I love happy endings, marriage is not supposed to be easy but when we are with the right help it's awesome. God's plan is ALWAYS better than our own. It's crazy how when we look back we can see how God worked everything out for our good. Congrats on your marriage. 😀

awww, I'm on it girly! More videos and shorts on the way.

Screen shotting your comment so it's a top video next. <3

@@Hanakimberlyy YAY THANK YOU

Amen sisss! Great advice, Single or Married, God has a purpose. Congrats on your marriage! 😀

@@mindtoheartjourney3154 amennnn to him be the praise forever 🤍

@@igorcywinski7477 that’s sweet of you to say. Thank you so much. God bless you!

You are so welcome!

God with a capital G!!

@@likaself heyyy girly! Yeah, I understand where you are coming from but it all depends. What I’m saying is, have the conversation bc kissing might not affect you but it might be too much for them and that’s where we need to have that conversation so we are aware. Hope that makes sense. 🌸

@@Hanakimberlyy Do need the conversation before kissing. And as you advised, don't kiss in private, have people around that you trust will stop you from going beyond kissing.

Exactly!

THAT IS INSANE AND UNBIBLICAL. RUNNN SISTER, RUN.

This is a lie of modern Christianity. In our culture as opposed to biblical times women today wait until their late 20's to early 30's to get married. The content creator is a prime example, mid-late 20's not married because of feminism. Are you 16 years old unable to understand that sex can produce a pregnancy? Probably not. Many in biblical times were married by 18-19 years old. First the Church which is biblically illiterate these days says a rule "No sex before marriage" there's no context, no understanding. Conservative Christians are the worst at dealing with anything to do with sex. All they preach is don't think about, ask or about it, or do it until you're married. It's based on ignorance not biblical understanding. If you are a 16 year old boy with hormones then sex is an impulse where the adult ramifications like pregnancy are not considered. So sex before marriage is a delay of say 2-3 years from 16 years old in biblical times. Not 10-15-20 years in Western Christianity. If you're a 25+ year old woman who doesn't know what she wants in a guy or is actively with a guy she wants to marry then why are you doing? Imagine you have a 18 year old girl today and an 18 year old boy. Both have been told go to college/university and don't focus on marriage because they're too young and in our culture they are. Not in biblical times. So you're constantly told sex is a sin, sex is a sin for a decade and a half. Now you're 25-28 and thinking you want to get married. You've been told forever that sex s a sin. You've seen all the distortions of sex over the years but not a biblical example. So let's say you're lucky to get married as virgins. What does the husband want? Sex. He's been blocking the impulse since he's was 10, now 25 and wants to have sex with his wife a lot. But his wife having been ingrained that sex is a sin has no desire for sex or is ashamed of it. She has seen decades of images of what "sex" is supposed to be and can't see herself as beautiful. Maybe she's uncomfortable with pleasing her husband. Just read the stats on sexless marriages. Or the even worse part are women who aren't Christians in their 20's in college and so they sleep around and then come to Jesus and now a potential future husband knowing their potential future wife's body count is saying "I love Jesus, so no sex til marriage" which are many. Feminism has taken women today and made them unfit for marriage or unwanting of marriage in their early 20's. Go to college, get a career and then think of marriage. Now we have a culture where 50+% of marriages end in divorce and 80+% of all divorces in the US regardless of whether you are in the Church or not is initiated by women. For decades men have been trashed by women. Most good men are in the "friend zone" because women want the "bad guy" not the guy who actually likes them and treats the with respect. Women want the one guy who ignores them in a room, who shows he doesn't care, or even sees her, not the guy who is trying to win her over. All I see is a bunch of women here who are entering their 30's having rejected men for whatever reasons claiming GOD doesn't want them to marry a guy for whatever reason thus showing that "GOD" now becomes the foundation of narcissism in women that reject the men in their lives. To me, this culture ant these YT women are just another version of the destructive ideology of feminism. Sure Christian women say they'll submit to their husbands but they don't even submit to anyone now. How many women today even understand men? How many women want a man in their image, instead of becoming the wife in the image of the husband? All feminists do is say "GOD" or "Holy Spirit" to make it "Christian." Why not use some basic common sense. Why is sex before marriage in the Bible a sin? Because most people got married by our standards young. Having sex can dramatically alter a teens life. However if you're 30 and single in 2024 guess what sex doesn't have the same consequences as it did 2000 years ago. Why do you think women have a biological clock? Because you should be having a family by then not rushing to find a guy to have kids before the clock expires. I want a woman to honestly answer me why would a man want a Christian woman today? She deferred marriage for a career, and debt, she gave it up in college, and now has found Jesus again so no sex til marriage. Women control sex in marriage, so if the women wants to use it as a tool, punishment, manipulation, reward, etc she can. For a Christian guy there is ONLY 1 relationship he can have sex with a woman with and its his wife, which gives her a lot of power. Women have known this their entire lives. Wear a tight shirt and watch guys do all sorts of stuff for her. Yet look how many women here call men "imposters" and blame them for the relationship breaking down when 80% of all divorces are initiated by the wife which wipes out many men with spousal support for decades. Just in case you're wondering I am a happily married man with a son, to a wonderful wife. But my wife has made me and our family a priority. My life would be a mess without her. Why as a Christian man would I want to take the risk on you? Why when there is only 1 relationship I can have sex and a family with would I risk, rejection, manipulation, financial ruin, and years of my life and custody battles with a woman today? See women don;t see themselves as the core issue in relationships. Most guys have told "be a jerk" or you'll be friend zoned. Be an alpha, treat women poorly because they don't want the guy who wants them, they want the guy who doesn't. And reality bears this out. But most men who actually like a woman and want to be with her for life is in their friend-zone. Or they start out as "the guy" then they show emotion, commitment, wanting to be with the woman and the attraction is gone and then they're dumped. You see so many women today who want a 6 ft, man who makes 100-200K a year, who pumps them and dumps them because they don't want the nice guy. Guys want to marry women. Most men have an engrained desire to marry and find a good wife. But a good wife is an illusion. Men are rough around the edges even as a normal guy, nevermind after years of trauma with women. A woman is looking for a guy who is trustworthy, compassionate, hard-working, funny, loyal, but most men have been burned many times before and rejected, so they try to figure out what women want. They change themselves because they like a girl. A good guy becomes a jerk because that's what women respond to. Just look at the response when a guy holds a door for a girl. They get blasted for it. I'm a Christian man and I don't want today's "Christian" women. All that these videos show me, is #1 women today are biblically ignorant. #2 they are self-destructive and #3 selfish. If you are mature enough to understand sex and pregnancy and be an adult then find a guy, don't give it up on the 2nd or 3rd date but don't hold out for 2 years til marriage. crap or get off the pot. All we are producing is a bunch of delusional women in their late 20's and 30's thinking GOD is causing them to be single until they see the perfect Christian man who's in his 30's who will wait to have sex for 2+ years til marriage. Then if they do get married will his wife actually sleep with him? Instead of feeling she doesn't need sex, doesn't want sex, doesn't feel comfortable being naked, doesn't feel sexy, doesn't feel like her husband is there for her, doesn't feel romanced, etc. when he can find a woman who will sleep with him on date 2. A lot of Christian women will be left single because they don't know what it means to be a Christian wife. If all you're concerned about is finding a guy who will date you for 2-3 -10 years, whatever timeframe doesn't expire your biological clock to have kids and have him wait for sex til then, then you're going to reman single for a long time.

@@HGG87 that is also very true! 😊

Yes, I am feeling the same way but at the same point we can not run from it. I am not saying this because I am trying to push open a door that is not supposed to happen. The thing is, it's just going to happen either way. It's just like death, you don't know when your gonna die but your gonna die. It's just a matter of when to be honest.

LOLLL, oh I forgot to get into the next part but I can see why you would say that. Maybe for the next video. Your comment made me laugh though.