Yes they should have laws against abuse, and do. But the law only pertain to the men in this Country. NO EQUAL RIGHTS HERE! Marriage needs to END!

These films need to be shown in schools to educate young people on what an abusive relationship looks like.

Omg this is like my best friend but she can't see it. Exactly the same is happening.

What a project that was how i miss the recovery college

Being called a joker or clown by people who you thought loved you is heartbreaking 💔.... humans deserve peace and respect 🙏

Any type of abuse is worst ...... everyone deserves love and respect 🙏 ❤️

I think he truly hated his wife.

No I can’t

My malignant vicious narc i married 38 years ago seems to be getting worse He is constantly abusing me mentally emotionally verbally spiritually n now financially I know that I’m being abused but he’s such a great actor w his public mask on n everyone thinks he’s so funny so thoughtful kind etc Because he’s conned so many people who’s going to believe me? The mask comes right off his slimy greasy face n the ugly hypocrite n he starts in on me I avoid any interaction w my this person cuz no matter what im always wrong n says “you just had to ruin a nice time!!! You like it this way!!!!” Im very fatigued n agonize when the weekend starts Back to back days w him all day Come Monday morning im so exhausted n stay in bed to recuperate from just being I Under the same roof I cannot breathe I live under his microscope n he finds things that are my fault Lately he’s on a gaslight binge I simply want peace I don’t recognize the person in the mirror I miss me

All current and future fathers and male partners must undergo compulsory annual psychology checks and DV awareness training. DV is totally out of control. Suspect something, report it immediately.

Why is it always the man is the bad guy... Wher as there are relationships where the woman is the bad one... Only portraying the man as the evil one creates incorrect stereotypes!

My husband has so many people fooled, including my family. Everyone thinks it's me.

The truth! Walking on egg shells 😢

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God, this hit hard.

I hope no eggshells were harmed in the making of this film

Take the children out of the story but that was me, I am missing 25% of my eyesight in my left eye because of the damage that he caused. I just didn't go to hospital as had no way to get to one as i was the one who drove, I spent weeks with my hurting so bad and I couldn't open it. Over a year later I found out it was because of the damage as he had caused as my eye ball had also burst, I am extremely lucky as my eyesight could of been lost, but even then I lied to the doctor who asked, have you suffered and blunt force trauma to you eye, he was sitting feet from me as I said no. I only went to the hospital then as my eyesight went so bad I couldn't drive him around. I managed to escape 6 years ago and now married to a man who makes me feel like im his world.

I would also argue. You should be transparent with your feelings and share them with your partner from the beginning. If they don't even try to understand then leaving them must be the right call.

What mab wants to come home to dusty lamps?

Absolutely brilliant work 👏 👍

This really hurt. I'm married to a wonderful man, but I've been with an ex who was on the edge of being mentally abusive (not a bag guy, I realise back hen he had his issues, but still). It's so painful that so many people are stuck with an abusive partner.

As i described to my mum last week, i felt i was walking in a minefield. Anything i did triggered something on him. 18 years later, and at the age of 50, now i am free.

This was very hard for me to watch. I live this life every day and am really trying to pluck up the courage to leave. 4 years in and two little boys makes it hard 😓😞 I feel so lonely and like my life has this dark cloud over it all the time 💔

That guy needs a lesson from a real man. Men who hurt women, children and the vulnerable are cowards. They crumble when you get the help you need to stand up to them. Once their secret is out in public, they’ve lost all their power.

Most men I've met are abusive sadly

What a great short movie. Well done!

It’s so tempting to show bruises when displaying abuse. What we don’t realize is that by the first bruise, the emotional abuse is already at a critical level. This is an excellent video.

My name is Liz, and I just got out of a narcissistic abusive relationship about a week ago. This makes me so sad, but I survived.

This is so depressing- I hope women see this and get the help

He has control and rage issues. Not to mention cruel, narcissistic and just plain evil. Its sad when hes on the phone speaking with their son. He was teaching his son to disrespect his mother.

Beautiful horror. Well done. For both the film and escaping. That transition between the samdwich bite and the next shell cracking was excellent. Also i think that fellow is way too good at acting! 😆 Deeply upsetting performance!

This film is rare. In most media, the abuser is always shown as a monster, never a human with a loving, sweet side and their own complexity. It makes people think abused people stay because of fear. It's the reality of love inside the abuse that makes it so so hard to leave. Also, never give anyone "advice" if they are in an abusive relationship. Give them a key to your home, and let them know they can have a place to gather themselves in peace while the find the strength to start a new life, if that is what they choose.

This is such a concise summary of the kind of abuse real people go through every day.

I wish I had know about other types of spousal abuse, other then physical when I was married. I put up with it for years and then finally got out, when he hit me once in the leg while I was nursing my child. I had waited for the physical attack and had I known about other types of abuse I would have left long before that. But silly me didn't know. He was an angry violent controlling man. Wish this type of video was available on TV way back then.

Man. I'm at 1:56 and I can't watch anymore. It's so sad and horrifying.

Or this could be titled “living with my mother”. Good grief. Hugs to everyone. There truly is life on the other side of it all!

Wow, so powerful, thank you and yes abuse isn’t always physical 😢❤❤

pulling my hair, punching my face, punching my stomach, twisting my arms, my wrist, my thumbs, spinning in my face, kicking me up or down, Police did not help me I am disabled, they took my son away the rapist

The bit with the eggs is exactly how having a conversation with my mum feels

All this and then the feeling of being trapped. Unfortunately she didn't take action early on. Deeper and deeper.

Never be financially dependent on a man, they think they own you.

some people will drain you emotionally and mentally without laying a hand on you. and the abuser will make you think that it is their undying love that is why they are obsessed and controlling. dont fall for it. leave when you can

I love how its always men as the abusers. Women never do no wrong. Try looking up the recent FBI statistics on DV.

I am searching for a video to purchase for a workshop in October

Not all men are like this, he is a BULLY and an abuser. He's loving and kind one moment and emotionally abusive the next. It's torture and will eventually distoy your self worth. Glad she escaped.

I left two years ago and I’m still being gaslit to this day. He’s trying to sue me now after all he’s done to me. Why can’t he just leave me alone??? I feel so hopeless

The song narcissist 🎵... feels like your dieing on a bathroom floor. It the only place to escape. The constant criticism and comments it consumes your hole life you can no longer cope with the stress of normal life, you become isolated, And you question your self as a humen , your looks , personality even your Sanity you feel worthless and with time it can drive you crazy & even hostile untill you realise whats going on. And educate yourself on dv & tactics. Then it nolonger works on you and you can clearly see them for who they are and what they are doing. Harder to escape if you have children and ties with them. It can lead to violence , suicide & even murder , Perpetrator can murder the victim. And the victim can be drove to insanity to the point where they kill the perpetraitor.

Two questions I made up for myself the last few years. I wish I thought about this when I was younger. Question 1 - does he make me cry more than he makes me laugh and smile? Question 2 - when I'm about to put the key into my door, do I hesitate because I worry what's on the other side? I think answering those questions say a lot about a relationship. And they can be applied to anyone regardless of gender and orientation. And it doesn't necessarily have to be an abusive relationship that could be just a very toxic unhealthy relationship. And one more to think about. No matter how long you've been with them. Do you feel like you never know where you're at with them? Like they're always moving the goal post. Huge red flag 🚩. People who love one another are transparent on how they feel. Maybe some guys have a hard time saying I love you or expressing their feelings but you should still have no doubt on how they feel about you.

become a widow is also an option

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