question to shiv : do you actually agree with everything the lady said ? because people that engage in spirituality rarely go against each other's perspective and often agree with everything which makes it look like you guys have figured out everything and are in perfect sync about some ultimate truth . Just curious. And why do so many people for eg j Krishnamurthy, osho , ramana Maharshi etc etc claim that enlightenment is an end in itself ? But here you are saying it's not , to which i actually agree . And also it sounds like they know it all . And how are all the spiritual gurus so sure that there is an ultimate truth at all and this assumption is rarely challenged ? Genuinely curious...
@spirituallyincorrectКүн бұрын
Good question. One can be agreeable without agreeing. When I host people on my show, I view them as "guests" I have invited into my virtual home. And as guests I choose not to antagonize them but rather allow them the space to express themselves and what they experience as true. The intent is to listen to what others have to say. When I am invited onto other podcasts, I am more confrontational about my viewpoints and am prone to challenge things I don't agree with. As for your second question - an "end" presupposes a finite process. I'm not sure why all these guys imply there is an 'end' to enlightenment because it is quite evident that we are not part of a finite process.
@OptimisticGoldenDoodle-tn9zpКүн бұрын
Simple and succinct
@OptimisticGoldenDoodle-tn9zp2 күн бұрын
Why would the mirror reflect what's looking ? The mirror only refelcts light that is reflecting of our body , what's looking is a phenomenon that happens inside the brain and it's a process , it makes no sense to say, the looker doesn't get reflected because "it" is not a "thing" that can get reflected. And it never changes just how the the gaint red spot on jupiter has been there since many hundred years ( which is basically collection of storms that appear to form a stable structure , not a thing on it's own ) basically patterns persisting over time . By this logic you are basically nothing.
@Red-ns9ny6 күн бұрын
I remember being in my cot (crib) under 1 and I have vivid memories of that. Also in my pram. But it’s older when you get older in life you realise it’s not the norm although it was to me.
@Annastasia139 күн бұрын
Great talk - thank you both ☺️❤️🙏🏼
@SarahTaylorchannel8 күн бұрын
You’re welcome. Thanks for tuning in!
@Debbiegottardi114 күн бұрын
Love this conversation Sarah and shiv!
@ash1244614 күн бұрын
I liked this conversation very much! Thank you both.
@SarahTaylorchannel8 күн бұрын
I’m glad to hear it resonates with you. Thanks for watching.
@TheEffortlessWay14 күн бұрын
Lovely conversation! Thank you, Shiv and Sarah. What a book title, Shiv! 🤣🤣🤣
@SarahTaylorchannel8 күн бұрын
Our pleasure. Nice to see you here!
@SarahTaylorchannel18 күн бұрын
Ishtar is a fantastic guest! Wisdom, weirdness, and deep presence. Love you Ish!
@user-wf7db6px2q2 ай бұрын
Such an important conversation to counter today’s grifter-like spirituality.
@mindysealefitch92362 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this conversation. Thank you both!
@janamsterdam84912 ай бұрын
You very thoroughly describe and analyse why all animals are so very lovable and loving and why all children and most of us adults feel very much related to animals, not because they do not respond to the environment (they do) but because they observe their environment and only react when a need has to be fulfilled. The rest of the time is spent in the blissfulness of silence, falling back into their innermost deeper Self. It is a lesson for us humans to live more in what the Greeks called 'theorein' . the root of our word 'theory': to subspend our judgment and simply look at the way the world is developing. The animal does not put its self between himself and the world. It only looks and responds in the moment.
@rowenahutchison48222 ай бұрын
Oh wow, « your mind is your karma » that speaks such a truth to me! 🙏🏻❤️
@Tino_Tino_Tino3 ай бұрын
Great interview. I do wonder how Robert came to the knowledge that we live in a material world. Perhaps he misspoke around the 10 minute mark, but the ontological nature of matter and consciousness is still a very real philosophical problem taken seriously by professionals who I wouldn't be quick to call "deluded" for positing serious inquiry about it.
@domenictersigni9993 ай бұрын
Thanks fellow Being for sharing awareness and insights with us out loud
@lebenausderfulle21483 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Shiv❤ That's exactly what I needed to hear today! How often do we forget the essentials when we are swept away by the everyday madness of modern society.
@Jay-zq8ng3 ай бұрын
Wonderful Shiv. Totally YES! I dont know what else is there. 👌 Thank you for the clarity and preciseness. 🙏🏻
@MrQuantum993 ай бұрын
So true, I've always had a sensitive physiology and the stimulation in the world was too much for it. I found workarounds and balancing tricks to keep functioning in a world that didntreally suit me. I so wanted to fit in especially in my teens, 20's and thirty's. The ways of the world resemble a self sustaining machine feeding on itself and yet I can still access the peace of just Being by sitting silently and watching the world pass by. A good lesson for all and for me currently.
@zenpig66053 ай бұрын
good stuff Shiv. When I look back even 50 years ago, we used to go outside in the evening after dinner or on the weekends and just sit outdoors, or on the porch. Sometimes with a cup of coffee or a glass of ice tea, and just watch nature. Watch the sun start to set and the chickens walk to their hooch, getting ready roost for the night. It's not that we didn't speak, but it was a more relaxed time when everything was just as it is. In today's world it seems that we have been socially conditioned to only look at technology. At artificial "things" and when we talk we talk about things created in other minds. unreal things. When I sit in the morning I never time it because that would be oxymoronic. I look forward to my time in nature, just watching without any purpose or expectations. no enlightened fireworks. To steal a quote from the Christian bible. "the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding," resonates.
@skoog56003 ай бұрын
Having been into this a number of years ago, I still follow BTC and other coins peripherally on occasion. I’m surprised to see just how much it has become institutionalized having been co-opted by institutions. Sure, regulation is necessary to protect investors I get that but … I wonder how this form of tech helps societies (your average joe) other than marginalizing people even more who don’t understand it and also aiding in the creation of an even wider wealth gap. What’s the point other than the narrative answered by BTC cultists?
@Anorectic.Bumblebee3 ай бұрын
Hi Steven, if you read this and may care to reply. What do you say about the small percentage of Wallets that holds a major amount of the existing BTC. Could this not be compared to the situation we have nowadays with Governments printing money. If one of these giant wallets will make a move it could have a very similar effect. Kind regards
@theforum79523 ай бұрын
Hey this is Steven, so those statistics are flawed due to the fact they count exchange wallets (consisting of millions of people's funds) as a single entity and the artificially draw up highly concentrated figures
@Anorectic.Bumblebee3 ай бұрын
@@theforum7952Hi Steven, thank you for your answer. I didn't refer to these wallets. But what about the wallets of Nakamoto, Micro Strategy, Elon, Winkle.. etc. Wouldn't those be immense shareholders if Bitcoin really becomes the "world currency"? Skip the answer if my question is bad research. That's what made me skeptical so far, Bitcoin parading as decentralized while being highly centralized after all.
@Anorectic.Bumblebee3 ай бұрын
@@theforum7952Hi Steven, that's not what I meant, I mean for example the satoshi wallets, micro strategy, winklevoss, elon etc. Those will be immense shareholders and could highly affect the price with movements on their wallets. Would you agree that this is a problem and makes BTC actually less decentralized than it appears to be?
@zenpig66053 ай бұрын
Great discussion especially about the alleged conflict between our thoughts and attempting to either stop them or change them in some way. Over the years I have found that I really don't have to "do" anything about these thoughts and the emotional turmoil that seems to follow them. Nowadays I simply enjoy really watching them without judgement, (which would be just another thought), but rather looking with curiosity in order to just see what I can see.
@skoog56004 ай бұрын
It seems we have gone from navel gazing to face gazing ...
@zenpig66054 ай бұрын
You're a better person than I am in attempting to explain this natural phenomenon. This also happens to me when I sit outside in the morning, except with no mirror, I wouldn't have a clue how to really describe it, and I would think that many folks would overthink my attempt to describe this. Good job in trying to put this into words.
@jimclatfelter4 ай бұрын
The ground or foundation of being that you have discovered is the same ground Douglas Harding discovered and wrote about over many years. He even shared a similar mirror experiment. This is the insight that has meant the most to me over the last 50 years. Douglas used to say, "Don't overlook the looker!" And the looker is identical in each one of us. It has no features. It is your original face, as opposed to your reflected face, which appears in your mirror and in the view of others.
@nicbarth38384 ай бұрын
well I wouldn't say its epistemically true that the looker IS your face, how would you even know this, I am not talking about having this experience because I have, but how do you know its true, what is the feature of a thought that seems true to one that isn't, currently I feel like asking or thinking about which is true or false whether it be your original face or your self reflected one, is not relevant, after all both change right? how can something be True if it changes, what is TRUE is what IS. So if you are being self reflected THAT is true, and when you are your original face THAT is true. Honestly I don't know which is true I only know what my experience is if even that, but I cant extrapolate from that some supernatural truth about reality.
@Anorectic.Bumblebee4 ай бұрын
@@nicbarth3838somebody read his saltzman :D
@jimclatfelter4 ай бұрын
Your original face doesn't change. It's the face you can't see. Facelessness. It's not about metaphysics. This is about the nature of perception.
@nicbarth38384 ай бұрын
@@jimclatfelter ah ok so help me understand, so does your original not need to be noticed for it to still be? is it like paint where even if the facelessness is the red that covers a steel beams metallic bareness it still is true when covered by red. I guess what I want to know is if facelessness is still present when you feel like a person. Also what quality is there to facelessness is it the lack of self reflection from feeling like a person when observing things visualy? I dont understand, and I used to several times but I keep loosing this knowledge.
@jimclatfelter4 ай бұрын
Yes, visual facelessness is always present, whether you notice it or not. No one sees his/her own face. When you are noticing it, you are consciously aware that you are faceless. But you don't have to notice it every minute. Notice it when it occurs to you to notice it. Notice it or not, it is still the ground or foundation of your being, awareness itself.
@EddyDJIMini3Pro4 ай бұрын
We don't have to be anything including addicted to Mindless conformity🎉😂😢😅😊 Ben is my fave bipolar snap dragon 🐲🐉🀄❤ Let me Oouuut. Little bastage 🤡
@prajnabala5 ай бұрын
there is no answer and no need to answer. Why, how, who, what, where, when? Somehow your post came up in my subscription.
@Anorectic.Bumblebee5 ай бұрын
that sounds very much like an adopted believe
@silasrj5 ай бұрын
Might be the most intelligent conversation on the entire KZbin, so far !;) ofc. Ben smythe layed the ground work for more intelligent 'seekers' :p Thanks
@latoyzamelville5135 ай бұрын
Spirituality is seeking the essence of GOD or the essence of Nature.This can be compared to Taoism or The Way which is epitomised in Taoism's teachings and symbols
@nicbarth38384 ай бұрын
Dont know what you mean by GOD and I will never understand GOD because I am human, Knowledge that GOd is or is not, is unknowable, yet if someone claims to know GOD then they are making a claim from a source of knowledge that is not accessible for everyone, no way to test it for yourself, because some may pray and find nothing while others do and they find confirmation. I think we interpret our experience of reality from a series of beliefs and in order to make a claim about reality you have to have knowledge of what it is, but we cant, how much of reality do we really perceive. I dont have a problem with those who have Faith in GOD my problem is when those same people make the claim that their experience of reality represents an objective representation of what reality is and that you can use GOD as a means to negate any investigation in to knowing how you come to know things, by saying that GOD told me. I have accepted that some will have these beliefs and that they are probably useful and necessary and that I am not any more privileged to know reality.
@skoog56005 ай бұрын
A suggestion Shiv, stop doing commentary and monologuing after everyone speaks. Ask to let others chime in and make it an actual discussion. Otherwise you risk becoming what you write about.
@jixie_935 ай бұрын
I'm here for Shiv's commentary and thought processes actually...I really appreciate the clarity of his mind 😊
@latoyzamelville5135 ай бұрын
SAME@@jixie_93
@user-kh2xe6gy8m5 ай бұрын
If it was not for Shiv these people wouldn't get together and have this discussion. To me it was wonderful to listen to the talk just as it was and I'm glad Shiv is sharing his experience and even this intimate video with everyone so freely. It was also great to listen to the attendees of the meeting. Deeply appreciated vulnerability.
@skoog56005 ай бұрын
So you look to others for clarity of mind? The metaphors and analogies are interesting but there is so much more going in each individual. Talk generalizes and gets in the way from getting on with it.
@marinejulien59495 ай бұрын
@@skoog5600 It's so difficult to stand alone, rare are those able to look at themselves as they are, without outside help. Irremeedable beggars ?
@whalerider085 ай бұрын
🐳🐳🐳
@moonman55436 ай бұрын
GREAT INTERVIEW!!!
@Anorectic.Bumblebee6 ай бұрын
Really from all the spiritual guys UG Krishnamurti really seems to be one in whom "the ordinary" human needs are not required anymore like they usually do. I'm against worshipping and he is probably also just a freak of nature, yet I haven't come across anybody who could reasonably explain this man to me.
@musiclabouratory88286 ай бұрын
Thanks for these words!
@drodsou7 ай бұрын
Great conversation. The mystic/awaken experience needs to be reclaimed from the claws of "spirituality" and integrated as another basic but key biological experience, in the context of a mature philosophy of life, which for me is the biggest challenge humankind faces, as any major human problem nowadays is due to human stupidy and tribalism, not lack of knowledge or resources as it was the case until very recently.
@dainram238 ай бұрын
Defined Dao is not Dao
@Leahwyn18 ай бұрын
So glad i found you guys..what a great convo!!🎉❤😊
@TychoHupperets7 ай бұрын
my thoughts exactly !
@oliverwolfskehl43239 ай бұрын
❤❤ Hey there! I appreciate your discussion and resonate with the human experience of facing the day. I understand the thoughts and feelings like the fear of death, aging, and skepticism towards spiritual leaders. But here’s a thought - why hold onto the concept of the self (the “Me”) so tightly? Why even discuss establishing oneself as a husband, father, or writer? Yes, these roles emerge, but they don’t need to be so closely attached to the concept of self - it’s more of an illusion than we often realize. I acknowledge that grasping this concept can be incredibly challenging, and the way Tony and Jim persistently discuss it might seem a bit glib, smug, or circular at times. However, an increasing number of people are beginning to grasp the essence of their message. It’s important to note that their “message” isn’t driven by commercial interests, nor is it a false promise to address the impermanence of the self. For whatever it’s worth to you…
@joeleach522910 ай бұрын
Advaitaholics! 😂 I love it.
@wildcatno211 ай бұрын
17:20 made a lots of sense ❤ reminded me about the book देवताओं का मौन by rajiv mudgal which reaches the same conclusions. Where can I order your book in India.
@wildcatno211 ай бұрын
❤ good stuff 😮 selling water to others besides the river…
@TrojansFirst11 ай бұрын
It sounds like this Benjamin Smythe believes that the lights are out after death. There’s nothing else. That’s it.
@nicbarth38384 ай бұрын
that's what I believe
@TrojansFirst4 ай бұрын
@@nicbarth3838 I don’t because of my psychedelic experiences and the study of near death experiences.
@TrojansFirst4 ай бұрын
@@nicbarth3838 I don't because of my psychedelic experiences and also the study of near death experiences.
@purplelilac490311 ай бұрын
It's karma Some. Of us pay the price of past life karma in this.
@AlexReyn88811 ай бұрын
I love how you guys say "nirvana and other cookies are just a promise of the future" but 10 minutes later "oh death, well maybe if you die then everything will end and finally it will be okay, should I die or have a cup of coffee."
@David-pv4yl11 ай бұрын
Benjamin Smythe is such a beautiful and highly intelligent mind in his own unique way. A real pleasure listening to this fascinating interview. Thank you so much, Shiv, for uploading it here for public viewing.🥇👍💯
@osvaldasjurgelenas4746 Жыл бұрын
Share a comment 😅
@henrykuyvenhoven2542 Жыл бұрын
❤ I have added a heart symbol, because my keyboard was locked up. I am writing now to you, a reader. I listened to this. So near the end of the talk Robert talks about a clear mind. Clear mind! Just two words, but one is the adjective of the other, which implies the opposite, can be true too. Be honest, gentle and radical about this for a moment and the idea of clearing or getting clearer might emerge in your mind. Change is possible here in this world. Clarity is a beautiful idea, and, yes and, getting personal is my suggestion, so perhaps using an ancient fellow like Robert Stalzman en-light-ens your mind with simple clarity. I am not stating that he is the clarity, don't make my message crazy like that. I heard clarity coming through him and the fellow he was talking to. Some really great stuff in this video. Thanks for sharing guys.
@becky931 Жыл бұрын
I love Robert so much, glad you had him on. But seriously - has anyone seen the man blink? Ever? I have never caught his eyes closed even once in many videos. Is it blindness? A condition? a sign of enlightenment ? 😂
@Mo-ry5gz9 ай бұрын
A sign of enlightenment. Osho was another person who didn’t blink
@jonm3388 Жыл бұрын
I never wanted to escape suffering, nor did i know it existed. Until,,, i,,, heard about "non duality" "non ur momma"
@jonm3388 Жыл бұрын
Would your books "help" someone with no spiritual experience? I ask, for most i know. Interested in your work, and im most intrigued by your most recent. Whos next on the interview? Lol.?