happens for a reason and I'm so grateful for this blessing He is giving us!! Again thank you for the encouragement and vulnerability!