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Man this is so crazy because I was in this same situation 😞💔

Setting boundaries without enforcing them - or letting people bulldoze through them - not only erodes your self-worth but also undermines your self-respect. If your self-worth is already fragile, this can be especially damaging, reinforcing the negative beliefs that your needs and dignity don’t matter.

The thing that you should take from this short movie is that her skin and face is sagging because of the smoking .

I can't understand the ending.. Can anyone explain me the ending?? Pls

She did some good acting😊

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Why can't they ever show the Woman being the so- called "Villian" in these,instead of always the dude.In my special case irl, it was the woman who was withholding.Shame on these videos for being so sexist.😮😢

I was with you til the ending...

Honestly, I feel like I was the bad one, I was the one who was indecisive and helpless, young and stressed. I felt like I was going crazy, one day I wanted to say "yes, I love you" and the next "This person is just disgusting", every time I got back to normal, we hung out with friends and again I started to romanticize every moment and interaction. I know I acted wrong and that's what I thought so too. I forgot everything that happened and kept saying "it's my fault, I was stupid and terrible" and honestly I don't even remember what I did. Then something changed. For the first time I felt that she was the one to blame, she told the whole story of "us" 🤢 to our friend and she didn't even bother to tell me. Everything sucked, I really started to judge this person, I hated her appearance and personality but I couldn't say it because in the back of my head there was this stupid voice "but I think I like her, why can't I forget her If I don't like her ". I'm sorry if I'm the one who's evil and I hate myself for everything I've done, but I can't live like this for the rest of my life.

Wow, this resonates so much with a situationship I had. He always knew how to convince me, and then I found myself in another situation, hoping for change in a relationship. That went on for years until I finally stopped and then later on I found my true love. ❤️ the one he chose me over and over again and he wasnt afraid or insecure to love so anyways great short film.

Wow. Believable dialogue!

This is sooooo goood ❤

This film should be required watching for every couple, BUT particularly for men. You men are in the driver's seat, the leaders, emotionally, in setting the pace and building intimacy with the woman (I'm writing this for heterosexual couples but really, for gays and lesbians the principles also apply). Imagine that the woman is the passenger in your car. When the passenger leans over and starts asking you, "where are we going in this relationship? What do I mean to you?" you've already lost, because she knows that she can't count on you having the emotional courage to have the difficult conversations. She can't count on you to reach deep down into yourself and speak your truth. In this movie dialogue the woman becomes the man, and the guy, coward that he is, disconnected as he is, is willing to play at the surface-to get sex, because he can't see how not being honest with her keeps her tied to him, and all along what she wanted was for him to simply be honest. She ends up doing all the talking, and filling in the enormous blank spaces that he leaves when she asks him to simply tell her how he feels-he can't do it. The woman becomes the man and leaves the guy who neuters himself-it's her act of power to drive away, leaving this boy child with no clue as to what happened, unconscious emotionally. Men, never be this guy-speak your truth, know your shadows, on a regular weekly basis from the first date onward with your girl. YOU take the lead by writing a love letter to her, and inviting her to do the same. You take the lead in the letters telling one thing you loved that she did for you that week, and one thing you were frustrated about. She does the same, then talk through how you can fix those two things, write it down, and meet again same time/day next week, review the journal, and keep building. By the way, when you dialogue with your woman she (and you) become powerfully attracted to each other and the sex is amazing.

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I really enjoyed this :)

I just made a stop to a situationship similar to this one, and I was the woman point of view.. I loved her as much as I can, I still do, but she just can't imagine any future with me, because she's missing the gut feeling My heart is still bleeding and this video pops on my feed and it helps to realize that I did the right thing, even if I'm still so sad and feels so dumb to give myself like that... I had hope, so much hope, but it was just a dream, a broken one. Strengh and honor to all who's living something with someone that can't commit with you for reasons. Be strong, you're worth a million

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Right now I'm realizing that I know I'm making excuses, saying this isn't the same situation I'm in. Yet, within a month or two, I'll be back to search this video to memorize the script, to deliver the same speech. And the cycle will start again.

Maybe I've been happily married for so long I don't get this...? But I watched and read lots of the comments, but I still don't know who the "bad guy" was in this relationship. Totally confused

The acting the writing the cinematography and the ACTING again was amazing this deserves to be called a movie THANKS!!!

Beautiful use of music: subtle + haunting

Hm.. Human to Be a Human to another Human = Humanity.. ..if any different (?) - leave, move on and seek something/someone Healthy.. 🙂🙏❤️

I hate how much I can relate

I've been in that typa situationship back in uni. Though I wasn't in love with the guy, I still cared for him. I just wanted my friend back. The friend I'd go on late night walks around campus and just chill and vibe with, talk about anime and stuff in general. I think that's what made letting him go so hard, because I was still holding on to that hope that I was going to have my friend back and that things will go back to how they were before. I also think I was projecting my resentment towards him to avoid directing it to myself and accept that i came out of that situation a different person. And I hated (and still kinda do hate) the person I became afterwards. I felt disgusted with myself that I allowed everything that happened and destroyed myself in the process. I hated that I allowed him to have that power over me. I hate that I stayed in that toxic cycle just to cope with the emptiness and loneliness I felt at the time. And I hated that I had to put on a mask to protect myself from judgement and stop feeling that pain

what's the song in the beginning

7:22 i hate that i said this exact same thing to him. how did i fall so far 😥

even though i never got into situationships i was pushed in them by one man i knew...the first two months where i was getting to know him after the chase phase was over his intentions were revealed...i LEFT the hell out the minute he delayed meeting my parents..two months was too much for him but i wouldn't have known if he's gold or sand in the air until that timeline passed i gave him his chance to exist in my life and he ruined it no regrets...never regret not accepting a situationship or leaving it behind.. once someone tries to get there draw one final line and get the hell out

Perfect timing ❤

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That is not love, it is attachment.

A bit narcissistic. When both think of each other, it will work. Not one-sided.

They just need you inorder to maintain their status. So if you wanna breakup, its really hard to do so cause they are constantly getting revenge from you by hurting your feelings soo many times😢 same story as mine but I TOOK THE RIGHT DECISION I LEFT HIM CAUSE I KNOW HOW VALUBLE AS A PERSON I AM❤

WOW!!!!

I genuinely thought she's THE ONE. The love of my life. I've never loved someone that much. And I'm not young and I have a lot of experience, but not that experience. It was the first time. I don't know what is this. She acted like she is in love with me too. Up to 700 messages a day, great time spent together. But then something changed. She was taking excuses not to meet me. And it ended up we haven't seen each other for one month! Her excuse was bad mental state (one of her rats died) but at the same time she was seeing her friends (girls), going to some events out LOL. While I had only virtual communication. I was fed up with this BS and told her it's over. But she turned out the situation 180, apologized and told me she would try not to do this again. We had 1 date and then the situation repeats. 1 month no seeing her. I was fed up finally and told her I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE. I've deleted her and everything related to her from anywhere. Then she texted me an sms "really? you blocked me everywhere"? I said YES, either we have a normal relationship or I'm out of this THING. She told me I'm crazy and brainf....er and If I truly love her I had to be patient and get used. WOW WHAT? Get used to WHAT? Being an option once a month? F....K THAT! GTFO FROM MY LIFE!

Weeks of love and magic. Months of hope and despair. Staying will just increase your suffering, deepen your wounds. And at the end the same decision - to walk away.

The guy is a clueless ASS

I feel so lost. My fiancé left me after 4 years together, and I don’t know how to move forward. I just want him back.

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Yay Mr. Pickle

She asks for a percentage of all Books sales... and stipend to be on Book tour. Or else, hé IS fucked

The ticking adds to it

For 5 months on and off I knew a guy who would come over whenever he wanted and stay until he got what he wanted then it would be 20 mins of silence while I was anxious about even touching him then he'd leave rinse and repeat sometimes we'd talk and connect and I felt like maybe I dented the surface of the walls he brought up other times it was business as usual the last time I saw him wasn't in my bedroom he came to my door and proposed dinner I didn't get changed or look nice I was expecting the same usual thing anyway after a somewhat awkward evening met with another excuse as to why he couldn't stay with me I walked for an hour along a busy highway back home and the saddest thing it I got home thinking the "date" went well now im in a loving relationship and know that I don't have to settle for being a booty call anymore

The song is called Finding My Memories by Yehezkel Raz & Silva Talmor

You should leave the table where love is not served.

Not the way God intended relationships to be... A generation of self-absorbed people... Although generation z is breaking Free of that, by the grace of God-- this is not about the narcissism, it's about what St Augustine said how to overcome that which is that we have a god sized hole in our heart which can only be filled by him and our hearts are restless until they rest in him... And he will find us the true love 💕 of our lives.

Always use your personal brush 😅

Well whilst as they say "everyone faces different challenges under different circumstances." I'm as best as I can describe in Stage 4 right now, come on Stage 5, set me free.

Yesterday marked the end of my situationship, I found this girl, she was broken, but we were so similar, she was hurt the same way I was before. I healed myself and I would have done anything to see her heal too... I would have given her the world. First we were friends, then we spent more and more time together, we got closer and closer. Yet when I said to her that I would love her more than anybody in her life, she said she's not ready. So as a complete fool I waited and hoped she'd see me in the same way I've been seeing her since our first conversation.... And now, we are nothing more than 2 lonely strangers... connected by shared interests and memories together, but nothing more... Some people never get why these things can sometimes hurt more than a relationship, but its kind of like one, except never mutual. It hurt like hell, but if that what I have to do to live a normal life again, then I have to do it.