Plus now they’re also making money through this whole together thing it’s prolly really difficult

Thanks for watching! I believe its because she has invested so many years already. Sunken cost fallacy

It’s so sad. She’s so beautiful, funny and seems like a wonderful person. Any man would be lucky to have her. Why can’t he see this? He’s going to marry the next girl he dates shortly after they split if ever

That's not as easy to do. It's like losing a dear family member just because he doesn't wanna get married. It's like a death of a person you knew for so long. And in a total nutshell, a man who proposes to a woman can cheat, but a man who doesn't propose doesn't cheat. So what is more important? It's society that has made a woman worthless if there's no proposal. Life should be so much more than this, especially for women. Women should be praised for having a career, having talent in the arts or science, or starting a business. Women are so much moreeee than a bride or mother. I feel sad for the women's mindset nowadays. Women want marriage mostly for a financial safety bag if the guy leaves. And to fulfill the princess syndrome. Why though? Feels sick. That if a man doesn't propose then a woman is nothing ? Wow that's very sad

@@matchagreentee Thanks for watching. I believe you are right. She does give that vibe. I don't blame her though. It's difficult to walk away from over ten years relationship. I hope she finds the strength to walk away if marriage is what she wants

@@thefeminineeye Thanks for making the video! I enjoyed it.

@@sivialove475 Thanks for watching. I think Deven is pretty clear about what he wants with Aileen...Maybe she's hoping he will change he's mind. I hope not. Twelve years is sufficient to make up your mind.

Thanks for watching! It would be a bit different they both knew they wanted to get married but were working towards it ..the timeline isn't as important as being on the same page. But as it stands they are both on different pages. They did a podcast about marriage where Deven stated he didn't see it as important. While Aileen seems to agree in the podcast, she sends conflicting messages with the various reels she posts about wanting marriage. For the record, they are apparently both 29, not very young imo. I also very much hope I'm wrong though.

Why rush them? 😂😂😂 11 years dating isn’t rushing that is more than plenty of time to know if you want to marry someone

@@thefeminineeye I see what you mean but imo from working with and dealing with people 30-50 year olds who are still so clueless and/or not thriving in their relationships. These 2 are. 29 is just still so young. And Covid really set things back for everyone too. Plus the rings, wedding/reception for the amount of friends/family they have - it’s gonna cost a lot. I’m just saying why rush them if they’re building that $$$ to be able to afford everything. They probably have family to fly in from the Philippines or will do 2 weddings here and there, it’s just not cheap for people no matter what age they are.

@@alex_P13842 29 is still young I agree, but 29 with 11 years experiences together is not so young.

@@ohsweetiewhy6353 I’m also just thinking financially for a ring and wedding. Anyone can get married but if they want all their families and everything, it’s not going to be cheap. Their careers seem at a high right now, so if they’re making good money - I think we can expect a ring and wedding soon.

Thank you for watching ! I 100% agree. Nothing can stop a man from doing what he truly wants (good or bad). If he believed she was his ideal lover, he would have proposed ages ago.

They'll lose subscribers and money and they can't have that.

"Celibacy" means a promise to never get married (as well as not having extra-marital sex). It means you're consciously swearing off all forms of sexual relationship for your entire life. Usually the only people who do this are clergy in certain religions (such as Catholicism and Buddhism), though I guess there's also things like the "MGTOW" movement that arguably fit the definition too. You're probably thinking of "abstinence", which just means not having sex for a specific, limited period of time (such as "until I get married"). The ads were trying to suggest that people who were thinking about giving up on dating due to past disappointment should try their dating app because it would supposedly give them better results. Maybe not the best advertising strategy, but they're not necessarily promoting pre-marital sex. If you do plan to get married at some point, you'll presumably have to do some dating to accomplish that, which would make you a potential customer of a dating service such as Bumble.

There's nothing prudish about it It's a great idea, especially these days.

@@macdeus2601 celibacy is fine as well for those who want it. There are people who have completely sworn off sex and are non-religious

@@macdeus2601 Thank you for explaining

After?

Yes. After. Marriage and especially kids kill a sex life.

12 kids! That must be difficult. Poor lady

She had 12 kids which is blessing. Why do you feel bad for her?

Yes, please tell us her husband left her single mother with 12 children, and she wishes she was working full time this while time 🙄

@@noorzanayasmin7806 no one said it wasnt a blessing but taking care of 12 kids alone isn't fun and games, especially if she was left with no funds/work experience

@@thefeminineeye Having children is both a blessing and a privilege. Nothing worth salt is easy. Life is not meant to be easy. Everyone has to make sacrifices. You have to make sure that your sacrifice is meaningful and not going to waste. Raising a child is the most important thing anyone ever could do. My mom had 8 of us and it wasn't easy trying to feed 8 kids in poverty but that is a meaningful sacrifice she made. So if it was a blessing why make it sound like it was a bad thing? It doesn't say that she had to raise the children by herself. I wish she had more help but human beings are very resilient. You would be surprised.

Hi. Thanks for sharing!. Is there a way you could start earning something small maybe learn an online skill?

She laughs without fear of the future Iykyk 💛

@@alikah15 girl that is not what that verse meant… ✋ 😭

If you have free time you can earn certifications online. There's a lot and you would have to figure out which one would work best for you and if the pay would be good enough if something were to happen. You could just constantly work on whichever one you choose and if something does happen you would have hopefully built enough knowledge and a good resume with your self paced training and certifications. If you ever do need to get a job list parts of being a stay at home mom but in a business sense, not a family sense. I'm positive there are plenty of former trad moms that post advice on how they re-entered the workforce when they had to.

I have a heavy gold ring over hundred years old. It was my great grandmothers, I'm 53. The wedding ring was their backup plan.

I saw that! I was horrified.

As opposed to training her daughter to think she's a man? Sure.