My beautiful sister in Islam. I love you. My life has fallen apart due to shaytan and magic- I did not do this- it was done to me. By Allah my master I have never done such things. Please my sister, make dua for me. And may Allah, Lord of all the words, grant you the highest station, please my sister. I love you. And all the Muslims. I prayed today Allah makes me a way out. AMEEN. Please never give up hope of Allah, I am so blessed you are doing better than me. No God but Allah! my Lord. Ameen.

My parents are both working but my mama was never responsible for the rent, bills and everyday expenses. My dad did that and instead my mum put all hers into savings and al7amdulillah bcx of her savings all 3 of us siblings are able to study abroad and hold degrees from good unis. My dad didnt have the (extreme) pressure of saving and my mum didnt have the pressure of contributing. I think it works well this way!!

Thank you,may Allah bless you❤

Sahih Bukhari (72:715) - Muhammad's child wife Aisha said, 'I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women'" (Hadith Sahih al-Bukhari 5825).

Thank you for the clarity

If you made the Istikhaarah prayer properly, its answer will be made clear for you; not in dreams nor in the feelings of others. If what you decided on is good for you, Allah will make it easy of you and if it is not good for you, Allah will take it away from you and destine for you good elsewhere.

Istikhara is one of the greatest blessings given to our ummah. Once you've finalized your choices and are unsure of which one to choose, pray istikhara. You'll see how Allah guides you towards that which is best.

Jazakhallahu khair

Not all men are made for polygamy and same can be said for women too. No women want to share the husband!

Allah told men to beat their wives. What good comes from this act of violence against the wife?

Muslims men don't care about what muslim women think or feel. Why would they? If Allah didn't care; Allah didn't take into consideration the natural feeling of jeolousy. Allah knows everything, so he knew polygamy would be a source of conflict in marriage, would bring suffering for the woman, and he didn' care. Women sacrifice means nothing for most muslim men. It's exactly after all sacrifices are made by women, when she is most vulnerable, that men seek for another wife. Those ungrateful men will tell it's their Allah given right to do so.

This is the best video i ever heard about poligamy..to painful for me and other

I understand your situation as I have 2-year old boy-girl twins

Because he felt he has hurt a lot of women by telling them he will married them but doesn't happen so now he doesn't want that to happen again

But l asked him and it was about his previous relationship

Salamulaikum sis what about the man has feelings and love me but told me he has no intention of getting married to me but tell me we should put our trust in Allah what do l do

“Just because it is halal does not mean it is the best decision to make “ ~ well said

"It can be hard for a woman to actually teach a man to be a man."

"Toxic men absolutely hate to be challenged." Yup. Is that why they run away?

I dont know where you get the opinion that men who abandon their wife a child will go to hell? How do you know their fate exactly?

Question for Istikhara if I wanna add in English if he’s the one for me open my heart to him and make me feel sure or something do I add that in the Dua after amr or at the end of

I found a person who always take the side of his brother as, the parents are not alive. I have tried to connect with him through my wali but he rejected completely... I broke my marriage with him because he is not taking initiative to attend me and taking step to provide me a sense of relief.. Now I'm on my journey to anto find a good spouse. Please pray for me sister... I like the idea and way you explain about marriage and selection of spouse

I really like the topic. I think this analysis is definitely correct. 50/50 should not be applied to Muslim families. A woman should not be made responsible for any finances in the house. The only limitation that I find is that you assume that women are taking care of the house. Maybe it would have been great to quickly define the responsibilities for both genders. Truth of the matter is that nowadays, women are asking men to jointly take care of the house. They want to share responsibilities in the house under the pretext that they are also working normal hours, while still wanting to have men take care of everything financially.

Thank you so much sister. It is reality Am surprisingly to hear that we all have red flags. But the 6 th points was quite relevant

I’ll try to be respectful when I say this, but you’re extremely ignorant. The narcissistic “mother” is not a “mother.” She can not be honored the same way a loving mother is. She is a threat and a danger to her own child, a manifestation of evil. In Islam the basic principle is safety above all else. You are not commanded with throwing yourself into destruction. In order to protect yourself, you must leave, and that means NO CONTACT. I think you’re completely out of bounds telling people who have gone no contact that they’re losing their akhirah, you haven’t experienced this test and you don’t know that you’re talking about. Clearly you lack expertise and experience.

Nafisa is this your test? I don’t think it is. Telling people to be patient and endure something you’ve never been through. Just because you have degree doesn’t mean you’re qualified to give advice. There are some things you have to live through in order to know what it’s like.

My brothers are not rich and their wives are at home

SubhanaAllah Sis this was an excellent topic for us all Ma shaa Allah TabarkAllah very beneficial 🤲🏾❤️

Can you talk about feminist, misandrast mindset Muslim women

LOL... the polygamy I agree with is 2 males and 1 female. Males do NOT have adequate amount of stamina to handle 1 female less known than having more than 1 female. Men are giving way to much space to satisfy thier lustful spirits. I can take care of myself as well as worship ALLAH being single. WHY do females subject themselves to heartaches behind these jellyback egotistical lousy males? We as women are able to take care of the home and raise 2 or more children so taking care of 2 or more males (so-called Polgamy) wouldn't be a problem for us. We are the caretakers in this season so all of the males who desires two or more females can kick rocks. I pity the ones who flatters these types of egos...count me out besides the LONGER I'm single the LONGER I want to REMAIN single...Inshallah!

Asalamualaykum, i have to commend you for this great and well researched video. Baraka Allah feek

I’d rather sleep on the floor with a PROVIDER than live with a rich man who insists on spilling bills.

What is 50 50 it is a western concept scam But its is spreading due to cost of living and people wanting everything A man contributes all his life become ill cannot work wife has resources and says no so man dies from hunger women hoards her resources and inherits the man legacy and resource It’s all about helping and fearing Allah and the intension The issues is multiple marriages/ single marriages were man does not contribute red flag Many ways to contribute no money labour help family Not severing Allah in his family but problems rooted in ignorance greed selfish people and no Rahma or Muwardah Society has turned women into men labour equality feminism 13:28 agree sister bad man 13:52 agree No one wants to take any responsibility people are becoming ignorant and corrupt 14:49 west expectation Women achieving more than men educationally and in workforce Women earning more The problem is bad people taking advantage of the family the team

MaShaaAllah Congratulations

What happen when a man dies

Just in a nutshell, let's compare our modern marriage to that of 40 or 50 years back, the women were feminine, giving the utmost respect to their husbands, in return the men were giving the utmost mercy ( respect) towards their wives, almost 80% or more of those marriages succeeded. Since we started deviating from the responsibilities given to us by our Lord, we're facing consequencies, more than 60% of marriages are not working!!!. All because of vanity! Family members get involved in marriages instead of helping to build, they destroy everything! What is the problem if the wife contribute something if she works with the husband's permission, not forgetting that the man could've said no to it and instead serve him at home but provided the man takes full responsibility! Let's go back to the Quran and Sunna, be objective and exercise patience!

If a divorce happens then all that money would be a waste. To me 50/50 is fair. People have retirements to worry about

What scares me is that the most "he serves" through his financial contributions and the more he expect his wife "to serve" with her free labour. It goes both way, so 50/50 can help some women to find relief from the guilt of not maintaining a four star hotel at home with hot quality meals on demand. Also, the man invests both in the akhira and the douniya while she is rewarded by Allah but has nothing in her name in the douniya after decades of marriage. Then if he asks her to stop working and stay at home she has to obey, unless she asks for divorce, which she can't easily do if she has unsufficient income. Do you see the issue ?

A man has a thousand ways to support his family, he can find enjoyable and easy ways to do it. Some invests, some work from home, some choose a job that gives them fullfilment like healing, protecting, creating,... If the women's roles were so great why didn't the men already push their wives and daughters to work for them while they stay at home ? Because it's not only about money, it's about the power, the network, the social status. That is not easy to achieve when women are expected to yield everytime when it comes to their career. Relying more heavily on their spouse's income push the men to give importance to their partner's career. She can always hire helpers, it was done even at the time of the prophet. The 50/50 might be a way for some women to free themselves from the one and only traditional way of supporting their family which has been the same since the beggining of times, and might not be a good fit for all of us. Many men see women as interchangeable : we all fulfill the same roles and have the same skillsets anyway ? It's an incentive for the men to contribute to child rearing, house chores, and for the couple to be closer by understanding each other's daily lives and hardships. The truth is that we don't have a village anymore, if one parent is unavailable the other must be able to carry on efficently. It's not just about technical tasks, it's about knowledge, habits, intuition, social skills,... They can plan and make better decisions together, on an equal footing.

this women talks nonsense beauce realtionsships are not alowed . in marriage you have rights and over one and other and also duties. women should stay at home . work is for men . women stays at home and she takes care of the home and husband and kids. woman should not leave the house without a reason. the man is not obliged to help the wife , he can do it . if he want to do noting at home than he can do that because he has done his duty . and the men must go to the masdjied . the women in islam is exempt from working , so wy make it hard on your self by working . the women can only work if the husband alows it , and her money is hers alone . but working should be done from home . her duty is taking care of the house and children. it is 50 50 (more like 100 100 because the man has his duties and the women hers and both should not expect form each others to help with there duties. the husband has the responsibility to take care of the wife and children and to protect them from the fire of hell .women think that they have it hard , but they have it easy . they make it them selfs hard by working outside the house and than taking care of the children and husband and house . the man can not force the women to work or to pay , if she oblige to it than it is her own fault . the man has no right on her money . if she wants to work but with her husband permision . and according to islamic rules . but if she works she can not expect from her husband to help her with her duties .

I have been doing this for the last 11 years (6 years with my current husband ) and we have 4 children together (ages 5 nonths to 4.5 years) and until lsst week i have contributed..but i will never do it again..after i was called "lazy" a couple of days a go....rhe house is a mess,he relaxes after work and i try to get around with all rhe kids being at home plus my older child who goes to school...he dont lif a finger and does bot do any household chores..then i feel like i will not help with rhe expenses(i spend about 3k dollars a month)..NEVER again

The Juice just ain’t worth the squeeze for us guys.

The physical strength men were blessed with is not so much an advantage anymore in terms of earning power. That is why things are different.

7:40 the solution is easy stay at home and don’t work 😂 you want something impossible and then blame it on men 😂

Than why are you working as a woman taking jobs from other men too ? Stay at home if you don’t want 50:50

Grateful to you for this video. I like what you said about mercy.

As a man, I hate 50/50 especially for a muslim. She shouldn't cook then.

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