Thanks for making this video

Any suggestions for my partner who I believe is being economically abused by his ex ..cohabiting, left the home 10 years ago and she moved a new partner in and had another child....Will not take over the mortgage and missed 8 payments last year and has now had the arrears added to the mortgage and she is saying he can't make her sell until the youngest is 18. His credit history has been destroyed. There's 70k equity in the property and she tell him that he will be making his children homeless. He's a financial prisoner. Also she works at a high st bank so has knowledge that he doesn't. We don't know what to do

So helpful, thank you.

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This was awesome, I'm surprised it doesn't have more views! Every person in a divorce situation should watch this

NEVER BELIEVE A NARC. NEVER. THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO NOT LIE.

Nobody talked about men. They lose a lot due the menopause.

Menopausing women do NOT like hugs and touches AT ALL! What are you talking about?

If menopausing woman wants the divorce then a man can nothing to do.

My ex-wife has refused to even say 'hello' to me in the street over the last sixteen years. Extreme not responding?

How do you expose the narc in family court?

Uncherished and uncared for. Tick. Loss of self esteem. Tick. My feelings were invalid and I was not allowed to express dissatisfaction. Tick. Unable to be anything but perfect or have faults. Tick. Things became such that nothing I did was ever enough and I felt like I was walking on eggshells. Tick. Excessive criticism and devaluation. Tick. One too many instances of the mask dropping and I was afraid for my well-being. Tick. That was the point that I ended a long term relationship. Then ensued the horror of family court, weaponised children and ongoing emotional and financial abuse and an instance of physical abuse. Even three years after final judgment and a CAO, the abuse continues and my young son is at risk. I’m the father in this scenario and the odds always feel stacked against me.

20 years and in divorce. Two agreements, non disclosure from him on items, about to go to court. They consider divorce something to ‘win’. Enough is enough. They are represented by ALL legal firms who seem to enjoy seeing them battle it out… more fees for them.

MGTOW

Ive been with my narc.for almost 4 years... i had a feeling within a week.. i think he showed his rue colors early bc i moved in bc i had no wjere else to go so he knew i couldnt leave

Their eyes turn black!!!! Man its exhausting.. my narc couldnt last longer than 3 days without fighting or raging out..

They are literally evil people

I always say give and take their love.from you

The entitlement, always want to be viewed as perfect, never validating the other persons emotions feelings the horrible rages, the fact they'll are so delirious, the breadcumbing, the gaslighting, it's not just the silent treatment or stonewalling, its the COLDNESS they bring to the atmosphere with the silent treatment, the victimized personality, can never hold their self accountable or say "I'm Sorry" my narc also basically will bully me into getting his way if I don't sleep with him. He literally walks around just absolutely so cold!!! Slamming the toilet seat, refrigerator, the cabinets until he gets his way. Being with a narc is a different level of LONELINESS..he only has cognitive empathy but he doesn't have emotional empathy.. he literally can't put his self in my shoes to understand what I'm feeling.. oh my God if you aren't praising them then whatever you say is criticizing them!! The way they project everything they do and feel onto you.. black and white thinking.. no grey area.. and they think everyone views the world as they do! Which is through evil lenses!!! Oh my goodness I felt I was being judged about everything felt I had to be perfect!!in was every good rnough.. they way they serve their community. They absolutely know what they're doing..

There is no help for Men. Im suffering horrendous domestic abuse/ violence & the police are allowing it to happen & its still happening. I really need help

This is such an important issue. My son is going through hell with a narcissistic x partner. My son is so spiritual, he is an empath, kind to everyone. Oh boy did she suck that energy out of him over 3 years. His gone from running 100 km marathons, to doing none, because she was so jealous of other women in his races! She was there supporting him at the start and finish of every race for the 1st year….. Then she started saying he spent more time running than he did with her! She started chiselling away at him. She had him so busy doing her house up, bringing up her 2 children feeding clothing and being a dam good step parent. The real dad is a alcoholic. Anyway he stopped running because she would rage and cause scenes in front of the children. He would say, it’s just easier to keep the peace. He put up with her abuse to keep the peace for 3 years, and in that process he has become a broken man. My son waited 34 years to have his child with the right woman, he always wanted a loving family that had a mum and dad for life. He thought he found that. But after 1 year….. her true self started to come out. As a mother, I’m horrified at what she has done to my son. I’ve had to find help for him, because he felt that no one understood what he was living with. She almost convinced him, he was the problem. If it wasn’t for evidence he has, videos txt etc, she would have painted my son the narcissistic one! If it wasn’t for these videos on narcissistic people, god only knows what situation my son would be in.

Found this a great podcast Wish I had this 12 months ago

Trump was very kind to all his ex-wives! Nothing you are describing!

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Promoting surrogacy is a sign of abuse

with a name like "sue" your starting point is to get a lawyer

So if the numbers are large. Why isn't there a change in law to protect people

I wouldn't say divorce and separation of lives is a game..probably wrong choice of words

Fair description but never a fair process if one person is the main earner in the family

I follow your videos regularly but there is some problem with your video can I share you? So your video is not increasing like, view, and subscribers.

Very decent

How many days does the court improve the consent order?

The removal of physical affection, including kissing and just touching in general with zero compassion or explanation is a driving force in breaking your relationship. Yes, the symptoms and effects are real - but your choice to become cold and a roommate is just that - a choice. The flippant comments and labeling of a husband as another child to care for is offensive and indicative of the gynocentric approach at dealing with maintaining a stable relationship during this difficult time. Treat your husband like crap because of how you "feel" right now and enjoy sitting with your cat alone after it finishes.

I will never have to fight for custody, he doesnot want to see our 4 kids, he's out with a new woman and has thrown us all under the bus, a true narcissist, I wish I knew sooner. The more videos the better to spread awareness of these cruel people, thank you ❤

Brilliant video, we are divorcing and he is putting me and our kids through hell, dirty, cheating liar, he's broken our hearts.

In case of ex-wives and ex-husbands - parent who has full custody, can control the other parent. In most cases women fail for divorce and primary custody goes to mom. She gets money from father as childsupport and alemony, children can be used by parent who has primary custody against parent who has visitations. If weekend parent does not do what the primary parent tells him to do. For "some unknown reson" children can not meet him as court order seas or not at all. Children get by moms with the most horrific abuse - parental alienation. This is crime mostly done by parent who has full custody against parent who has visitations, and is ignored by courts or child protective services. 8 year old child knows what he is talking about he knows all the reasons why he hates the other parent, and refuses to visit him (and mommy did not tell him anything, they all are his own thoughts). How can you coercively control a mom, who has a court order of full custody, father looses all his human rights, he becomes wage slave for his ex-wife, who can punish him by not leting see his childern.

Thank you

I imagine the premise is that you are a Christian and/or wish to celebrate it as per current white Western tradition. I feel that the hardest part of Xmas is the pressure at work and other people to celebrate Xmas this way. I couldn't care about Xmas but I've been bullied because I refused to participate in the secret santa in the office before. I also regularly experience weird labelling because it means nothing to me and it's just another day/month of the year for me. We don't have to all be Christian/Jewish/Muslim, traditional, or consumerist. I don't get how people are so narrow-minded. "I'm a bit of a feeder." 😆 Love it! Lucky those around you! ❤

Interesting how many MALES are trying to speak out to discredit the FACT that most abusers are male.

Good advice before starting the journey of divorce, thank you. JK

Thank you, the best advice i've come across

A narcissist wants to win at all costs. You are not a person you are a possession. 🤦🏼‍♀️🥰🥰

I have read Supriyas book Divorcing a Narcissist, even though I was not married in the relationship I was in. There has been no “happily ever after” as he ended our relationship in 2020 promised a lot of things and then went back on everything he offered post separation. I was threatened with being thrown out on the streets. While he also offered 50% of the value of the home I was living in. Or I could buy out 50% if I could do that in 4 months, a deadline he set and I could not negotiate. It is now three years post separation. I self-published my first book in 2022 which tells my story of how the relationship unfolded over 11 years. In June 2022 I appeared in a Spanish civil court Verbal Hearing for “precarious” eviction, because I had no legal status as a non married woman in a long term relationship. The legal advice was conflicting. There was zero support. I have proof of discrimination by the defence lawyer in the court proceedings. June 2022. I informed her that the court documents were not truthful, she did not submit any of my evidence to the court. Then wrote to the court the month before that there would be no interrogation of the plaintiff. 1. Neither the plaintiff or client understand Spanish. 2. Her client (me) had recognised free public legal assistance had no income and so the cost of a translator would fall to the court. Discrimination on the grounds of language and socioeconomic status in Spain. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnqyiHqpn711fLMsi=WoU1A0p4GFTlJuAq In this video I talk about two women in similar situation in the same region Murcia. How things worked out for one woman. And the different advice given to me which was to file a gender violence complaint. Which after four months, no investigation, no evidence submitted the case was dismissed.. Jan 2021 This video was submitted as evidence of slander by the former partner. The prosecution dropped slander. He alleges 6 crimes including defamation which has a maximum prison of 5 years his lawyer has included a list of the allegations and the maximum prison for each crime which added up to 17 years cumulative. #DARVO I did believe in Justice before any of this happened. In my book I do not mention the name of the former partner or the solicitors who gave advice and poured fuel on the conflict he instigated. I have also published under my pen name Loren Keeling so I was protecting him and also myself. Yet, I have still appeared as the accused in a Spanish criminal court September 2023. When do I get to start my new life??? He declared he was living happily ever after just six weeks after leaving me in Spain while he had already threatened me with illegal eviction and then going to court. He proposed to the woman he cheated with, posted the image on Facebook for all our friends to see. She was an ex girlfriend from 38 years ago. This YT channel has my short affirmation videos I recorded while going through the post separation trauma.

Thank you so much ethos talk. Informative and factual.

I wonder how many more men than women don't realize they are being coercively controlled, and underreport their experiences. I had no idea that what I was experiencing was called abuse (or coercive co trol, or any number of other phrases). Now that I know what to look for, I can spot it in the first meeting with most people. I didn't develop that expertise until about three years after I left (was illegally kicked out) during the final escalations (that I believe would have gotten much worse had I stayed or been lured back). I studied what had happened to me, and had unique opportunities that gave me verbiage closer to what was said in this video, and different from the DV world. I encourage researchers to rethink the alleged gender-based violence concept and look for missing empirical evidence (especially in ljght of the research integrity problem that includes a lack of replicability). HINT: I've been abused by people of my same and different gender identities.

I wonder how many more men than women don't realize they are being coercively controlled?

After I got molested by my FEMALE doctor earlier this year, it was so traumatic it actually dredged up all the abuse from my childhood.

6:22 It finally gets going at this time marker.

Could you add the resources she suggests? Personality tests and types of therapy?

This is a phenomenal video!! ✨🙏🏾✨ Thank you so much for sharing!!