When my wife was alive, I used to do this. Now I realise what a colossal a##hole I was.
@unknwnGh0st2 ай бұрын
Men usually eat very fast. Its still in our dna from the days as hunters. Ur just guilt trippin if u rly think that. Get urself help. No need to be ashamed of it
@AlexCrean4 ай бұрын
Yeah.. this isn’t emotional intelligence.. this is just being a p*say whipped enabler who enforces toxic dynamics on his kid to placate his toxic wife lol
@MyNameIsNotPatrick4 ай бұрын
Emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage your own emotions, as well as understand and influence the emotions of others. He has no idea why she's upset about it, he just knows she's upset. He has no idea how to help her not be upset, besides giving her what she wants. Her being upset is making him upset. This is the antithesis of emotional intelligence.
@ellaineiglesias4 ай бұрын
@@MyNameIsNotPatrick he understands his wife’s way of living, her social life, her DAR meetings which unfortunately, does get petty like that
@MyNameIsNotPatrick4 ай бұрын
@@ellaineiglesiasseems to directly contradict him saying "I may not understand her world."
@ellaineiglesias4 ай бұрын
@@MyNameIsNotPatrick yes In a way, but he accepts it that although her way of life is complex he chooses to understand that it’s who she is.
@MyNameIsNotPatrick4 ай бұрын
@ellaineiglesias that's the thing though, it's not necessarily "who she is" it's "what she wants" and if she feels like throwing a fit and stressing others out is worth it because she will always get her way(which she does), then she will continue to do it and claim it's just "who she is". My brother once told me "I don't mean to be an asshole, it's just who I am", that's a sorry excuse for not trying to be a reasonable person. Having emotional intelligence would mean expecting reasonable behaviors from others and not marrying a dictator. Unfortunately he's already in it to lose and I guess swallowing his dignity is easier for him at this point since he already realizes he's at a dead end.
@Zackarykant4 ай бұрын
Your bassing 1 man on the rest of the billion men on earth? That's just petty and "even if you have medusas curse i will still stare at you so that my stone body will gaze at your stupidity for eternity"
@cassiusfelix28054 ай бұрын
Girl you look good
@Daveyjokes4 ай бұрын
Being emotionally intelligent is just acting childish, demanding, and erratic while simultaneously catering to your partners delusions of grandeur? I can do that.
@anhk_yt4 ай бұрын
Is emotional intelligence just babysiting immature people?
@ellaineiglesias4 ай бұрын
Emotional intelligence is having the ability to understand and recognize someone’s feelings (his wife) regardless of how it is. Despite Emily being Emily, he accepts and love her for who she is and it works out for them surprisingly
@kitkatherine234 ай бұрын
he actually doesnt have emotional intelligence, and its very evident throughout the show (ie. when he meets dean, how he treats lorelai over dating Jason, how he treats emily when he retires, etc.).
@ellaineiglesias4 ай бұрын
In some sense you are correct, though he does recognize and understand what upsets his wife ❤
@kitkatherine234 ай бұрын
@@ellaineiglesias understanding that it upsets her ≠ why, which is true emotional intelligence. also, if he was emotionally intelligent, he would recognize and respect lorelai in this instance
@KeithOlson4 ай бұрын
...and *THAT,* boys and girls is what we call 'enabling' and it is a very cruel and irresponsible thing to do to someone you say you love. How can someone become healthier if nobody points out their bad behaviour as soon as it appears? Won't they, instead, become naturally _worse_ over time? Won't it become harder and harder for them to accept that it is bad behaviour, let alone be willing to change? Won't that naturally lead to them becoming more and more miserable and lonely--who wants to be around someone who is constantly behaving badly?!? Timely (gentle) correction isn't hate; it is love in action.
@lucaszczesny4 ай бұрын
'emotional intelligence' my ass xD Thank God the first and only (current) comment is exactly correct.
@ellaineiglesias4 ай бұрын
That’s a nice pov actually! I was merely pointing out that regardless of how his partner is he’s aware of things that upset her ❤
@KeithOlson4 ай бұрын
@@ellaineiglesias "That’s a nice pov actually! I was merely pointing out that regardless of how his partner is he’s aware of things that upset her" Fair enough. I suggest in the future that you carefully assess each clip for healthy behaviour before posting, as *FAR* too many people who haven't learned these things yet will think that his behaviour is healthy and loving. ...and will copy it. Oof.
@ellaineiglesias4 ай бұрын
@@KeithOlson I mean you’re entitled to your own opinion and have the right to feel that way. There are all kinds of POV and I welcome and respect it 😊
@KeithOlson4 ай бұрын
@@ellaineiglesias Fair enough. Thank you for your grace.
@genevievejuarez2755 ай бұрын
No one
@Poop-yc7fk5 ай бұрын
Your stunning and madly underrated when I looked at the likes I was shocked how low they were
@BENZ_ASMR5 ай бұрын
What did you do?? Asking for a friend😅
@Julia_Amalia5 ай бұрын
Sammmeee i hate it
@Kaisocoolfr5 ай бұрын
tapioca and seaweed
@johannaUwU20095 ай бұрын
The fried eggs💀💀
@Bloomellon5 ай бұрын
Sushi❤❤❤
@Strawberries21435 ай бұрын
It’s because your taste buds haven’t matured
@nelkam55435 ай бұрын
Mint chocolate anything
@She-lives-on-in-our-hearts5 ай бұрын
Girl I haven't tried sushi yet and I never will bc the raw fish makes me sick to my stomach and the cold rice I mean I would probably throw up as soon as I bit into it
@ellaineiglesias5 ай бұрын
Baked sushi is good tho but cold rice & raw fish… no way 🤢
@natewest60285 ай бұрын
Spaghetti
@Dalia0125 ай бұрын
*Cries in italian again😭
@AceyOC5 ай бұрын
Cheese and yogurt. ESPECIALLY Greek yogurt; I will throw up with even a look and or a whiff of that putrid stuff!
@masarifah34725 ай бұрын
You know sushi have way sooo manyy variety right ….. (not only raw fish & cold rice)
@ellaineiglesias5 ай бұрын
Baked sushi for the win ❤
@I_heart_Paultooreall5 ай бұрын
I ABSOLUTELY HATE SUSHI 🍣
@RaeganOsborn-nu9oj5 ай бұрын
Mine is fish of anykind but… Sushi u love sushi
@Not_me1095 ай бұрын
For me it’s pizza😭
@adamified5 ай бұрын
Real
@Live.w.Emmii15 ай бұрын
Same!! I had so much that i got sick of it!
@This_rando_kay5 ай бұрын
Chocolate chip cookies:>
@Userunknown18975 ай бұрын
Uhm idk but sushi I so good id go to war for all the sushi in the world
@ellaineiglesias5 ай бұрын
I really tried I can’t stand cold rice ughh 😢
@UshikaAdhikari-zl1ec5 ай бұрын
... Dont hate me 😂😂 I dont like mangoes ..😳😳
@Dalia0125 ай бұрын
@@UshikaAdhikari-zl1ec sameee
@flametv86945 ай бұрын
I love mangos but everyone in my class bullies me for liking them
@agnyistcool5 ай бұрын
…. noodles I don’t like noodles
@Jaceyb745 ай бұрын
One thing some types of boba like i got it from a place and soo many people were in there till this day but it just tastes like trash But I like other bobas
@lapdofc5 ай бұрын
Samee
@nk_diorr5 ай бұрын
STOP NO, I LOVE SUSHI 😭😭😭 BUT I HATE YOGHURT | NAH-UH ITS A NO FOR ME
@sllilys5 ай бұрын
most meat like steak
@Lilliandsofia5 ай бұрын
For me it’s shrimp I DO NOT like it weirdly shape fish that you duck the meat out of is a no for me but I like sushi just none with shrimp in it 😂
@libbydubay92315 ай бұрын
Pad Thai, I just can’t
@RyleeTheophile5 ай бұрын
I hate sushi too
@JustAnotherApolloWorshipper5 ай бұрын
Just rice and fish in geneeal
@Dalia0125 ай бұрын
@@JustAnotherApolloWorshipper rice is goood but fish🤮
@nazaqathn275 ай бұрын
Same I hate sushi
@Kailiya03185 ай бұрын
Can I have your TikTok???
@ellaineiglesias5 ай бұрын
It’s the same as my username in all platforms ❤
@Kailiya03185 ай бұрын
Sameee
@mariammigdady995 ай бұрын
It translates to do it
@Dalia0125 ай бұрын
Samee
@mariammigdady995 ай бұрын
It translates to do it
@TheLovelyGirl4445 ай бұрын
Lasagne
@Dalia0125 ай бұрын
*cries in italian
@lilim71825 ай бұрын
Whyyy?
@Xxst1tchxX5 ай бұрын
It’s so good tho why I put extra cheese on mine
@Its.elisabethjames5 ай бұрын
Nutella 😂🫠🙈
@Dalia0125 ай бұрын
@@Its.elisabethjames noooo😭
@livakardo32055 ай бұрын
Sushi is a noooo for me
@alicianandra36265 ай бұрын
Same here i hate sushi
@-Kaylee._.TheWeirdPerson5 ай бұрын
Same girl- my friends are like “Why do you hate sushi its so good!”