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@Believeinyou1813 3 күн бұрын
Very helpful ❤
@ЛичныйТелефон 21 күн бұрын
I just through out of my life those who tries to dare to make me feel small. I am enough and I am not too much. I am exactly what i have to be. It's up to their inability to handle my size. Their lost.
@Believeinyou1813 25 күн бұрын
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@arankagionetti2098 Ай бұрын
COWARDS!
@Believeinyou1813 Ай бұрын
Very helpful, thank you ❤
@Believeinyou1813 2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I got your help to get out of that situationship I was in 🥺
@wayneshepherd5933 3 ай бұрын
🕊️ 〰️ 💛💚💙❤️✨
@rexraga-01 3 ай бұрын
Mate you're toxic
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
But what if I’m not that into him and he says that? What should I respond?
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
If it doesn’t feel good to hear, then of course don’t say that! There are so many ways to push a man away, that’s easy! I’m teaching women how to draw the men they want in their lives to come close ❤ But if you want to stay in your feminine energy, communicating a no in a very respectful way you can say “oh, this feels like it’s going too fast for me. I don’t feel like I know you yet” Or “I appreciate your honesty, and I’m sorry but I don’t feel the connection I’m looking for”
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
Totally makes sense.
@eloise3667 3 ай бұрын
This video does Not resonate with me. If I feel like I cannot respect or trust a man, it is because he is Not worthy of my respect and trust because he has not shown that and I can ONLY trust myself. Just because a man wants to be in control does Not make a woman feel safe! It makes her feel the opposite because he just wants to dominate and manipulate her.
@eloise3667 3 ай бұрын
A woman has self-respect when she trusts herself to separate from an untrustworthy and controlling man that does not keep her safe from him.
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
Yes. And that’s exactly what I’m saying in the video: I ask anyone who’s not trusting their man “what are you doing with that man”? What makes you want to be with a man you don’t trust? However, what I often see is women not trusting themselves. This looks like not trusting themselves to say NO, not trusting themselves to catch the red flags and most of all not trusting their deeper feelings & intuition. When we’re in our head thinking & obsessing about a man, our intuition is blocked. We miss the part of the relationship that’s not good feeling for example. Obviously, this isn’t you , so … this video is for women who need the deeper work of releasing control & let go of their masculine energy behaviour 🖤
@eloise3667 3 ай бұрын
This is Such Bullshit!!!
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
This is so true, we have to start with ourselves. I was always over giving in the past. Now I’m learning healthy self love ❤ thank you for all the inspiration
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
We all want to be loved unconditionally. 😢
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
I hear you...sometimes we need to start with ourselves first.
@TheElevatedWomancircle 3 ай бұрын
I appreciate your tips so much! Just dropping some love here and hoping you reach more women because you’ve helped me sooo much ❤ Thank you so much 😊
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
Aww 🥰 thank you so much I feel so happy to hear that. Just curious- where did you first find my content?
@TheElevatedWomancircle 3 ай бұрын
@@evaellycoaching Honestly, I found it on my recommended page. I think it came up because I often watch videos of similar content on feminine energy. Glad I found you!
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
I’ve become so much more comfortable in my feminine energy using your tips ❤ thank you
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
Aww I feel so happy to hear that. What’s been most helpful?
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
When is it ok to text a man?
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
Good question! And there’s no one right answer. It’s a lot about how you feel- are you coming from a clean place in your heart or a place of hurt & expectation?
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
Your videos are always on point and I’m learning so much. I was always so stuck in my masculine energy before. 🙏
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
So glad! Thank you
@stacysmith7387 3 ай бұрын
How to teach him to be more respectful? Especially with hidden childhood wounds. Relationships are mirrors and if he is intense and controlling it comes from a place of healing that he can’t access or is at least very very hidden in time. I get it. Let it unfold in time, but there’s a difference in being soft and receiving…and gently nudging or inquiring. My dad was very critical and abrasive and so Is my bf. I keep saying it’s not their fault because they’re not even consciously aware of it, but it hurts my feelings. And I know that we all have hidden words, including myself . How do we go through this journey together? Thank you
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
Wow so much in this comment I could talk forever about it ❤️ you mention your dad & your BF & their similarities. This is so common. We choose a man who’s like our father bc that’s how we perceive love - even if it’s hurtful & painful (I did that too in the past). It’s great that your seeing this since that gives you an awesome starting place! It’s about catching when you start to feel hurt & instead of turning to your BF for reassurance or for him to say sorry - you turn to yourself and give yourself that love you need in the moment. I’m happy to help you walk through it, if you’d open to that. Or start with my emotional processing worksheet you download it here: HTTPS://www.evaelly.com/emotional-processing-register The other thing I’m reading is about getting him to be more respectful. My work is about feminine energy which means inspire a man. This means ask yourself: am I treating myself with great respect? Am I treating my man with great respect? Am I generally respectful? When we focus on being respectful, we will receive more of that. And if he’s still not picking up on it, there are some tools and techniques that will help you set good boundaries without any games involved ❤️ lmk how this lands for you
@Dawnarow 3 ай бұрын
errh... learn to communicate and reciprocate his efforts. If you want to be in a stable relationship... you, indeed, need to move past the child-like state of not being able to regulate your own emotions intuitively. Aka not projecting and taking responsibility for everything that you feel. If you're with a guy that hurts you without hurting you physically... maybe he's just terrible at formulating it as a constructive feedback or you're unable to grasp that it is a constructive (helpful) feedback. If you just want him to listen without responding... know that we do this internally and we have healthy coping mechanisms. Sadly, most of the frustration of men stems from the topic at hand. It's incredibly frustrating to be stuck with a child that wants to have children. Also quite... disturbing to think about. I've only ever stuck it out with one. She's often rejected harshly :( I sincerely dislike seeing her this way, but she's cornered herself with theism, inability to self-reflect (slowly introduced her to herself more than a year ago and she hated me for it as my voice ended up in her hamster ball... long story short, I've figured it out and the very many steps ahead of her are rough). Yours, though... seem like they've taken their toll already. I'm not sure you should be giving advice, but... if you Have to: "my opinion is" <-- will prevent you from mean ol' men that are just telling you the truth. Always have been (unless they just wanted some action). Anyways! GL / pls dont rely on it.
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
Long.Confusing.Comment. But I do believe what you say here is about the same as I say in my video: Learn to process & take responsibility for your emotions! That’s what I teach women. It sounds as if you’re very frustrated with your relationship with your woman or if it’s an ex…I’m sorry you both weren’t able to communicate & grow together.
@rollotomassi2009 3 ай бұрын
This is complete nonsense. Men are not women sweetie. Sex is the relationship glue, write that 100 times on loose leaf paper.
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
For you maybe 🥱 thanks for your confession anyway
@rollotomassi2009 3 ай бұрын
@@evaellycoaching Thanks for be vacuously flat brained and not speaking to the point, "Coach"
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
What makes you watch videos by “flat brained coaches”, meant for women? *curious* Again thanks for another confession 😅
@rollotomassi2009 3 ай бұрын
@@evaellycoaching Hey why don't you offer an answer to my original point or do you just like to prove why men avoid you? What do you even know about "capturing a man's heart"? You are so stupid it hurts.
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
How can I show him that I trust & respect him?
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
I’ll be making a whole video on that! I also have an episode on my podcast diving into this topic it’s called “the difference between how men & women love” Check out the Love Therapy Podcast with Eva Elly
@Believeinyou1813 3 ай бұрын
It’s so important to love ourselves & our feelings ❤
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@FrancescaOndafen 3 ай бұрын
So wrong on so many levels… please stop educating women on being the dominated sex.
@evaellycoaching 3 ай бұрын
What? 😂 anyways…thank you for your confession.
@Believeinyou1813 4 ай бұрын
This is so true❤
@evaellycoaching 4 ай бұрын
Download your free guide to the heart of a masculine energy man here: www.evaelly.com/three-keys-to-love
@evaellycoaching 4 ай бұрын
Download your free guide to love & capture the heart of a masculine man : evaelly.com/three-keys-to-love
@Nomad.Hawk_87 4 ай бұрын
Oh, this speaks to my heart... i have a lot of fire in my energy, and i often feel that it's associated with masculine energy and so it's not compatible with being a woman, somehow... But fire can be feminine too... ♥️
@evaellycoaching 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely! 💖
@Believeinyou1813 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful ❤
@dealswithnormiesallday 4 ай бұрын
Most men have checked out. The juice ain't worth the squeeze no more.
@Believeinyou1813 4 ай бұрын
💯 ❤
@Believeinyou1813 4 ай бұрын
This is true. A woman can inspire a man to be action oriented.
@Believeinyou1813 4 ай бұрын
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@Believeinyou1813 4 ай бұрын
Great advice 😊
@Believeinyou1813 4 ай бұрын
Love this ❤❤
@mikioni 5 ай бұрын
You are gorgeous 🥰
@evaellycoaching 5 ай бұрын
I feel happy to hear that
@Believeinyou1813 5 ай бұрын
Love this ❤
@Believeinyou1813 5 ай бұрын
I love this feminine energy approach to relationships. It’s changed my whole life & how I relate to my significant other 💕
@Believeinyou1813 5 ай бұрын
I noticed that when I stopped initiating, he started to do more for me and that feels good 😊
@Socrates--469B.C.E 5 ай бұрын
As a man listening to it and relating to it.... Once confessed to a girl my love after 7 years of being connected closely... She was not committed to any body and said that she do not want to bring disrespect to her family by getting into these things at the moment... I agreed. However...another guy from her college by his very "bad guy tricks" was able to convince her for the same. She still wanted me as one of her best friends and I simply ghosted her. Yes, as you said, she tried various means to contact me....but the price of breaching my trust has to be paid anyways.... Women indeed are complex to be understood. They do not like good men...they like men who pretend good....
@MarokoJin 2 ай бұрын
She didn't like you, as simple as that and she didn't breach your trust since you weren't in a relationship, you don't own her.
@jignavadher1586 5 ай бұрын
So true ❤
@Believeinyou1813 5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@louisetaylor6952 6 ай бұрын
Eva,I can't even expression how much wisdom is in this message...you are exactly right..I had to dig a little deeper to find my truth but there it is...I am saving your message to read every day ...this will be like a caring friend giving me a reminder...May God bless you abundantly and always for helping so many of us...
@evaellycoaching 6 ай бұрын
Aww 🥰 thank you so much sweetheart…I feel so happy to hear that it resonates. What was most helpful…? Sending much love & God bless you too ❤️
@Believeinyou1813 6 ай бұрын
❤
@louisetaylor6952 6 ай бұрын
If a man is treating you especially well, why not just enjoy it...just don't read anymore into it...if you are treating him fairly and not taking advantage of him and not making promises you aren't going to keep, then your conscience will be clear...
@user-ln4qe1sh8i 7 ай бұрын
Geez, this is so rampant. Happened to me recently. He wanted to get me into bed after we met, the fact I said No and then the disappearing act tells me that I was wise, ladies make a guy earn your body as they will lie and manipulate a weak woman. Shame on him as he knew that I recently lost my father. Seriously F him!
@Bill-il8kc 7 ай бұрын
Full load of bullshit!
@evaellycoaching 7 ай бұрын
I appreciate your confession 🙂
@Ягор-п1н 7 ай бұрын
As a man, I completely would not understand the "ouch" the way You explained it in this video. If You want to tell him about your feelings - tell straight. Don't put on him the expectation that he will clairvoyantly get everything out of your "ouch". If you want to tell something, tell it straight. Do not play these emotional games.
@evaellycoaching 7 ай бұрын
So if your gf said “ouch” you’d not understand she felt pain? 🤔
@Ягор-п1н 7 ай бұрын
@evaellycoaching I didn't say that. What I'm saying is there are simply too many interpretations for that "ouch". It can mean virtually anything from slight uncomfortableness to any imaginable resentment. And meaning can depend even on intonation which will be interpreted differently from man to man. So if You want to be properly understood, You shouldn't play with him a game called "guess what I think about". Instead, You should put your thoughts and feelings in straight words leaving no room for misinterpretation from the beginning.
@thewoodster8607 7 ай бұрын
Does it work the other way round?
@evaellycoaching 7 ай бұрын
Don’t know, I teach women to tap into feminine energy.
@trapdoorfloyd 7 ай бұрын
Take away reason and accountability but when you impose the reason and accountability that's when they say ouch. That's the truth since the dawn of mankind.
@evaellycoaching 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for your confession.