Roy Grant

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@wildhumans8116 4 күн бұрын

Get this, I've stood 15 feet from a sasquatch deep in the Canadian wilderness. The eyes were a luminous yellow color, pure soul fire! Years later, a sasquatch taught me to acquaint myself with the inner realms of liquid light that permeates all existence. Meditate often. Visualize breathing white light to facilitate healing or cultivate a deeper connection to a person you put in focus. Stay strong. Shine. You are loved ❤️

@RoyGrant 4 күн бұрын

That is just awesome. Thank you so much for sharing those precious experiences you had and the wisdom you gleaned from those ancient elders. Taking it all in and will do as you say. Thank you. Stay strong as well. Shine. You are loved. 💗

@MegaDreamOo 7 ай бұрын

Lovely ❤

@conoferus Жыл бұрын

you can have it all

@raschidmalik464 Жыл бұрын

But what is the problem gaymen has so a lot problems? What is you opinion

@RoyGrant Жыл бұрын

The only problem is learning to love ourselves. When this truly happens at the deepest level, all other problems naturally resolve.

@raschidmalik464 Жыл бұрын

@@RoyGrant we gays hate each other that is why we have so fetish in our sexuality

@machoman6969 Жыл бұрын

This is a great video. Thanks for sharing!

@7Heathernicole Жыл бұрын

This was amazing! I can’t believe there’s not more views likes and comments! I cried and could feel myself releasing resistance :) thank you 🤍✨

@RoyGrant Жыл бұрын

Wow Heather, thank you, that truly made me day. I'm so so glad it resonated with you! Thank you for taking the time to comment.

@empresskrose40 Ай бұрын

Me too felt so amazing 😍 thanks Roy 😅 please keep going then your voice so relaxing ❤ I love it here 😊

@aclem8246 Жыл бұрын

Self Esteem for gay men involves severe competition to see who is the most muscular, youngest, richest, and with the biggest endowment. There are very few long term relationships because gay men have a hard time staying monogamous so there is not point in even bothering because it will only end in pain. When you reach 40 you are over the hill and might as well buy a dog and move to the suburbs to live out the rest of your life alone. Gay society revolves around club culture, showing off and searching for the next conquest. Gay people are their own worst enemy due to ongoing hatred and condemnation by society at large which has been internalized. Life for gay people is searching for the next thrill because there is no example or expectation of a stable life. Discovering that you are gay is not a joyous thing. It is sad especially for those that have been around for awhile and know what those coming out have to look forward to.

@RoyGrant Жыл бұрын

I hear your pain and your points are valid. But there are gay men out there who have depth and self-awareness, and who share the same core values as you, such as monogamy and commitment. I have been running The Thoughtful Gay Man meetup support and discussion group for 7 years in Milwaukee and Chicago and have met countless others feeling how you feel and looking for deeper connection and meaning with other gay men. Sometimes we have to put ourselves in the right venue to find each other. The bars and the apps are not conducive to this which our culture so often promotes. You can find your tribe, you can find your partner, you can live without comparison and criticism. Good, heart-centered gay men exist. And while all social groups/cultures have their wounds and weaknesses, I still find gratitude for being able to live the gay male experience and be a part of a political/social/and most importantly, spiritual movement related to the higher growth and empathy of the world to which we contribute just by being queer. You are not alone. Thank you for your care in expressing your thoughts. I know many can relate.

@garybranigan1928 Жыл бұрын

I like the idea of exploring the source of shaming .. from within or without.

@fkapps 2 жыл бұрын

« Something put you here, and thus you have a special purpose… you are already living your purpose… you can trust the process… all you need to do is be, and listen. » This is a reminder that helps me, that my purpose doesn’t lie in achieving some status or action in the future, but that I’m already fulfilling my purpose on this earth. I am fulfilling my purpose by being alive and not resisting or fighting the situations life throws at me. That I am enough, I am doing enough. Grazie

@RoyGrant 2 жыл бұрын

Prego, caro. Thank you for this. It is an honor to have had an impact on your sense of self and purpose in life. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

@michaeldonohue167 2 жыл бұрын

This was so on point. I grew up in a homophobic culture and ended up thinking I was some kind of monster. It's taken years to develop some kind of positive self image. But now that it's happening, I feel like a new person.

@rachel..... 2 жыл бұрын

That was really beautiful🥰

@LyndonSSmith 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent clip, than you so much. You are appreciated so so much. Lyndon S.

@RoyGrant 2 жыл бұрын

Lyndon, that means so much thank you...

@AuriArun 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ever so much... it's good to be able to connect with your beautiful mind ... stay well will look out for more videos

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Auri!! I'm so glad that you got something of value. Thank you for your support, that feeds me. Wishing you stay well also

@Selfemployedmildautisticperfor Ай бұрын

@@RoyGrant love ur vibe and this video for whoever it resonates

@NF-im1wq 3 жыл бұрын

Hang out with people that except you just the way you are and don't try to change you

@johnathonfuentes4929 3 жыл бұрын

Just came across your video. Very helpful, crying a little. I just came out this past year and Im dealing with the Exact shame and self critical talk you discuss here. Its hard, but ill be returning to this video. Thank You :)

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

Johnathon...I'm so so touched that you got something from the video...Thank you and please know you are not alone on your journey of self-acceptance, it's a daily practice. Here for you always

@saisathyabalan583 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much.. it was really a great experience listening to this.. amazing.. I am able to feel high and calm inside.. will make it a part of my daily meditation henceforth.. gratitude and love ❤️❤️❤️❤️💕

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness, bless you, what a treat to receive your message! Thank you, thank you, thank you, and I'm so so glad that it gave you something you needed. Trust and believe!!! Always here to support you.

@saisathyabalan583 3 жыл бұрын

@@RoyGrant thank you so much ❤️

@drmanjuramachandran 3 жыл бұрын

An absolutely lifting meditation... Thank you so much . Prayers

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!! Warms my heart... Prayers to you too <3

@trivialove1230 3 жыл бұрын

the nature sounds were a beautiful touch, thoroughly enjoyed this!!

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

Ohh I'm so glad to hear that, thank you!! I hope it helps you on your journey!

@kerryjackson3803 3 жыл бұрын

This really helps be a whole lot the gay community press put me down for so long

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the support, Kerry, I'm so glad to know I could support you in your healing and strength

@tomaitoe 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful, thank you! 💕

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much and thank you for listening!! Glad it affected you

@delanebredvik 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this!

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

My pleasure, thank YOU for listening and for your comment! I'm so glad you like it

@prestonhare4849 3 жыл бұрын

I love your youtube channel

@RoyGrant 3 жыл бұрын

Ohh that is so kind, I'm so glad!! Thank you for listening and for making my day with your comment

@robertochavez8196 4 жыл бұрын

Please creat a video to attract a boyfriend or even to get married.

@lienlael3196 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this. I'm 50, I'm gay. You have no idea what I went through and still going through. ❤

@RoyGrant 5 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad the video was of help to you. It isn't easy but you are not alone. Thank you for your comment

@lienlael3196 5 жыл бұрын

BTW and respectfully, you are❤very handsome.

@ghettofab511 5 жыл бұрын

This was so lovely, and I really like how you framed things. Thank you!

@RoyGrant 5 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome, thank YOU! Glad it meant something to you <3

@Geek_Chorus 5 жыл бұрын

This is all well and good but as a 300lb 46 yo no way I'm getting laid without a lot of drugs and/or cash. That's reality. However I'm not bitter, I wouldn't want to bang me either.

@RoyGrant 5 жыл бұрын

I hear you. We all have things we don't like about ourselves. But even if we can tip the scales of appreciating where we are at by 1%, it can create a ripple effect on the quality of our lives. It all starts with self-love. Until we believe we are deserving of good in the now, we will continue to sabotage it or come up with reasons why we don't deserve it. It takes looking yourself in the eye and seeing past your body, acknowledging the being that lies within, peering back at you that craves love. I challenge you to watch what happens when you offer that being the love it craves. The ability to get laid does not indicate one's worth, nor does sex even promise to be fulfilling, especially if not based on genuine mutual appreciation. Therefore the focus should be on joy, and when the focus shifts from what you lack to what you have, you emit an invitation for even more good and healthy relationships to enter your life.

@armandomiccoli 4 жыл бұрын

Take it from a 348 lb 33 year old man. It is about learning to find value and attraction in yourself. I promise, if you can take yourself to a place where you find yourself attractive, so will others.

@rahuldhargalkar 5 жыл бұрын

It's like you cleansed my soul Also you're so beautiful ♥️

@RoyGrant 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Rahul, that warms my heart! I'm so glad you got something from the video. We all deserve to heal and shine

@dnnycllns 5 жыл бұрын

This was beautiful, thank you. ❤️

@RoyGrant 5 жыл бұрын

Oh you are so very welcome, thank you!

@kecokeco02 5 жыл бұрын

初めまして。 Royさんは今も日本にいらっしゃいますか？もしTwitterやInstagramなどのアカウントをお持ちでしたら教えて欲しいです！

@RoyGrant 5 жыл бұрын

はじめまして！！書いてくれてありがとうございます！５月に日本にいくつもりです。東京でゲイのイベントします(5月19日)。来て下さい！サイトかFBかinstagramで私にメッセージを送ってください! I can give you more details for the event or we can chat some more :) roygrantlifecoach.com instagram.com/roygrantlifecoach/ facebook.com/roygrantlifecoach/

@ljj2779 6 жыл бұрын

You did a good job of breaking each of the points you made in this video

@extra_nos5081 6 жыл бұрын

thank you

@jccoleman7006 6 жыл бұрын

Experiencing a break up and this is very much appreciated

@RoyGrant 6 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear that. Glad you're turning inward and giving self-love.

@jccoleman7006 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@diamondgoddess5914 6 жыл бұрын

Thank u so much this is amazing

@RoyGrant 6 жыл бұрын

No thank you so much!! So glad it meant something to you

@ЕрболКорнебаев 6 жыл бұрын

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@sam_sands 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this Roy Never underestimate the impact these words have on young gay people who are struggling like me <3

@RoyGrant 6 жыл бұрын

Oh my God...you have made my day, truly. Thank you for this, I am here for you, you are not alone!!! You inspire me to do more, thank you. <3

@Selfemployedmildautisticperfor Ай бұрын

For th3 full community and people in general So well put Just need to be of service to and struggling to make that happen But ur deep loving and did some healing right here even if just s little ty

@XuanWuDee 6 жыл бұрын

You are a very resourceful life coach, I really resinate with you coaching

@RoyGrant 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I so appreciate that and I'm glad to hear I could reach you!

@XuanWuDee 6 жыл бұрын

This is a great concept in we can start to transform our life’s

@lasfadiouf1558 6 жыл бұрын

Hello I would love to send you an email

@TheCliffoliva 7 жыл бұрын

I'm a guy with a full of Art i'm an artist when i say i'm an artist not the way i look, i draw makes paintings sculptures musician and an architect i can do a lot of things not just those but many things but My self esteem is very low is fucking with my life unfortunately and it effects me all the time i hate it soooo damn much it makes me kinda weak foget the art forget my talents and i feel always alone always and always alone, i have some friends from work they're so beautiful and amazing personalities they dont know about me, when i'm next to them some of them i feel that i struggle a little to speak to them sometimes but i have to keep it playing it cool and they like me so much i am super friendly with people with everybody, when i don't go to work they ask about me even girls. I'm 31 and always been like this i don't know how am i gonna get it out of me i'm growing up and i hope i find a way to snap out of it. I don't want to grow and i regret it after. I'm gay but sometimes bi i love girls but i'm more into guys :/ sorry about my bad English

@anaconda470 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you Roy ❤️ I'm 33 now, my coming out happened 15 years ago and still I didn't accept my sexuality. I deeply feel that gay community really needs voices like yours. Bringing hope, joy and light 🌈

@RoyGrant 7 жыл бұрын

Peter...this means so much, thank you...I’m so glad that the video gave you something...Thank you for the needed motivation. Love to you.

@ascott2168 7 жыл бұрын

Soooooo soothing Roy. Plus you're a cutie 😊😊😊

@RoyGrant 7 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much!!!

@ascott2168 7 жыл бұрын

Roy Grant, of course handsome 😏😏😏😏😉

@JustMe-vr3pc 7 жыл бұрын

This is such an excellent video Roy, love all your videos, keep it my friend

@iandotson6878 7 жыл бұрын

I love this. He has such a gentle, soothing voice. So good for those of us who struggle with this.

@sage4nowty129 7 жыл бұрын

Insightful thoughts on gay male relationships.

@bencopley3313 8 жыл бұрын

I really loved this video! Whenever my winter break ends I'll have to show this video to my peers in our GSA I would love to teach a lesson on self esteem

@thomaskeane6495 8 жыл бұрын

What a valuable resource! It must be amazing for LGBTQ youth and newly out adults to have these life and dignity-affirming resources. I appreciate that you added a voice of light to the WWW. Thank you. :-)

@RoyGrant 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Thomas!! How kind of you to say! So glad it meant something for you

@ibrahimsalamat6411 8 жыл бұрын

thank you.

@firesong83 9 жыл бұрын

I really wish that you would do more of these. I am 60+ yo and I got a lot from this.

@LivingMoreFully 9 жыл бұрын

Beautifully done!

@RoyGrant 9 жыл бұрын

West Hollywood Psychotherapy Thank you so much James! You're an inspiration.

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