They have the vocabulary of an AM radio sport talkshow host …. trying (and failing) to dissect the nuances of LDS and marriage
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Darn it I didn't know there was a vocab test😂
@jessicaloveridge275915 сағат бұрын
Honestly what you are experiencing with moving seems less a boomer thing and more a Utah be the church everywhere else thing.
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Definitely could be just a Utah / highly dense member location issue when it comes to renters and church callings etc. When it comes to being treated differently because you're renting in a neighborhood vs. buying that seems pretty universal
@hannahholm889019 сағат бұрын
11:52 one of my favorite ways of teaching my children about the world is through good books. They can experience conflict, good and evil and everything in between, different personalities, overcoming opposition, etc in a way that I can still have some control (I'm careful about which books we have in our house) but that also allows them to step outside of the hugs and kisses, warm pancakes and fuzzy bunny comfort that I love to provide for them in our home. Books open their eyes to the world and humanity in a really beautiful way from a very early age and allow me to shelter them from things far too mature for their tender hearts, but to also teach them age-appropriate lessons about life.
@adeer-4421 сағат бұрын
I had wild things happen in Arizona, you should have me on the show.
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Let's do it - forms.clickup.com/9011824090/f/8cjb1eu-891/TATLKUH589YAWPYYNN
@Str8GasGeneticsКүн бұрын
Cults gonna cult.
@tannerholm209918 сағат бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@bobicusrexКүн бұрын
Hyper sheltering makes it easier for the parents to abuse their kids
@impracticaltacticalofficalКүн бұрын
Good to hear that there is content on the lighter side of membership. Just going to throw this out there, if you ever need another perspective of being a “Mormon” I would love to pitch in.
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
We'd love to have you on - forms.clickup.com/9011824090/f/8cjb1eu-891/TATLKUH589YAWPYYNN
@SemisiBenLamanКүн бұрын
Hypersheltering only happens with the “White/American members” of the church.
@patriciafinn57172 күн бұрын
Ķnowing the church has 250 billoon is such a denial of the Saviour teachings..its a corporation greed fest... not all marriges are gifts.. live in the real world..😢😢😢
@rockstar1011Күн бұрын
Oh my God you are so right, and they are spending that money on hundreds and hundreds of new temples. Totally appalling! We all know they could do that stuff in a warehouse with some curtains!
@SaltySaintStoriesКүн бұрын
Wasn't it the Savior that taught the parable of the talents? The Church's humanitarian efforts have provided clean water to millions of people, supported refugees, and offered job training and education through self-reliance initiatives, lifting people and families out of poverty and destitution. There are countless people-families who received disaster relief, individuals fed through food donations, or students educated through Church-sponsored schools-who are grateful the Church had the resources to help them in their time of need.
@jessicaloveridge27592 күн бұрын
What she misses about those Disney stories is all those villains were trying to cheat a way to eternal life. They are like the people who built the Tower of Babel while those who follow the right path achieve “happily ever after”. Basically she doesn’t understand the Christian literary themes in fairytales.
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Nailed it 💯
@jessicaloveridge27592 күн бұрын
I grew up with convert parents in Connecticut and we always prayed over our meals no matter where we were. Now I live in Utah and I find it strange that here were there are so many LDS people I hardly ever see anyone pray. Now I get the whole not praying to be seen thing. But we never prayed to be seen, we prayed because God should always come first and we shouldn’t be ashamed of that. I really don’t get this desire to escape your religion. It’s such a huge part of me, especially when I see the very tangible difference it has made in my family.
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Let's normalize praying while eating out, personally a big fan 👍
@jessicaloveridge27592 күн бұрын
This woman is the textbook example of someone whose life is basically good and so has to find something to complain about. “Oh no I was encouraged to have a healthy and happy marriage!”
@SaltySaintStories2 күн бұрын
Some people love making a living from majoring in the minors 💯
@SarahCarey-lf2yx3 күн бұрын
🎉 oh my gosh, I've finally found my people!
@tannerholm209918 сағат бұрын
Wooo!
@SarahCarey-lf2yx3 күн бұрын
Great discussion. As a mom, I sometimes feel guilt and shame for not "sheltering" to the same degree as other moms/families of our faith. I often feel like the odd ball because I choose to nuture a "safe space", which seems to be a taboo, as if I'm inviting my children to make loads of bad decisions, horrible mistakes, and setting them up to fail. However, I teach them to use their agency to make the best decision they can based on what they know and have been taught about the gospel of Jesus Christ. I try to teach them to use their agency to chose Christ and that we weren't blessed with agency because God was inviting His children to sin or make choices that take us further and further away from the Savior. He gave us the gift of agency so that we could chose Christ for ourselves. I ask them to choose Jesus, because the reality is that they will grow up and want to start life. They will have to know for themselves how to choose their Savior over the natural man and the ways of the world inorder to spiritually survive. The foundation I get to help them nuture is a deep love for Jesus Christ and a strong desire to following Him in all things.
@SaltySaintStories3 күн бұрын
Well said 👏 that's a great way to model the love and trust our Heavenly Father has for us 💯
@danjohnson85563 күн бұрын
I think shelter, like autonomy, should be an inverted triangle…growing as they grow older. Hopefully their testimony grows with their autonomy.
@SaltySaintStories3 күн бұрын
Totally agree
@danjohnson85563 күн бұрын
Read “The Coddling of the American Mind”.
@SaltySaintStories3 күн бұрын
That's a great read 💯
@timjones7473 күн бұрын
I know very many families who have raised kids to adulthood in the church of Jesus Christ. As i scan my mind and ponder the people who were the most strict and sheltering to the most lenient, I see that the families who sheltered but loved their kids.(putting the kids 1st) have the MOST self sufficient adult kids now. Sterling scholars, CEOs, Ivy League, and church leadership. Of course, the people i enjoy being around were raised like me. In a loving but free range home. No hard, fast rules. We were taught to live the gospel but were seldom punished for straying. My siblings: 8 of us and 5 served missions. 4 married in temple. 3 diveorced. 6 college degrees 2 advanced degrees. 4 actively participate in the Church of Jesus Christ. A family that was the most strict i have ever met had 7 kids. 6 served missions, all are married in the temple. All attended college. All have had 5 or more kids, and they are very active in the church. They all have high paying jobs or their spouse does. They are not very fun to be around though.
@tannerholm209918 сағат бұрын
It's such a fine tightrope to walk - I'm seen super strict families grow and the children become completely disconnected from the church. I feel like very strict / high discipline environments can work very well with the right levels of compassion and understanding. If your kids don't know why they are doing what they are doing, they won't do it very long after they leave the house.
@nwkitesurfer4 күн бұрын
This girl is grooming women to be childless cat ladies
@SaltySaintStories3 күн бұрын
Haha
@stephaniewilliamson46114 күн бұрын
Commenting for the algorithm
@SaltySaintStories4 күн бұрын
Lol
@WARDRADIO4 күн бұрын
lol
@aethefledladyofmercia95724 күн бұрын
I think there's an additional distinction we can make, especially when it comes to things like the word of wisdom, that there are some commandments that have clear benefits for our well-being, and there are some commandments that we follow simply because the God who created us and saved us asked us to. The reasons to not do recreational drugs are obvious whether you believe or not, but it's harder to find a similar justification for not drinking coffee. We don't drink coffee because The Lord has asked us, as members of the church, not to. I think that helps prevent judgment and, hopefully, keeps wayward kids from falling too far off the deep end if they do start wandering away.
@tannerholm20994 күн бұрын
I very much agree - you should teach the kids that the primary reason we follow the word of wisdom is because the Lord asked us to. If you stake your foundation of belief in the Word of Wisdom solely in what we understand the health benefits to be (or inversely use fear of what could happen if you don't follow the WOW), what happens to the kids if they ever try coffee for the first time and realize the world didn't end? Better to make it a conversation that helps kids feel comfortable in their faith rather than turn it into a weird discussion about which latest study shows whether or not you should drink it.
@aBrewster295 күн бұрын
11:21 The face card is example is a very good one. The problem is that you, as an enlightened person who knows face cards possess no intrinsic evil and that they are not banned by the Church, you are expecting the family who views face cards as evil to have self-awareness of that being a family-specific belief, when the reality of the situation is that they either received that teaching from Church or believe they did. Folk doctrine gets mixed up with official doctrine all the time, and it typically comes from leaders promoting their own opinions in a church where leaders do see certain things differently. It’s a very normal, human occurrence but I wish we could develop the organizational tools to deal with it better in the moment. That becomes complicated on an issue like polygamy where some members believe in it and some don’t, and both have good, sincerely held reasons for that. For the many who believe polygamy was a prophetic error, the new teaching for children is concerning because it steamrolls conscience. Especially in the context of this year’s and next’s CFM schedule, this means we’re going to go from teaching kids to rely on their conscience for spiritual discernment in applying Moroni’s promise, just to have them switch it off months later for D&C 132. Kids are smart, and they will pick up on the dissonance, even if they can’t articulate it. While I am glad to see the Church is being more transparent with history, I am discouraged that it is doing so in a manner that introduces the clash between conscience and loyalty to the leaders at such a young age.
@SaltySaintStories4 күн бұрын
I love the term 'folk doctrine', I don't want to lay blame on the church. In the age of home-centered church, as I understand it, the shoulders of parents have to get stronger in order to help their children navigate those waters.
@aBrewster294 күн бұрын
@ I wouldn’t call it “blaming the church.” There’s a negative connotation in that verbiage that I don’t believe reflects the reality of the situation. The simple, historical fact of the matter is that Church leaders have not agreed 100% on everything. We can note that without asserting any bad intent. We can also observe without assigning blame how individual members latch onto those differences by virtue of what is or isn’t presented to them and what resonates. I don’t think any of that is inherently problematic-to the contrary I think the diversity of thought keeps the full bag of strengths on the table, which is a good thing. Where I see this becoming problematic is where people try to shut others down in the pursuit of doctrinal purity. Members feel good about the truth of their personal experience and lack awareness for other equally valid points of view and unfortunately see those differences as heretical, and they undertake to shut them down. It’s like Elder Uchtdorf sharing the Indian parable of the blind men and the elephant. Each man characterizes the overall animal based on his limited experience with one body part, thereby missing out on the completeness. We can, and need to get better at allowing the gospel tent to be as wide as the scriptures actually say it should be.
@SaltySaintStories4 күн бұрын
@@aBrewster29 Thanks for clarifying!
@aBrewster294 күн бұрын
@ something else I would be interested to hear you guys’ thoughts on: you mentioned the responsibility of the parents in home centered church. I completely agree, but that doesn’t solve the problem I described where certain members, usually orthodox in my experience, incorporate folk doctrine or otherwise interpret and apply doctrine through a narrow lens, and mistakenly believe their views to have universal applicability. In my household, where we’ve intentionally sought to root out cultural ideas that don’t meet the doctrinal standards described by Elders Christoffersen and Anderson, home-centered church has created a contrast for my kids where the ward is dominated by narrow-minded views, and as a result, my kids don’t find spiritual uplift in attending church. The point is, we’re seeing some significant growing pains in the “home-centered, church-supported” approach in that my kids aren’t finding support at church outside alignment with the narrow, McConkie-an views that perpetuate in our ward from outspoken individuals, whose views are welcomed by the culture. Literally, when the new FSY pamphlet came out, with the express purpose of being more principles based, we had leadership who told the girls that just because certain things are no longer spelled out doesn’t mean they’ve gone away-the past pamphlet still applies. What would you suggest is a pragmatic way for orthodox members to remediate their own blind spots, by which they perpetuate false traditions like condemning face cards?
@unholywarrior90075 күн бұрын
I was so shelter growing up i had no idea what do for a living growing up . I might as well have been in prison . No friends no pg no geens no shorts no caffeine. Now i did grow up to be the most healthy man to ever live fastest man on the planet but it is hard to pick a career when you only seen a teacher and i guess tv police or fireman. When i was helping out as a scout leader i would suggest activities like taking the young men down to college and show them how and where to sing up how to do the testing . I would suggest lets go down to the fire department since we have a fireman in the ward . Or lets go down to the eye dc place for a tour. But the leaders all thought it was a bad idea .
@RLDRemembrance5 күн бұрын
I love the Church and I am an active member, and I have a huge objection with everything as it relates to the cultural approach to marriage. 1. It is very distracting to substantive spiritual doctrine and Christ himself. 2. It's only been a handful of times, but the level of thirst from some people towards missionaries, etc. Is wildly distracting and inappropriate. 3. I can see how people would say "grooming for marriage" because of the ridiculously sexual subtext the pressure for marriage takes on. It's as if every one of the age to marry becomes a piece of meat who can make kids and not a child of God. Sometimes I even feel judged by parents of single people who I have never even talked to. I love the Church, but I feel like the cultural pressure for marriage is such a poison pill from those who wear that priority all over their essence. The second prong is that the priority to marry is so high, that all prudence about a partner goes out the window, and really toxic temple marriages and divorces have happened just in my ward alone. I think the subject of peoples personal marriages should be vacated by all religions at large, because it is factually weird for random adults to be think about if or whom you're having sex with, it just is, and has absolutely nothing to do with Christ at all. The alternative is to love purely, focus on personal exaltation and in so the right person may manifest rather than externalizing the pressure and you, yourself preoccupy with who they will be having sex with. What's bad about "marriage" you a third party making it about externalities.
@squirrelicis5 күн бұрын
Yes, and also no. The problem is people are trying to find someone rather than letting the Lord do His work. As for the rest, I respectfully disagree. Why do you think the Lord told Adam and Eve to go forth and multiply? These things are because of the exact problem we're seeing in Western civilization: a massive uptick in political divisiveness designed to be a means to split apart family members. Now... who would sow the seeds of discord to tear families apart? Families are not only ordained by God, but they're a Commandment, just as endowments, etc. What is wrong is how young people, women mostly, are being pushed into this insane notion they should focus on their careers to the detriment of everything around them. This is insanity, not joy. To suggest marriage is very distracting to the substantive spiritual doctrine of Christ is to not know Christ. It is the same as claiming Christmas trees are pagan; it's a fundamental lack of understanding as to Christ to suggest otherwise. I am a lifelong member who's lived in highly concentrated LDS membership areas (e.g., Hawaii and Idaho), as well as low (e.g., Northern Wisconsin and Connecticut), and not once has anyone put any pressure to marry anyone other than the people who are that age. Period. If people stopped putting their own selfishness first and put the Lord's will instead, they would find what they were looking for without looking. I met my wife a year after my Patriarchal Blessing, and she was Lutheran. I married her and fell away because my Patriarchal Blessing said I would be sealed. We were just sealed a month ago after 25 years of marriage. Our adult children will be ready to be sealed to us in a month. The fact is, I found my wife because I wasn't looking for her. In fact, I was called as a Stake Missionary at the time, and she was dating my companion (I'm that guy, but to be fair, he avoided her). My Patriarchal Blessing happened exactly as it said it would, and I haven't looked at it in over 26 years until this year. Not by interpretation, but exactly.
@RLDRemembrance5 күн бұрын
@@squirrelicis that's amazing. I believe the Book of Mormon because i had the same theological sequential revelation as Joseph Smith and BY going into Melchizedek. The enmeshment I experienced was not in the Church it was growing up. I am also staunchly anti neoliberalism so I agree about your career sentiment. The issue that derived my comment was with the framing set on this video which sets exactly your opening statement;.. Looking for something or someone as in to force it and it's implied on this video that it's by external pressures. Regarding what the Bible says, I mostly believe the God of the first testament is not the God of Christ, maybe even Satan, so whatever the above framing of Adam and Eve as don't really ascribe to;.. Not that you shouldn't have children, but I think there's moving prongs and spiritual dynamics, and all that is to say, it's not for everyone and they're not spiritually worthless for not having them. I love children, do I want to personally anchor a spiritual throughline here? I really don't think so, no. If it happens it happens, but I abjectly reject the idea that it's the metric by which anyone's spiritual worthiness is to be measured.
@ddfstar75885 күн бұрын
@@squirrelicis Well said.
@aBrewster295 күн бұрын
@RLDRemembrance very well said. I appreciate your willingness to continue in your faith with the Church despite well-reasoned concerns. I am in a similar boat. I found Squirrel’s reply very interesting. Above all, I appreciated the civility in the response-constructive criticism is often met with unkindness. But notice the retrenchment toward orthodoxy-one’s happiness in marriage is secondary to obedience to the commandment to multiply. Ironically the gospel principles deprioritized by such a hierarchical paradigm makes orthodox members their own type of cafeteria members. The scriptures are replete with admonition to evaluate teachings by the fruits they produce and even warn not to call evil good and good evil, yet that goes out the window when it brushes up with authority (never mind scriptures like D&C 121 that expressly forbid such an exercise of authority). In my experience this usually stems from a lack of empathy. With all the goodness that can be experienced through the Church, if one hasn’t witnessed harmful effects in close proximity it’s all too easy to write it off in the name of compliance and sacrifice.
@SaltySaintStories4 күн бұрын
@@aBrewster29 Love the civility callout. Some of the harshest criticism the Savior pronounced was on the pharisees whose worship of the law blinded them from recognizing the very giver of the law. It's a hard line to walk between justice and mercy and I think most members are trying their best to walk it. Ultimately your point about fruits is a great focus. At the end of the day, that was the measuring stick we've been given to discern all things. I may not be able to understand or articulate the reasons why the gospel and doctrine work for people, but, as far as I understand, that's not a prerequisite for them to work.
@Whatiftheresmore13146 күн бұрын
Watch the Stick of Joseph podcast on the Hebrew wedding ceremony, HOLYMOLY!!! It is our temple ceremony, from the clothing to every ordinance. It’s really spectacular and glorious. Love what y’all are doing! 🙌🏻❤️🎉
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Thank you!! And totally agree, it IS glorious to see the divine roots our ceremonies share!
@Whatiftheresmore13146 күн бұрын
I loved your testimony of God’s love! You’re spreading goodness and light! ❤️☀️❤️
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Thank you very much!
@Whatiftheresmore13146 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤beautiful story of God sending you to be at the exact spot to comfort this hurting father. ❤️🙏🏻☀️
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Thank you :)
@troymd20096 күн бұрын
One thing I just thought of as she was saying that they’re villains are always trying to obtain an eternal life. They’re trying to change longevity in the life they already are at. They are trying to keep things they are in and not in the life that’s to come, kinda like in Star Wars with Anakin trying to keep things as they are, whereas The good Jedis end up becoming or going to the next step of their life and whatever spirit form they are.
@SaltySaintStories6 күн бұрын
That's a solid Star wars reference 💯
@PARebecca6 күн бұрын
can you define eternal life? you really never did...
@SaltySaintStories6 күн бұрын
A postmortal life with God
@PARebecca6 күн бұрын
@@SaltySaintStories which god? and whereabouts do we live this eternal life with a deity? is there like a secret underground bunker we live this eternal life?
@SaltySaintStories6 күн бұрын
I know a couple of young people who would love to help you navigate your questions
@PARebecca6 күн бұрын
@@SaltySaintStories I thought these were easily answerable questions? So you don't know which god you are going to live a post mortal life with..or where you will live it? Sounds sketchy to me...I'd be careful if I was you...
@Cleeveable7 күн бұрын
The alternative to preparing for a healthy life long relationship is they want you to prep them to be groomed to be taken advantage of at parties, bars, and clubs.
@SaltySaintStories6 күн бұрын
Their idea really makes sense if you don't think about it 💯
@methuselahhoneysuckle48138 күн бұрын
I’m not a boomer but the blame-it-on-the-boomers bit is getting really old. I’m not saying boomers were perfect but there is plenty of blame to go around. That said, this is a great point that has bothered me a lot.
@ckcooley5368 күн бұрын
Interesting topic and I enjoyed listening to your thoughts on this. I was asked if I was going to serve a mission within weeks of being baptized and had no idea what people were talking about. I had an awesome stake president though that spent time picking me up and taking me to YSA activities (impromptu on my part) and during those times he talked to me about missions, what they entail and the great blessings that serving can bring. When I got my mission call, I just felt to open it by myself. I served stateside, and it was an amazing experience. It felt like a foreign mission because it was on the other side of the US from me, lol! I had never heard of worthiness being tied to where you're called to serve before, but now that I do live in Utah, I do see people do seem to hold foreign missions like they're better or more wanted. For anyone that gets a call to serve in the country they're from, please do serve. It will be one of the greatest blessings of your life and you will have some truly amazing experiences.
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing - what a great insight! Every missionary should go out to the woods and open it themselves first, and enjoy the Spirit's presence.
@maurywheatley89618 күн бұрын
The wheat and the tares are not a reference to the world but the kingdom of God. The virgins don't belong to society, they belong to the clan. Those who will belong to Jesus will not be known to all until He reveals them.
@SaltySaintStories6 күн бұрын
I've also heard the virgins represent members of the church, which means a good number are asleep at the wheel
@Ayala_4118 күн бұрын
Great video! Subbed!
@SaltySaintStories8 күн бұрын
Welcome!
@gingers53928 күн бұрын
Thank you! Lately I have seen an increasing number of young men and women called to service missions for medical problems or emotional needs, but they are every bit as worthy of serving and have a desire to serve the Lord in whatever way they are able. I am realizing that we need to reframe our ideas of missionary service even more so that we don’t act as though some missions and missionaries are more or less than others.
@SaltySaintStories8 күн бұрын
100% agree 👍
@gingers53928 күн бұрын
Great message! Thank you!
@SaltySaintStories10 сағат бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@benv79338 күн бұрын
This is amazing
@SaltySaintStories8 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@Canut08 күн бұрын
Checking out of religion is news to me, glad I had 1st gen parents 🙏
@SaltySaintStories9 сағат бұрын
You are born of goodly parents!
@aaronchamberlain46988 күн бұрын
16:00 Yeah Western Buddhism has stripped out all the feel-good stuff and left everything else. In Buddhism's extreme forms, they are more box-checky than the LDS church by a mile. You have people taking 2 hours to walk to where they are going to make sure they don't step on any insects, people only eating fruit that fell to the earth naturally to not harm plants, etc. 18:10 Easy agree. Even if heaven weren't real, I still feel comfortable with the idea that the Church's practices would make me and my children more considerate and good people than with them out of it. So I'm staying where my best self will exist.
@SaltySaintStories9 сағат бұрын
The church is a place where your best self can thrive, totally agree. Thanks for sharing!
@mckaysharp16968 күн бұрын
If you have a religion that can be turned off then you don’t have a religion
@SaltySaintStories9 сағат бұрын
1000% - nailed it
@rlarsenen9 күн бұрын
As a boomer, I attest that it is not our generation that started the religion timeout practice. Our generation, is either all in or all out, with very few relatively dpeaking, lukewarm saints in the middle. I do observe, however, that our millennial children are much more likely to engage in the practice. And this includes a certain lackadaisical conviction on garment wearing as well as Sabbath observance. As one who raised our children with my wife to be much different this is very disconcerting. 🙁
@hannahholm88908 күн бұрын
I'm a millennial with boomer parents, and I know they tried their best. I think millennials have the double edged sword of technology, where on the one hand we have access to more materials and insights than ever that shed light (at least for me) on lots if not all of my toughest questions about the church, and on the other hand, an astounding amount of opposition that can be very convincing and hard to ignore. So yes, upbringing absolutely can, and likely does, contribute to our attitudes towards the church, but I'd argue that social media and such have (sadly) a louder voice and stronger grip on ours and subsequent generations.
@Arc_reactor019 күн бұрын
Don’t think I didn’t catch your What About Bob reference
@SaltySaintStories9 күн бұрын
Guilty as charged
@Robert-rw5lm9 күн бұрын
Disney is the gateway for the secular world? Honestly explains alot
@SaltySaintStories9 сағат бұрын
Right??
@nwkitesurfer9 күн бұрын
The miracle in my life that I recall when I'm struggling with my faith took place when I was on Vacation and went to Church that Sunday in Northern Thailand. My wife, who was adopted, found the nurse who cleaned her after her birth and discovered the whole story of her family and the circumstances that led to her being adopted to the U.S.
@SaltySaintStories8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing ✌️
@aBrewster299 күн бұрын
Great discussion. On the topic of Church attendance over vacation, where is that “should” coming from? Is the need for weekly attendance intrinsic or external? In my observation it’s different from person to person. I grew up in an uber orthodox family that would attend the full three hour block on vacation, and it was always so uncomfortable to sit there with a bunch of strangers. I felt no benefit from that compared to my regular ward. My wife and I raised our kids on Central Florida and did hit up the parks on the occasional Sunday because that was what we could do for vacation and that’s when we could go. It didn’t involve switching off our religion whatsoever and our kids don’t seem any the worse for it. To the contrary, it gave us the chance to demonstrate and discuss discernment between competing priorities with our kids. I’ve come to find that often in the church we members view ideals as standalone, monolithic, from which any deviation is a slippery slope. While there’s some truth to that, there are also competing values that require balancing. Ironically I’ve seen some people get sucked so far into church activity that they neglect their families. There can be a world of difference between striving for minimum compliance and balancing competing priorities, though to external observers they might look the same.
@ZelphBallard-bg9mt9 күн бұрын
I am happy for people to turn off this controlling religion while on holiday. Better to teach your children to be a good person rather than a slave to ritual. If you are afraid of your children judging you then you are going to fail as a parent. I also think this religion is ridiculous because it will overrule a persons cultural upbringing, supposedly saying that the only culture that matters is the one taught in the church. Wow. No respect.
@SaltySaintStories6 күн бұрын
You can't make me not like you Zelph
@DeGreyChristensen9 күн бұрын
Great video! I remember whenever we went camping as a family, my dad would seek out the bishop whose area covered where we would be and ask to be able to do the sacrament while we were out. Nothing like sacrament around the camp fire in nature!
@tannerholm20998 күн бұрын
Honestly nothing better than sacrament in the mountains, 10/10 some of my favorite spiritual experiences
@SaltySaintStories8 күн бұрын
That is awesome, those would be really cool memories 🔥
@DeborahCastlemain9 күн бұрын
Let’s not pussy foot around! Live your beliefs(religion) or good riddance!! As an active member for 60 years I’m actually glad lots of “members” are leaving! I hate the hypocrisy! We all have a choice- just live what you chose…eventually we will all reap our results(rewards) right? I know which side I want to be on!!!! There is a price to pay for everything. I am happy to say, up to this point, married 34 yrs, 9 kids, ALL have “chosen” to serve missions, ALL have “chosen” to stay active❤️ and life is NOT easy👍🏻 Please stop being a hypocrite if you are one!!
@ZelphBallard-bg9mt9 күн бұрын
yes lets not pussy foot around. lets spread this gospel which expects people to give up everything for this church, sacrifice their culture, become a robot and learn to adjust to the culture of a polygamist racist church that hides all of its history and does not teach all of its history through its missionaries, that 'sells' families are forever, but creates many levels of heaven where families can be spread across and NOT be forever. zelph the white lamanite, jackson county missouri, lamanites are the NOT the principal ancestors of the american indians because DNA, joseph smith MANY wives not just emma ... really ... yes many people ARE leaving and good on them
@SaltySaintStories6 күн бұрын
It's a fine line to walk between mercy and justice. We know that mercy is required over sacrifice. We also understand that we can't live our lives like no commandments have been given
@alexkilgrow7259 күн бұрын
I have to say, I am 100% guilty of this, and I really appreciate the call out. My kids are still fairly young, so I can repent and still have a good impact on them. But this is absolutely a good point…especially the authenticity discussion. Love what you guys are doing!
@AlbertJLouie9 күн бұрын
MORMONS REFORMED EGYPTIAN LANGUAGE THAT MAKES UP THE BOOK OF MORMON, DOES NOT EXIST. The Book of Mormon, and work of scripture of the LDS movement, is asserted by both itself and Joseph Smith, the founder of the movement, to have been originally written in the Native American writing system of "reformed Egyptian" characters. Scholars reference works on languages do not acknowledge the existence of either a "reformed Egyptian" language or "reformed Egyptian" script as it was described by Joseph Smith. Therefore is no archeological, linguistic, or other evidence of the use of Egyptian writing in the ancient Americas. MAINSTREAM SCHOLARLY VIEW OF "REFORMED EGYPTIAN. Standard language reference works contain no reference to "reformed Egyptian" and it described with this term only in the Book of Mormon. No non-Mormon scholars acknowledge the existence of either a "reformed Egyptian" language or a "reformed Egyptian" script as it has been described in Mormon belief. For instance, in 1996, John A. Wilson, a professor of Eygyptology at the University of Chicago, wrote, "From time to time there are allegations that picture writing has been found in America [...] In no case has a professional Egyptologist been able to recognize these characters as Egyptian hieroglyphs. From our stand point there is no such language as "reformed Egyptian." Anthropologist Michael D. Coe of Yale University, and expert in pre-Columbian Mesoamerican studies, wrote, "Of all the peoples of the pre-Columbian New World, only the ancient "Maya" had complete script." Fifteen examples of distinct writing systems have been identified in pre-Columbian Mesoamerica, many from a single inscription. So Mormons, if "reformed Egyptian" doesn't exist, then, why are you believing in something that doesn't exist??
@alexkilgrow7259 күн бұрын
Your concerns are not related to the content of this video.
@halsamsing67209 күн бұрын
This a straw man argument. You are setting up the concept of reformed Egyptian being something different than what it actually may be. Saying something is reformed with nothing more tells very little about the degree or kind of reformation. So you cannot claim knowledge of what reformed Egyptian would look like. For example you point to someone saying there is a lack of pictographic writing as negating evidence for reformed Egyptian when the characters document (which may be an example of reformed Egyptian) does not contain pictographic writing.
@AlbertJLouie9 күн бұрын
@halsamsing6720 Well, the Biblical and academic evidence provided says its not a strawman argument. But YOU on the the other hand, provided NO EVIDENCE to support anything you stated. Therefore, you have provided a strawman response.
@fightingfortruth98069 күн бұрын
Phoenecian is reformed Egyptian. Latin comes from the Phoenecian alphabet, which forms the basis of many European languages including English. So, what are you talking about? I'm WRITING in reformed Egyptian right now.