Eff mee! A new video drop! Ello geezer! ADHD person #1

These "diagnosis" are a curse, so many people abusing these meds with fake or misdiagnosis that meds are nearly impossible to find, crazy expensive and carry an undeserved stigma for real ADHD ppl Edit: Talking in general, not about you

This is genuinely the first KZbin video I’ve ever been able to watch in full! Congrats 😂🎉 it’s great to hear someone talk about medication sensitivity - it’s rarely heard about especially in ADHD world! I had the exact same experiences on Xaggitin (methylphenidate) which I initially thought was “working” for me when I’d reduced to a lower dose as the higher was making me emotionally INSANE!! Because I’d had what I perceived as positive effects in work in terms of focus, I presumed this was the right medicine. However it flared up Raynauds so was told I had to discontinue. Went onto Elvance and the difference is HUGE! I’ve got my personality back, I don’t get the euphoria and notice when it kicks in so subsequently don’t get the crash when it wears off! I look back at my time on Xaggitin and realise I wasn’t well - the emotional dysregulation I was experiencing was worse than non-medicated and I think had I stayed on it I could have become very mentally unwell long term. I’m on what considered a “low dose” of Elvance now at 30mg but it feels great, only problem currently is getting to sleep but it’s gradually improving and I may get melatonin prescribed to help. A part of me wonders if there could be room for improvement by increasing the dose but knowing now how sensitive I am to meds makes me nervous to rock the boat when I’m doing so well! So think I’ll leave it and perhaps give it time to increase to when this dose becomes less effective - plenty of room then to stay on the meds long term and increase in future! Looking forward to watching some more of your vids! Thanks 😊

This is the best and most realist experience I've heard! I could listen to you for hours 😅

I started strattera 25mg 2 weeks ago and I feel nauseous every day for about an hour in the morning then I feel better and just get shit done.

Yes bud!!! Looking forward to it !

Short and have renumerative thoughts. Why do you know so much about me

I'll definitely be watching this one. I have ocd so ruminating thoughts are my enemy

ADHD and same time Genetic high Blood preassure and fast heart Beat is a big problem, should i try Clonidine??

The like button doesn’t work!!! Fantastic episode - I got a lot out of this! Ta!

Tysm for addressing my questions. I could write an essay for my reply but will try and keep it short. I should have mentioned the age of my daughter. She’s 25. Brigi, thank you for acknowledging how difficult it can be as a mother. Society blames the parent/s for everything. Whilst I understand many things are the fault of the parent/s, there is no acknowledgment of the good work we do. I have a lot of guilt. I tried to get help. Nothing was effective. I can now see it’s because she is female, and has inattentive adhd. Heywood, you mentioned you didn’t want to sound like you’re preaching. IMO you’re not. You both have lived experience and I appreciate your time and opinion. I continue to learn from you, and am doing research elsewhere to gain as much understanding as possible. She is seeing my efforts, and we’re slowly having more open and useful conversations. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it of course. She’s a wonderful person. @HeywoodandStuff

Legends !!

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This is my favourite guest you’ve had on to date - definitely one that I totally resonate with and clearly you do too! Great energy between you too, like you’ve been mates for years! Valuable episode for me, ta!

Alcohol destroyed my life

Awesome talk my man 🙏🏻

Thank you so much for posting this video, like you said it really is valuable. We are trying medication for our 13 year old boy who is struggling in school and has been struggling to focus, fidgeting, answering out, friendships etc. We waited just over a year for the diagnosis and had a locum paediatrician diagnose him. We didn’t want to medicate him, but as time went by we felt we wanted him to level up with his peers, as it just isn’t fair. The Locum put him on Medikinet XL 10mg slow release and the head aches where too bad and put him in bed on day 5, so we stopped. We went back to the NHS for help and the Locum had gone on extended leave for 3 months and we had no one, the message we had back via the secretary was they have side effects basically deal with it. We were fuming and ended up going private. The next meds where Concerta XL 18mg another methylphenidate which when they wore off sent him high as a kite and couldn’t sleep. So we went to the 3rd meds which were amphetamine based called Amfexa 5mg which were short acting as there is supply issues with XL version (Elvanse). He had these for 2 days but the crashes were horrendous, crying his eyes out and not knowing why. So what next. We are on our last chance with Non stimulant meds. His Dr has started him on Guanfacine 1mg/day for 2 weeks and then 2mg for another 2 weeks upto 4mg if needed. We have only just gone upto 2mg and no major side effects yet… When doing research there is loads of information from Paedeatricions but not from end uses like yourself. I genuinely am so appreciative of you making this video for your honesty and great editing skills. I really hope that our son can gain the clarity that these meds have given you, the super power to get on with boring stuff, which unfortunately is need in life !

So. You have a partner? Thats all i care about here.

Just got prescribed Strattera and so far it’s been life changing knock on wood. It also lifted my depression. Which I didn’t even know I had.

Well you don't have adhd concerta should slow you down Concerta is a brand name for methylphenidate, a prescription drug that is used to treat attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) in children and adults¹². It belongs to a class of medications called stimulants, which work by increasing the levels of certain chemicals in the brain that help with focus, attention, and impulse control¹². Concerta is a controlled substance, which means it has a high potential for abuse and dependence. It should be used only as directed by a doctor and stored in a safe place where others cannot access it¹². Some common side effects of Concerta include headache, nausea, insomnia, decreased appetite, and dry mouth¹². Some serious side effects include chest pain, irregular heartbeat, psychosis, and allergic reactions¹². Concerta may interact with other medications, such as antidepressants, blood pressure drugs, and seizure medications. It may also affect the results of some lab tests, such as urine drug screens. Therefore, it is important to tell your doctor about all the medications and supplements you are taking, and any medical conditions you have, before starting Concerta¹². Concerta is not suitable for everyone. It should not be used by people who have glaucoma, severe anxiety, tics, Tourette's syndrome, or certain heart problems. It should also be avoided by pregnant or breastfeeding women, unless advised by a doctor¹². Concerta is usually taken once a day in the morning. The tablets should not be crushed, chewed, or divided, as this may affect how the medication is released and absorbed. The dose of Concerta may vary depending on the individual's response and tolerance. The doctor may adjust the dose gradually until the optimal effect is achieved¹². Concerta is meant to be part of a comprehensive treatment program for ADHD that may include counseling, behavioral therapy, education, and lifestyle changes. It is not a cure for ADHD, but it can help manage the symptoms and improve the quality of life for people with this condition¹².. Source: Conversation with Bing, 10/2/2024 (1) Concerta: Uses, Dosage & Side Effects - Drugs.com. www.drugs.com/concerta.html. (2) Concerta (methylphenidate): Side effects, dosage, and more. www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/326389. (3) Concerta crash: What it is and how to prevent symptoms - Medical News Today. www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/325673. (4) Concerta - NPS MedicineWise. www.nps.org.au/medicine-finder/concerta-extended-release-tablets. (5) en.wikipedia.org. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Methylphenidate.

I got diagnosed yesterday and started taking Straterra today. Less than 30 minutes in, I was feeling significantly different. I was able to brush my teeth without pacing around my apartment and finding something else to do. The ride to work felt so peaceful and smooth, like I would feel on a good day after meditating for 30 minutes. Had no issues concentrating at work. I took my time and did things more thoroughly. I moved a little bit more slowly but more intentionally. Since my brain wasn't paying attention to every minor detail of what other people did and what was happening around me, I felt more confident. I feel more connected to my body. It's only my first day so I don't expect it to stay like this, it could very well be placebo effect. But just knowing that this is what life could be like...I had no idea.

I noticed that you mentioned your partner was vegan. Nutrition really affects our mental health quite a lot more than people think. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4OaeWyumrKMg6c I don't want to push anything on you, but it's really something to pay attention to. Many ex-vegans exist due to declining mental and physical health over the years. The ex-vegan communities are growing for a reason.

Totally ! We need to talk especially British men. This ain't 1950s anymore

Thank you for sharing your experience. I start Strattera tomorrow. I already have insomnia, but I'm excited to give it a shot.

As for me, my ADHD made me the best parent I could ever be. However (here’s the big butt) - that’s all I did! Now my child is 14 I’m trying to find out who the fark I am in all this now. No one can obsess like an ADHD person in one area in life where they have passion. Now I invoke Depeche Mode by saying I need to ‘get the balance right’

I really appreciate you sharing this one. Sharing the pain can be momentous, especially for someone who has never been seen, or who might not even acknowledge their own pain. So in a way, if one doesn't cling to the shadow in order to experience that moment of connection personally, one can not only focus on finding that connection in growth, but one can also reach back into the shadow if someone needs it as a gift? Just enough so that they know they are understood? And then point them to the next step, maybe? Off to do some thinking.

Thank you for sharing this. This is so good.

Arkham Asylum awaits mate, you need it!

AWESOME FLAMING MIC!!! Oh wait, that’s a salt lamp thingy in the background. Never mind.

Amazing tatoos, genius way to balance out the birth mark. It all looks incredable on you.

Your presentation is so calm and seemingly in control. It has to be hard to maintain that demeanor. How often during the filming do you have to take a break? What usually triggers that need?

But if you take it in the evening, of course you won't sleep,

So me lmao keep the work up brother love respect well wishes 💚

I defo enjoyed listening to it. Life is a joy and a struggle. Life and the human experience is very complex and layered and should be lived as full, deep, shallow, exciting, boring, engaging or ambitious as everyone sees fit. Self awareness and the willingness to grow, expand, absorb and experience life will give us the tools, inside and wisdom to get out of life whatever it is we seek. Happiness is maybe one thing (which paradoxically isn't found when chasing it but jumps at you in the most unexpected moment) but mist of us look for meaning and fulfillment which brings contentment and a deeper sense of connection, community and consciousness and hopefully the feeling that life was worth living. Btw it's weird watching friends discussing interesting stuff and than I catch myself trying to join, talking to the screen 😂

Started this medication today Im 45 male diagnosed ADHD 2 days ago Im excited but nervous

def try the stimulant medication, you may be able to add a small amount of extended release adderall. I would highly recommend the extended release form

Really appreciate this, mate, thank you!

RIght on brother!

Do I end up with face tattoos if I get my dose wrong

Is more like a way for the big pharma to get your soul....... but as long as it helps you succeed, shut up and lemme take my medicines XD Keto diet actually helps more than any medicine...... but is impossible to sustain..... Vinvanse makes me lost my soul..... This shit makes me ignore everything and focus on rabit role after rabit hole...... If I do a drawing of a person, I'll want to make the pores of the character's skin........ wtf...... Is good to learn new things, and good to make a master piece if you have 3 mouths to spend in a single job........ But terrible for mantain consistency or finish deadlines and ignore mistakes...... I simply cannot stop solving things in a fractal with vinvanse. To sumarize, this sh*t gives me debilitating perfecctionism...... For example...... Why do I even bother to write this fucking giant text on a random youtube video??? But I keep going and going and goind...... Hell Ritalin for what I remember, makes some ideas to pop out of nowhere, and I feel more inteligent, and creative. Makes my drawing skill to strike whole new levels, and is much more easy to shift focus, instead of going in a fractal.....Feel like my thoughts gets more generalistic, less perfectionism, but good atention to make a descent job overall..... Sad that it doesn't take so long, I'm soon back to be an ameba... By the way, I'm a very anti-social guy, so this euphoria helps me overcome the lack of human stimulae, so I love it.......

Seriously bro is ‘working from home’ a good idea for the likes of us? 😊

Great video pal 👍

I've just started Atomoxatine at 40 mg yesterday and the effect reminded me of the St. John's Worth I took some years ago when I got it prescribed for mild depression and popped the 1st pill and felt f*cking "high" as others do on weed (which only got me binge-eating and really massive vertigo effects, when I tried it twice). But it was "fascinating" to be in that "emotionally balanced Observer Mode" again for a day, despite the headaches and slight dizziness. Also: I don't have as much of an appetite anymore, which is good since I gained some weight to be less attractive for others (since I've had a lotta abuse stories in my past - emotional and physical). But my physicians told me, that it's - of course - also a risk for Diabetes and Heart Issues as well as fatty liver etc. So, yeah, but without Hope, maybe an early death in this kinda world, won't be so much of a loss - less of the catastrophic consequences of willful Ignorance of Decision-Makers: * check * Since I'm also on other meds, that I need to take in order to stay alive, I'll definitely look for a "sleeping pill" the moment I realize the whole Economy's and all of the necessary delivery chains are breaking down. I've got about half a year of backup for my important other meds and once I find my "sweet spot" for Atomoxatine (Qelbree/Viloxazine isn't available here in bad-ol' backwards Germany), I'll try to get an equally stock for that so I can figure out the rest of my stuff before kicking the bucket and give away the rest to those who need it. I've been almost deadn' gone thrice so far, so I'm actually looking forward to meet the loyal ol' fellow "Joe Black" again - he's always been there, when all humans were gone...very reliable one that 😏. Also one of the only "teachers" I'd (have to) "listen" to with my stubborn mind when I was young (I'm "middle-aged" now). The first chronic thing got me into conspiracy theory crap, too - since false hope was still better than none back in the days, but the consequences eventually escalated for me to be forced to either abandon that stupid 💩 or literally hit the bucket because I was dead-sick by that time. So, I was also pretty crazy by that time I remember, but only meeting my (now ex, but still best friend) hubbster via the comments of a friend overseas online on FB, I eventually got him to get me to a f*cking therapist and get diagnosed eventually with all that Trauma I was "managing" together with my ADHD and all the other crap. Well, here we are...40+ diagnosed finally and getting to a medication, that feels like it finally does some good for me. My co-morbidity is actually a contra-indication for Medikinet/Ritalin, so I told my Psychiatrist, that I won't take any stimulant (I tried Speed some time when I was younger, but it didn't really seem to affect me much - more the other drug I tried in that time when I was in love with that druggie-guy in Berlin - but his anti-social behavior got me sober once and never took anything again after these couple of days with him...also my first love was a heavy junkie of all kinds of party-drugs including LSD, which was his doom since his best friend once told me online, that he got stuck on a Horror-Trip and had several long stays at Clinics for it, which broke my heart to hear that again. But he kinda perceived me only as a "toy" to play with when I was in Love with him as my first ever Lover and thought "Love can conquer all" - the hell it can!). I hope you can also build up a little stock - it's not a stimulant, so it doesn't need special legal letters to accompany it with (I can imagine it could be a problem if you wanted to build a bit of a "buffer" for stims since I'm sure authorities quickly think you're gonna deal with them, despite only building a stock for the next stuck tanker in a channel or the next buncha pirates attacking them on the narrows of any of the Seas). Cheers and thanks for this video - really helped me recognize the symptoms I experience, too (waking up at 2 o'clock, wooziness/dizziness/"remote-control"-perception : * check * )

Wiseness !! Thanks for the discussion