Finding out my mom’s diagnosis I cried everyday all day for 2 weeks straight.

After 30 years marriage, we had beautiful life decent life financially. I’m very heartbroken, and I miss my kids, destroyed my future, financially mentally and destroyed, my kids future financially and mentally and emotionally.

Thanks man, your words really help <3

Good advice bro. I see negative comments not about you but the person commenting. You have 2 choices plain and simple!! You are gonna live or you’re gonna die !! Live dam it LIVE!!!

it's easier to accept we are stupid. the only difference between you and them is they are stupider

I don’t wanna do anything, been in a slumber mood for 5 months straight. 8 year marriage ruined by the in laws. Now they are trying to get 150k lump sum or go through family court for possibly more. It was the best marriage. Imagine the pain. Smoking 🚬 all day to cope. Absolutely crushing.

You saved me😊

I feel like I've lost myself and I don't want to do anything without my ex. I feel I can't be happy without him. Everytime I think about doing something...I'm too lazy and depressed to do it. I'm 36, almost 37 and feel my life is over

I appreciate your candidness. This is how I felt too, and I feel so bad that many people believe they're not smart and "stuck" with the intelligence they were given. I'm trying really hard to change this perception. Just now I posted a new video on my channel, "How Can You Teach Yourself to Be Smarter?". Maybe you'll find it helpful too!

Thank You

Thank you

I’m not smart enough, I’m in my mid-40s I’ve been unhappy all my life, with myself, my brain, everything, I don’t even know why I continue life

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Did he sign those copies?

God sometimes I just don't know😢

Of all the people who don't/won't believe in you, make sure YOU are not one of them.

Thank you brotha…

I graduated with a second class lower 😐

THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR HELP TONY.. YOU REALLY HAVE HELPED ME HEAL.. YOUR AMAZING..❤😊

I've never been married before and haven't even dated in forever, yet, intentionally exploring strengths and challenges of relationships and marriage in order to prepare for my Future Husband and I. Thank You for sharing🙂

thank you very much

This doesn't make me feel any better

I have seen Tony..Amazing Experience..Healing..Thank you Tony..

I’m worried I’m gonna be clueless, not catch on fast enough and not be able to gain skill at my next job, but if I got on the deans list I can. And most of all if I believe I can. I can

Whatever decisions I end up taking, they end up blowing in my face. In such regards, People look down upon me thinking I’m extremely stupid Probably-I am

nah bro its not that I believe im stupid its a fact

Beautiful! Thanks for the kind and inspiring words, i always doubt myself, even now. But i want to help others, so i will study hard to prove that even someone like me, can work hard for someone else then himself.

This has helped me a lot today. Having problems with depression and panic attacks. Having a bad perspective on things. Time for a more positive outlook

This is exactly what I needed to hear at this time! I am truly grateful for these words Sir! Our greater strengths and true joys have merely been set aside and forgotten! Or simply yet to be discovered! 💪🏽😤

Thanks for the advice. This really helped.

30 years and he had become so abusive that a protection order was granted. Very very hard to start form scratch at 60 and have just spent two years assimilating all the grief, pain and loss. I dont think I will ever get over it. Its o hard being single and having to learn how to make decisions by mysef again. Ill get there.

How do you feel about the book after 3 years?

I lost my father in March of this year. This is very healing to hear, as it’s 3 am my time, can’t sleep from the pain/images in my head. The way you speak is healing, grounding. Thank you.

Oh wow I really needed this. I want to be a computer programmer. I’m a senior about to graduate from highschool. I took a computer science course in highschool to get college credit and it ended up being the hardest thing I’ve ever taken. My two friends also took it but don’t want I to major in the same field as me, and they ended up picking it up faster than me. The only reason I have a decent grade in the class is because of curve that me teacher puts on the grade. I don’t think I’m getting the college credit, but I still want to major in computer science.

Hey just browsing though your channel. Really needed to see your video about feeling stupid. Thank you. Wanted to say you have a great voice. You should try making ASMR content I think you could do well.

Just got separated with my wife of 7 years with two kids. Can't formally divorce them cause they are on spousal visa they will be deported and i will loose my kids. can't chase them out of the house either because they can't afford but we realised we can't be together. Going through toughest moments of my life. I'm trying to rebuild myself ignore them love my kids and pray, gymn. I'm doing all for my kids. I will be a strong man after this 😢.

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.. i started journaling and being more intentional in raising my son as a solo parent... i lost so many hobbies trying to adjust my life after marriage..im going back to it slowly and also find a new job because my ex sucked my finances dry. But im going to be fine im out that narcissistic blackhole.. my son and i deserve so much better. Thanks for this advice.

I’m so insecure, and I keep comparing myself to some smart people in my surroundings. I did an IQ test which gave me an average IQ, and a little higher. I mean, I was always good in school, and most people of average intelligence see me as semi-smart, but mostly I think I’m ambitious and curious to be honest. Those are great qualities that have helped me, but they don’t add to my IQ score. I’m doubting myself so much and I keep wishing I wish I was more enthusiastic about education so I could get a masters degree, I wish I was more interested in literature, and I am, but not ”enough” for me to feel all right with it. And I keep coming back to the thought ”if only I was born smarter, then I would be more valuable and have more distinguished interests”. The reason I started thinking about this at all is because I want to become a writer (in my native language) but I feel like an intruder. I’m not into literature, and I feel lesser than. I’m not that book smart. I’m not THAT great with conceptual thinking… smart people don’t have to force themselves to sound smart, because their minds just gravitates towards more complex concepts and ideas. I envy them. Most well known writers are smart. It bugs me.

Thank you so much for this..

Luckily the ASVAB is not an accurate measure of intelligence because in order to properly answer the ASVAB questions your prior academic background and how much you study for it impact your score. An intelligence test contains questions that you most likely will have no prior knowledge of how to answer them.

I recently fucked up a hugeee test and this whole school year. I will inevitably fuck up the rest. I only really enjoy Arduino and electronics but I need to do the rest of my subjects to get into a good college. All my friends are doing better than me, I'm the only one who's lacking. I can't get past it. I don't know if any college will accept me for electronic engineering because I'm not smart or fucking hardworking unless I enjoy the work I do. Please help. I can't do anything anymore, I can't go a single night without worrying. How the fuck do I do anything without these test grades man. I don't think I'll get to my dream, ever. That's the sad part. I cant do shit.

Almost a month and it still hasn’t set in

Thank you for this.

The video is broken halfway thru

I'm treated as an idiot by my teachers and my classmates all because i score less marks. I don't know why when i haven't done anything wrong in my life. I'm feeling hopeless 😔.

Only smart get respect, not my case.

Who tf would have a complaint of effortless life? That doesn't make any sense, stop try to make it seem like effortless life would a problem when it wouldn't.

I read that book . I like chapter 2,3,5,11,12

Thank you I appreciate your video a lot.