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@emeraldchat
@emeraldchat Сағат бұрын
Great advice, Naomie. All these things should be what we should look for.
@msSAN300
@msSAN300 Күн бұрын
I´m horrible! I always give everyone advice!!
@msSAN300
@msSAN300 Күн бұрын
Women also want to feel respected and admired for their ideas. I prefer that to dumping my emotional crap on someone and feel understood and cherished.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Күн бұрын
@@msSAN300 you’re not horrible. How is giving advice working out for you?
@kc17131
@kc17131 2 күн бұрын
Very helpful classy beautiful. I need a video about cultural differences
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 2 күн бұрын
@@kc17131 are there any particular cultures you want to hear about?
@kc17131
@kc17131 Күн бұрын
I’ve always wanted to date men from other countries in Europe 😄
@umihereuminoumi6177
@umihereuminoumi6177 5 күн бұрын
There're as many men as there're pebbles at the beach. Just leave him.
@jackthehat1093
@jackthehat1093 5 күн бұрын
I'd say you should never forgive somebody who cheats on you. Once that bond of trust is broken it will always be in the back of your mind and you'll always resent them for it. And they'll probably do it again anyway or you'll always be trying to monitor where they are because they've made you insecure. Why bother? Just break up and move on. Loyalty is very important.
@kc17131
@kc17131 6 күн бұрын
I believe he should make me company. making friends isn’t easy for me 😞
@annegalt8798
@annegalt8798 8 күн бұрын
Hell yes!!! Who knew?
@kc17131
@kc17131 9 күн бұрын
Well my ex was not ready for over a year but eventually he was fully committed
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 9 күн бұрын
Yes, it can take time for someone to be ready.
@mattjames112
@mattjames112 13 күн бұрын
Shit opinion or the shittiest opinion? Hard decision.
@yamilegonzalez1426
@yamilegonzalez1426 16 күн бұрын
The need for validation and recognition should not be a driving force for commitment or expression of love. both partners should focus on how they can serve one another. A man is called to love and a woman to respect and both are called to surrender one’s self humbly.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 16 күн бұрын
@@yamilegonzalez1426 I agree 👆
@DustyHankewich
@DustyHankewich 16 күн бұрын
3 questions, who Ami to you? Who are you to me? What do you want to build together?
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 16 күн бұрын
@@DustyHankewich I like this. 💗
@kc17131
@kc17131 16 күн бұрын
Great advice! Asking for permission says a lot that you treat somebody as they want
@FXCBOY
@FXCBOY 18 күн бұрын
They never give a fuk
@firefly198
@firefly198 21 күн бұрын
Resonates completely! How long were you dating Naomie until you met your current man?
@watercolourferns
@watercolourferns 21 күн бұрын
Why do we have to date when we don't feel like it? we can say no.
@kingoietro99
@kingoietro99 21 күн бұрын
Isn’t this universal for everyone?
@spookybooky7024
@spookybooky7024 21 күн бұрын
Wonderful advice ❤
@ТимурГараев-й7л
@ТимурГараев-й7л 21 күн бұрын
Manipulative women end up lonely and in depression.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 22 күн бұрын
@kiranbokhari7750
@kiranbokhari7750 23 күн бұрын
Hey Naomie ❤
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 23 күн бұрын
@@kiranbokhari7750 hi there! 🌷
@claudinemunang7451
@claudinemunang7451 23 күн бұрын
Is it ok to tell him why you are leaving or wait for him to contact you first?
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 23 күн бұрын
@@claudinemunang7451 this all depends on the individual situation. If he is not reaching out to you and he’s out of contact, then it’s perfectly reasonable for you to just walk away. But if you are in communication with him you’re spending time with him. You’ve been going on dates or are in a relationship with him and you’re not getting what you want in the relationship then absolutely the compassionate thing to do would be to talk to him and let him know.
@ST-rj8iu
@ST-rj8iu 23 күн бұрын
I agree with what you are saying but some men want to be in the feminine role. Learned helplessness and manipulation. Women can use these techniques but be prepared for him to not step up. At that point, decide if you want to be his mother for the next 20 years.
@Threesixtyci
@Threesixtyci 29 күн бұрын
Hmm... the truth is... if a guy does the things she stated in the first half of the vid... Girl will label him as needy and dump him within the first 3 weeks. It's just what happens. Also...guys rather have an instant meeting from dating apps... too much competition (and typical guy get about 3 likes a month vs 99+ that attractive girls will get) and girls don't get attached via text or calls. They often respond with a few words then go on to the next guy and ghost all the previous ones. Then when they do go back... theyll often see the guy going crazy with multiple posts and view him as needy and unmatched. Basically, girls force guys to play games....
@allisonherr333
@allisonherr333 29 күн бұрын
I could never stoop so low as to forgive a cheater, get a life girlfriend
@Omar_Zazzle
@Omar_Zazzle Ай бұрын
I have never heard such insane nonsense, if I had tried your advice on my current girlfriend, she would have never agreed to go out with me as she would have concluded that I was a Simp.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 29 күн бұрын
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@angelikagalezowska9194
@angelikagalezowska9194 Ай бұрын
Im OK and get it when you Rori and Helena say about no instant chemistry to be a driving point; always open to see a guy 2nd and 3rd time, YET I experienced, and many of my dingle gals do also, that guys do decide instantly and drop if thre is no chemistry for them instantly. I do say to myself then, this is not my Mr Right, he would not do it, but somtimes this doesnt help. How to deal with that, what are your thoughts?
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 24 күн бұрын
@@angelikagalezowska9194 I understand, it can be so painful when a guy drops away suddenly. However, you want the right man to have strong chemistry for you so he continues to pursue and cherish you forever. so if a man falls away then he’s just disqualifying himself without you having to let him go. What’s for you won’t go by you 💗
@azullove979
@azullove979 Ай бұрын
I am a 33 year old man, I feel I am ready for a real relationship, go on fun dates, deep listening and connecting, make plans and follow through, I think I just end up caring to fast to much, I have to lay some bread crumbs out instead of the whole loaf... Slow play it. Thoughts?
@ironwillie7666
@ironwillie7666 Ай бұрын
(1) take the red pill and watch hoe math relationship zones. (2) never take dating advise from a female. (3) if its not a hell yes from the get to, its a hell no.
@Omar_Zazzle
@Omar_Zazzle Ай бұрын
How can you do any of that with what you make at Walmart as a Greeter? Please explain.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 29 күн бұрын
@azullove979, I love hearing what you're ready for and what you want to bring to a relationship. It sounds like you may be getting emotionally invested in the idea of a person before you've got to know her. Have I got that right? If you were to focus on getting curious about her, you'll be able to discern if she's a good partner for you. Also, not forgetting about your friendships, your passions and hobbies. A man who has all of these things is very attractive to a feminine woman.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 29 күн бұрын
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@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 29 күн бұрын
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@GODsimba-e4e
@GODsimba-e4e Ай бұрын
I think we still learning how to talk.. i mean receiving i love yous is the relationship i got enough fake ones growing up... Besides nobody eant no bf/gf yall want money. Lol adults and kids older i got how the more wise i supposedly get my supporting cast stinks
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 29 күн бұрын
I'm sorry you received fake "I love you's"
@GODsimba-e4e
@GODsimba-e4e Ай бұрын
So when u have time for all that.. u live on by clock 24 hour basis.. work... T.v.. kids.. yourself.. u mfs kill me. How yall have time to date 🤢 yhen when yall around each other what 🤢 stop it
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 29 күн бұрын
I hear you. it can be tough
@toddfrank3344
@toddfrank3344 Ай бұрын
Short answer: NO. Next?
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 29 күн бұрын
that could certainly be a good answer for anyone who's showing clear signs of not being emotionally available.
@toddfrank3344
@toddfrank3344 28 күн бұрын
@@NaomieThompson What gave it away? 🤣
@annegalt8798
@annegalt8798 Ай бұрын
I LOVE dating, and keeping my options totally open. Love you too Naomie:)
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
@@annegalt8798 love you too Anne!
@honorkiely5633
@honorkiely5633 Ай бұрын
I'm a Widow.is 64 to old to go on Dating Sites
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
@@honorkiely5633 64 is definitely NOT too old for online dating! Watch my recent video on how to date when you’re starting over. kzbin.infomANfdgmKjlo?si=92A6rvBSajl_PlqK
@wendyholdenpierrepicot5473
@wendyholdenpierrepicot5473 Ай бұрын
Choosing Partnership Over Chemistry is a great point ❤️‍🔥 my first relationship after I lost my husband was instant chemistry. I guess I needed it at the time, but not again 😢
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
Hi Wendy, it's easy to mistake the amazing feelings of chemistry for the beginnings of love. But starting with compatibility and seeing if chemistry grows is the way to go for a lasting wonderful relationship.
@SherriLytle-s2c
@SherriLytle-s2c Ай бұрын
Watching the replay from Kansas City, MO USA
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
@@SherriLytle-s2c great to have you here!
@tumelomofokeng1717
@tumelomofokeng1717 Ай бұрын
I wish I’d seen this a year ago. I really feel like my relationship has broken because of this, and I don’t know how to fix things. Might just have to accept that it’s ruined, and better prepare myself for the next one if I find love again. Amazing video. Thank you so much
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson 23 күн бұрын
@@tumelomofokeng1717 i’m so sorry to hear that your relationship is broken. When we change the way we communicate sometimes relationships can turn around quickly. But I also want you to know that you mustn’t beat yourself up, we can only do our best with what we are equipped with at any given moment. Keep learning and growing darling. 🌷
@shakespear90
@shakespear90 Ай бұрын
I am 33Male Another sign is that the guy wants to take care of you. He wants to feel special. Like he can cook for you, give you some gift for special day, can bring you breakfast in the bed. If you feel unconfortable with that or feel you dont deserve it and it affects your attraction to this guy, or worst you want to flee away from him. Then you should tell him immediately that you have an internal problem. Stop dating immediately. And go to therapy. You are not available emotionally not him.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
Yes, a masculine man will feel loved when his provision is received with warmth and and open hearted appreciation. Many women struggle to receive, but with self awareness, patience, and warm communication this can be healed in a loving relationship.
@binni61
@binni61 Ай бұрын
The older I get the more I am in my masculine energy cause I m rid off all this stupid things n people 😅
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
does this feel good for you? Or deep down would you love to be able to soften into your feminine energy?
@claire-louiseosorio7397
@claire-louiseosorio7397 Ай бұрын
Im now living with the man I had been dating but I’m noticing he’s no longer planning dates for us the way he was. How can I encourage him to do this without leading him?
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
Hi Claire, this is a great question and one I will be addressing more depth in my next live stream and in an upcoming newsletter. Expressing to him how it feels when he's romantic, and how much you miss it would be a good start.
@claire-louiseosorio7397
@claire-louiseosorio7397 Ай бұрын
How do I communicate my needs in an open feminine feeling- statement way without coming across as needy?
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
Hi Claire-Louise, the key here is to keep the focus on you and your feelings. And in my world... neediness is an unmet need that we're hoping that he will meet. We want the relationship to meet your needs. So sharing your needs in "I feel" statements. I feel sad when..... I feel special when........ Are you on my email list? I wrote a newsletter last week with more detail than I can put here in the comments.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Ай бұрын
I don't need a discovery call but I have one question. There's a very high quality man of integrity who is interested in me. I can see that by how he speaks to me. Its only been 3 weeks. I just moved to the vicinity and don't know the area. At all. Should I ask him to show me around or should I wait for him to ask for a date? He's a masculine man and he makes me feel seen & protected.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
That's a great question! This is about showing you're interested with your warmth and receptivity rather than directly asking him out. I'd like to go into more detail about how to do this in a newsletter. You can get my newsletters naomiethompson.com/freeaudiotraining. And I'll also touch on this question in next weeks live stream.
@danilaroche1156
@danilaroche1156 Ай бұрын
My best friend would give her man advice, thinking she was helping. He'd get very irritated. My cousin would do same with her husband snd he'd get angry. I didn't understand it but I do now! Great video.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!! Once we know this information we see it happening everywhere!
@ghfudrs93uuu
@ghfudrs93uuu Ай бұрын
Hilarious. I've been working the US for 2 years and you people just ground me down. I grew up being taught to treat women with deference, and how it was my responsibility to protect them and elevate them. But now, I legit saw a woman stuck in the middle of a highway with a broken car and all I could think was "who cares?! I hope nobody stops to help her". You are nasty, you use men in the worst possible ways, you are liars, narcissists. American women deserve solitude.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
I'm sorry you feel that way. It sounds like you've been hurt.
@janechristi-vn2ez
@janechristi-vn2ez Ай бұрын
I hope your not saying that a man should be tested by playing games with his head,
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
@@janechristi-vn2ez. I don’t believe in playing games or testing a man
@briar35981
@briar35981 Ай бұрын
All women do things to test men. Whether they know it or not. In the beginning the test are numerous. From provisioning, protection, emotional stability, emotional maturity, emotional availability, anger management, problem solving, communication skills, it goes on and on. But the tests continue as the relationship continues. Fewer in numbers, but with more specific in purpose. If the woman was raised in a chaotic home, or lived in chaos when young. The develop a chaotic mind. To a woman with a chaotic mind, peace is boring. This all goes back to that one question a woman is always asking herself within a relationship. "Is he the best I can do?" This constant questioning comes from being hypergamous by nature. The best provider, the best protector, and the best genetic material to pass on. Hypergamy, much like the Vagina, is undefeated in the history of civilization.
@RezPlank
@RezPlank Ай бұрын
​@@briar35981 You are spot on.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
Get my free 5 Keys To Have The Love You Want audio training - naomiethompson.com/freeaudiotraining
@firefly198
@firefly198 Ай бұрын
Naomie - I hate video calls 😳 Feel super uncomfortable.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
@@firefly198 I hear you. They were uncomfortable for most people before they became common place. Maybe build up slowly to them, start with a phone call and then overtime moved to a short video call. You will soon become used to them.
@annegalt8798
@annegalt8798 Ай бұрын
My ex insisted on paying for everything, and it was a turnoff because it made me feel powerless. And now she's my ex, so obviously it didn't work out!
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
Yes I understand why you would feel that way. The masculine energy in you was wanting to be able to provide something that would impact her, that would make a difference to her.
@Neoteny374
@Neoteny374 Ай бұрын
Looking back at my dating history (as unextensive as it was) I've noticed my attraction to petite women. Married the tallest girl I've ever dated, (5'2") In fact, we met when she slid in under my arm (I was the tallest guy in the vicinity) and asked if I could walk with her, bc a guy was creeping her out with his awkward advances. I was happy to.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
@@Neoteny374 thank you for sharing with me the story of how you met your wife. I hope the rest is history and you’re still happily married. 💗
@ronaldtyson-jx6qm
@ronaldtyson-jx6qm Ай бұрын
At this point it don't matter good men are walking away. Marriage and relationships are dead in this country.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that's your experience. It's not what I see evidence of.
@firefly198
@firefly198 Ай бұрын
'It's in our biology as women to feel safe and romantic about a man when he shows provision and protection And when a man doesn't, we feel turned off.' I felt so relieved hearing this - I'm normal! Thank you for articulating this so perfectly 😊
@ronaldtyson-jx6qm
@ronaldtyson-jx6qm Ай бұрын
Once again, the man's fault. Women take 0 accountability for anything.
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
@firefly198 yes! It's totally normal for a woman to want to feel safe and protected in a relationship :)
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
@@ronaldtyson-jx6qm What would you love a woman to be accountable for in this situation?
@NaomieThompson
@NaomieThompson Ай бұрын
Here's the free '5 Keys To Have The Love You Want audio training I spoke about naomiethompson.com/freeaudiotraining