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@salmaibrahim6477 19 сағат бұрын
Jazakillah khair for this❤
@_HS_0_o 3 күн бұрын
I feel like called out sheesh I am going through this same phase haha i thought this person matches with my standards and now I can protect my deen this way... but got ghosted XD how am I gonna face this? I have been a person who values honesty over anything and now this person just disappeared in thin air without any explanation which makes me keep wondering what could have been the reason.. idk how to overcome this however i do know that i will never let anyone's behavior dictate my self worth and i will never be able to forgive this person. Hasbunallah wa niyamal wakeel.
@Ustadha 2 күн бұрын
Gosh that feels horrible. You don’t want to marry such a person anyway! A friend said to me about such people, “Manners are something we are told to consider in the man we marry” if they don’t have that, it’s as if Allah protected you from them. Don’t worry my dear, your husband is out there. Allah will bring him when the time is right. 💖
@Dream-hm7fu 6 күн бұрын
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@Ustadha 5 күн бұрын
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@BintJavid-h6t 6 күн бұрын
Ustada iam also safa
@Ustadha 6 күн бұрын
So nice to hear from you Safa 💖
@Tym894 7 күн бұрын
Yes
@bintjavid005 7 күн бұрын
This is why I love sleeping 😂
@Ustadha 7 күн бұрын
Haha
@ruqaiyakhalique1989 7 күн бұрын
Yes
@salmaibrahim6477 8 күн бұрын
بارك الله فيك ❤
@Ustadha 8 күн бұрын
وفيك بارك الله 💖
@SoulPurifiers-MinQalb 8 күн бұрын
JazakiAllahu khairan kaseera. Give them a moment of......?
@Tym894 8 күн бұрын
A moment to process
@kay4808 15 күн бұрын
It's great to know what could cause such a Mama's boy in a husband. As mother's we should be weary not to raise our boys to turn out like that .
@Ustadha 15 күн бұрын
May Allah make us best mothers.
@Ustadha 15 күн бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with a son feeling dutiful and obligated to his parents. In fact, that is required in Islam. It’s only a problem when he can’t stop the injustice.
@alwayssweet7574 16 күн бұрын
So what about if the in-laws have cut off the son and his wife after an argument between he son and his mother n sister. The wife didn't say too much, but was deeply hurt and was treated badly. So now she has no connection with them, but the son has reconciled with his mother, and keeps a civil relationship. The wife doesn't want to speak to her mil as she doesn't call her anyways. In some ways is this better for the wife as she has ill feelings, resentment and bitterness towards her mil? Is it ok that the wife has no relationship with the in-laws?
@Ustadha 15 күн бұрын
Different things work for different families. If this is working for you, that’s great. Islamically it’s not a requirement to keep in touch with in laws if you’ve tried your best and it’s not working. However habeebty try to let go of all the anger and resentment. The bond of negative feelings is still a bond that keeps you captive. It’s limiting. So leave the matter on Allah completely. He will take your rights fully. If you’ve committed injustice against them, try to rectify that to the best of your ability and do tawbah so you’re not liable on the day of judgement. Only after you fully let go of resentment, you’ll be free. You can live to your fullest potential inshaAllah. My dear this world is too insignificant. We’re only focused on how we come across in the sight of Allah.
@saminasoudagar5106 17 күн бұрын
First upon in villages i observed one thing they treated daughter in law as a outsider. Means how much she eat,how much house work done or not. Most imp due to baby planning or other financial issues affected couple personal life. As usual shaitaan win..😢
@Ustadha 17 күн бұрын
Ya Allah that’s horrible!
@yellowsuma 20 күн бұрын
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@yellowsuma 20 күн бұрын
Jazakallahu khairan sister 💞
@Ustadha 20 күн бұрын
Waiyyaki my dear
@ruqoyyahshaba9458 22 күн бұрын
Ma Shaa Allah. BaarakaLlahu fiik
@BintJavid-h6t Ай бұрын
I once saw a video in which a father was repeating a thousand times to his his son that he “is not a woman”. He wasn’t a muslim tho. However, I feel what is better than reiterating that statement is treating men like men and using words like “you are a strong little MAN” “you’re an amazing BOY!” instead of using sentences like “you aren’t a girl” which might awaken his curiosity and open the door of shaytān to get the better of him.
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
MashaAllah! A very good point.
@Minhach715 Ай бұрын
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@sabteeyahabdul4163 Ай бұрын
"teach them to anticipate your needs". This engulfs alot of teachings in itself. They will learn to think ahead in all aspects of life. Barakallahu feeh
@salmaibrahim6477 Ай бұрын
Baraka Allah fiki❤
@sharkbait3332 Ай бұрын
Yes, yes, yes!
@sistersinislam_official Ай бұрын
Wa bil walidayni ihsaana there is laam sister
@Minhach715 Ай бұрын
😢😢
@bushraaden3542 Ай бұрын
Mashallah Jzkillahu khair dear❤
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
Waiyyaki my dear
@ruqoyyahshaba9458 Ай бұрын
Wa alaykum salaam warahmatuLlah wabaarakaatuH
@ruqoyyahshaba9458 Ай бұрын
JazaakiLlahu khairan ❤
@Tym894 Ай бұрын
Walaikum Salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
@salmaibrahim6477 Ай бұрын
Jazakillah khair ❤
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
Waiyyaki my dear
@habibaanees4426 Ай бұрын
1000% Agree
@BintJavid-h6t Ай бұрын
10000000%!
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
Don’t be influenced by what married ladies say (negatively of course)……..?!
@ShihaamDonaldson Ай бұрын
Shukran so much
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
It is my pleasure 💕
@TheAllisonLab Ай бұрын
I have no idea what I'm listening to or how I got here, but good points.
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
Glad to have you with us!
@salmaibrahim6477 Ай бұрын
جزاك الله خيرا ❤
@Umm_Khawlah Ай бұрын
I don't get people when they don't vocalize or ask for an apology rather expect you to get over with it with time. Some of them just say, "Forget that!" or simply "Sorry" with nothing to add on further. Healthy way of apologizing is to taking into account people's feelings and showing remorse. Talk and communicate.
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
Exactly! They have so much negative pride. Not good for relationships.
@Umm_Khawlah Ай бұрын
@Ustadha yes true!
@BintJavid-h6t Ай бұрын
“Sorry, I made you feel that way.” and sometimes you shouldn’t simply say “it’s okay” or “no problem” when someone apologises to you. Some people, sadly lack basic manners. Instead you could say to them something like “apologies accepted” or “I need some time to process my feelings, but thanks for apologising. It was needed.”
@BintJavid-h6t Ай бұрын
I love these clips 🤍 Allaahumma baarik
@BintJavid-h6t Ай бұрын
Subhaan Allāh I just love the story of yūsuf عليه السلام 🤍 so many benefits in it
@yellowsuma Ай бұрын
❤
@zey7576 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤ It’s so true! I often notice some women being affectionate and playful with their husbands, and I can’t help but feel a bit uneasy about it because I wasn’t raised that way. It’s really difficult for me to express myself in that manner. I find myself struggling, even though I know it’s perfectly acceptable for a husband and wife.
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
My dear I understand the difficulty of getting out of your comfort zone, but that’s where most growth happens. So pls challenge yourself, take small steps towards being playful and affectionate. It will be awkward at first, but by the 10th attempt, it’ll become so natural inshaAllah. Don’t give up on your dream version of yourself and your relationship 💓
@AM-yi4qb Ай бұрын
Is the damage already caused reverseable?
@Ustadha Ай бұрын
Of course! You have to put in the effort though
@anettedoodle4587 Ай бұрын
thank you…!!