Why would anyone apologize if they have no idea what they did wrong? Silent treatment is narcissistic behavior and immature behavior, if you say sorry they will thrive on being able to control your behavior.

I love my Best Friend but are not on speaking terms for 2 months and yet I have a talking relationship with her daughter and her son and I'm helping both of them

Good advice!

I have no Family I need in Times like this, having to accept the negatív way my life has gone, I am old, have no close Friends, or Family to discuss my painful issue with any one. How to Heal emotional wounds without support? I long. For PEACE from this mysterious person. The fear I have of hím,.

Thank you, I found this channel by accident and I like it! You seem to be a beautiful human being)

Remember that there are some situations that are actually left with no conversation. It’s OK to leave a toxic friendship with no explanation. If you have a friend that’s been harming- ask yourself if they actually deserve any explanation for your departure?? If they really did something very abusive . Most of the time they know. Keep your boundaries locked down. And don’t allow any of their spies to call you to get your information either. Yes - there are people you can re- unite with - and it’s worth it. But always evaluate which relationships serve you well.

It’s great to have your personal journey the way you want it. But understand if you make bad choices (like getting college degree in something useless) you have to own it. You cannot expect others, the people you didn’t want to listen to, to know “understand” that you need financial help because your KZbin or Tik Tok career didn’t work out.

what a ridiculous advert - enough to send you into meltdown just watching it and how fast she talks and the whole video jumping around! But then I suppose that IS what they are trying to do isn't it - convince you you need therapy that they offer!

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straight and simple

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Great video 👍🏽

This is so close to Jim Kwik video

My sister did something that really hurt my feelings but then was unavailable to discuss it. 3 days later, we talked and I let her know just how badly she hurt my feelings. HOWEVEr by that time it had festered and when it came out it came out ugly. I said some things I regret but that conversation was all about reconciliation. OR so I thought. When we ended that phone call we were both in a very lovey mood and had reconnected on deep levels. BOTH of us said we're sorry and BOTH of us forgave the other. BUt the very next day, I sensed things weren't OK with my sis. She was cold and distant BUT because we had both agreed in the conversation the day before that if anything came up, that we would discuss it further, I thought "Oh she's dealing with other things that aren't about me" and went on about my business. ALL the next week my texts go unanswered, a request for a meeting gets denied and just radio silence. I ask my bro if she's OK and he says "Yeah I think so" but then 3 days later I say "Boy sis is awfully quiet on texts" and he says "Well she doesn't like the way you talked to her" and there it is. She's harboring a resentment against me but refuses to talk to me about it.....EVEN THOUGH we just agreed if other stuff comes up we'll talk about it. It's exhausting and honestly, I'm sick of dealing with this crap. I can't keep apologizing when she has a bad nights sleep. I apologized, she forgave me, then silently withdraws the forgiveness.

"If you're a friend to everyone, you're an enemy of yourself." - Mike Tyson

No acknowledging intrusive thoughts and trying to overwrite them with positive ones actually increases the frequency of intrusive thoughts. The way to get rid of them over time is to not interact with the thought at all, recognise that it is just a thought and has no meaning and slowly over time they will stop.

I want to thank you for your videos. I tend to put others before myself and I need to find a better balance. The analogies you included in this video will help me remember to work to balance.

This is horseshit advice. If our "friend" was really a "friend" they'd let you know if they're mad about something, whether or not it was your fault. But just cutting a friend off with no explanation is childish. They clearly don't value your friendship. You don't need "friends" like this. They never were friends. Just acquaintances. This advice is horseshit.

When I've asked these friends what's going on our why they won't speak to me. Then I conclude that the friendship wasn't what I thought it was.

Soooo true i was so anxious visiting an hospital blood pressure read 190 after 10 mins its 180. I check it again on the way to home in a lab it was 160. I check from my wifes home after two days it was reading 120 to 130. Again i checked from lab it was 140. I just stopped checking i know i am getting tensed when i took reading from lab or hospital especially in hospital.

This feels very specific towards me thank you

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I appreciate this list! It reminds me that I need to pause and refresh or life will overwhelm me. Thank you!!

Just wan to say Thank you for your videos and podcast! Motivating and helpful in my journey of life You’re amazing and awesome… Hope your channel grows gradually over time and reach more people!

Nice work keep it up 🙏🏻✊🏻

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What about young people who seem to have embraced helplessness as an actual preference? I only recently became aware of this. I have a step daughter who visited recently. She was a little late to launch, but she has been steadily employed and seems to be making progress in her life skills and confidence. However, she told multiple stories about times that she purposefully appeared weak or asked for help unnecessarily so that others would do for her. (The examples included coworkers carrying things for her that were her job not theirs, creating an awkward moment where she kept asking others whether she should go get her wallet to make a large purchase at the checkout until someone finally just went and got it from the parking lot for her, and then as she left for the airport she described her plan to ask a random person on the plane to put her backpack into the overhead compartment for her. She left the same backpack on the ground outside on the car for my husband to load. It was not heavy, and she has no physical disabilities.) I did not really respond to those stories at the time, but I wish now I knew how to. I have found empowerment by continually expanding my skills and responsibilities over my lifetime. Basic independent living skills came first in that--I don't see how she can live a full life if she is stuck at needing others to do very basic things. She is 22 and currently living with her mom, who was not very present in her life previously. Her mom mentioned to my husband that she has not washed dishes since moving in. I have a good (but long-distance) relationship with her, and I absolutely disagree that manipulating others is a sign of strength or a positive, as she seemed to be implying. She made me wonder how often I have enabled her or others by doing for them unnecessarily, simply because I never questioned that even if they were struggling they were doing their best. But I do not know her that well, and I am seriously not sure how to express my concern about this. Sorry so long, but I would love advice.

I screwed up out of fear, and recently lost a whole group of people I always thought I would at least be able to talk things over with. It's been a really hard time, and I'm doing my best to give it time and space, patience and all that. But I miss them, and I've got no choice but to wait and hope in time things can heal, and yeesh, that's been challenging to navigate. Anyway, thanks for this well timed video to help remind me that I'm already doing what I can about that situation.

Thanks again 👍🏾😁

Great video man thank you

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Great to hear your story Mike. Keep up the great work as always ❤

I'm working on not focusing on my past period.

Thanks Mike! Hope you're holding up well. Wishing you growth this year.

Thank you so much for this very informative video. I truly needed it and it came just in its rightful time. Keep up 👍

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Hi, I found you in Spotify. I loved your podcast that's why I checked your vlog. Thank you for the motivation you shared.🤗💖

Hi Mike thankyou for sharing these videos , ive just came across them , already feel bit better just watching this video

I never realized I needed this. Thank you for taking the time to share this with the world. You don't know how many needed to hear this.

This is exactly what I wanted, I always kept seeking approval from not only my parents and my siblings but also some people on Twitter. And including my friends

This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you so much! My spouse is the one who judges me so bad regardless how much I explain my ideas he seems never to be ungrateful for what I have done. So glad that I listen to your advise. Planning on making changes for the better 😌

Great information love listening to what you have to say

Sweet podcast glad I came across it very helpful just what I needed to hear. Thanks positive thinking 💙

I've been struggling with self confidence for far too long now I have something I could look forward to and dont want to be like I usto be but at times I still doubt I can do good typing this makes me see that I can change and make a diffrence but need to start with me.

Thankyou Mike, always find your comments and guidance encouraging - they hit the right spot. Would be interested in listening or attending a course, where can I go to find out more information? Thankyou. Christine