Can a cheater change?
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8 ай бұрын
Affirmations to stop cheating
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@THEGREATESTHUMANTOEVERLIVE
@THEGREATESTHUMANTOEVERLIVE 2 күн бұрын
ISNT THAT AMAZING WE ALL GETTING THE SAME PROBLEM WITHOUT KNOWING ANYONE
@louisgarden2509
@louisgarden2509 4 күн бұрын
Looking for help
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching 15 сағат бұрын
@DrekalSloth
@DrekalSloth 9 күн бұрын
How do I recover if I fucked myself up and she calls me jealous? I didn't yell at her, I was silently thinking about it and she assumed I got mad over it.. I was disappointed but I didn't tell her I was disappointed nor mad. I did ask abit about him so I know now by questioning it I fucked up the shit test. So can I recover from failing?
@Jasminebeehive
@Jasminebeehive 12 күн бұрын
This popped up on my feed and I just wanted to say thank you for posting this type of content. My x husband cheated 15 years ago and though we did do counseling, we were in our early 20’s and he was unwilling to change his partying ways at the time. As a result we divorced, and our daughter had to grow up with a broken family (the last thing I wanted). Divorce not only hurts the two involved, but innocent children pay the price the most, not to mention the family and friends of the couple who are also hurt and often feel like they have choose sides. It didn’t work out for us but I have hope for other couples that may be going through this. I’m remarried now (12 years) to an amazing honest, loyal, and faithful man. My x also recently remarried. I pray he has changed his ways so he can be a better person, partner, and better example to our daughter. Please continue this type of content as I feel men need to hear this message of encouragement, accountability, and redemption from other men. Keep it up and I know you will see much success in your future and on this channel. God bless.
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching 9 күн бұрын
I’m glad to hear that things worked out great for you, thank you for sharing this personal story of yours and your journey. I appreciate you, your feedback and support.
@DonJuanzito
@DonJuanzito 14 күн бұрын
Why am i seeing this😮 ohhh man
@RRL5487
@RRL5487 18 күн бұрын
Because they just want to do it.
@louisgarden2509
@louisgarden2509 23 күн бұрын
I need help
@richroach58
@richroach58 27 күн бұрын
Myy bmama is a demon this situation ain’t for the kindhearted men
@PrussianBlu3
@PrussianBlu3 Ай бұрын
I knew exactly why i cheated. Youre not telling me anything new. It was to get back at the ex. She dropped me because her parents didnt like me. If she cant love me then who can? I did thr whole PUA thing and become absolutelt chiseled and enjoyed life. I figured i earned every girl i cheated with. And i did. I just wish i would have settled down 10 years ago when i knew i found the one. Long story short i have other mental issues that were VERY deep and other circumstances happened.
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
It’s good that you understand yourself in your why. Did you heal from those issues yet?
@PrussianBlu3
@PrussianBlu3 Ай бұрын
@Infidelitycoaching no. I don't see it ending. Liquor is the only thing that makes me feel good and the bad thoughts stop
@PrussianBlu3
@PrussianBlu3 Ай бұрын
For every man who had a broken heart has become a player.
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
That was true for me.
@bulldogsnewleaf-m7g
@bulldogsnewleaf-m7g Ай бұрын
good for you man - It's easy to hate on you -I dont get it myself, but Im sure it was literally HARD for you to stop - I know there are lots of underlying reasons for it. So kudos.
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
Much appreciated and yeah I get hated on a lot but it’s worth it. Life’s way better now. All in all there’s no excuse for cheating but I was sexually abused when I was young, bullied and first experiences with girls were very hurtful. So it led to a lot of issues that took work to overcome. Once again, thanks and I appreciate the support.
@flotonto403
@flotonto403 Ай бұрын
Maybe she is pretending she is cheating so that he can finally notice her and react to her.
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
Possible
@comb87
@comb87 Ай бұрын
Glad I came across this video currently going through a rough situation with the mother of my beautiful 2 year old son here in Florida and also dealing with child support which is annoying and has been causing me to have extra stress on top of just regular life stress. But do to my faith and staying positive it has kept me from having suicidal thoughts because I know how much my son needs me. It's not easy by all means and I'm trying to do my best everyday. Life sucks I miss my son all the time even though I see him every weekend from Sunday morning until Tuesday morning when I take him to daycare. Glad I came across this video this really helps me out because sometimes I honestly feel like I have no one to talk to about my situation which is a lonely feeling at times
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
Stay positive and do what’s right in your heart and the right things will happen.
@fireflymary9269
@fireflymary9269 Ай бұрын
Broken trust
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹
@sboys5944
@sboys5944 2 ай бұрын
He is a threat pray me i get married with her and f** that guy
@guinansmith8385
@guinansmith8385 3 ай бұрын
Time to goo
@juliemodavis1747
@juliemodavis1747 3 ай бұрын
Can you blame them? The cheater often plays the poor victim role convincing the mistress that they are stuck in an unhappy marriage and are trying to figure out how to leave. It’s not uncommon for a mistress to leave her own husband only to later find out the cheater never intended to leave or is cheating with multiple other women telling them the same thing. Cheaters destroy other peoples worlds- they deserve to have their own destroyed as well. They are NOT the victim of their own actions. Usually when a cheater wants to leave a mistress it’s because they start to put the pressure on to follow through with all their promises of a future.
@ImpulsoCreativo9322
@ImpulsoCreativo9322 3 ай бұрын
❤you are a beautiful soul.thanks for this.
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@ImpulsoCreativo9322
@ImpulsoCreativo9322 Ай бұрын
@Infidelitycoaching ive gotte. Some disclosure on his physical cheating in the past. I feel ripped apart. He says it was just some bartender lady he met, but they got together 2 times, so I dont knlw how meaningful that was for him.
@ImpulsoCreativo9322
@ImpulsoCreativo9322 3 ай бұрын
❤thanks for not judging.and for that validation for us whj choose to stay.
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
Much appreciated
@JosePerez-vo8yo
@JosePerez-vo8yo 4 ай бұрын
What about if you going to depression due too financial problems ?
@nylezfuller4746
@nylezfuller4746 4 ай бұрын
That alone part hit hard..
@negrarica
@negrarica 5 ай бұрын
The worst is not the betrayed comparing themselves to the extra person but THE BETRAYER comparing US TO THEM. THAT IS PAINFUL. Also i feel the betrayed always want to talk about it because they know they are not getting the WHOLE truth . I feel that if the betrayer would take initiative to start a conversation and bring it up from time to time or just lay it ALL OUT the very first time, we wouldnt be bringing it up so often. Trust me, the betrayed doesnt want to do that but the betrayer isnt helping that situation.
@negrarica
@negrarica 5 ай бұрын
See we dont get mad for hearing the truth. We get mad because WE KNOW we are not getting the whole truth. Then they blame us for them not telling us the truth because “we over react” to “their truth” so they rather not tell us. They couldnt be farthest from what REALLY upset us.
@claribelgarcia9256
@claribelgarcia9256 5 ай бұрын
I’m a new subscriber and l love your advice so awesome 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@samuel100music
@samuel100music 5 ай бұрын
Your videos deserve million views.
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching Ай бұрын
Much appreciated thanks
@heidievaning
@heidievaning 6 ай бұрын
That sounds like me and my man, but I'm just enjoying my relationship with Jesus. My man isnt on the same page but im still his wife for life.
@Fakerecords-v6r
@Fakerecords-v6r 6 ай бұрын
Yeah i know right ?
@DRUGSTOREMAKEUPDIVA
@DRUGSTOREMAKEUPDIVA 6 ай бұрын
What are your qualifications to give consultations sir?
@lisawrightfeathers7249
@lisawrightfeathers7249 6 ай бұрын
Yep. And. Yep
@lisawrightfeathers7249
@lisawrightfeathers7249 6 ай бұрын
Hello Michael, it’s Lisa Feathers
@kcchong-s2i
@kcchong-s2i 7 ай бұрын
Hi Coach Mike, i need advice if can help me out. I caught my girlfriend sit into another man car....i went into No Contact for 4 months she blow up my phone 255 text i left UnRead last Saturday she came to my house with a gift.i told her i dont want a cheater,..she said No Sex No Cheating.i told her ok then my rule No Male Friends and delete guys number. Base on Female Nature 1.If i take a cheater back i am a Cuck 2. is she cheating ? If yes she will cheat again ? 3. she will Never Respect me for Not put her in Place ? 4. I demand she do whatever i want and bf gf rules 5.she promise to comply but she Flakes our last date and ghosting me since last Saturday If i dump her , she will Respect and never cheat again?
@lebogangmompati440
@lebogangmompati440 7 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot bro indeed you motivated me 🙏
@lisawrightfeathers7249
@lisawrightfeathers7249 7 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@lisawrightfeathers7249
@lisawrightfeathers7249 7 ай бұрын
😢
@yeseniaaranda611
@yeseniaaranda611 7 ай бұрын
What if they don't believe in giving you space?
@lisawrightfeathers7249
@lisawrightfeathers7249 7 ай бұрын
Crap. 😮😢😮😢
@lisawrightfeathers7249
@lisawrightfeathers7249 7 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh once again, thank you for all the hope you have given me!!
@juliethelen172
@juliethelen172 7 ай бұрын
Cheating in a relationship is an unforgivable betrayal of trust that can not be remedied, at least for me. There is no excuse for it and, again for me, marks your character as a person as flawed beyond redemption, in the regards to a relationship,thanks to almods cyber genius Online for exposing my cheating ex through his phone, my doubts were right...
@elizabethanthony940
@elizabethanthony940 7 ай бұрын
pls can i see the harka emall, i'll like to see my partner phones aswell
@juliethelen172
@juliethelen172 7 ай бұрын
all genues
@juliethelen172
@juliethelen172 7 ай бұрын
@ G M a l l .
@juliethelen172
@juliethelen172 7 ай бұрын
COm
@elizabethanthony940
@elizabethanthony940 7 ай бұрын
thank you for the detaila, this is almods direct emall?
@wm7929
@wm7929 7 ай бұрын
I believe a cheater can change, if they have the desire and courage to. Some do, and some don't. Reconciling a relationship after cheating is very, very, very hard. It will not be worth the work unless the cheater is full-on, 100%, ambitiously all-in to the process. Some cheaters get there, some don't.
@leaalvarez9804
@leaalvarez9804 8 ай бұрын
This is how my husbands brain is wired....no guilt because he believes his own lies
@leaalvarez9804
@leaalvarez9804 8 ай бұрын
100% my husband
@Patricia-g4t5i
@Patricia-g4t5i 8 ай бұрын
They are not thinking with their brains, it's the other parts of the body. It's Sexual! 😂😂😮
@SL1PSTAR
@SL1PSTAR 8 ай бұрын
But how do you know this 🤔
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching 8 ай бұрын
Because I am a reformed serial cheater and played those games for a long time
@MarkSummers-g2n
@MarkSummers-g2n 8 ай бұрын
A cheater can change then go back cheating
@blitzkrieg6872
@blitzkrieg6872 8 ай бұрын
I am an older woman who is happily married. This "tactic" does not apply to me. However, I will explain what this is. It is a power move. This is about control and dominance and an attempt to gain "leverage" within a relationship and with a man. It's childish and it's a tactic of an insecure person trying to grab some control by "triagulating" you with another person in order to make you "compete". It's a passive aggressive way of indicating "hey, you are not the only man that I find attractive and so you need to try harder if you want to hold on to me". However, it's a fraud. It's a scam. A woman who resorts to this tactic aint goin' nowhere. She is entrenched with you and hates the power that you have over her because it makes her feel insecure. Love is a scary thing. This is the tactic of someone who is afraid of losing you. However, it's wrong what she is doing and must be stopped or else it will continue and it's disrespectful. Just be very upfront and direct in your approach, with full seriousness and strong eye contact. Order her to stop doing that or your gone. Plain and simple. She will try to defend herself and make excuses. Who cares. Tell her that if she ever does it again you will block her number and go find yourself a better woman. You gotta hit em' where it hurts!!!!
@4everfinal
@4everfinal 8 ай бұрын
Women cheat because they want a bigger one. 😂
@bohemianbeauty92
@bohemianbeauty92 8 ай бұрын
These affirmations are so fast, how do y’all repeat them?
@Infidelitycoaching
@Infidelitycoaching 8 ай бұрын
These are intended to simply listen to. It’s not necessary to repeat them. Best time to listen is when you are in a state of Theta consciousness. This is when you are just waking up or are falling asleep or are asleep.
@ErikaGarcia-l4u
@ErikaGarcia-l4u 9 ай бұрын
So True my therapist told me to connect with myself ❤love it on point
@OddlyAmusedByAll007
@OddlyAmusedByAll007 9 ай бұрын
Or maybe she's disconnected and playing self care videos for her mental health and self love And maybe she's smiling on her phone cause she's watching TikToks and u don't care to ever ask what she's looking at😂
@itumelengmohube7958
@itumelengmohube7958 9 ай бұрын
what you saying and the topic is contradicting. Thought you going to tell us how to handle dramatic and demanding baby mama. I love my child and try my best. I can't stand baby mama drama. she's toxic