That’s why I only keep 1% of people in my life. I don’t need a lot of false friends. They drop u for a useless, low level, false, stage acting, headache, disease clown male who will waste their time, cheat, abandon them, give them an STD, make them do free labour in the circus etc. Then they will come crying to u when their single false husbands cheats on them. Stay away from those women.

He will do all the BS that he did during our relationship with his new gf 😂 the difference between me and she is that I endured it for years and she will endure it only for few months 8 maximum 😂 goodluck with that shit girl, he has a lot of imperfections, especially in bed 🤭🫣😳

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I had to block him everywhere after seeing him with his new girl.

My two best friends and I used to play games constantly and talk to each-other every single day. A bunch of stuff happened. They both broke up with their exes (who were both toxic) and since then I noticed they were hanging out more and more with just the two of them, without inviting me. Eventually, they just didn't put effort into our friendship anymore and even stopped texting me for weeks at a time (saying they were too "busy" with work and stuff.) this really messed me up mentally, but I pretended I was fine with it. I knew they were probably dating, and when they told me they were, I couldn't pretend anymore and straight up said: "I don't want to be a third wheel." and asked them not to contact me anymore (I mostly just wanted to make a statement that I felt mistreated and was not gonna let them walk over me anymore). I think it's a good thing to establish your wants and needs in friendships, and you should draw boundaries or leave if you notice they don't put the same effort in as you do. Sticking around when you're miserable will only make things worse.

The skirt is short but it's also super cute! I think you pull it off really well ❤

I choose to remain single, and the married ones will come once in a while telling me how much of a loser I am...........they will love to hang out with me after I get a partner so that their husbands can come join too..........BRUH HELL NO...........

thx for this I feel seen 😔

You describe my situation with my friend. I'm a guy and my so called friend hasn't been the same since he got engaged. I've done so much for him and put most of the energy in the friendship. He's been changing plans and the give and take is gone. I'm angry and resentful. I don't feel he's my friend anymore.

Guys if she is communicating or hanging out with an ex stay clear she is keeping her opinions open . She is a scank

No no . Would not be be in a relationship any higher than with benefits with someone who was still in contact with an ex . You are playing stupid games

This video alone has helped me so much. Thank you, for putting this out here.

I don't blame her...

Girls I’m crying rn the one that wants to read read : I’ve been with my godmother’s son 2 times and after we broke up ( because of the long distance) I loved him so much I was thinking of him every day for 3 months. Today, for my birthday, my godmother brought me to a “facial care” and his son was with her ( and he had nothing interesting to do) so I thought he was here for me, he still liked me… But when I went home, my mother told me he has a girlfriend named Manon and he was supposed to meet her. I am literally broken I thought he was here for me, for my birthday, to see me after all those months, that I still had a chance but no. He totally forgot me and he is now with another girl. The thought of her and him together, her touching him it’s so unbearable to my heart. I started to stalk for that Manon but I can’t find anything about her. Is she prettier ? Nicer? Funnier ? He is so gorgeous I’ve known him since I’m born and she just come out of nowhere ?? He is mine ( I know this give serial killer vibe I’m really sorry) I mean he has done nothing wrong and neither she had but just no Not that

You sound very bitter

Suits you so much!!

Wispy bangs always soften the face. You look beautiful.

* SINGLE WOMEN KEEP WOMEN SINGLE !

You girl are the problem. When a girl has a man, THE MAN IS THE PRIORITY. THATS LIFE. SHES GOING TO MARRY (HIM), (NOT YOU MORRRRON) ! The woman at that point is in a phase of needing to prove to her man that she is worthy of him MARRYING HER ! She can NOT be Marriage Material if shes trying to pretend like shes still single and hang out with her friends on a girls night without her man anymore. MEN DONT ALLOW GIRLS NIGHTS. If you want to hang out with her, you can hangout at her place with her man or somewhere WITH THE MAN INVOLVED ALWAYS because HE IS HER NEW PRIORITY BECAUSE THEY WILL GET MARRIED AND BECOME (ONE WITH GOD), A RELATIONSHIP WAAAAY HIGHER THAN FRIENDS, EVEN HIGHER THAN PARENTS ! LISTEN AND LEARN. #TellAllYourFamilyAndFriendsToSpreadTheWord !.

I just seen my ex of 4 years with a new guy. Granted I broke up with her but seeing her with someone did give me some relief and now I’m ready to move on. It did sting and feel weird seeing her with someone new but she’s her own person and I do wish the best for her. Life is short and you cannot get caught up in a dark hole.

I broke up a month ago with my bf of year and a half. His mom messaged me eventhough we only met once to accuse me of lacking manners and saying she was utterly disappointed at me. The issue was something he messed up and had to deal with but she took it out on me. When I asked my at the time bf he said he's sorry and I asked him to talk to her and have boundaries otherwise it'd be hard to have a relationship, turns out he talked to her and idk what she said but it felt like he was beaten down and then just told me that we couldn't continue in a relationship since his mom is so against us. I also found out the reasons she didn't like me was because she thought I was a gold digger, I wasn't korean (they are), and I have tattoos. All things I cannot change but also all things he said never mattered. In the end it hurts a lot having broken up because I still love him but there's really no way I can have a relationship with someone who will not defend me from such emotionally abusive behavior. I just hope this pain goes away soon.

We still live together after being broken up for almost a year, and he just started talking to someone. I really thought I was working through things and would be semi-okay, but everything was happening way too fast for me (and eventually they also realized for them too) and it just felt like reopening the wound. I want to be happy for him and there for him, and I want him to be happy but GOD it hurts so much hearing him be interested in someone else and making plans with him. Then he feels bad about seeing me hurting, so it's just a cycle. All that being said, I'm really glad I found this video.

I’M LITERALLY IN THIS SITUATION! A very close friend I know has started dating and it’s her very first boyfriend. She has been ditching & canceling plans since then. Last year she mentioned she wants to invite me to trip to México with her boyfriend, his brother, his brother’s boyfriend, One of her boyfriend’s cousin, my guy friend, and then me. I IMMEDIATELY shut it down and gave her an excuse of not wanting to go. Because I already know she’s just gonna ignore me the entire trip and leave me in the cold. I honestly feel like a pet nowadays whenever we plan to hang out and ALWAYS ask if she can bring her boyfriend. I rather have no friends at all then being treated like pet or being push to the side.

My ex bf and I were going to get engaged but his mother was against of me because of my race (excuse me but they live in my country and their race is different). So we broke up. He couldnt defend me against his mom i guess and it was so much pressure on him that he gave up. Their family was invited to my family but guess what? They never showed up and i got a break up message on my BIRTHDAY!!!!! Do i still love him? Yes. Do i want his family? No. Did i move on 100%? No.

IMO and experience, respectfully, I don’t think being friends prior to the romantic relationship matters much. Most guys who are “friends” subconsciously or intentionally do so with the fleeting idea of a hopeful romantic relationship. Hence, why two out of the three boyfriends of yours were former male guy friends. Guys don’t orbit around girls if their’s no prior level of interest. Some guys take the express route, and some take the friendship route. If the relationship wasn’t toxic to the point of it being irreversible, it’s also important on how you break up. If both parties choose to be friends, and I mean both, the break up should be clear, concise, amicable and empathetic. If the break up was cruel, I seriously doubt it. There will always be an animosity buried deep inside. Someone will always have the upper hand and the whole thing will end up feeling very manipulative. And it will just be another part 2 of the same thing. Also, “black out period,” shouldn’t be a period. On the contrary, black that person out from your mind for good. Considering the fact that everyone’s relationships and break up’s are complex and unique to them, when you break up, you need to move on without giving yourself any future hopes of reconciliation. What’s done is done. And it’s honestly healthier. Most importantly, you must always keep your esteem and integrity intact. You have a whole life time to reflect and grow. Who you will later become, you may very well could out grow the past. This whole concept of clinging onto friendship post break up is honestly a power play. Both people are hurt and one of them is trying to relive their guilt. And soon as they do, you’ll see them slowly wither away under the guise of “friendship.”

You can’t. Only girls ask this question, not guys. If a guy asks this question, good job from demoting yourself down from her protector, shining armor, “other half” back to her “friend.” You’re now blended in with all her female girl friends.

Why do you hate saying welcome back?

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Year update vid? 🤔

That's y I don't believe in friendships. Men want you for sex women don't balance anything out.

for me it's both, pictures and words. it's just like TV, you got the visuals and the audio to go with it. I do think it's fascinating how some people only think in visual imagery.

Had a friend do this. Talked to her about it. Didn’t get better so I cut her off completely because I’m tired of being treated like that by a so called friend

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Here’s my little (I realised its not little) story: A person that we will call Mia (not real names for safety) became my first and only best friend when I was a teen. One day, I had to fall for her and it was going pretty well, acting like dating because of a little issue (solvable but late, won’t explain for safety). She then became the girlfriend from another boy who we will can Mike. Now, Mike and Mia do the same hang outs I did with Mia, staying late at night and so. She now replies to my messages after HOURS of sending. It’s clear, she is slowly replacing her 1 year best friend ship for a guy who she meet some weeks ago. Now she isn’t even inviting me anymore, and I’m sure if I stop texting she will just act cold rather than worrying like she would usually do. At first I did not understand why I was being such a simp to her (yes, I chased her for A YEAR) but now, I understand, I didn’t want to lose her.. to be replaced by someone and not knowing if that someone is making her happy at all. And worst is knowing now I’m friendless.. yes, she was my only close friend, and while she has a lot of friends to talk to I just had her, and now just my overthinking that’s making me slowly more and more depressing as the days passes.. At least she is happy right..? I accepted all of this just for her to be happy, even if it sacrificed mines and probably how the thing is going my mental health too. If I had the guts to tell her this I would start saying “where the f*** is my real best friend” End of the story, if you read this all till here I wanna say thank you. Stay strong, never let anyone put you down again.

" riesim caju sorry nemal som cas"

You have great energy.

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She sure messed you up ! lol Your bangs in front are way too short

I thought this was a tutorial…cheater! Lol

I’m struggling with this issue now, and I somehow came across this video. How ironic

they look too short

yes girlie i totally got u. just broke up with my 2yr bf and i’m in that mourning stage if yk what i mean. but i DEFINITELY am gonna have the same. YOU GOT IT💟🤗

When my wife and I started dating....all the friends I had prior to her...even friends since lil kids...I got rid of them all like I never met them and then married my wife and now we have a son and it's the best thing ever!!🎉

Crying while watching this cause I decided to step back from my long term best friend (we're best friends since elementary school!) She had good guys before but this new one is manipulative and overall bad person and already trapped her so I felt it's already too much for me.

It hurts so much. I don't ever want to get in a relationship again. I genuinely don't think anyone can ever fall in love with me and it's my own fault.

Pin? Pls

Get it, he'll b sorry

Im genuinely confused. Do people not understand the value of a "significant other"? This person is an investment. Unless you plan on trying to alter the sexuality of yourself and your friend. You will have zero chance in taking this place. A real friend will understand. We are biologicaly destined to find our partner.

Just keep it healthy as she said

Shoutout to her saying " Well I don't want their kids to be obese!" when we hadn't even dated for a full year yet. This was because she quote: "Only ever saw me eating junk food around her" The real kicker is that the guy (Who I still love very much) was the one getting ME the junk food cause he knew I wasn't ALLOWED to have junk food at home since my brother is severely disabled and will spike (autism term for having crazy behavior and mood swings) if he gets ahold of any of it so he was trying to give me a simple experience I normally couldn't get without risks. Same with ordering desserts at restaurants as I normally wasn't allowed to with family because I either "didn't need it/had enough" or it would be too expensive I explained this to him and EVERY time after that he would ask if I had room for a dessert or wanted to try the specialty when we would go out for food together, even going OUT OF HIS WAY to get me a milkshake on our first date when I told him it was one of my favorite treats heading to a SECOND restaurant for me after the first one was closed. I thought I was gonna cry. This man also COMPLIMENTED things I HATED about myself, my thick thighs and stomach to be exact, going out of his way to tell me how they were beautiful and he cherished them. Yet he also still encouraged my health despite loving and admiring the more thicc parts of me, reminding me to 'hydrate or diedrate!' and making sure I was eating enough, not skipping meals, offering to share snacks and teach me recipes when he would cook and not only ordering appetizers at restaurants to save money when he was paying (I was never allowed to pay lol). That line from her was one of many when she decided to talk bad about me behind my back to my mother after she had broken a carpooling agreement we had made just because she felt like it. It's moments like that that make me feel so loved and remember that any issues I could have with her are small potatoes in the long run compared to what love he showed me and taught me I could show myself. To me, he is more than worth the challenge.