When Love Isn't Easy
2:49
14 күн бұрын
Why Nice People Repel Us
4:06
2 ай бұрын
Why We Behave As We Do
4:43
2 ай бұрын
The Conditions of Love
3:02
2 ай бұрын
When Love Isn't Easy
2:50
4 ай бұрын
Remember That EVERYONE Is Lonely
2:37
A Guide to Self Transformation
2:30
How to Prepare for the Worst
2:20
How to Be Strong and Resilient
2:30
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@xarzu
@xarzu 21 сағат бұрын
So did THe Founding Fathers and so did Plato. Democracy is a bad idea.
@ranjithaganesh6
@ranjithaganesh6 21 сағат бұрын
Id buried up childhood abuse and repressed it so much that it went on for 25years. But a year old a simple touch was enough to bring it all back I had a choice of either to deal with it or repress it again. I took the bold choice of dealing with it and now for a year I’ve been terribly hurt and traumatised. However I truly believe one day the fact that I chose to deal with it will pay off.
@truesimplicity
@truesimplicity 21 сағат бұрын
The perfect example of this thinking has taken hold in today's republican party 🚫🔥📚 educate the Southern and the Midwestern United States
@millami.x
@millami.x 21 сағат бұрын
i’ve always said i stress myself sick and this just proves it 😭 i’ve never been able to stop it either so i’m trying to learn
@19-dishakedare48
@19-dishakedare48 22 сағат бұрын
@eggiepapaya5376
@eggiepapaya5376 22 сағат бұрын
1:45 he named all of my favourite things
@marcellofunhouse1234
@marcellofunhouse1234 22 сағат бұрын
In the words of an inspiring African Proverb, "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.
@ayadali9112
@ayadali9112 22 сағат бұрын
Allahu Akbar.
@jjtheblanketyblankblank770
@jjtheblanketyblankblank770 22 сағат бұрын
Best predictor and explanation of human behavior.
@lawfulaverage
@lawfulaverage 22 сағат бұрын
The language gets super judgmental toward the end
@PaulMichael-pp9pt
@PaulMichael-pp9pt 22 сағат бұрын
Just turned 35 and im single and friendless (wasnt always) in think at age 31 i just gave up. My parents to this day are unloving and not in my life. I wish i wasnt like this
@deda_a
@deda_a 23 сағат бұрын
I predicted the actual question and once he said the exact same question i wanted to cry:(
@alexpurdymusic
@alexpurdymusic 23 сағат бұрын
Why is it the woman tho
@AvrilAlvarez
@AvrilAlvarez 23 сағат бұрын
Controversial take. But I love the look of Le Courbesier's architecture. However I can't stand him as a person. His disdain for classical architecture and his urge to tear down historic places is terrible. I think there is beauty in most architecture wether it be brutalist or classical. He was a great architect but am awful awful urban planner
@mubarakomar3201
@mubarakomar3201 Күн бұрын
Love is a lie that is directed by our loins to fool our brains to manipulate our hearts...
@180thislife
@180thislife Күн бұрын
recently my life spiraled out of control after i found out i have ASPD. still hesitant to continue therapy but a lot of self-talk made me realize it came from repressed emotions, grudges, unspoken desires, dark thoughts and misunderstandings. wish i wasn't such an insecure pushover all my life. wish i allowed myself to breathe once in a while and enjoy living before turning into whatever this is. i feel like a monster. let this be a lesson to whoever reading this: be kind but also live for yourself and don't exhaust yourself to a breaking point where there's no going back from
@fadyNUFC
@fadyNUFC Күн бұрын
Hes right this is what i think about this sham system …
@WeAreBlank18
@WeAreBlank18 Күн бұрын
Fun fact: He was Hitler’s classmate back in elementary or middle school.
@arandomstar2123
@arandomstar2123 Күн бұрын
my GAD told me i can approve of this message (my parents did not though)
@RVanlalruati-wr1mg
@RVanlalruati-wr1mg Күн бұрын
When i was young, my father sat beside me trying to help with homework but i kept doing it on my own. He hit me saying "Im your dad , respect me!". To this day, i have no respect for him, i cant even fool myself into thinking i love him as a father or even as a person. I hope someday i move away from our family home.
@ShinyShilla
@ShinyShilla Күн бұрын
No no no I hate being self aware it is destroying me and my mental state
@Thecinephile5
@Thecinephile5 Күн бұрын
I have repressed anger
@kezmenflowers8691
@kezmenflowers8691 Күн бұрын
It was never in the fact that I cared about how others were living. It was in the fact that I needed others approval in order to validate my existence and to feel a sense of love I lacked all throughout my life.
@kimboslice921
@kimboslice921 Күн бұрын
Probably why I have always had a sensitive stomach. It got so bad during the pandemic when I decided to change my careers, go back to education, get a part time job to help myself out and lost my grandad at the same time :/
@tanmay1306
@tanmay1306 Күн бұрын
This hits home!
@lovecore3828
@lovecore3828 Күн бұрын
Wow I had to realize this. My biological dad was a dentist, so think yacht clubs, country clubs.. “affluence” and yet he neglected me. For a long time I couldn’t figure it out. I mean, we are supposed to learn about the world, self worth, and love from our parents.. and coming from a divorced parent arraignment, I was also forced to go see him every summer until I got older and he stopped caring at all. I think it really affected me. But I realized that it wasn’t me who did something wrong or needed to overcompensate-it was I who truly was done wrong to and learning that that treatment, just cuz he was my dad was not okay
@calvinjames7032
@calvinjames7032 Күн бұрын
It is mental and emotional torture
@chaosfr3959
@chaosfr3959 Күн бұрын
WHY AM I STILL A VIRGIN THENNNN ?????????????
@tonycordero6105
@tonycordero6105 Күн бұрын
Guess that’s why my cancer started, and probably will return.
@Uncommonsenses
@Uncommonsenses Күн бұрын
I find putting on my best British accent and calmly informing the argumentative person that I have ‘far more important things to do’ always de-escalates the situation nicely.
@user-cz1yu1tc8e
@user-cz1yu1tc8e Күн бұрын
Democracy could only be for everyone. Solution is to improve education, not to limit democracy. That's what communists were going for - true democracy. Famous V.Lenin's thesis about every cook being educated to manage a state.
@pattycake1939
@pattycake1939 Күн бұрын
Am I wrong.. to prefer to be with myself.
@jacemenezes6155
@jacemenezes6155 Күн бұрын
Everyone around me seems to have way more fun. I miss having fun. I just want to take a long nap and never wake up. But I will keep crawling through the darkness.
@valhalla1240
@valhalla1240 Күн бұрын
Maybe we need to stop with this myth that perfect parents exist anywhere in the world. Parents can never and will never live up to their children‘s expectations and will never meet their needs perfectly. Growing up imperfect IS what growing up is about. There is no other option to life. Life wasn‘t particularly unfair to you, and you aren‘t the exception for having been neglected here and there. Every child is neglected in some way. That‘s just what happens. Learn to be happy of course. But also: stop phantizising about this magical place where perfect parenting exists. It doesn‘t.
@lainiwakura3741
@lainiwakura3741 Күн бұрын
hey look, that's me
@alesblatnik9973
@alesblatnik9973 Күн бұрын
I'm open to new ideas and I do believe our body bears the consequences, but what's the science here? There's zero evidence for any of this presented in this video. Would be great to see that.
@codybertram6122
@codybertram6122 Күн бұрын
Everyone bitches about millennials but most of us were raised by boomers that were drug addicts, selfish, grown ass children themselves. It’s ripped me apart psychologically and I don’t want to live especially with how hard the economy has gotten lately….
@ericray7173
@ericray7173 Күн бұрын
I grew up with awful bullying, low self esteem, anxiety, depression - real tough times…. And I thank God for each and every one of those challenges. They are a large part of what finally forged me into a man in the truly magical 50th decade of life (otherwise known as the 40’s). What makes this decade so great? The gives a f*** gene turns OFF and you are finally free from giving 2 shits about what anyone thinks or says whatsoever. You’ve seen it all, you’ve been through most of it. You go to the grocery store in your dirtiest clothes and your shades on slick…You’re finally ready. So stick it out with your training young Padawans! It’s worth it.
@kezmenflowers8691
@kezmenflowers8691 Күн бұрын
The need for approval from others as well as overextending myself to maintain relationships is what left me empty and alone.
@SerV689
@SerV689 Күн бұрын
This whole line of thought is entirely flawed at it’s core because it suggests that we lie to people to spare their feelings and thus it’s somehow morally ambiguous. It doesn’t matter how painful a truth can be, it will never imply that to be deceitful can be a moral good regardless of what pain you think you’re sparing the individual. The most brutal reality will always be kinder than the best lie
@memurtimur
@memurtimur Күн бұрын
Mind-broadening… I really related… Up until now I even couldn’t grasp the fact that I actually see the world as a dread-filled place… This short gives meaning to my struggles… I also wrote it down word by word to share it with friends. Many thanks to everybody who contributed 🎉❤
@jermany8019
@jermany8019 Күн бұрын
That was very undemocratic of you. ⬆️➡️⬇️⬇️⬇️
@kelzangphuntsho1071
@kelzangphuntsho1071 Күн бұрын
is Inflation Scam?
@nemanjat1096
@nemanjat1096 Күн бұрын
Importance of talking loudly in person
@sandramedina9482
@sandramedina9482 Күн бұрын
Mind and body are one. Of course emotional pain will show up in the body
@MrSzoSs
@MrSzoSs Күн бұрын
Funny how by writing of nature is killing the nature
@keefkanaesque
@keefkanaesque Күн бұрын
HOW DID YOU KNOW
@AnnaMariaLampropoulou-wj8bx
@AnnaMariaLampropoulou-wj8bx Күн бұрын
This is not a christian video he talks about bulsits for me