i am 6 months post op and still facing fecal incontinence since surgery . it makes my life worst no doctor can make me good or fecal continent . i just want to die

Thank you so much ❤

Day 7 post op. When i came out of OT, I didn't feel anything. I was so happy thinking man it doesn't hurt but then the Anaesthesia wore off and OH BOY!! The journey began and i had no idea what im getting myself into. I had grade 3 internal hems with 2 external chronic fissures. Went for stapled haemorrhoidectomy for the internal one and the external ones were cut through scalpel and stiched (worst part) First poop after 3 days, I screamed like a baby and bawled my eyes out. I've been taking laxatives and eating soft food but I poop like 3 times a day which hurts the same everytime. My gut us having a hard time adjusting to the fibre. Cherry on top, got periods and it's getting more complicated. I change oads every 2 hours to prevent injections and my stitches have dissolved, i see an open wound (a deep cut without the upper skin). Hoping for the best. 😔

I adore very much your confidence and thank you sooooooo much for the beneficial info , wish you happy and successful life.

I have my surgery tomorrow xx

Hello my dear, I have been following you for a short time. Can I ask you about the operation to remove hemorrhoids? Is it really effective and are you satisfied with the result now, especially since you had it done for a long time? I hope you can answer me because I have a hemorrhoid operation next Thursday and I am very afraid.

I adore you! Thank you for making this video. You’re so beautiful. I’ve been suffering for 2 years and I can’t do this anymore. I was told no, now I’m seeing a doctor who can help me. I’ll keep trying because I can’t keep missing out on life 😢

3 months But it took me a month to heal and that was fast😊

So I’m almost 4 weeks post-op and I feel like my hemorrhoids are already back. Passing stool is hard even though I drink 2.5 liters of water and consume lots of fiber every day. I’m really depressed about this… All this pain just for them to come back.

Nothing pisses me off more than being in extreme pain and being treated like a drug seeker. Like….THIS IS WHAT THE MEDS ARE ACTUALLY FOR!!! These heavy meds are MADE for people in an extremely painful condition!

have you thought about fasting for 3 days or so? ive done it before and it makes you not want to go. I know not a lot of people can do a 3 day fast but its actually very beneficial

How are you now? Do you remember contracting and spasms in the night? I’m day 2, day 1 was fine but last night was horrendous

Is it possible to poop in the water after surgery?

I'm gonna be requesting this surgery as soon as I'm done with pregnancy. For the record, I didn't get hemorrhoids with pregnancy, I had them way before. They are so much more severe now than ever. I am miserable. The surgery has got to help more.

Anyone had anal after healing from this? I’m considering getting this surgery…

3rd day after surgery is hell. Pain is so bad.

Had my surgery this morning 😢 im bavk home, boss told me to take 3 days off !!! Im off for 2 weeks, will this be long enough? What should i expect xx

I wish there were Patient advocates that are trained by doctors and available to the general public like you are.. congrats on being to helpful to so many.

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Had surgery on Monday, it’s Wednesday night, don’t get them out till Tuesday morning ! Watching these videos is lowkey pornographic , it looks like the best relief ever!!

Focus on diaphram and breathing and ur core... even with BM u focus on ur expanding ur lungs and diaphragm , in and out and do that instead if strain ir focusing on ur bum, u will relax and things will come easier and when u expand and its like ur belly opens up and it mives things along and especially with pain u focus on even breathing and expand the diaphragm instead of the pain. I had to take pt for endometriosis and abdominal adhesions and bowel obstruction and she taught me some tricks and it helps.

Im gonna miss riding my bike for awhile.

Thx for update

I ordered a soaking chair its expensive but im glad i did its been yrs of issues and tub multiple times or toilet hats r no fun. And once u mention getting in and out of tub is hard im def glad i splurged for this soaking chair. Its like a chair that fills with water from a hose connected to the shower.

How does it look ? Can you see scars ?

Hello! Good afternoon from South Florida! I am seriously considering doing a hemorrhoidectomy! I have both internal and external. I noticed I get bleeding more often now. I saw a Dr that said he could do the surgery. I am just worried about having to do the enema and not knowing if it’s done right! And I’m worried about the recovery time as I am a toddler teacher. I use Miralax daily so hopefully passing poop after won’t be too bad! I have recently purchased a bidet and it works wonders for the wiping! I use prep h every night( I forgot to last night)

I already got it done but I’m scared for the pain I hate pain so much 😢

Does is hurt I’m getting mine out wenseday

Is it painful before or after bowl movement?

After surgery i am suffering urine rentation

What kind of operation was it ..? Laser?

Hello I taken surgery before 3 months but I can't urinate properly and stucking and frequent urination any tell me the reasons and how to cure please 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 I facing lots of thoughts suicidal please I am 23 years old 😢😢😢😢😢😢lot of people enjoy but i am suffering

Been suffering since 1989. Been at level 3 and 4 for the past 15 years and right now, the pain is about the same as before only it would last a few days. This one is non stop until it will be over. My poor wife doesn't know what to do when I hit the 10/10 pain threshold. We are in this together as we used to say the "asshole" used to rule the house. Nobody can say what pain it is unless they have gone through. As a retired Veteran, I have had many surgeries to make me better but this one, take the win. Even tax pains aren't as bad. You'll curse cause you have to pay them but it is over. Not this shit.

Major question. I'm like almost 6 days post-op. Yes, painful but nothing like 5 had nerve pain or prior herniated discs. My question is it suddenly LOOKS like i have an external hemmrhoid and I want to scream. Im doing everything right! Is this normal or swelling or a possible external again? :(

I am planning to have Laser surgery..is the recovery any better?

Thank you so much for your video. ❤ Did you remove three hemorrhoids at the same time? Have you had any trouble with anal stenosis after the surgery? I recently removed two large hemorrhoids, and I’m afraid I might got it. It’s been almost four weeks, and it’s very hard for me to pass stool. Never had that trouble before. 😢

I’m day 5 . Bowl movement is a kick in the butt literally. I had grade3/4 internal . I’m praying for better days. This procedure is a nightmare 😢

Thankyou for the videos. What was the method of your surgery? Lazer, Band, or complete removal ? please share some insights about it? which is better method? how did you decide you should go for this one ? or is the the doc who decides this?

Please tell me.. Which kind of surgery it was? Lazer? Rubber band? Stapler? You didn't talk about the process, your lower body might be given anthesthesia? Please tell was it painful?

Wait a minute....? You were put to sleep for this? I was awake for the whole thing!!!!!

Thank you 🙏🏻, you are a beautiful soul

Hi. It's my day 8 after surgery too. I can say,way far too imagine the pain. But I'm thankful hemor is gone and I will be better 😉

Thank you for your post. Wish I saw it before my surgery. I was told that it was the most painful surgery you can have. It was! I went to the Dr and had one lanced, at month later I developed 2 very large and painful hemorrhoids. Saw the Dr immediately and was scheduled for surgery the next day. 2 things I did after surgery was, use a hair dryer to dry my butt area off after a shower ( set on cool) And when I had a BM ( after the first one that was extremely painful, I had my next BM with my butt in the sitz bath. Sounds gross but it was less painful. At that point I didn’t care what I had to do as long as I wasn’t screaming and crying. Took a long time to heal. Over a month. I’m fine and thankful they are gone and no more pain. Bless you for sharing. People need to know how to deal with this kind of surgery. Best to you. God bless.

Thank you for your info

How much time take to recovary after surgery

Its the best feeling to have them removed .although painful few days after surgery

Ms. Alejandra Rodriquez, I myself started with blood Oct 30th, 2019. It started regularly then it stopped and became every 2 to 3 months of blood and then coming out every time I went to the toilet. March 26th, 2024 colonoscopy, doctor found hemorrhoids. Since I was told surgery will be need, I had been doing research and video watching. I now know that I haven't been coming out when I go, the hemorrhoid slips out. I have seen different videos on different procedures on removing hemorrhoids but I know that they all hurt afterwards. I am dreading the procedure coming May 1st. They are giving me 4 weeks off from work. I just hope I'll be able to bare the pain until I am all healed up. Like everyone else, I know that I must change my diet. It too will be a difficult journey. At 39, it is time to do so. Much love to you and everyone else who had the surgery and posted comments. ❤

Everyone onsider hanging your diet and BENEFIBER is so much better than Metamucil

I’m about a month out from my surgery and it really is a surgery that makes you think long and hard about how to never get them again. The best thing to do is keep the stools soft as possible for the rest of one’s life. I can tell you all that make sure you keep the area clean after every number 2 and this is done with a good shower head that can separate from the main shower or take some sit baths you’ll get through it but it does hurt for a few weeks God Bless you all.

@AleOmalley Thanks for the video. I am at day 8 post-op today. I had an external hemorrhoidectomy. Yep, the doctor was accurate when he said the surgery will be very painful. Long story short, thanks for the video, the tips and info was helpful to me. On a side note, I also deal with IBS. I've tried eliminating all types of foods and slowly adding back in, but I haven't figured out the triggers yet. IBS is annoying and when it's bad it has a definite impact on quality of life. Have you figured out anything helpful for your IBS?