This is all so true. Amazing.

Watching this as man, and thanks I have another perspective. My only issue is that you are saying men wanting to remarry is selfish neglecting that women wanting to keep their husband to themselves is also selfish. At the end what it seems is that it’s about financial security for the women- so if we men make enough money that all the parties involved are happy then it won’t be an issue. Lastly i implore you to realize that this your perspective as a woman and its needed but you cannot dictate what are the right criteria for men to get second wives. Thanks for the video though , appreciate it.

Thank you so much for this video sister I found this really helpful please I miss your videos you haven't been posting lately

Narcissism does such damage to the victim , managing your expectations doesn’t cut it. The abuse chips away at the emotional and mental and in some cases your spiritual well being of usually the mother and the children even more so. Narcs don’t love they are incapable. They don’t support they only harm after harm.

Heavy on the refraining explaining. Wow, I can't believe that woman offered her husband to you, lol.

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Yep and a woman being taken care of and staying home is a benefit to her. Therefore, more holes for me, which is ordained by God. You people just hate for men to be happy and fulfilled

I am Christian and I could never accept poligamy. It is even not allowed in my country. I like your film. May God be with you. Take care ❤

As salamu alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh ukti! May Allah reward you! Amin.... I benefited greatly 😊

Just left my ,,relationship of 3 months“ cause he was not meeting my core value. Many communication issues. My mum loved him, although he was not religious at all. She said I love him, Im happy meeting him and I was happy but coming Home I wasnt anymore. In my eyes I didn’t love him and the attraction was missing. I was forcing it tbh. I’m almost 30 Next year so I was also thinking about age as well and now I’m here again Single. I prayed istikhara lots and although it seemed it was Going well but I was always crying to Allah and always feeling upset at Players, lost within my duas. I’m that Type of person who doesnt really go out . He was introduced as a Family friend as well. I dont want to give him another Chance, cause I know its Not Going to Work out.

Machaa Allah, I have tears from the end of the video! May Allah reward you sister ❤❤❤❤ What a golden speach!

Machaa Allah, beautiful how you put the positivity in that topic. That‘s what Islam teaches us, to try to do the best and do Dua. My experience: As long as I stay against him and stay strong (with facts), he can‘t go through me. As long as you value yourself in a healthy way, things might work out. ❤

Thanks sister Nafisaa, My namesake. I love you and your lectures May Allah accept all your ibadah. Barakallahu feekum 🙏🙏

Absolutely love this mashallah ❤

dear sister, how can i contact you ? I would like to get advice on an issue And i dont have instagram

SubhanAllah!!!!! Beautiful advice you’re absolutely correct on this SubhanAllah 🤲🏾🤲🏾

How do you pray laylatul qadr namaz

Men these days are not like Sahabas. They can't even pray 5 times a day. They do not want to go on jihad which is now obligation on them as whats going on in Palestine is unacceptable. This is the main reason for polygamy in order to support widowed and orphans whose husband were shaheed in battles. Men these days just want to commit sin and enjoy life. And then they want their women to work in order to support them and raise kids alone.

Thankyou so much for the enlightenment

As Salaamu Alaikum Sis where are you I hope you’re ok!!!!missing your videos🤲🏾🤲🏾🫶🏾

This is really true.

My husband lied to me by saying he was single, and after we got married, he told me the truth after me facing him my suspicious. My whole world was destroyed and also my potential life... He said he was going to leave his first wife... Now I'm pregnant... We're still in the same reality and I am the one who is becoming crazy. I've never wanted polygyny because I know myself and I never wanted to destroy other women's hearts. Polygyny is not easy, no matter what people say, because most of them are not living this situation and they cannot understand our pain and our rollercoaster, and I am not made for it. I'm not embarrassed to say that I'm not made for it, because it kills my faith and makes me struggle with the most tiny thing. I wish I could get out of this situation... I also admire those women that can handle that, but it's not for everyone even if it's halal. Thank you, sister, for this video ❤.

They don't think what they're doing is wrong. They will always deny responsibility for their words and actions because they forgot or just didn't know. You'll find yourself having to explain empathy to them at great length and they'll display real difficulty in understanding it. They will use scripture as a form of emotional blackmail. They feel they deserve constant adulation and to always be the centre of attention and you deserve their punishment if you don't comply. They will show signs of jealousy at your achievements and joy at your misfortune. If you try to set boundaries, it will anger them and they will try to challenge them and gaslight you at every opportunity. They will use siblings, relatives and friends as flying monkeys to further their agenda. When they can't get to you because you Grey Rock them, their behaviour will get worse and they will target whatever you care about and intentionally try to anger you and ruin your relationships. They will use gossip, innuendo and character destruction to affect how you are perceived by others to make you look bad and make themselves look like the victim. Their anger towards you will turn to hatred and hatred always becomes pathological. But, because they're your primary care giver you'll always hope that one day they'll become better and understand what they're doing to you and maybe even love you like a normal mother. If you maintain a relationship with them you can never let your guard down. It's draining and stressful to always have to be so vigilant of someone always trying to take advantage of you and testing your boundaries. They're incapable of change and will never fill the void in you that they created. No amount of cruelty from them will be beyond the realms of possibility. Save yourself before it's too late.

I am just turned 20...i feel suffocated and afraid of being alone....makes dua for me so i can find my future husband

May Allah bless you sister Ameen

Very beautifully said ❤🙏

My mother use allah to manipulate me since I was a child that make feel far away from allah. I have never was good for her. She only was half smiling when I was giving or doing what she wants, the rest of the day or our entire life she was angry with. Now with 35 years old I am really dead inside of me...

I’d rather get rejected by a man then being with him in a never ending talking stage tbh

I’m one of the Muslim brother willing to settle and involve family. Problem on our perspective, sisters have far more choices and options especially social media society. I’m not against them having preferences after rejections of years it’s proven moderation sisters are not serious for marriage. It goes both ways genders problem these days.

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I have made a list of personal duas. Where is the best place to read these duas in Umrah when ur going in Ramadan and it’ll be packed.

Please can someone tell me what is istikarah

Assalam wa alaikum sister... before suggesting women to walk on the streets somewhat displaying themselves to men or registering to some matrimonial sites. Please look into the Shariah for these rulings. As a muslimah we should know our boundaries!

So much of what you have said resonates so deeply with me. Thank you so much. This is very helpful. ♥️

Also I would like to add that since my husband came back from Bangladesh, he did not engage with me or seem so emotionally present as he used to be, because all the time he was thinking of his secret wife and children.

Sister Nafisa thank you for this. More Muslim men have to understand this. I am a Muslim revert and married a Muslim man from Bangladesh. I married late and was unable to have children. I said to my husband why don't we adopt children. He wasn't keen on the idea. Instead, he goes behind my back and married a younger woman and has four children with her. Him and his family who always despised me because I am English, have kept this wife and children secret from me for 5 years. When I finally found out, I was horrified and in pain. Although I could not have children, I did a lot for him. I helped and paid for his Spouse visa so that he could come back into the country, because home office sent him back to Bangladesh 7 years after we married. But while I saved up the money to pay for a spouse visa and the health surcharge, he married another woman in Bangladesh and had children. I said to him you should have told me first before marrying. Well, he did not because he wanted me to pay for his visa etc.. and bring him back to UK while ignorant of his wife and children. Well, he told me a year after coming back to UK, and what is more, he expected me to help bring this wife and children. I felt insulted. My flat is in my name so I was able to get the police to remove him in the end and take him to his sister and family's address - them that despised me so much. I feel a lot better for putting in for a divorce. I am no doormat!

I know I've probably commented this before, but dear sister your advice saved me! A couple of years ago, I watched one of your videos in which you talked about the importance of istikhara. That same day, I prayed istikhara after Zuhr or Asr, can't remember which, but a couple of hours later, the older man I considered marrying showed his true colours! He turned out to be targetting me for my naivety. Subhanallah. Allah responded to my Istikhara, so clearly. It was painful but I am glad I am safe from that individual, alhamdulillah.

It’s polygyny not polygamy

I lost already my hope

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men are very weird to understand that i always end up here to check if they're real or just playing games fr

Thank you for this very useful video. And I want to say you that you are so beautiful Allahumma barik❤️🙏

Allahu akbar ❤️ Allahu Akbar ❤️ Allahu Akbar ❤️

Eish my sister I not Muslim but I blv it's e only true religion left in e world, cultures differ around the world the my step mother is one of sweetest mother's I know God fearing women I have now to mother's and a lot of siblings so problem heremy sister is Hollywood they have destroyed so many families and homes with their unnatural ideology, polygamy is not the issue at all, we can't blame guns n bombs for wars, instead let's talk about how to do it right than this negative feminism ideology, if e male ratio is 4:1 generally is some places 10:1 so wat happens to other sisters ey don't deserve marriage? these things are er for a reason if it's not love to treat a man as a personal object. It's sad to Islam women who e last true women of God being mislead by fantasy based ideology

How can I set boundaries with my mother when I live at home?

Ma salaams I'm a first wife and I am living the nightmare of the side chick life. I'm about to get off this nonsense

Watching in 2024😂plan on going soon in shaa Allah

4:04 “ask Allah to guide your actions” wow