One shouldn’t scheme to harm others, however one should take daily self-reflection and care to guard against those around you that may harm you. It’s often those close family and friends that you reveal your secrets to them that they monetise your secrets to harm you. It’s normal to have bad things happen to you occasionally. If bad things happen to you daily and people around you distance themselves from you, it’s likely that someone is telling bad things about you to your family and friends to isolate and destroy you.