Pro tip: physical money can't be tracked and is the easiest to hide. 😎

again in the video, why does it have to be mom that has the custody? Why can’t mom be the breadwinner and dad stay at home like I did for over 15 years

why is it that you continue to say he and not she ?????????

Being a virgin >>>>>>>>>>> having a wife

Is it possible to file for a divoce without a lawyer? Married 8 yrs. No kids, no property, no joint credit cards together. We have our own separate banking accounts and one joint account to pay the rent. There is no extra savings in that account. He does owe me $3,400 half the balance of the total tax fee of $6,800 i paid from my personal account to avoid interest charges from tax year 2022 so we can file separately. He claimed the balance would go away if we didn't acknowledge it. So he had no intentions of paying it! This will be the 1st year we will be filing separately. Now that the balance is paid.

What happens if we both have our own separate accounts and one joint account just to pay the rent and household maintenance if needed. The joint account doesn't have any savings in it.

I was a stay at home mom who just spent close $20 of my inheritance in lawyers fee which has been going on for exactly 2 yrs yesterday and my lawyer is just dilly dallying. Not only just the delay I have been told by my counselor that my to be ex can’t afford to give me financial support what I need as bare minimum and here I am thinking that my lawyer will have my best interest 😡Any suggestions I am all ears

I was very naive, he divorced me one month before the 10 year mark so I can’t access widows benefits. I’m on permanent disability. Narcissist. Judge found he had no grounds for the divorce but gave it to him to get him away from me.

Marriage is terrible you go get married and you don't need any paperwork, but for a divorce they dig into your life..

False allegations under VAWA and CAPTA...

My wife recently obtained her visa, brought her family to the country and now wants a divorce, seeking to take our two children with her. I’m concerned because I believe her actions may be part of a plan to secure her status here and then leave me while taking the kids. She has a history of infidelity, narcissistic behavior and pathological lying, which worries me about her ability to care for our children. I want to understand my legal options for protecting my rights while she’s wanting to coparent, (still living in the house) and ensuring the best interests of our children. I also have some evidence to support my concerns. I would appreciate your guidance on how to proceed.

my youngest is 24 and he has the kids messaging me because after trying to leave five times I finally got away.

Omg 😮 he has been doing this for years. OMG he is doing this as well after I went through severe surgeries and lost my good job he depleted my 401 K and he has the kids wanting me to just settle and not go after the equity in the home. He has told them that they will lose the house if I do and they do not want me to go through am attorney

He has accounts that I have no clue about them

Background music is too loud sir, great video tho 👌

Good

Can a spouse manipulate you to do these dirty deeds yourself? Or they’re doing them but flip it to where they pin it on you?

I hate my wife

Thank You very much. Very useful information.

And the children are with the father

What if there aren’t any assets involved and one party moved out of the country ?

This Video is very unrealistic at least in Illinois. NOT CHICAGO, I am in Midwestern Illinois! And it’s HARD!

Ok I’m Illinois this is not TRUE! There is no help, if you are in a abusive situation it doesn’t matter at least not in Madison County Illinois calling the police will only get your ass beat worse soon as they leave! 😢I had a plan in place and still halfway do my problem is he found the hidden money I had saved for 2 years, I have no idea how to even start saving money again I need help!!! No I am not in Chicago I live in Midwest Illinois Madison County. Now I am sure he will see this video and again be worse for me! 😢😢

Ok I’m Illinois this is not TRUE! There is no help, if you are in a abusive situation it doesn’t matter at least not in Madison County Illinois calling the police will only get your ass beat worse soon as they leave! 😢I had a plan in place and still halfway do my problem is he found the hidden money I had saved for 2 years, I have no idea how to even start saving money again I need help!!! No I am not in Chicago I live in Midwest Illinois Madison County. Now I am sure he will see this video and again be worse for me! 😢😢

Sounds like he likes to represent wives who look to fleece husbands. The only "dirty" tricks he mentions are ones most likely tried by men looking to protect some assets from a woman who, in all likelihood, never contributed financially to the marital assets.

Some have always been this way and would use these tactic on anyone no matter the relationship. Narcissists. The bread and butter of family court

2:31 my ex had to cash out stock soon after he filed divorce papers because Oracle bought cerner corp. and so we paid taxes on it the year after. He has had that money that legally is mine and is in the documentation that $100k of the $200k stock is Mine. And it’s not retirement. He refuses to give it to me for some odd controlling reason. We have been to court regarding that and the judge let me have $25k of It. It does not affect anything to do with him and it only keeps me down for him to hold it. I request a thousand here or there so I can live and it’s running out. I have to prove to him or give him a. Reason why. I never ask him to give me more of his paycheck. And then he sent me a message the other day he has to pay his attorney each time or he is charged by his attorney when I ask for a thousand or so. And he almost made me feel sorry for him but I don’t get any reason why I don’t get to have the rest of my stock when it is clearly mine and he can remove that charge against himself if he’d give it to me. He knows my plan is to use some of it to go back to school so I can have a sort of decent career to support myself and my daughter. He is paid $13k a month and I get paid $1,300 a month with rental homes. I was a stay at home wife and mom for almost 23 years of marriage. He is blaming me saying I am drawing the divorce out when he has the control of the wording and my attorney saw something concerning regarding the retirement qdro and we had been waiting on the ex and his attorney to answer back whether or not they were going to change the wording. And now I just learned on another video that qdro is better to be done or initiated by the non employed spouse and to be done before divorce is finalized. My divorce paperwork says it’s to be done within six months of the divorce being finalized. And since the ex and his attorney said I was drawing this out that I now have to pay the full amount to the qdro attorney that they had said was their preferred person to do it. My attorney now is new and was not present during the mediation agreement. My old attorney did not catch it I guess or he just trusted the process of the other lawyer. I think he said he knew of the guy mentioned for the qdro and he was okay with him. It’s all so confusing and I am being blamed for something I didn’t do as I was just waiting for a month for them to remove the wording to my attorneys liking. I wasn’t the one who had issue with it. My attorney said there is no way he was going to sign it because he said It Would be malpractice. Why would he delay being paid by me as he knew I was ready to Sign and then he saw that in the papers. He. Had missed it the first time he looked. I only wanted one thing changed since the mediation agreement and it took four months for them to finally change it. It was that in order for me to have and keep fifty fifty visitation with our daughter I had to show proof weekly of my mental therapy visits. Not for payment reimbursement but visits with my daughter. And I have no history of mental problems or addictions or anything. He falsely accused me of being diagnosed with BPD which was a complete lie. He even had me scared I had it. Because I was and am in therapy. But he put that in there after the Mediation. I agreed in mediation I would stay in therapy but there was no stipulation regarding visits from it. I said yes in good faith. Then it took them four months to agree to remove it because it wasn’t in mediation. And they only changed it because they knew we were supposed to go before the judge that day for that reason. And so we didn’t go to court that day because the removed it. If we were drawing it out why would my ex’s attorney say no they won’t change it and better yet the ex wife has to pay for all of it to be done because she’s drawing it out. How is this possible? It makes no sense. I sent my ex a chill calm message through our family wizard just saying my position and that I am not mad. I just am confused and hope this can be resolved soon. And his reply was to badmouth my attorney and then suggested I trust only my ex and his attorney to get this resolved like that day. He didn’t want Me to show my attorney that message and he wanted me to Agree to a new term than on the divorce papers. And I just don’t understand how he can pounce on me like that. I said I can’t talk to him About it and he said “yeah because you just turn and twist it to your agenda to better suit you “ okay. I just want to live my life and he is already living his. And has been living his best life. He has his career. I’d like to start mine and if he cared enough about our daughter he would want that for her mom to have a good career to help our Daughter. Nope. Gotta keep Me down.

I never really believe in hackin until my long distance relationship was about to crumble, a friend at work introduce me to Almod cyber Genius online, who gain me access remotely into my partner's phone and i was able to realize he was just using me...

I been there with my husband he. Give his money to his family member so I want have nothing

🤬I hate when people try to come for your assests knowing good and well they cant get PRE-MARITAL uncomingled assets at all!! If you don't know, check the law for Georgia. It's clear as day. STOP trying to take assets that aren't YOURS. Thats why people are hiding their money. From GREEDY STBX's who think they are entitled and clearly married for money.

You can't distribute assets that are PRE-MARITAL. You left that out for #1. It doesn't matter if the spouse moves their own pre-marital money. The other spouse isn't entitled to it ANYWAY!!! Might want to include that part for the GREEDY people trying to take assets that aren't theirs.

How can you get help??

Im in Ontario Cabada

A colleague at work introduced me to this genius private investigator almods cyber who helped me reveal what my spouse have been up to on his phone for the past 7 months, i found out his been sharing nude pics with a female colleague at work and they have been hanging out lately, always grateful to the genius for saving me from the deceits and lies..

I don't care about his assets I just want a divorce fuck him how do I do this?😊😊😊😊

Wow marriage is supposed to be beautiful but it's sad that two people that once was in love will become enemies after a while

Thank you for this video!

My spouse took money from my pre marriage home that I placed in a Joint account for purchase of our home into his personal account. As it’s more than 7 yrs they tell me the credit union can’t trace it and my lawyer tells me it’s fruitless to try to trace it, is it true ???

What happens if yr joint estate should be shared yr husband refuse married incomunity of property n divorce il

My husband has been dating his Paramore for almost a year. They are now engaged, and we are still not divorced.

Fair and equitable means you gonna get screwed hard

You are part of the problem. You need to look in the mirror. Divorce for you is coming

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

I’m filing a divorce because I petioned a woman from the phlippines I feel she used me we got married November 9th. Of last year we live in central California I bought my house way before we got married married is it possible she’ll get my house?

I've been married to my Wife for 20yrs, she has always made & controlled the money, ive been a stay at home father for the last 5yrs, i just started to work again, i dont make much money at all, however im a devoted and loyal husband amd father, i take care of all the maintenance and lawn care. My wife makes a lot of money as a Financial Advisor, Wealth Manager, & Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Never in a million years would i have ever thought that my wife would file for divorce. She handed me a settlement draft to sign. So i told her that im not signing anything until you print out for me our investments retirement all assets, and she flipped out! Do i have a right to review all our assets?

I'm never getting married

I dont rly think if a dad wants 50/50 custody during a divorce, but he didn't spend as much time with them as the wife did during the marriage that its a dirty trick. Maybe he wanted to be home.with them too but was forced to go work and provide for everyone, and now that she'll be providing 50/50 financially, at least that's how it should be, he'll get to spend more time with them.

I am a California woman who was blindsided by divorce after 20 years of marriage. He served me mid-December. I am still in shock but managed to maintain my silence for our teenage girls. I didn’t want to ruin their Christmas. Today I meet with an attorney to find out where I stand.

Great video.

Thank you