Have you asked your colleague to add you on LinkedIn? You could also try going to the business page and then searching for that person in the search bar for people connected to the business page. If you still can't find your colleague: I'd figure out if I'm blocked by that person or if I have blocked him - ask the person and check your block list! Hope this helps!

Hey man, thank you for the kind words. I appreciate the feedback and I’m glad you found this valuable 🏆

No worries - I’m glad it provides you value!

I’m happy it’s of value to you! Happy prospecting 🔥

I’ll start off with saying that I have not studied a master’s program. I’ve heard great stuff about the strategic management master and seen many of those studying that in Lund have turned out to become Management consultants. Keep in mind, it is hard for me to answer on behalf of everyone else but I would advise you to prioritise networking with people in that field over relying on a specific master’s program. Many employers look at extra curricular activites in conjunction with your studies. I got the advice to start a business and do consulting on the side while studying. In my personal experience, working on any project is better than none, no matter what you want to do in the future. So gather experience from small gigs and work yourself up from there!

Great advice. Thank you! 🔥

how do I know if I am in the 4/5 or 1/5?

I think that most of them focus too much on what they want to achieve rather than what their buyer wants and then align themselves with their buyers interests

Absolutely! I recorded a quick short to answer your question. In the future, I can record a video where I deep dive into the subject! Thank you for the question 🔥

If you asked me I would say that "The Millionaire Fastlane" is the book that any aspiring entrepreneur or entrepreneur should read. The E-myth revisited is also golden

Do you recommend any podcasts about business?

I have yet to read that book! The only book I can recommend that I seldom hear anyone recommend is ”solution selling” by Michael Bosworth. It’s a gold mine

The Game by Alex Hormozi! 🏆

Great job! I’m glad you found my advice valuable and proud of you getting at it! 🏆

Thank you! I appreciate the support 🔥

Absolutely! That’s interesting that you’ve acceleerated every time you’ve changed friendship groups. It takes great courage to make such a decision and stick to it. If you think of it, you’re leaving something you already know for something unknown. The perspicacity and discipline you need to pull that off is impressive. Thank you for sharing! I appreciate your support🔥

Does it not depend on who you spend your time with? Besides, more the reason for you to carefully craft your own friendship group!

Hey, thank you for your question and comment! My take on finding like-minded people: Go to places where you like to be and do things you like to do. I met my friends through participating in activities and events. Some even through linkedin (no joke). Think of it like this, you will find people like you in the the places where you like to be. Host and attend events worth going to. I like to host events and tell people I know to bring their friends. In that way I access their friends and so on. Hope this helps! I actually have a video planned covering ”where to find people like you”. Stay tuned

@@MaxiGillberg Thank You!

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Thank you! Appreciate you watching and commenting

That’s a really great insight. Many times I make phone calls to family and friends. Just being present now, without headphones with music or talking on the phone can be meditative. Thanks for sharing! You reminded me to use my commute time to stay present more!

Social anxiety, as I see it, is when you fear being judged and feel embarrassed when in social situations. Meeting new people, or even the thought of it, can induce that feeling of anxiety. So practising on not caring too much based on the POV I brought up can help in certain situations!

​@@MaxiGillberg "when you fear being judged and feel embarrassed when in social situations" This statement covers up crucial information which is not observable on the surface. We can divide fear of being judged and feeling embarrassed into two default main groups of people: 1) truly socially anxious ones - the ones who were abused, who are victims and survivors of psychological abuse, bullying, mobbing and narcissistic abuse and CPTSD is hovering above social anxiety like UFO mothership. This means - logical tips about practice anything will bring on toxic shame - since personality of people growing up in abuse is intertwined with learned safety mechanisms taught and programmed during growing up in abuse ambient. Humanistic psychology helps here - accepting and validation, not nitpicking on panic symptoms. 2) mimicking social anxiety symptoms - this is done by narcissists who are abusing other people and create social anxiety in their targets. Narcissists will mimic social anxiety in order to gain sympathy and control and manipulate other people. Also, since they do not have any social anxiety at all - they will be very loud and they will become spokesmen of social anxiety - where CBT was based on such narcissists to compose fake and false therapy for social anxiety - which is based on social anxiety being hallucination, delusion which can be "cured" with exposure. Narcissism is hallucination and delusion. Social anxiety is normal after-effect of real abuse, bullying and mobbing by narcissists. This means - any advice about nitpicking, shaming, trying to cover up, trying to become confident - will produce more social anxiety in already present social anxiety. Person with social anxiety - panic symptoms that they report, apparent lack of confidence and self esteem - is not character flaw as CBT perceive it due to faulty research in 1990s - instead - panic and silence and self censorship and avoidance and fear in social situation - is trauma response. It is totally normal reaction to abnormal people, abnormal situations, abnormal events. We need to heal trauma, triggers and flashbacks - not the person's core identity. Any "advice" how to nitpick someone's character and talking and attachment with other people will spiral up the toxic shame already present inside due to exposure to long term narcissistic abuse which caused social anxiety in the first place. Trauma cannot be healed by wearing fake mask or making plastic surgery on our persona. "practising on not caring too much " Sure, this is system called lobotomy. The secret of happy and confident people is that they are dumb. They have low IQ and they have low emotional IQ, low empathy and doesn't educate themselves - they kept their brain occupied by food, orgy, drugs and drama as the only preoccupation in the life. Their brain is not wired to think nor ponder more about the world - and they have no social anxiety at all - since they clipped the nuts of their brain and castrated their intellect. We can temporally become careless and limit our thoughts - which is the basic description of CBT - but in real life this will not work. First, we are all bombarded by making various decisions in life - all the time. This means, we will need brain to think the best solution - especially if we are normal and healthy and we do not want other people to be hurt by our wrong actions and decisions. Second, life will always put us on test. As soon as we have perfected certain area in life - we will be presented with new unknown and mysterious situations to ponder about and find solutions. We can decide to give up progress and pretend that we are not interested in finding new ideas and new solutions (aka using your brain) - but the life itself will propel us to think and to use our brain. Self lobotomy will work only in emergency situations such as suicidal idealizations. The urge to not care too much - if you think about it deeply is not good advice. Because urge to be perfect, to not be bothered by pain and uncomfortable emotions - is actually being coward, and to fawn to toxic and dangerous people. This idea that we must be perfect and strong is superiority complex - where superiority complex is based on inferiority complex. This means, if we put on narcissistic mask of not caring and being strong - we are actually trying to impress people whom we are afraid. Deep down we think we are weak, inept and that we need to depend on other people's approval to feel good about ourselves. Since we deep down do not believe we are capable, good and deeply deserving to exist - we will cover this toxic shame by pretending that we do not care about anything nor anyone. This is mental illness. This is why narcissism is such difficult illness to cure and tackle - since it camouflage itself like a virus. Why we would not be weak? Why we would not be allowed to make mistakes? Why we would not be allowed to be embarrassed? If we have intrinsic locus of control - the only opinion which will matter will be our common sense, our ingrained ability to differentiate what is good and wrong - we won't depend on volatility of other people who appear around us at given time. If you base your urge not to be embarrassed on other people's opinion - this is called external reference locus of control and this is product of internalized toxic shame. IT is deep seated belief that we are unworthy and inept and that other people are judges of our character and that we must depend on other people to define for us what is embarrassing, acceptable, norm, conformism, groupthink and herd mentality to fawn over to. Your idea that we put energy, focus into not caring about what other people think - is paradoxically still reaction - it is still caring what other people think even though we try to camouflage it and trick our brain that we do not care. We do. We still do care, since we put survival mechanism in activation - it is the same as Trump building a wall against external threat and making fake image of making ourselves great again. That is narcissism, That is mental illness. From our point of view - it will appear as we are making ourselves confident - but in reality we are making ourselves extremely sensitive and depended on other people to make us feel good and safe in the world. That is why CBT is not working and it is making social anxiety worse - it is based on narcissism, fascism, mental illness. People are not born to be isolated. We need other people - interdependence is the main goal for humans. The trick is to recognize toxic people and cut them off - not to avoid and cut off all people in the world. "We all need each other. This type of interdependence is the greatest challenge to the maturity of individual and group functioning." KURT LEWIN (1890-1947) DK THE PSYCHOLOGY BOOK This phenomena that higher IQ is connected with unhappiness is something that Twin discovered 100 years ago, he said: Sanity and happiness are an impossible combination. MARK TWAIN, The Mysterious Stranger Can you imagine an elephant being interested in spider, carrying whether he is happy or isn't or whether he is wealthy or poor or whether his sweetheart returns his love or not. Or whether he is looked up to in society, or not. The Mysterious Stranger Mark Twain No sane man can be happy, for to him life is real and he sees what a fearful thing it is. Only the mad can be happy, and not many of those. The Mysterious Stranger (1916), Mark Twain In most cases the man's life is about equally divided between happiness and unhappiness. When this is not the case the unhappiness predominates-always. The Mysterious Stranger by Mark Twain --- Gabor Maté - 'Much of what we call personality is not a fixed set of traits, only coping mechanisms a person acquired in childhood.' Self-regulation, writes Ross Buck, “involves in part the attainment of emotional competence, which is defined as the ability to deal in an appropriate and satisfactory way with one’s own feelings and desires.” Dr. Gabor Maté, "When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress" She knows if she wants to stay alive she needs to stay authentic. It's a commitment. Lost connection to your essence, to your authentic self. That is much more important than whether your mother or father loved you or not. YT Gabor Maté We have this idea that what is normal is also healthy and natural. In this culture the norm is neither healthy nor it is natural. In fact, a norm is making us sick. YT Gabor Matè Tom Bilyeu Healthy anger is there to protect our boundaries, somebody invade our space, say Stay out, that is role of healthy anger. If you repress this healthy anger people would trespass me all over me. Keeps out dangerous. YT Gabor Matè Tom Bilyeu Illness is outcome of that adaptation. Core directive to become pathological is we have to connect by maintaining authenticity, in touch with gut feeling and be true to them. If you grew up in home where honest emotions were not accepted. YT Gabor Matè Escape attempt from pain creates more pain. We get addicted to it. Dr. Gabor Maté "I have to be strong" The core belief in having to be strong enough, characteristic of many people who develop chronic illness, is a defense. When the Body Says No - The Cost of Hidden Stress Book by Gabor Maté Many of us live, if not alone, then in emotionally inadequate relationships that do not recognize or honour our deepest needs. Isolation and stress affect many who may believe their lives are quite satisfactory. "When the Body Says No", Dr. Gabor Maté For anger to be deployed appropriately, the organism has to distinguish between threat and non-threat. If I don’t know where my own boundaries begin and end, I cannot know when something potentially dangerous is intruding on them. "When the Body Says No", Dr. Gabor Maté

i know why :)

Dang it 😂😂😂😂

Maybe they enjoy living there but there is one major problem of raining over there!!!!! 😂😂

Lund is basically made for students. All activities are centered around university and the student life. There are so many fun things you can do while staying in Lund as a student. So living there a student is absolutely great!

@@MaxiGillberg how many students lives in Lund ?

@@bimotah4717 Around 44 000 are enrolled in Lund University. I do not know the exact number, but I would not be surprised if around 15 000 of them live within Lunds municipality. While doing my research, in order to answer your question, I stumbled upon a blog post from the company that is the largest provider of student housing in Lund (AF-Bostäder). In that blog post, AF-Bostäder claim that there are around 10 000 dedicated student housings. This does not include normal apartments nor houses that might house students. I hope this helped answer your question.

@@MaxiGillberg yes of course thank u, what did u studied?

Hi, thanks for the question. Lund is a very international University. So, I believe you will still have a positive experience without any knowledge of Swedish or even Sweden. All of us Swedes speak fluent english. I hope you have a great stay here! :)

You're welcome! I'm happy to hear that

hello fellow indian i a m indian as well only we know about lund

Hi Miguel, nice that you liked my room :) I live in the newly renovated parts of Lunds Nation called NH (New house, or in swedish = Nya huset). Google up Lunds nation and you'll see where it is. Hope this helps :)

Happy to help :D <3 What did you find most helpful? :)

I had no idea about the Hindi meaning of Lund :D Do you have any picture of the uttrakhand empire war mark? I could not find it on google :)

Not completely copy because animal name is different in lung University animal is lion and in Kingdom mark animal is tiger .

Are you dumb?

@@Skordaki Uttarakhand state was formed in 2000 AD. So, yeah this guy doesn't know what he is talking about.

@@MaxiGillberg actually it doesn't simply means penis but it is an auckward word in hindi which mean same as di©k in english🤣 I think KZbin algorithm also know this and recommended this to me randomely

Hahah! That's one of the funniest things I've heard 😂

Hi Ismayana. Thank you for your support om my videos, much appreciated! For the time being I don't have time to make many new videos but I could definitely consider it in the summer! Cheers

Jimmy M No problems man, glad it helped! Which Nation to join depends on your personal preference! Can't say which one you should choose, you have to research a little bit for yourself. What I did is that I went to the different nations and spoke to those working there. Too sort of feel the atmosphere of the nations. Which helped me alot. Join the student union that is connected to your course/program! Hope this helps!

Hey Jimmy and thank you for your comment! I have been thinking of making a video about that! Will try too make one including tips for new students going to LU soon!

Hype Maxi I can’t wait! I might be a student there this year. So that would be perfect for me right now. I’m def subscribing. Please try to upload it as soon as you can.

@Jimmy M A vid is coming up before the end of the week!

@@Jimijmay I forgot to add in the link to the video. But here it is! kzbin.info/www/bejne/mWrVdqtngpyhptU

En riktigt Tight bajja😍

HAHAHA WADDUP

Tackar 😂