Thank you for listening!! It means alot to me. This was definitely my most vulnerable share, so i really appreciate your kindness. 💛

I'm sorry my video about making people uncomfortable made you uncomfortable

I totally relate to the shock! I'm so sorry you went through all that 💚

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Kathleen! Thank you so much for your kind words, this comment means so much to me. I really appreciate you taking the time to listen to my stories 💜

@@newviewadvice I feel honored to hear your stories, Amanda. It often feels that the world is drowning in the superficial. We need more of this; more showing up in our fullness - which includes all our wounds. I don't have to tell you, obviously, since you are doing that. And quite brilliantly. Sending a big virtual hug. 🥰

@@kathleendevanney4155 thank you for seeing me!! I agree that there often feels like there's so much superficial and noise these days, it warms my heart that my stories feel different to you. Sending a big virtual hug your way! 🤗

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Thank you for listening to my story!! And you can definitely face your fear too, it's often one day at a time, but you deserve to be free of that fear, I truly believe that. Someone said to me recently - humans are the most beautiful and the most terrifying. I liked this reminder because it reminds me that though some are scary, others (and I believe most) are truly so beautiful 💙

Also, thanks for the compliment on my background! It's actually the ocean, but the chair I bought is so low to the ground you can't tell 🤣

Yet Dems had no problem with electing Bill Clinton, who was accused of grape by 12 women. The Dem party can't survive without double standards, and censorship, and cancellation.

Thank you for your kind words!!! And thank you for encouraging me to embrace my empathy. It's taken a long time for me to recognize it as a gift, so I really appreciate this comment 🙏💛

@@autumndavidson8686 so sorry 😔

@autumndavidson8686 I am so sorry that your experience was not taken seriously, you deserved to be supported and heard. Betrayal in the aftermath of sexual violence is truly so painful, I am so sorry you experienced that. I am sending you so much love ❤

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@RobertMesa-fu9oy I am so sorry you were betrayed by so many people. I, too, experienced betrayal by both sexes, I'll be talking more about it in this Friday's reflection. Sending you so much love 💚

So grateful you found it helpful! Thank you so much for listening 🙏❤

I'm so grateful you found this helpful! Thanks for listening! 💜

Sending you so much love 💛

@ 🤗 Listened to your podcast episode 8 also, and did the writing letters exercise on my weekend solo healing retreat… My healing journey has now begun, your words on this meditation are powerful, and the fact that you don’t mince words let’s the listener fully hear and accept what has happened and release what’s boiling inside. That was the part that opened the floodgates, and boy did I need that…🙏🧡

@@GotStomaVlogostomy Thank you for listening and I’m grateful you found the episode, writing, exercise, and meditation helpful. I love that you did a solo healing retreat. What a way to show yourself self-love. Sending you so much love and blessings as you continue your healing journey. May it bring you all the peace and freedom you deserve. Cheering you on ✨💕🌸

@@newviewadvice Thank you so so much 💖🤗

Sending you so much love 💚

Thank you for watching and for your reflections on this story. It is so hard not to judge ourselves for those actions. Its taken me a really long time to forgive myself for who I became in the aftermath of the traumas I survived. I think its one of the complexities often not discussed when talking about trauma. I am sending you so much love as you continue to heal. You are not alone 💛

@@newviewadvicethank you! I feel that these actions (not yours specifically but in general. Mine too) are not only ways to cope, but just to survive something that shouldn’t ever have happened. They are not pretty nor healthy, but at the time, something that kept danger away. And it worked or at least that’s what we tell ourselves. And that’s something no one rly understands. Only to receive Judgement from others and from ourselves when really we were just trying to live with the horrors. Healing and realizing self destruction along the way is the worst.

@@BKinnov 100% agree with everything you said! These are situations no one should ever have to go through, and I've found that self-preservation is not always pretty, it very often looks illogical, but the actions taken are really just ways we find - or atleast that I found would keep me safe. Unfortunately people judge these actions, but they shouldn't be judged cause these are situations/horrors that no one is ever prepared for.

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Thank you for your kind words and for seeing me. Not an easy path, so I honor you for being on your own healing journey, it truly is courageous 💛🙏 That's a great question! I will definitely add it to my list and plan to answer it in a future episode ⭐

Sending you so much love ♥

Sending you so much love 🧡

Thanks for sharing your reflections. I'm so grateful you found this helpful and it helped you to forgive yourself. I was 5 and 14 and deeply understand how when we experience this trauma at different ages it creates complicated feelings within us. You are so strong and I am sending you so much love. Thank you for choosing to heal💜💗

@calliopelove thank you so much for your kind words and support!! It means more to me than you know!! Lots of love to you beautiful soul 💕💕

Sending you so much love angel 💛

Sending you lots of love 💞

Your welcome. Sending you so much love angel 💛💙❤

Thank you for sharing. I am so grateful you found it helpful. Sending you so much love 💛💛

Thank you! I'm grateful you found it informative 💛

I am grateful you found this helpful on your healing journey. Sending you so much love! 💕

Thanks so much for watching!! Good to know on the length, I'm hoping to offer some shorter videos in the future! 💚

I am so grateful you found it helpful. Sending you so much love ♥

I am so sorry to hear this. I think it's so unfortunate that so many people still hold this point of view that we should share once and get over it. Healing does not work that way, and it's so unfortunate that even professionals will contribute to the shame-centered narrative that rape and sexual assault it something to just "get over". I'm glad you were able to see how troubling this is and I hope you've found more compassionate people to share with. Sending you so much love 💜

I am so sorry for what you survived, you are right, you did not deserve what happened to you. I am glad this meditation was able to support you on your healing journey. Sending you so much love 💜

@newviewadvice: thank you🥰🥰🥰

Grateful you found it helpful 💛🙏

Thank you so much for these kind words. I am so grateful that this helped you to feel lighter and supported. You are so strong and I am sending you so much love 🤍✨🌹

Your welcome, sending you so much love 💛

Wow, thank you so much for your kind words. I am so grateful that you found this to be healing along your journey. Sending you so much love 💚

Thanks so much for listening and sharing your reflections. I am so sorry you experienced that. I think this is such an important topic, because I think unfortunately experiences like yours are all too common. I think it can be so hurtful when the people we go to for support are unsupportive and create more trauma. I hope that you have found more peace since this experience. Your anger is totally valid. Sending you so much love 💙

Your welcome! So glad you found it helpful ❤

Wow, thank you for sharing! I am so grateful that you found it helpful. That sounds like a really powerful experience. Sending you so much love!!

Hey Nicole! Thanks for listening, I’m grateful you found the episode to be helpful. I think that this would be a personal decision. I think for some people it would help to ask and for others it may be hard. A few questions to help you decide I think would be - 1. Do you think your parents could calmly talk to you about the experience? Or do they tend to be very emotional and you see the conversation would be triggering for them (or you)? 2. What is your intention in asking your parents direct questions? The more clear you are on your intention the easier the conversation will go. 3. Would you (and your inner child) feel safe discussing this with your parents? Sometimes if we have emotionally immature parent figures it can trigger the flight or flight response and then be unproductive. Hope this is helpful. Sending you so much love as you continue to heal 💛

@@newviewadvice wow, you are good lol. These are some great questions to ask myself. After listening to your healing the mother wound podcast I realized that I want to start there first. I realized that I while I forgave my mother, (my inner child blamed her for alot and was very angry) the anger and hurt is still there. So yea. I will start with healing my mother wound and go from there. Thank you for the response!

@@nicolesrainbow27 I'm glad you found the questions helpful and am so happy that you found the mother wound episode helpful. I know from personal experience that the mother wound can be really deep and is something so many of us continue to process and heal throughout our lives, so that sounds like a great starting point. Sending you lots of love 💚

Thank you for listening! I am so grateful that you found the episode to be helpful 💛💛

Your welcome, I'm grateful you found it helpful 💛

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Thanks for listening! 🤍 Sending you so much love as you continue to heal!

@mollycule thank you so much! Sending you lots of love 💛