I am Mufti Abdurrahman Abdulawal, and I have been educated in various authentic Islamic institution, including memorizing the Quran from Masjid Nabawi in the prophet’s city of Medina, graduating with honors after being among the top ten memorizers of the Holy Quran. Since then, I have become an Islamic scholar, and studied hadith and jurisprudence under renowned scholars, and right now, I am a teacher at Darul Quran WasSunnah and a member of the Sharia Board of New York. And I am also married, so I feel it is incumbent upon me to enlighten some people about the proper way to discuss marital relations. I wanted to highlight one important point. Islam teaches that we were created to worship and obey Allah and His Messenger. Our Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) lived by this principle, and even though he could have become very wealthy by doing a lot of business, he chose to remain in poverty until his death. Believers were not sent to this world for enjoying luxuries. Indulgence in any sort of excessive pleasures is counterproductive for human beings. Due to our own indulgence, and following the practice of the non-Muslims and getting obsessed with sexual activities, there are thousands of Saudi Arabian youths, Kuwait youngsters, Qatari men and women, elderly entrepreneurs from Oman and Bahrain, and even scientists from Indonesia and Malaysia, Africa and India, are now being most severely tortured in CIA’s Bush-era interrogation programs, that are until today, operating in secrecy in many European countries. People are leaving Islam in hordes because they are disgusted by our obsession with sex. Did you ever see a Christian priest or a Jewish rabbi uploads such shameless video about sexual actions? Who do you think Allah will allow into paradise? Muslims are being warned by Allah to be sensible. It infuriates me to see Muslims use sharia and Islam to fulfill their own carnal desires, and becoming obsesses with politics, lust and relations, especially in a holy month like Ramadhan. For several years, I have been teaching Islamic Jurisprudence in Islamic establishments in NY, including in Darul Quran WasSunnah. DO not delude ourselves by using hadeeth and Quran to convince yourself that you are doing sunnah. Marriage is allowed only for procreation, and the Prophet (peace be upon him) never indulged in sexual activities (there are clear hadeeth that neither he saw his wife’s body, nor did they ever see between his navel and knees). If you must use religion, and Islam, then try to follow the Sunna of the prophet and stay awake at night for prayers and fast all day. DO not delude yourself into becoming sick like animals because if Allah loves you, you will be punished in this world. Like those thousands of Muslims who were framed for crimes and are now being tortured in black site prisons because they would be very active in relation with their halal wives. They also used hadeeth and Quran to make them believe they are doing sunnah. Marriage is allowed only for procreation, not for sick behavior like the Mushrikeens. Allama Ismail of Saharanpur once said obsession with physical and sexual relationships destroys the human soul. Even if it is legal inside marriage, this is a luxury and any luxury people indulge in too much they suffer severely for it. Even if someone eats too much sugar, they get diabetes. If someone eats too much fat, they get heart disease. If someone had too much physical relationships, even if it is legal and allowed in deen and an act of worship but still it takes peoples heart away from Allah. If someone is like the sahabas and has Imaan as strong as the prophets who spent their days fighting in Allah’s path shedding blood and dying and spent their nights in long prayers crying uncontrollably for the ummah, only then the physical relationship with their spouse won’t bring them any harm because their heart wouldn’t be distracted from Allah. However in my sheik’s personal experience, he had seen dozens of people who were too indulgent with their wife sexually which is completely allowed in deen but he had seen them go through the bitterest pain and suffering .

جھوٹ تھا کوئ ذکر نہیں کیا سعید نے