I love your TikTok which is where I found you but love the girl chats on here and more vulnerability. I hope the best for you girl, cause you deserve the best ❤

Still need to finish the rest of this video but you started speaking your truth about your recent relationship experience and I just felt moved to respond. First of all shoutout to you for being vulnerable enough to share your story so it can encourage and help others, and for being in therapy and committing to that “better” more whole version of yourself, it takes strength. I’m grateful for your life and what God is doing in your life because I’m in a similar space, I believe. Being an African young women still fine and full of peppa, moving closer to my thirties, just wanting a legitimate and committed partner in life, just got out of a more serious relationship, recent milestones of graduating medical school & preparing for residency and all the pressures m/change that brings , growing and valuing my relationship with Christ from a true place, better relationships with family and thankfully having solid friends that support me and remind me of who I am and what I deserve in terms of the work I put into myself and the treatment I accept from others. We aren’t small chickens oooo. Like you’ve I’m grateful because I have prior relationships and more recently a serious long term relationship that was what I like to call “ God’s physical representation of his love for me” (similar to that of my friends that I’m super grateful for but romantic love), which has shown me more of what I’d need in that life partner. You are more than deserving of basic love and then some because any person who cares enough about others to die to their human selfishness (which we all have aka what can I get only over what can I also offer to this person) and truly put themselves out there, no games, just sports #nike all the things ( hopefully they brought a smile to your day), deserves to have someone meet them with decency and at the very least a graceful bow out when they’re not interested. Keep being true to who you are, keep growing in knowledge of yourself and showing up as you are. Yes you can be mindful of how others treat you and move accordingly but though it is not easy we don’t have to let their foolishness. As someone who’s going to entering the dating world in the coming months, it can me hard because we can’t expect people to show up as authentically as we plan to but we can choose how long we stay in certain situations, especially when they look like pass foolery (not easy when it feels good of course but where growing stronger with each experience. My mindset, I’m just going to keep putting socializing “works” behind this faith, being open to my Ghanaian mom’s recommendations from abroad 😂, dating when men that align with me come along (whether what did you call it lobster and Mac and cheese lol, or “my prefences” ) and keep walking in that self love, enjoying the people I’ve been blessed to walk this life closely with and renewing my mind to what the long term commitment of marriage truly involves, spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc etc. Other than that it is what it is, the prayers are praying and we will see what God will do ooo. It can feel lonely at times frfr but we thank God for this good life and what we’ve been able to accomplish and how we’re growing daily. We to will walk down marriage alter small small ooo 😂, till then praying you have a wonderful week ahead full peace, grace, productivity and all the great things you deserve. Novel fini 😎

Saving!

Stayed at the same resort in Crete last October and got the same villa. The service was 10/10.

Where did you get your coffee table?

girl !!! when I tell you I can relate !!!! girl you got this !! remember who you are.

I’m taking notes📝 I will revise and let you know!

You looked fantastic then, and you look fantastic now in your new size. Did the doctor prescribe or suggest meds to help with your health?

Awe Eni I’m sorry someone has affected you in this way, at the end of the days we are all just girls and we all feel deeply and we have all or will experience this. You know who you are today and I think that’s great. Life is about growth <3

The way you talk about Seattle is how every transplant and visitor from a big city does and girl I totally understand 😂 I had to learn to like Seattle it has its charm lol

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for being vulnerable (I, too hate getting emotional when I got stuff to do haha)! I'm slowly coming to terms with how people will literally use you at any given moment without a second thought but I can't let that change the heart that God has given me. Boundary setting and seeing yourself as valuable is very hard but excruciatingly necessary with every new phase/season of life. Praying for you, girlll! It's annoying in these ghetto streets. If you like sermons, check out "Stewarding Transitions" by Stephanie Ike

You are extremely beautiful and articulate yourself very well. All the very best with everything 🤗❤️

I couldn't find the blogger etiquette page..

Sending hugs your way… everything is going to work out great!!! 💕💕💕

Oh that shirt is 🔥❤

your vulnerability is so appreciated! But also, I agree you are really that girl! So many people look up to you. I hope your therapy journey gives you everything you want/need. ❤

Have you looked into the father wound?

Awwwwnnnn Eni! Sending you virtual hugs 🤗And absolutely, YOU'RE THEEE GIRL!

GIRL I got caught up in something like this last summer and I had to cut it off (not immediately I’ll admit) but I had to regroup with myself for months. I feel like it’s hard to see yourself as THAT GIRL even if it’s glaringly obvious to everyone else.

girl you forgot to mention that you can cook downnnn too!

you are absolutely THAT GIRL!

Catching up on your vlogs and Dolapo is a vibe!

This is more like a classroom teaching. I have a whole note on this. Thank you for this detailed teaching.

I love watching your KZbin videos because we just get to see more of your personality. That girl talk was very relatable, it wasn’t that I missed the person but it was more so letting go of that routine of constantly talking etc. In hindsight I have no idea why I even got into that situation in the first place lol. Just like you I distract myself by getting really busy but I lowkey love it! Now I have so many hobbies 😂 Yes to adjusting the crown and standing on business

1. Thank you for helping get through my stairmaster workout with this video. I love a good story time 😂 2. Yesss you gassing yourself toward the end. Because you are THAT girl ! So happy you have a village to remind you. Have fun meeting people 😊

So we're all just going through it with men huh

I didn’t even realize you have a KZbin 🥰 my life is complete

Eni, you’re a truly beautiful girl. My only comment would be to pray earnestly and sincerely to the Lord before interacting with any man with whom you would be romantically connected to - I mean this literally through text or otherwise. Despite their social, financial or even physical rank - they are still fools who may harden your heart. Pray for the Lord to reveal to you and them that you are ‘the one’ without the games (Prov 2:6). He is a God of order. As much as going on these dates may be exciting, every time you are let down it will inadvertently dampen your hope and draw you into frustration. Pray first - listen to that small voice and proceed then you will redeem time. I apologize if this was unwarranted advice - just my heart for you. Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts with us 💌

Eni, thanks for sharing this with us. I'm sure many can relate. I know for sure I can.

Honestly appreciate the vulnerability! Related to so much you shared ❤️

Oh Eni! This was so pure and genuine. I felt like you were sharing my story and I’m still dealing with the aftermath of being mistreated. I had to take a step back and analyze how I participated in these events and to ensure it NEVER happens again. Wishing you the best and remember YOU ARE THAT GIRL!

The “heyyyooo” after hearing an issue with the engine is so me 😂😂😂😂 like I’m begging you, make sure the plane is good before we take off!!

hey the chit chats are cool..but please share your outfits..

Omg, the KZbin videos are my favorite. Leaving certain topics out of the convo when talking to God is soooo real 😅

Omggg what's your friend @?

I think video montages would be a good way to show what's going on during these kinds of events while avoiding getting de-monetized

random question - why is the left square blurred out? I assumed it was a painting, is it the reflection?

So many relatable points- thanks for sharing❤

Can u pls add timestamps for future vids? ❤

Hi Eni, watched the whole video, and no idea what this man did or how badly he dropped the ball, but I 100% agree with your friends. You are the prize.

Oh Eni 🥹❤️ This Video Resonated So Much. I Always Ask Myself “Would I Enjoy Giving Him The Satisfaction Of Being Able To Say He Has Been With Me?”

OMG Eni this video resonated so much because i too have had similar experiences with dating men who it didn't work out with and them moving on and getting married etc. I literally had a mental break down last week about it. I just Thank God for my tribe and friends who remind me of who i am and what i bring to this world. My person and your person will come. Just continuing to stay prayerful.

First 💓💓 sooo happy for this hour of catching up with you Eni! Got my chicken salad and ready to watch. Like button before watching ofc 😊🎉

Dolapo is so sweet 😊 I really enjoyed watching you living your life and spoiling yourself. I’m manifesting this type of life!

You should vlog more often

You look amazing in this really cool outfit! Love!

yall look opulent af

How is the island of the creek isle in greece and is the island name saint crete in greece the island for worldwide casino lovers

Dolapo is such a vibe! Would love to see her on KZbin more!!!

Givi'n princess Diana vibes 🪻✨