Your videos will save lives 👏🏾.

They wanted equality and had no idea what it meant lol … the shackles are getting taken off for men … I’m liking this new era …. I also love the strategies some guys are doing like Tom Brady giving all his assets to his mom so when his wife cheated and left with the intention to take half his stuff he had nothing he put it all in his moms name for safe keeping so he is especially broke 😂 and the wife instead had to give him part of her assets that’s some great karma right there but also shows there are ways to get out of giving your stuff but cutting this alimony tumor out 🦠 will force genuine bonds again because no girl can get involved with you with hidden financial intentions anymore she can only be with you for you no financial benefits this is magic …the future looks great for us men no lie there’s no reason for alimony not when women can do whatever they want now can even be president what do they need from a man lol …why do they need to leech on an ex husband it makes no sense what so ever it needs to be abolished but glad there’s progress and there will be no risk to get married anymore it’ll just be boyfriend and girlfriend but on contract as it should be no sharing anything I take my stuff and you take yours and leave me the hell alone equality at its finest

Yo appeciate you cranking out the content fam! Taking it day by day on my divorce, so can't wait for that document to be stamped as "FILED" Then I am finally free. But for now,contsantly builing the better self of me. 8th day on the No Fap Journey too bro! I figured, I was able to give up vaping, why not this long term compultion since the age of 6, right? LoL!

RP about a year ago by a woman who stepped out on me. I was completely blindsided and emotionally wrecked, esp. with her being a "good Christian woman." You make some good points. You should never take anything 100% wholesale. Find your balance; take what works and discard what doesn't fit your personality/life. I chose to take the parts of building yourself/life, NEVER make her the focus, stay mentally prepared to lose anything or anyone at a moments notice. Always be kind but NEVER nice & esp don't simp.

Thanks brother! I needed this message. It makes perfect sense…it’s hard to apply in one’s life though…but definitely I don’t like feeling this way. Accept what’s out of my control and control only what I can do with my life. Much appreciate your videos Roland! Take care brother!!!

Be a high value man before divorce, never marry unless...

I’m married and jealous of you divorced guys ….

That is amazing bro, congrats! I should jump on it too.

Can’t get any closer to being nothing lol.

Thanks Pare, I need this. I just got a Divorce this past May. She bounced for no apparent reason? During my marriage, I became a fat ass, my family was my only life. My self transformation I started last year while she was still around. Loveless relationship for the past 4 years. Went on a strict diet, gave up rice, fasted, gave up alcohol. End result, friend invited me to got to his Gig. Djayed at a bar. No joke, I have never had a chic approach me, but a Pinay girl asked me to dance. I was mind blown! Hahaha.

Well I've never been divorced or married, I have no kids, and I am definitely a low value man. And I don't care. 😂 I got nothing to live for. Come try me! Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Think trust is a big one.

Thank you for this video. I am in a relationship right now, and this woman is looking for conflict.

Amen.

Liked off the strength of the title great work

Word

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Marriage is a business that only benefits women.

great job, brother

Sit down, Asian.

Bros nowadays really think gym helps that much 😂

They're not fully integrated humam beings. Well, none of us is, but they tend to be more stuck than most with regard to overall 'based' maturity and groundedness.

One of my favorite quotes of all time is from Nelson Mandela who said, "As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn't leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I'd still be in prison.” SO POWERFUL! I, too, have had my struggles and journey when it came to anger and resentment but I am grateful to have done A LOT of INNER WORK to heal from all the pain. The work NEVER stops. It's a LIFELONG process! Thanks for the book recommendation! I'll check that out. Another book recommendation is called "The Gift of Forgiveness" by Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt & "The Gift" by Edith Eger. Truly perspective and life changing! Brooooo!! We are MOST DEF part of the SAME TRIBE when it comes to thinking, values, our perspectives, spirituality. ALL RELATABLE since I started following your channel. You continue to stay CONSISTENT and keep adding value to the world by sharing your own vulnerabilities in a such an inspiring and uplifting manner. Keep going, brother! Hope to connect soon!🤙

great vid bro!

We need more voices like this

YES! I'm in the same boat.

Most of the rhetoric is negativity labelled as 'Harsh truths' with seemly zero insight on how to be remotely positive about relationships, I feel there's a lot of room for growth in that space that they could capitalize on. Also, another red flag is that 99% of these Red Pill content creators have not been involved or not actively involved in serious long-term relationships, almost like they're self snitching in a sense, proof is in the pudding I suppose. Good video!

HAVING KNOWN WOMEN I CAN SAY NEVER TRUST WHAT THEY SAY.

There are valid points

This video makes loads of sense

Looking great Roland!! Super jacked. Agreed with your principles. Self care is the most important priority now. ❤

Is this Kelwona ?

Thanks for the shoutout brother!!! You the best! This vid is very valuable and speaks lots of wisdom. I will always cherish your advices and I’ll definitely apply it to my life. I feel like I’ve devoted so much time and energy in trying to fixing my marital relationship and not enough time to grow and strengthen my relationship with my kids. I’m starting now for sure. Take care Roland and blessing to you and your kids! Can’t wait for your next vids.

Happynes and contentment comes when follow the principles of Islam. Allah tallah the most benifecent the most merciful the most compassionate. Allah akbar. I am not preaching but my humble opinion.

Thanks for your thoughts. I also found that gratitude is an incredible power and gives incredible peace. God bless you

Thanks Roland for sharing your honest experiences! This really helps for what I’m going through. I can relate completely with you and what you went through. My wife and I are getting separated after 18 years and this is one of the main reasons, I am not being in my masculinity energy. She has wore the pants this entire relationship among other factors. We have 3 kids, 2 that are mine and 1 from her previous relationship (which I adore like my own). I feel lost and confused and depressed after she told me she wants to separate. My world completely shattered. I’m trying to find myself again in this tough time and your videos are like a breath of fresh air to me because I’m not alone and there is hope after going through the dark tunnel. It sucks that I’m still in darkness. Thanks again for sharing and please continue with your amazing videos. Appreciate you brother a lot!

Im glad you were able to break free for yourself so you can be an example for your children that no relationship is worth sacrificing yourself. And while i am for female empowerment, I am not for men being belittled. Users and predators look for prey. Congratulations on your freedom. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

My ex decided to end our 10year relationship via text while we were in the house together but still wanted to be friends and live together and share the bed together. Their friends said not to do that they should be in a different room and wanted me to pack up my art studio for them. At that point I figured why? They wanted to end the relationship I'm not gonna make any concessions for them. Choices have consequences and I asked them to move out. They didn't do anything to find this house that was all me, they didn't come to a single inspection. They own a house in the country side they can move in there even if it is 2hoursaway from uni and work. That was their choice. Anyway once I asked them to move out they went and cried to all their friends and they all turned against me and I though fuck it and blocked the worst of them and cut off the rest. I wasted 10years of my life on you guys and you're gonna teat me like that in the end after all I've done for you. Go play in traffic for all I care. They're in their 30s hanging out with early 20years old just throwing parties every night and now doing drugs.

You 'will' move on and experience the benefits of relative freedom, believe me. I was where you are but let your deeper self work wonders and you'll make progress.

Hey, you seem like a great man doing a great job for yourself and your kids. I’m currently going through my first break up and trying to get my head around things as I feel there was definitely things wrong but I am just looking at all the good things and making myself believe she doesn’t mean it and this isn’t her, the real her I know and convincing myself this isn’t her at the minute

You are sooooooo smart to have gotten out, and you will keep recovering and healing !!!!!!

I’m sorry I do not mean to question you, and I believe you, but that doesn’t really sound like abuse. It sounds like a bossy or sassy woman who didn’t really love you the way you wanted. But she didn’t scream at you or cheat on you or hit you or throw things at you. A lot of us women put up with soooooooooooooo much before we finally are able to leave because on top of the abuse and gaslighting they try and control us and they do NOT let us leave. And when we do leave the try hard to make our lives pure hell. 😢

My past does hinder me little bit when l really should press on move forward in life

My living condition was way out of wack

Some people want to tear down my boundaries and peace it's really annoying

Now l look back am like wow l hade one year soberity it's so easy to go back to old habits

I really shouldn't never been in a toxic relationship but l was it was very dum draining

I gave up so much when l was very toxic l wasn't living right it was really

She's tried to guilt trip me because she was 'homeless' with $20,000 a full time job and a hotel. I never feel bad about that she had time to get a place before her mom blew that 20k. Ironically she has never blamed them blowing the 20k on me which I expected and a few other things I will refrain from bringing any existence to. I lived with mine for 1.5. Years. Moved to dads then after a couple of years we lived together for 4. I decided to make her my gf again after just to make sure that it isn't just a female thing to behave like that. She still tries to manipulate with guilt but I'm not really susceptible to it I just let her do whatever she's going to do sometimes I laugh and leave the scene if she changes reality although in those situations it could be that she has gotten her memory flipped. She claims to be the one who said what I said etc. basically flipped roles. Iunno I'm okay with it right now I'm trying to come at it from a different angle than before public school taught me that men and women are the same in 90s and early 2000s but they're essentially opposites so I'm dealing with the relationship with a better education now and not living with her. I think the most annoying part is she talks about her stuff and I talk about mine extremely rarely do we ever talk about the same thing and when we do it's usually me talking about her stuff. Very few times does she talk about mine and I think it's exclusively tied to moments where she thinks she should hoover. But I live way out in the middle of nowhere so it's still nice to have something going on. There's a possibility she's not hoovering as well because things seem different now with me seeing the relationship more clearly, seeing the role of the man better than before with the duct tape residue lens.