It seems that lots of other people have commented this as well, but I'll just reiterate: High-functioning autism/Asperger's is way too pathologized. I'm sort of "borderline" on the spectrum, behavior unique enough that my mom had me tested as a 5 year old (they basically said some traits of autism, no diagnosis could be made). I was diagnosed officially at 17 (but as a caveat I was in an inpatient facility, very sleep-deprived and definitely not functioning at my best). Therapists I had over the years did suspect I was on the spectrum as well. Now that you have that background - please remember one thing in raising your son. He will have his own unique needs and preferences, but every other person on this earth does as well. Listen to him when he explains his needs to you. Don't infantilize him. I was the typical "gifted" kid, but I dropped out of college because my parents never worked with me to appropriately find a schedule to stick to and appropriately self-regulate. They were constantly trying to "fix" me, and when it became clear that my biological needs (mostly sleep issues) and ways of thinking were different from a lot of people's, they threw around the word "autism" mercilessly to infantilize me and paint me as dysfunctional. I ended up moving out and living on my own for a few years, slowly learning to adapt my own unique needs and habits to the "real world." Meanwhile, my two younger siblings, especially my younger sister, were - and still are - spoiled rotten. I saw my sister yesterday and was horrified - this adult child is 22 years old, she threw a hissy fit when there was a 15 minute wait at the restaurant we went to. She has money thrown at her because she is still in college, has every whim provided for, and is insistent that she is far more mature and functional than I because she is still in college. She's in for a cruel awakening when she needs to actually find a job and support herself. I can only hope that my parents will cut off funding and she'll have to support herself and become a functional adult the way I did. The point of all this is the following: The "autism" label has NOTHING to do with how functional and self-sufficient your child will be. Every single child needs to go throw a period where they learn to balance their own personality and needs with the realities of supporting themselves in the adult world. As a parent, both extremes of completely neglecting these needs in childhood AND coddling far into adulthood will result in a dysfunctional adult who will not be able to appropriately care for themselves. That's my 2 cents, I hope it helps. Your kid is adorable, and you should have high hopes for him. :)
@oGBooDirty85854 күн бұрын
Too many vaccines
@parwatisamant10109 күн бұрын
God bless the baby
@bountyhunter494912 күн бұрын
Were complex beings. And things will go wrong. But everything is manageable.
@nofilterbtxh500018 күн бұрын
Simply the fact that you recognised signs so early shows how much of an attentive parent you are!
@maozedung727020 күн бұрын
Why you fixed him in a plastic chair? He thinks you are terrible! Everywhere around him are the future rubbish made from plastic.
@nourahamid-um4xv20 күн бұрын
Wow...very inspiring
@xdpunk359928 күн бұрын
Alot of “ autistic” people were just raised wrong like people are saying in the comments or tricked or diagnosed what ever yes but still autisim is a thing
@Mixwell1983Ай бұрын
My 11 month old doesn't have any of these signs and based on the actions I don't know if anything would raise a concern as a parent other than him being soo enterained by the book for that long or the TV. Our first son is fine also so I guess if the 2nd baby showed any stand out differences we may have thought "huh that's different" but if you were a 1st time parent im sure none of this would really stand out if you didn't know what to look for.
@islamonlysolution461Ай бұрын
Good luck to kids i have my own baby and i love wll babies ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@akierapeaks4882Ай бұрын
How did you teach your baby how to count, alphabets, & months of the year so early
@lynlyn5990Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing And he is a pretty smart boy too
@T3xasP3te2 ай бұрын
Hey I’m a new father to a baby girl, and I have no clue about parenting I’m doing my research with formulas trying to get good standard formulas to try and avoid and genetic mutation that could lead to autism if already isn’t instilled. Any tips on how to be a new father ? I looked into mutual funds for her and looking to get her credit frozen until she needs it. All the help would be appreciated. God Bless
@user-ev9sw4ee8j2 ай бұрын
Within weeks of starting Dr. Oyalo's autism herbal medicine, we noticed a significant reduction in our son's sensory issues,hyperactivity and meltdowns. Incredible
@tomekk.26202 ай бұрын
My son's similiar in behaviour. Fight against autism is a real mortal kombat.
@jomercurio15202 ай бұрын
Just a question, say you ended up with child who you felt was just too affected for you to want to deal with? I mean like if you knew that there was just no way you could "be the best parent" to them. Could you turn them over for 'adoption' to the county? Some people just know they dont want that in their lives and they wouldnt be good to them. There has to be options, but I didnt know of any advice I could give
@FitnessfK3 ай бұрын
Som time is the issue is given him phone and make them only watch tv and day long and not taking to them as much this also can cause autism and not breastfeeding as will it can cause it as Mam milk its so beneficial to the development of the baby
@petergriffiinbirdistheword3 ай бұрын
My baby is 6 months and not babbling, coo'ing ect. He hit me or himself when something is wrong. Not sure if thats normal but his doctors said he should be making noise by now.
@summersonly69523 ай бұрын
Like many, I believe he was born normal and stayed normal until one of those vaccines was just not good for him. Not sure if it was one too many or possibly given too close to receiving another vaccine. The amount of vaccines given is unreal and only continues to grow. I'm 50. We didn't use to have so many "special" children. To say it's sad is an understatement. Creating vaccines a billion dollar industry. Of course we need every single one if you let them tell it.
@rrijecanka3 ай бұрын
I agree
@tmlee1233 ай бұрын
No he showed signs at 10 months. You get mmr at 18 to 24 months. Nice try though.
@emuscreeches60923 ай бұрын
I was watching this video as someone who is prepping for an autism evaluation as an adult, but your daughter's stank face at the end gave me a much needed laugh!! Reminds me of my own little sister at her age. Thanks for sharing
@marting60153 ай бұрын
I do some of these things as an adult. Hell, for all I know, I probably have autism, but I am about to start medical school.
@defensegeneral98934 ай бұрын
What causes this? Some people say too much exposure to TV and Cellphones , some people say too much vaccines
@baihanesmail33144 ай бұрын
Is there anyone here has a ADHD when your younger? Can you please me give an idea because my son diagnosed in ADHD🥹
@SuperbLullaby4 ай бұрын
Nice video
@ani27564 ай бұрын
He’s the cutest ❤
@priyaj52834 ай бұрын
What a smart little man !! You are doing amazing mom and dad.. make him a star
@Ykdamenace-f9v5 ай бұрын
My child use to act like that and is very fine now
@Ykdamenace-f9v5 ай бұрын
I think was his signs everybody is different
@mr.joshua2045 ай бұрын
I was labeled as "retarded" in the 90s,.... and now I'm a cdl driver, I own my own house, paid off my new car, about to have a baby, married, so yeah, the corrupted school system can go fck itself
@lans2715 ай бұрын
I think he's very cute and normal
@user-dl6xi9eg9r5 ай бұрын
We ❤ Raiden! ~Chrissy
@grannyllama6175 ай бұрын
Developing perfectly normal..probably until after all vaccines given!! Parents beware! I have a friend ( who is a dr).. son perfectly normal and happy until after 2 yr old vaccines.. he has never recovered!! Non verbal autistic.. 18 yrs old.
@rrijecanka3 ай бұрын
I have 3 examples around me with the same issues after 💉… I gave non 💉 to my child
@tmlee1233 ай бұрын
He started showing signs at 10 months. Mmr is given at 18 to 24 months. Nice try though 😂.
@GenericUsername001726 ай бұрын
ahh the vaxed child
@tmlee1233 ай бұрын
What gave you that impression? Unvaxxed children develop autism too. But what's your point though?
@majapetkovic22936 ай бұрын
He is wonderfull❤
@nin57396 ай бұрын
He’s fine i don’t see anything wrong
@kallmekahla76426 ай бұрын
I don’t know …seems like a baby genius to me💕
@anaduerr22036 ай бұрын
Thank you and God bless.
@jeannamsimmons84186 ай бұрын
I'm wondering has any other parents of autistic kids not did this I don't know proper turm for it but always called it the scared baby aka when you put your newborn down aka when they asleep or awake they always throw there arms out I wonder cause my little one never has not from birth to today at a year old it's very confusing to me both me and my son have adhd so other signs she has could be just adhd but this one I've never heard of or seen and wonder if this might be one of those that determine autism instead of adhd have any other parents seen this and was your child diagnosed autism or adhd she is way to young to been seen if it is just adhd but if it's a something like autism than I'd like to have her seen early on so I can 1 get myself more prepared and 2 get as much help to make her life easier looking back had I gotten my son help earlier in speech instead of listening to people telling he'll talk when he's ready he may have had an easier life and wouldn't be were we are not that he isn't doing great but he still struggles and I'd rather not have my youngest struggle as much if this makes sence
@nicoleyap60707 ай бұрын
You are a wonderful mother. You little boy is so precious. You have a beautiful family.
@alexandrajohnson8867 ай бұрын
I relate watching my grandson -now 12 … he still has fixations with spinning things and fans … learning to be patient with him self and others … I look back at his father’s youth (my own son is in his 30s) -I think he had autism and I missed it … he would stare at this hands for hours and I’d try to break the spell … unfortunately he is a drug addict since 16 -and just maybe he was autistic and I missed it 😞
@karliforbert7 ай бұрын
Excellent video!! Thank you for sharing ❤
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@mcsiggs21737 ай бұрын
Looking at your husband I can see why he’s like that
@tmlee1233 ай бұрын
I do think it is passed on from men, not from the woman. The brain and its stem are the first to develop as well as the sex chromosomes in the first trimester. It has been researched and I speculate that the vitality of the man's sperm is crucially important here. Its why many first trimester miscarriages are blamed on poor sperm. Autism/adhd are all brain and personality-related disorders so it makes sense when you look at the father often in these cases.
@riicktann7 ай бұрын
anyone with unvaxxed babies experience autism? just uhhhh curious
@burntieburntwell71117 ай бұрын
May I ask about his vaccination history? Just curious if there’s a correlation.
@tmlee1233 ай бұрын
No correlation. Those who are unvaxxed develop autism too.
@burntieburntwell71113 ай бұрын
@@tmlee123 oh I was asking the video creator.
@tmlee1233 ай бұрын
@burntieburntwell7111 And I just told you a testimony of unvaxxed people with disabilities.
@gofukursef7 ай бұрын
He seems advanced... definitely don't see an issue. He appears to be focused.
@melcarrim52157 ай бұрын
My son flaps His arms and screams is this a sign? He also can watch tv for long time he’s 9’months old