Oh man I just want to hug this lady, loneliness is so sad. We need to be kinder to each other. I would be her friend in a heartbeat, the problem is actually having third spaces in life to actually meet friends.

From what I gathered, her husband was not emotionally available…..

Thank you for this video, I find it very helpful 😊!

Please invite the husband. We would like to know the other side of the story as well. Thank you 🙏

Happiness come frm within n frm support of people who really love you... Been down dat road..not easy but keep pursuing happy

1:48 hard to pinpoint a number can we get an estimate? 😅

You have given a voice and hope to many, Uzma❤

I want to thank her for coming online and telling her story. She was in a vulnerable place at that time. It’s not an easy thing to do to open up to the public like this. The one thing I would disagree with her on is at 1:00:00 I would not want to combine finances with a very new partner. I don’t think most people are aware or realize how important finances are to a person. That is a huge step and I don’t think it should be taken as lightly as society makes it out to be.

I'm sorry but I disagree... yes, at least you have kids. Try asking a male or female who divorced and, was childless, and never found a companion after their divorce. You at least have kids and maybe grandkids to look forward to. In the UK, 50% of marriages end in divorce. People do understand.

The man is alone.

Better to get her ex-husband too and interview him. Take his perspective as well. Then you can get the complete picture, may be he has something interesting to share as well

I am so happy for her ex husband now that he's away from this philosophical emotional train wreck. And the audacity to come out in public and slander her ex shows the calibre of this woman. Lanatullah. May Allah expose her sins on the day of judgment, as he said he will do to people like her. Picking on cultural stereotypes and ridiculing her own family members... On and on..... Me me me.... Typical woman.

The trouble is they are using her hijab to say this is what Muslim go through while keeping quiet she is from South Asia. Even South Asian Muslims still have Hinduism embedded in their culture.

Be interesting to be given specific actions her ex-husband did that led to divorce. I mean chores and division of that in most cases is normal. Looking for paradise on earth has always been elusive. She stated there was narcisstic abuse, but without any solid accounts, specific actions. I had narcissts in my own family, so just curious. Is it right to accused without a defence or even to listen to one or even admission?

"The best among you are those who are best to their women" ____Prophet Muhammad.

45:22 😂😂 That was funny and sad at the same time. Poor guy

Most of the narcissists are women by the way

I was do Impressum by the first hour, no blaming no sexism. Then women are so shallow, they want 6 Figur, 6 feet, bla bla, red Bill, Podcast bro talk. Tell me you know nothing about women without telling me you know nothing about women. That are things men teach men they need, not women, stop blaming male fantasy on women. Your misoganistic. Disguasting

I can any man losing sexual interest in her after maybe max 3-5 years. Any man who stayed past that is honorable.

Women are all same lol after 30 years they will Divorce... like where you going? lmao go in a corner and to die alone, please don't take a dime or demand any money when you go. Have some dignity.

Oh its good to know everyone gets the same share regardless of home much was put in.

"It's a woman's job to save a marriage!!!" This was my mom and all my aunties back in the day...imbalanced/toxic marriages :((((

The concept of marriage has always been so odd to me. Like we’re just picking a random stranger to cohabitate with and hoping they aren’t a lunatic

I hope you both know you've helped a lot of people with this episode. Finding the right partner is so important. It's better to be single than to stay with the wrong person.

This woman reminded of me 2001 she has explained each episode as if its my story 😢

I am glad she opened up ❤

'Closure is not what people think it is'. We know what kind of person you are Samir. You are deliberate, you are good with words, you are a poetic, charismatic, philosopher who has it all figured out, but has not figured out why the woman he's been with for so many years, up and left. Ultimately, people don't just up and leave and ask for no contact. And I can guarantee you, she is also not in contact with her sister, your so called ex sister in law whom you have been so close with. The first man's perspective and it shows why the male loneliness is so rampant. Zero insight, zero empathy, zero emotions and pure selfishness.

The failings of men to follow the teachings and example of the prophet salalahuwalaihuwassalam, has resulted in women being gaslit, abused, unhappy and divorced. That’s why women initiate most divorces now, because they can. A woman would not leave a happy marriage, to a good man, who gives her everything she is entitled to.

I am divorcing at 59 year after 28 year verbal abused physical emotional abuse regret that my daughter has to see. You are brave women❤

What an intelligent woman. She doesn’t realise how likeable and funny she is, MashaAllah

Is a, thank you soooo much for this. Extremely relatable on all accounts. Thank you for sharing this story & I pray from the bottom of my heart that you will go through more beautiful days to come. I’m struggling as a single mother from a narcissist partner who decided to walk away from his responsibility as a father. The marriage was so toxic, enabled by his parents (we were South Asians in which his parents lived with us too). I couldn’t take it anymore when he forced me out of ‘his’/out matrimonial home, I had to walk out withh hh my child didn’t take any of my belongings/valuables (more afraid of my child being taken away from me), went to my parents house, got a lawyer & made sure I had the custody of my child-that is all that matters. Life is a struggle, thankfully for my career, I’m surviving. My child & I are in a much much happier & healthier home/environment today. So grateful for my parents ❤️ I couldn’t go to work with a peace of mind if not without ny parents who takes care of my child while I’m at work.

Uzma Ma'am is incredibly wise and well-spoken, i must say. And she is from the same part of the world that im from , so for me it's like listening to a very experienced and intelligent elder sister 🤍💛💛💚💜💚🙏🙏🙏💚💜💚.

I just bumped into this channel an hour ago, and I'm intrigued. This kind of content will help many. Thank you

This hit so raw, I really appreciate Usma for sharing, thank you so much 😢

Too many misogynistic comments here

They dont actually love you. You are just a tool. They only believe in self image and control. Thats why they cannot love.

People need to know that cultures like Samir who grew up entitled so spare me the B.s. close to sister in law her sister! In what Islamic culture is that true??

The way I thought this was margarita omg

What most people fail to understand is that it all boils down to ' Did you marry the right person' For us muslims its clear on who is the right spouse to have, What to look for in a spouse, What r each person duties and responsibilities in a marriage. Alot of times people dont marry the right person or dont marry for the right reason and later after the fantasy is no longer appealing then the reality sets in and they typically start blaming the person they got married to.

Divorce is a blessing.

In india and pakistan old generation men who were less educated used to abuse physically .. and today’s generation men abuse mentally more and think they’re the good husbands not like their fathers becs they’re not beating their wives like their father did to her mother

she is narcissistic blaming her ex everything life is a struggle. If you don’t wanna struggle with him, you’re not gonna get the life you’re looking for. Who told her marriage is happy life,

Important to hear the other side of the story

I hate how the comments talk about religion. This isn’t about religion! She experienced traumatic emotional abuse! Don’t give the man any benefit of the the doubt. She has to do what’s good for her.

Such a beautiful selfless outreach for women and humanity. Women are nurturing, and it's important to give ourselves permission to not fix everything. Some things in life are meant to walk away from and learn to be happy. She speaks the truth. 💐

I had to play a few time to make sure i was not the one missing the question...blurred timeline?

I hope and pray that the brother found the red pill, otherwise he will go on trying to figure out what happened to him 😢

TO ALL THE MEN: NEVER trust a woman, the vast majority of them are as wretched as the vast majoirty of the men that are constantly touted off as filthy

DO NOT TRUST WOMEN. Is a message I would like to deliver. There are ALWAYS TWO SIDES.

실례지만.... 여자친구 있으세요? ㅋㅋㅋ ❤