Great information, thanks for sharing!

As a child, a lot of people are precluded to look inward and some people cannot do this. (Big disclaimer, this isn't from an atheistic position) Religion also offers a lot of excuses to pretend that this is okay: "it wasn't meant to be" when a relationship goes to shit instead of grasping our responsibility for the words used and behaviors that lead to dissension [very broad/generic statement, but covers a range of possibilities while being only 1 of hundreds of excuses found only in scripture... "common sayings" also confuse the mind. "If it doesn't feel good; it's probably bad" <-- learning doesn't feel good until you realize that it is beneficial to you and your loved ones if you learn to care<-- now this sounds more holy than most things you can find in any denomination of spiritual literature. Then, if you're not stuck in a paradigm with subsets of rules confusing you, there's the obligatory neglect of society creating a giant bias towards what PAYS but those often fuel vile behaviors... sex and crime pays fast (but destroy you just as quickly <-- seclusion follows/mental issues as you're parted from good influences to learn something that isn't taught...). Anyways... this problem isn't the comfortable feelings nor addressing them, but being able to identify them when you're young. If you're in your adulthood and you can't tell yourself why you're upset (inward and not externalizing it), then you're not well adjusted and you should seek help. Emotional manipulation is among the worst killers of relationships and women ALL do it. My mother does it to my sister, but she's the best woman that exists (period. She's passed the bar and is as concise and clear about emotions and logic... she never found the missing links, but she still messed up because she cares and she's empathetic towards my sister. I've tackled the issue and realized it is because she doesn't know statistics and doesn't know proper methods to avoid furthering her anger thus projecting it and - even - encouraging it. "What do you mean?", "Did you really mean this?", "Can you leave now I'm getting frustrated" would all be extremely valid stances to take to protect yourself From yourself (regardless of how right/wrong the interlocutor is). And yes, Truth should matter but establishing to what extent or what the purpose is == fundamental. I could go on, but I sense I could summarize all this if you didn't cramp up several subjects (and I didn't try to address them all / I am to blame for "wasting my time" writing this). I genuinely care for everyone, but I dont think a response online would help much of anyone unless it became a resource. Anyways... initial standpoint is to identify your emotion and if you know how to treat said emotion yourself or if the interlocutor is to blame <-- this can easily be identified if the person goes past a clear stipulation of a limit: "I may be wrong, but I feel bad; can we take notes and talk about this another moment?" (admit potential responsability, will to discuss and address the points raised). If the person says No and Now; that's a no go and you can take your distance. However, the 3 components are necessary. Because You May Be Wrong. Not only You, but both of you could be wrong and right about certain aspects. The main issue is not being able to discuss this without losing the purpose of the exchange. Some people are just not mature enough :::: you shouldn't always have to compromise [ seek - as much as possible - for reciprocity 50/50 ]. Ima have to stop here I'm sorry.

Wonderful, Lena!

Wonderful, Lena!

Great little video- explains a lot!

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Wonderful, Lena! We have a healthy salad there, thanks!

Wonderful, Lena! We have a healthy salad there, thanks!

Wonderful, Lena! We have a healthy salad there, thanks!

Wonderful, Lena! We have a healthy salad there, thanks!

Great video🎉

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Amazing. Looking forward to visiting you.

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