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@bobsmith5441
@bobsmith5441 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting
@unemployedscholar4320
@unemployedscholar4320 2 жыл бұрын
You actually dipped a bit into the tenor range, so your voice sits on the lower end for a boy. That's great it dropped some, too. I understand though how you feel you were always meant to have a low voice. I hear you about being uncomfortable with singing treble clef. At puberty I was almost baritone but for awhile I was put in the alto section. My alto notes were so weak that it was embarassing. When I was put in the tenor section I felt better. My dysphoria arises from not sounding like a fully grown man and just sounding like a 13-year old. I'm able to alleviate it by singing countertenor, because my vocal range matches that of an adult countertenor's. I get dysphoric when I try to sing along with baritones, baritone-tenors or even low tenors, because their high notes are my low notes. It reminds me my vocal chords haven't masculinized enough to be able to sing along with them in their vocal register.
@tarynkitchen2320
@tarynkitchen2320 2 жыл бұрын
I'm at 3 months now and this is exactly how I feel. It's getting real and theres so much mourning for my past self. Thank you for voicing this and helping it make sense
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean about being sad but not sure why.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like that too sometimes when i go out like Im the weirdo
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I mean im soo scared of telling anyone I actually know
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
Relateable!!!!!
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah i had more guy friends too. I had a few crushes and i was always outed to said crushes or mocked for them it really sucked.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
Dude i have a twin too shes a blond huh how crazy is that?
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you man!!!
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
How do you not have more views
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I remember back in pe id get a bit over agressive sometimes wgen playing floor hockey and soccer and everyone nicknamed me the beast yeah it was kinda embarrasing as a girl back then but it was definately a sign that i was no girl.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I wouldnt say i was stronger there were moments tho but as a kid i was pretty confrontational with guys i didnt like. At winter sports one year i did basketball instead of iceskating and got along great with the coach and tried to act all cool but just ended up looking stupis half the time but he was impressed with my shooting skills. Man i miss my hoop.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I dont have the luxury of therapy sadly. Out of nowhere like onlya week ago the thought popped in my head what if i was trans then i had a anxiety attack realizing all the ways i was similar to guys and yeah. Im almost certain im a guy..of course there is still doubt but after i changed my youtube profile from Khara to Caleb and something just clicked. I literally argued with myself for a few days it was nuts.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I think its fucked that ya havrto pay 100 to 200 some dollars just to change our names
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
So right now its caleb i really like it but i have a bit of a problem with its religious conatation. Idk i like the name Dodger or Caspian.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
One time i sang son of man with a friend in band for a game and would try to do the phil collin voice.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
Ive always tried to do male voice impressions ever since i was a kid Prince of Egypt mainly a little later on treasure planet sinbad Atlantis ya know the clasdics i remember seeing the el dorado trailer and constantly doing the lines from it . I hear you on the hearing but not getting it its soo annoying.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
I really hate that my face is soo round. I really hate it soo much.
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
Im having some pretty bad voice dysphoria everytime it cracks or spumds high i wince or just stop talking.
@olliesnow9813
@olliesnow9813 3 жыл бұрын
Tysm!! because of your ways i am now going for a male haircut next week!!!
@milescummings444
@milescummings444 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I am also in my 30’s and have just started a social transition. I appreciate your encouraging words and your openness about your experiences.
@zinchtb7588
@zinchtb7588 3 жыл бұрын
I feel for you. I did a legal name change, but it took 8 weeks to get my medical insurance to acknowledge and change it- I literally had to threaten refusal of payment before they "promptly" changed my name in their systems. (It was changed the next day.) This is only because I changed my first name- apparently, if I had a name change due to marriage or divorce, it would have only taken "up to 2 weeks", which is their stated timeframe. Four months and a new year of health plan later, I'm still having issues with it. There needs to be more awareness of these "small details", so thanks for making the video!
@doitspitzer
@doitspitzer 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not 30 but I'm 24 and just finally decided to stop denying the fact that I'm trans. Starting my transition now and only have come out to a few people. I knew I was supposed to be a guy when i was 11 but when I told people they basically told me I had to be a girl so I hid my feelings and tried my best to embrace femininity. Can't do it anymore, no matter how hard it is to transition, come out, all the medical stuff, name change, etc. I searched for your video because I keep hearing about people who transitioned in their teens, something i feel i should have been able to do. But it helps to know that there are people out there who transition later. There's no right time to transition, just the time that you're ready. Everyone's experience is different and i think it's really important to share later transitioning people's stories.
@harry4820
@harry4820 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats on embracing your authentic self! It can be super confusing and scary - especially when you start comparing yourself to others! You’ve got this. You have so much life to live and now you get to do that happy, genuine and authentically! Looking forward to seeing your growth :)
@doitspitzer
@doitspitzer 3 жыл бұрын
@@harry4820 thank you so much! 😊
@Taylor-mn2kx
@Taylor-mn2kx 3 жыл бұрын
You are so real. I appreciate your honesty so much, and I swear, are you me?
@Taylor-mn2kx
@Taylor-mn2kx 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos provide so much more than the slew of other videos out there. Thanks for sharing.
@surprisinglypancakes
@surprisinglypancakes 4 жыл бұрын
Your facial hair is awesome! I'm 12 - 13 weeks on T and nothing near what you have!
@harry4820
@harry4820 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks jay! It’s so fascinating how the body works and how different we all are! I hope your journey is going great!
@marcusporras9571
@marcusporras9571 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@harry4820
@harry4820 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@marcusporras9571
@marcusporras9571 4 жыл бұрын
Hey man how have you been? Hope you update soon!
@zakdesu
@zakdesu 4 жыл бұрын
Nice updates!!!!
@harry4820
@harry4820 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@dylanfowler70
@dylanfowler70 4 жыл бұрын
Hey man! I am so looking forward to following your story. We look so much alike, and I'm just starting transitioning myself. I am so excited to see how things go for you, and to learn from your journey :) As an older person (36) I'm very excited to find people my age headed down this road.
@harry4820
@harry4820 4 жыл бұрын
Hey! Thanks :-) Exciting times ahead for you as well! Can't wait to hear about your journey as well. Good luck and thanks for reaching out!
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
@@harry4820 i cant do a whole lot to transition it kinda sucks
@dabeela.transgendermen8453
@dabeela.transgendermen8453 4 жыл бұрын
Nice god bless u bro...
@harry4820
@harry4820 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, man!
@alexs1984
@alexs1984 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Harry, I'm a 50 year old Italian ftm. Started T 4 months ago. And I have all the same issues as you. It really sucks sometimes, like being misgendered but, hey, don't worry, 50 years as your female friend feel free to take your time to adjust (to my friends) but then me myself are still adjusting among self doubt, pronounce issues and everything else. I know I want to look male, no question about it and no question about my breast for example which I can't stand anymore. But it's a winding road every single day. These days especially with my group of lesbian friends which I don't know where to stand anymore. So much going on
@londonalexander6716
@londonalexander6716 4 жыл бұрын
The isolation of quarantine has been rough on our community. I think videos like this really help.
@harry4820
@harry4820 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, London! The isolation is definitely impacting the community a lot - but we are strong and will make it through this, just as we have before!
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
@@harry4820 everything you said is exactly how i feel like why the fuck cant i just be a girl and go how ive always been going but i just know i wouldnt be happy like that.
@cyncyn7481
@cyncyn7481 4 жыл бұрын
I think some may also mourn why couldn't they have been socialized as a little boy. Mourning and joy are happening at once. Good video.
@marcusporras9571
@marcusporras9571 4 жыл бұрын
Nice . Thanks for the update.
@zinchtb7588
@zinchtb7588 4 жыл бұрын
3 months and my 40th birthday just went by. Thanks for the video about transitioning without being in your teens and 20s.
@harry4820
@harry4820 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Good luck to you! Hope it is going well!
@zakdesu
@zakdesu 4 жыл бұрын
I liked and subscribed, I just hit 2 months as well. I'm interested in following your journey!