There's no survival in friendship. Marriage is for (amongst other things) bringing up children. Your work? Well you need to work (most of us) to survive. But there isn't any OBVIOUS value to friendship. I mean, nothing that isn't discerned by research.

At 11:27. Was the same effect found in men?

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Im passive Gpilot today do u think am i ceo world or Gpilot.....?why i choose elon as basic pilot usa and jokowi as basic pilot indonesia....are they ceo do i see them ceo so i choose them?

Amazing video ❤🎉.

Yes i like financial statement ❤

CEO build goals for growth

Does a CEO and a philotropist similar

I had to watch this three time to get a better of understanding a CEO job discription

"Everyone's going wrong, so I should...what?" The Socratic method makes sense. Map out the logic, facilitate discussion and assemble the pieces of the logic...in other words, take people on a journey to an end you see/desire, but be ready to patiently and excitedly lead people there.

Thank you for your insights sir

I would love to be mentored by you, do you have any program for mentees?

Fantastic video all around. Going to listen again and take notes. Thank you!

Pure genius!

Dear stever, I like the way you explain in simple English very helpful Thank very much

Good message of smaller possible wins, nice.

i love it! and i have a noties block and a pen to save all of her widom

Excellent teaching on communication skills that makes great sense. Thank you for this presentation.

Thank you, Stever. You're a great friend!

I love the beard

☝️ *Promosm*

A C.E.O. plays a lot of golf.

Finally someone who summarize this topic really good

Thank you for this wonderful video For each key point, I have put a heading making it useful for people to refer to. These are my favourite headings: Friends. Beautiful mess effect. Secret = boost the positive = top point. Love Maps. Video released 12th May 2022. Watched 24th April 2023. 11 months later. Key points Funny 00:20 I am working on a book. Get lost Loneliness 3:06 It is a narrative thing. It’s the story u tell yourself about your relations, not the truth about them. [But it is your truth] Social media 7:15 It goes into your social budget. Ease of access 08:33 we moved away from meeting people due to the ease of staying at home. Friends 10:30 Aristotle = a friend is another self. [Same point mentioned in How to be perfect by Mike Schur. A person is a person through other people] 12:25 friends make us happier than any other relation. 13:13 friendship’s fragility proves its purity. No institution for it. Don’t show up to work? You get fired by your boss. Don’t pay attention to your partner? You get divorced. There is no institution for friends hence they get less respect. It is a choice. It is not in a contract because there is not one. Beautiful mess effect 17:10 When others tell us of their weaknesses, we are accepting. Hence we can be less judgemental. Heart Attack 18:10 not opening up increases your chance of a heart attack but also it being lethal. 18:18 oh my gosh. Funny 20:00 historical era = help-me-not-die marriage 22:35 sunk cost fallacy 23:03 Eric waves his hand to the left. Looks like he just brushed off Stever Gottman’s 4 horsemen 23:23 same 4 mistakes Secret = boost the positive = top point 25:00 Don’t just fix the negatives. Must boost the positives. This is more important than just fixing negatives. Love Maps 28:35 Ask your partner the big Q’s. What does love mean to you? [ Big Q for me is what is fulfilment?] 29:09 now I know why they are upset because doing household chores is an act of love. A bad thing to happen is negative sentiment override. You just assume your partner is bad. 30:22 Stever sees cleaning the kitchen is an act of love. Thank you for this wonderful video.

1:50: Elevator Pitch to Elevator connection. 4:45: Employee: Elevator connection. 6:20: Job hunting: Elevator connection 8:28: 'Did you know' technique

Good ideas.

I think the interviewer didn't quite understand the issue of loneliness. It's not about narrative or storytelling but the depth, meaning and significance of the relationships. It's not about numbers but depth and meaning.

By addressing the underlying concern, you were up front and able to address the concern. Well done. How can one plan to do this ahead of time? I would give the wrong answer because it takes me time to come up with the right answer.

I always wondered about the “work hard” advice. I worked hard. It didn’t exactly get me where I wanted to go. Thank you gor declaring this a pernicious myth.

That was brilliant! What a great host, you asked all the right questions to get to the heart of the matter quickly and finished it perfectly with your own self discovery. What awareness, thank you!

Very helpful thank you very much sir 👑

thank you #processyourownGoals

+ 10:55 - 13:46 : 🔥Friend (all about friendship) Friend as Another self. + 16:08 : Time, Vulnerability, + 21:04 : About Marriage, Winner Take All Marriages , best marriage. + 23:19 : John Gotman's Four horseman of Marriage, 25:33 : You fell in love because you do all kind of fun stuff together. 26:12 : Emotional Contagion - Whatever is happening in the environment we associate them with the person. + 28:20 : Just Ask to get to know partner.

Excellent informative insightful video! 👍 Thank you so much!

This is awesome

Very eye opening. Thank you.

I passed over this at first because the volume was too low (probably just my headphones), but this was very valuable, thanks!

I have been digging and learning about the company lately and I believe this interview helped me understand what are the values and the different aspects on which Darrell and the whole company are focusing on. Great work!

Great video. You explained the roles very well. I'll be referring back to this video as a new startup CEO

ASAP FYI - I can only watch 22 seconds of this video.

ASAP FYI- Can only watch 22 seconds of this video.

Glad both of you had time to share ideas. Fun and interesting, great! Love the concept of build a bigger pie!

It was great to be with you for this discussion, Stever. I loved your questions and they really help us to think about what "Live andLet Live" really means --- and doesn't mean. Thank you for the honor to be with you.

This interview brings the concepts to life and makes them easier to understand (more difficult to treat as "something interesting in a book to put on the task list"). Thanks for doing the interview.

Very insightful information

The CEO's boss is the shareholders, when you buy shares of a company, the CEO of that company works for you.

Thanks, Stever, for being such a fun, open, vulnerable, and welcoming host!

First comment! Looking forward to listening go this convo.

JPM, I had this at the wrong time, but I did just watch it. Good job, mate. More frogs, less Coca Cola. Thx for the invite.