Someone's sexual orientation has no bearing on anyone else. It's entirely based on what sex(s) the person is sexually attracted to.
@ilovemyboyfriend54254 жыл бұрын
im pansexual and a cis woman dating a cis man people think im weird mostly lesbians
@loveletterjoan95625 жыл бұрын
There are nonbinary/gnc lesbians (demigirls, like me) but lesbians who date trans men are ?? Transphobic Bc they don’t see trans men and that’s rlly sad
@ThomasA.OlsenJr763335 жыл бұрын
For the record the way you ACT is nothing like how we actual men portray ourselves you will NEVER fool anyone that you are male!
@ThomasA.OlsenJr763335 жыл бұрын
This broad is off her rocker... you are far from masculine lady, but hey thanks for the laugh on thinking you are!😅
@sleepyccs6 жыл бұрын
The world doesn't have to go along with your delusions....that is rude as fuck.
@WoahAwkwardSilence6 жыл бұрын
thank you.
@mhlv6667 жыл бұрын
I identify myself as an attack helicopter
@LegendisSeptem36YOUTUBE6668 жыл бұрын
what the fuck
@insanesalamander94338 жыл бұрын
A lesbian is a female with same sex attraction, you are a female ergo lesbians find you attractive...
@insanesalamander94338 жыл бұрын
if a woman dates an ftm they are ethier bisexual or a lesbian... So you are basically telling people what their sexualitu should be..
@rachelmarie318 жыл бұрын
What if I'm gay and I had a crush on a FTM guy, and I developed the crush before I knew he was trans, and still have feelings?
@alinaciobotaru16985 жыл бұрын
Rachel Henry maybe the real problem is people are too attached to identity politics.maybe if you stopped identifying as anything else than not-straight, it wouldn’t really matter, you know?
@ethanstiles38408 жыл бұрын
I love you guys! Keep the sense of humor!
@seth60118 жыл бұрын
even tho i cant see the color of the hat. it still looks hella good on u
@ivylee6398 жыл бұрын
you're cute
@racheld13009 жыл бұрын
very well spoken ty
@MissesLykaa9 жыл бұрын
I've been struggling with this issue for a while, seeing as I used to identify as a lesbian but then got a ftm trans boyfriend, and I don't know what to identify as instead, because I don't consider myself pansexual cause I'm just not attracted to specimens with penises (luckily for me my bf doesn't want bottom surgery), but it confuses me a lot cause I feel like a lesbian but I indeed don't want to undermine his gender identity...
@SikanderG8 жыл бұрын
+Nikki Lyka You're a lesbian. You can keep calling yourself one.
@girlintheatic9 жыл бұрын
nice hairs! :D
@raincaster219 жыл бұрын
Such A bae!! And YES I will make vids!!! :p
@uniquechallenges24789 жыл бұрын
first off all your lesbian girlfriends made a mistake by staying with you cause they were LESBIANS THEY DONT WANT MEN so u probably was a big disappointment to them just a warning for people that try to date people that they are obviously not attracted to!!!
@faronwatts40489 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video. Iv always know I was trans but never quite fit... I knew I was masculine but also can be feminine. Took me a while to figure myself out(Im transqueer) and feels like a big weight is off my shoulders!
@1lyserg29 жыл бұрын
Being pre everything, I hadn't thought of all you'd have to go through in the airport. That sucks
@TRANSMETALGIRL9 жыл бұрын
I like transwomen and ciswomen so what does that make me? a lesbian or a gay transwomen! not into transmen or cismen! I understand where you are coming from!
@john_air9 жыл бұрын
thank you !!
@spencerqwashington9 жыл бұрын
Great advise, my ex girlfriend did something similar expect she was more interested in my physical body. It made me feel uncomfortable and I ended the relationship.
@BabyKieransParty9 жыл бұрын
So if you date lesbians and expect them to not Identify as Lesbians. You are also not respecting their identity...
@Identifyandbeyond9 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't date a lesbian, because lesbians are women who like women, I am a man. Why would a 'lesbian' date a man?
@Identifyandbeyond9 жыл бұрын
Shevelle Ross Go to bed? Your ignorance and hate is 100% not welcome here. Your lack of understanding of the trans community comes through in your comments, and your inability to respond with anything other than immaturity shows how comprehensive you are as a person.
@raincaster219 жыл бұрын
Shevelle Ross I think it's time you realize that you're being rude. Also transgender people should have respect... Regardless. If you are a lesbian will you date a trans woman who identifies as lesbian?
@SikanderG8 жыл бұрын
+Identifyandbeyond It's fine that you wouldn't date a lesbian. You don't have an obligation to date anyone. If you define lesbian in terms of gender identity (i.e. female-identified person being attracted only to others with a similar identity), then lesbians can't be attracted to trans men (or non-binary people, or genderqueer people, or people who just haven't bothered labeling themselves and say they don't have any identity one way or the other). But if you define it in terms of sex only or both sex and gender (e.g. bio-female attracted to the same) -- as I believe people should --, then a lesbian may still be able to be attracted to a trans man due to the shared sex.
@fieruuf52489 жыл бұрын
Haii do u have a video on how to come out as ftm I'm struggling a lot and I need some help if you could make a video on it it would be helpful x
@Identifyandbeyond9 жыл бұрын
Jay Meakin We'll definitely get on that for you :)
@NoahJonas10 жыл бұрын
I am SO proud of you man. This is a huge step for you and a huge surprise today! You're amazing, and I'm so happy you're finally taking the steps to being more comfortable with yourself.
@teaguebean10 жыл бұрын
Thank you :) I figured with talking about this this week anyways why not just go for it. Granted I'm still a bit terrified to hit send
@raincaster2110 жыл бұрын
Broclaimed: Me claiming you as my brofriend....brother...and all around spirit animal! Yes...yes sir...you are fuxking amazeballs! Bravo!!!
@raincaster2110 жыл бұрын
Great first video!! :)
@awesomedaxxieboy10 жыл бұрын
just goes to show the majority of people see sexuality as genital based, not gender based.
@insanesalamander94338 жыл бұрын
well thats because SEXual attraction is based on (gasp) biological SEX
@JustSomeDude10 жыл бұрын
WELL.LLLLLL!!! I could not agree anymore!! you spoke my words. I myself was going to make a video just like this! fuck yeah man! Calling yourself a lesbian while dating a trans man (a man god dammit we are MEN) is just disrespectful.
@iuly231110 жыл бұрын
Hey B. It's Julia. Can You still send me that response with all the surgery info? Sorry if I'm disturbing you with this comment but I reallywant that info . Thanks mate. Have a great day!
@JJMac10 жыл бұрын
Gardein makes some buffalo "wings" that are pretty awesome. Fyi..
@raincaster2110 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank yoou mmmmmm yess!!!
@raincaster2110 жыл бұрын
Good job guys!! :)
@tovegikanga331410 жыл бұрын
If you don't already do, follow alionsfear. He updates a lot even after a duple of years in T and stands up for the community
@anetamendez191110 жыл бұрын
You should do a live chat on younow.com
@iuly231110 жыл бұрын
Ok B . I'm waiting for your response whenever you can send it. It's no rush . Take your time. Thanks a lot . Have a great day!
@IngeSmeers10 жыл бұрын
Dude your voice :o
@iuly231110 жыл бұрын
Hi B . It's Julia. I identify as female currently and I want Top Surgery as I have terrible chest dysphoria . Did you need a letter from as therapist because I am not ftm.? how much was your surgery with total cost? How come you don't have any facial hair if you are on T . Is that even possible . Can you give me the link to your page so I can see pictures of your surgery? I am very happy that ytou are comfortable in your own skin . Have a nice day !Please Answer!
@addibaldeshwiler366810 жыл бұрын
Hey Julia, my blog is b-cxm.tumblr.com/ - you can check out some of my photos there. I'm also revamping my surgery info about which surgeon i went to/costs/requirements/etc. I am working on a response for you (from this comment and your other comment,) and i'll send ya that link in a day or so.
@iamawesomepanda10 жыл бұрын
It's really awesome that your experience was laughable and you are confident (: your Stache is growing in better than mine (:
@iuly231110 жыл бұрын
Hey B . I'm Julia . I am from Romania. I feel a lot like you do . Currently I go by female pronouns but being called "he" doesn't bother me at all. I find it really hard and awkward to associate myself or be associated with the idea of being a woman . I don't like words like "Miss, Madam , Young lady and such"I feel confortable only wearing male clothes and I often feel like I am one of the guys but I don't want to be entirely male. I have bad chest dysphoria and I want top surgery. Who did you have surgery with? How much was it? Did he require a letter from a therapist ? Un fortunately there aren't any gender therapists in my country. Does he operate on females and GQ people or just ftm?. How long do i havew to stay in hospital after surgery? Sorry to bother you with so many questions and thanks a lot for everything Have a great day! Pleqse answer:
@NoahJonas10 жыл бұрын
Kids used to call me 'm/f' as in not sure if I was male or female, in 7th grade when I still had long hair. It's crazy how kids can either be the most open in the world, or the cruelest if they've been taught to behave a certain way.
@kodag.70110 жыл бұрын
Its nice to meet you Noah :)
@cierragarcia3410 жыл бұрын
That tumbler
@rachelautumn10 жыл бұрын
i wish i knew you
@kodag.70110 жыл бұрын
Couldn't really see but that cat was huge! What kind is it?
@Identifyandbeyond11 жыл бұрын
Please do!
@DayLynnAcacia11 жыл бұрын
Great advice Peyton! WE ARE FANGIRLINGGGG
@LewisHRSmith11 жыл бұрын
this is completely unrelated but where did you get that t shirt man??? it's awesome