I am dealing with a screamer and a belittler

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Tell me . Why all this meditations made with baby like nasty voices?

I am stubborn and that is my personality and I am gonna stand on my stubborn personality because it makes sense to me. I do not listen to things i do not care about or things that are invalid, things i do not agree with, things thay make no sense to me. Everyone is entitled to their opinions and beliefs at the same time, i have a right to dismiss,deny, not validate, not understand, not care about the perspective. Perspectives and opinions are just statements not people. We can't get a stubborn person to listen and understand. They will ignore, disagree with, and deny things and facts. Let stubborn people be.

Such a valid video

I just got abused by someone on my birthday because I was celebrating with friends and I didn't go to her daughter's birthday. I've met her daughter's 3 times. Apparently, I'm selfish and she's really had a hard life and has no one in her life to help her. Hmmmm, I wonder why...🤦‍♀️

what if the belittler is right ex: I can't draft engineering as a receptionist, it's true, I would have no clue

what should I do with the records of "freezer"?.....?

boss would question why I typed minutes, if he did not ask me to do so

I don't know what the point of dividing them into types is. Maybe a better way to understand workplace bullying is to study narcissism and realize that they will do any tactic they can to gain control. Which is exactly my experience.

My thing is finding it hard to accept that I let it happen in the first place I just froze instead of knocking them out witch they fully deserved. I have been isolating myself not by choice but because I find it hard to connect with people. My patterns have help me survive but now they are not that useful anymore. I kinda resent the noticing of just letting it go its not that easy. Its a scare that won't heal it has layers to it. The anger and hate is hard to get rid of. Also the fear of something like this can happen again. I think i would be dangerous if someone tried to do something like this again. I don't think I would be able to control it. Its hard to forgive being passive. I really hate that.

I’ve started to see that acting like nothing bothers you or that you don’t see anything makes them stop because they can’t get a reaction out of you. Also avoid answering personal questions about your private life don’t go out to lunch with them or be buddy buddy with them during break time. Remain detached.

My workplace bullies are grown up with chaos. So, they don't feel comfortable with peace when there is no drama. However, they always stimulate something in order to create drama, that makes them feel better.

I dream about my 6th grade bullies. I do feel like I did something to someone.

I'm 71. I wasted 37 years at an agency that's never liked me. Bosses who complained or lied on me, were all Black women. I shouldn't have come there. I got fired last week. EEOC and expensive Employment Attorneys? Waste of time. Get out. Find another job. You can't ever recover from a smear campaign! Leave!

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They lie abut me, what can i do?

Them: "I'm so fucking lonely, you live hundreds of miles away, and i have no one." Me: "Have you talked to your sister who you live with?" Them: "She wouldn't get it." Me: "Have you tried going out and meeting new ppl?" Them: "No, I actually hate leaving the house and hate socializing and hate everyone." Me: "Well, at least you still have me! We should hang out online more often!" Them: Never hits me up for anything but dumping, never hangs out online for more than an hour, we go days to weeks without calling.

For screamers as far as colleagues go I get my phone out turn on my movie camera, and start recording the screamers. Had this situation from a workplace person. I work with Philippinos and this nationality love to gossip, so avoiding any of them is difficult, but I have decided if they don't want to speak English while I am present, I leave I will go to another area, mostly they won't include me in the conversation as they prefer to speak Taglago instead of English. I am ok with that I understand that some people feel more comfortable speaking their own languages, but I know it's mostly done to shun people that they don't want to include in the conversation. I just remove myself and go read a book. I generally don't want to engage in gossip however easier said than done in the workplace.

Very insightful video thank you for sharing it's nice to know how to handle a situation in a healthy way without getting angry or frustrated with people like this who have low emotional intelligence. Really enjoyed this video and would like to see more

💖 Thanks a lot madam for sharing so much value here! Please make a video of how to reframe memories of bullying and how to feel safe inside the body when something triggers the bully memories! Really in need of this. Thanks! 💖

My thoughts create my reality

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Thanks for this, but some honest feedback....I could not fully get into this meditation because you talk too much, and to quickly, in it. You will ask us to notice something for instance about our higher self and give us a few second only to notice this before speaking again and asking us to observe different things. Consequently, I really couldn't go deep with this or even get into a meditative space. Suggestions for future meditations are to allow more silence and pause after you mention something for the meditator to observe. Also, maybe don't talk quite as much and ask as many different questions. for instance, instead oif saying 'what would your higher self tell you" "what would it say" "what things could you change" etc? just have one question and give the listener time to connect with the question and get an answer. I simply could not do this meditation because there was way too much talking and too many interruptions, and it was simply impossible to have time to even reach awareness about the questions asked to be examined in the meditation.

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Hi Jane. This video directly addresses something that I have been battling for a lifetime and became a true problem last December, I believe I was on the edge of a mental breakdown. I had an anxiety/panic attack for the first time in 29 years and I thought that it would never end. Finally, receiving the diagnosis of being a controller, which was a learned behavior from my Mom. Trying to control things that were absolutely out of my control and some, if not most, were none of my business. Also, realizing what people pleasing does to me, me placing myself as a door mat, never a great idea. I've gained a lot of weight and my consistency at the gym nearly did not exist, along with just a lack of true happiness. I'm now on medication to help me to control/prevent the attacks and practice self-care on a more regular basis. I also have been reminding myself constantly of what I can control, whether I really want the control I'm "trying" to exert and how does this play into the way I'm feeling. I'm learning to keep my cup full and reminding myself that through my true happiness, others can relax and be at ease around me. Was great watching this video. Much Love!!!

At work, I tend to over-help. I know I really shouldn't, but it makes time go faster. People tend to take advantage and it's ok to a point. I'm hardly soft or a pushover, btw. We can throw hands.

To be honest, I think my venting my anger by drawing is a very understandable choice for me because I'm tired of feeling left out because I'm autistic. ❤😡😠🤬❤

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A life coach dumping about her neighbors. Awkward?

When a trauma dumper calls I tell them I have 5 minutes as I’m meeting with someone or about out the door. Also, when they start to repeat a story I jump in with “I remember you talking about that….” and finish the story for them. Also, I finish with this has been going on since ________. What solutions have you exercised?”

Do I sound like a woo woo chick? Empath, no need to use props. Have gifts of mercy & teaching (& help close friends thru life stuff)😁Got boxed as a kid, searched for the right box from age 16 -58. Multiple NDEs, etc. FINALLY syncronicities, higher energy (& realized the box had a heartbeat💗 (mom always said my heart WAS the church)

That’s literally how I intend to handle these people. It’s pathetic that they think a little remark under their breath is supposed to get us all riled up, like no honey I assume you are referring to yourself 😂 it’s very ridiculous though that grown folks really act like this in the work place. You’d think after a person reaches a certain age they’d know how to conduct themselves but no they genuinely believe they are still in high school

None of these tips work. Most of the time, management terminates the victim. Yet, I don't understand how these non‐effective trainings help. Other then charging the company for them. I've been physically assaulted by a staff member without provication, it was so bad that she sent me to the hospital. The job gave her a slap on the wrist and I was transferred out to bubba land a 2 hours plus commute. It was hell. While, Companies and government offices allow and accept these behaviors, it will never STOP! Give me a job working from home anytime.

how to stop being bullied: stop being stupid and become a normal person for once

I'm a screamer for sure. I don't scream at anyone, just around them. Scream and cuss. I've got a short temper and can't help it. When I get frustrated I scream.

The real bullies are the ones in positions of power...

I really enjoyed this video!

Not leaving enough pause in between

Think venting is used for validation to see if someone also would be upset also so you aren't losing your mind seeing they feel the same way being in your shoes. As far as stressing someone out, just be open and say i didn't mean that.

People have used my vents against me and I never felt better afterwards just embarrassed and silly

Thank you so much for this, it’s very helpful, and I feel less alone. Cheers to empaths everywhere.

The advice on how to deal with "the freezer" is excellent, but I hope they don't ignore the email! If so, I guess you escalate the request.

Fyi. They aren't mentioning the lies that they tell on a person by quoting other criminals in their extended group. They also blackmail people and frame innocent people for "Crimes". They use children too. They are very satanic and full of lies, deception and hate.

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I always state facts and it always makes dumb people mad

I feel like I've been trauma dumping on a friend recently. I've had some drama going on recently and just today I was texting her about a bad day I had. I unloaded a ton of problems on her and I'm pretty sure she's read it but hasn't responded. I initially started with asking about her day because I genuinely did want to know, and she responded late, so I didn't respond because I was busy. After the whole day I was so tired and upset and had no one to talk to about it except for her, so I started venting to her about it. She's a very people pleaser person who doesn't set boundaries very well. I always tell her at the end of it that she can rant to me too and I won't mind. But I feel like that isn't enough. What do I do?

Have never bullied other people.