Ive had no less than 4 of these MUPPETS who were abysmal, ill mannered, bullies and totally inept when it came to the bills of Exchange Act 1882. Foster, Stockdale, Skalskyj, and Hill. All utter shit houses, no wonder it serves no good to go to civil court when the judges are this badly read. MORONS!
@IntelligentEating4 күн бұрын
Invisible transit van
@imanelkhatim464412 күн бұрын
Despite of your useful videos however undermining the role of legal representation is not correct
@mandeepsahota520918 күн бұрын
Well said.. same old shyt across the country
@TheBILLOFRIGHTS168819 күн бұрын
months are an understatement lets say four years in two cases i know
@rayoxorayАй бұрын
Agree, what happened to your web page ?
@rayoxorayАй бұрын
B safe please
@ExtraterrestrialhighwayАй бұрын
The fact that there are no repercussions for these clearly unethical practices is disgusting. When my lawyer requested the other party to fix the issues she doubled down and made it even more inaccurate. These people are vile.
@jeanflowerАй бұрын
🤔🙄😯love the wig !!!
@rtbreakupdivorcecoachАй бұрын
I think this important message should reach to as many people as it can. Well done Phil 👏
@dandillon8775Ай бұрын
Anyone 'in' the family court system knows it's rotten from the core and the family lawyers are like vultures picking over the bones of normal people slain in the name of the law
@IntelligentEatingАй бұрын
I’d imagine a very high percentage of family court judges are dishonest (low integrity role)
@stephendanrussellАй бұрын
I disagree with the views expressed in this video. Contact centres are used to abuse fathers and set the stage for more hurdles placed between a dad and his child. Most contact centre arrangements lead to eventually booting of thw dad out of the lives of the children. Mom just lies while at home she puts the children under psychological pressure and eventually says the kids don't want to come and its game over. The child will eventually get qorn down by the mothers behaviour amd will want to stop attending because mom feels bad that the child was happy to see dad. The whole family court system.needs to be torn down.
@TomHaynes-c8bАй бұрын
Word for word
@Mikeycolkey2166Ай бұрын
Good stuff. My case was very similar. Judge decided no fact finding after historic allegations however asked cafcass to do a section 7 and attend court next hearing.
@sindhusathish123Ай бұрын
How much do you charge for a non mol and occupational order for a one day second hearing ?
@mckenziefrienduknetworkАй бұрын
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@silasroccoАй бұрын
That description is verbatim what happened to me. The judge even made an order that I wasn't allowed to apply again without permission. I never saw my son again. The courts don't even do any follow up studies on the long term effects of these disgraceful orders; if there was some data to show the destruction caused, eg. male suicides, fatherless children ending up in prison, whether the children were ever re-united with their paternal families, etc. it would make a good argument for them to stop going down this crazy path
@Mrparker153Ай бұрын
Does this apply to a non-resident person with irrefutable evidence in the early stages? Are ALL lawyers' money grabbers with no loyalty to their clients? Are all judges immune to impartiality? There is no doubt that the family court and all other agencies connected to these cases are in disarray due to a multitude of reasons. There needs to be a parliamentary review/investigation into every aspect of the handling of these cases in order to bring together the court, all agencies, and the whole family, swiftly and fairly. Every case is different. However, they are all treated the same in my view. Good luck to anyone out there trying to navigate it, with or without legal advice.
@Phil..._Ай бұрын
Hi Phil. Your experience/ insights are all very helpful. I'm on the slightly opposite side of this scenario, and as a resident parent (father) of a child I can attest to the fact that the family courts are indeed (even when the roles are reversed) far more empathetic towards the mothers wishes and needs. Even in a case where there's been proveable bold lies made to the court from the mother, plus psychological abuse and neglect of our child, and the child refusing to contact with the mother in most instances .. they still seem to lean towards the female point of view. I was even scolded in court about making sure I attend the next court hearing on time, when in fact I was 50 mins early and it was actually the mothers solicitor who was late and held up proceedings! Being a looked down upon male in this almost entirely female dominated arena is quite hard to comprehend and deal with at times. Luckily for me I am being helped by one of your fabulous (female) team members, who has been incredibly helpful/ insightful/ informative and professional throughout, and has honestly been a god send to me at a time of great, and mostly unnecessary, extra stress and worry. I thank you for all you do, and also to my brilliant McKenzies friend. The truth will out, and my sons mothers attempts to manipulate myself and the family court system has rather backfired. She's hobbled herself, and almost completely put herself in a situation where her mind games and gaslighting are now pretty much futile. Her tactics have mostly been shut down and any attempts to cause issues are being used to show the court just how covertly manipulative and somewhat deranged she actually is. Hoisted by her own petard. A note to all parents out there going through this process: be honest/ factual/ well prepared/ patient, and collect evidence of actual wrongdoing towards the child's best interests. Look for resolution, but accept that the other parent may not have this constructive approach ever. Minimise contact down between parents, and act professionally and in a way that you can be proud of, even when the other parent does all they can to trigger negative reactions from you. Look after yourself and your emotional well-being, not just your childrens. Instruct a McKenzies friend/ keep a diary of everything relevant/ always only use a co-parenting app and forget about instructing a solicitor. They only seek to enrich themselves and to create further problems and disharmony.
@vo1968Ай бұрын
Sounds very very familiar. Fortunately my ICFA worker wasn't quite as stupid as CAFCASS, who still did their best to bury the positivity of the contact visits & the ICFA recommendations. Even though the mother also kept trying to throw a spanner in the works too. Moving forward is all well & good but when 1 party continues with their bitterness & the court does absolutely nothing to remedy it, it is very soul destroying.
@JarradAlexАй бұрын
Hi Phil, I’ve tried to get in touch with even sent you an email but no reply
@IntelligentEatingАй бұрын
Same. I think these are pre recorded and the courts put heat on him and the deep state did what they do
@mckenziefrienduknetworkАй бұрын
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@Shayron1989Ай бұрын
4 years later and the university of Manchester has released a study showing that “parental alienation” is used as a defence by abusive men to seek continued access to their children (often who they have abused).
@daniellewinton2398Ай бұрын
Website doesn’t work
@mckenziefrienduknetworkАй бұрын
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@NickMcFarland01Ай бұрын
Yes, sir...depending....but not always from a family experience.
@DavidsJourneyukАй бұрын
I tried to go onto your website, but it looks like its not working
@mckenziefrienduknetworkАй бұрын
www.familycourtlibrary.co.uk
@IntelligentEatingАй бұрын
I needed your help… filled in your form at contact Phil, emailed… anyway, ended up with a 3 year barring order because WE MUST NOT STRESS MUM.
@warwickdumas2573Ай бұрын
It's unbelievable isn't it.
@IntelligentEatingАй бұрын
@@warwickdumas2573 absolutely bonkers mate; just bizarre.
@daniellewinton2398Ай бұрын
Who is this advice for? The bad one or the good one?
@CozmicGirlАй бұрын
Absolute rubbish founded on personal opinion not factual or research based.
@CozmicGirlАй бұрын
Absolute nonsense! There’s a mixture of sexes in the family court - male and female judges, barristers and ushers too (who are not involved at all - so that comment was irrelevant). Lots of men employ female barristers - you are at liberty to choose who you like. This video is biased
@CozmicGirlАй бұрын
That’s because it’s so RARE! Also, the DAPP is now defunct.
@goolashUKАй бұрын
Dont you just send the Form E? Are you sure you have to send the statements if so, can these be emailed or do they have to be printed?
@kratcliffe5680Ай бұрын
My son’s mother attempted to alienate my son against me. Fortunately, my son saw through her negative comments and conversations about me. It resulted in my son wanting to live with me and not his mother. She would shout and get angry at him when he told her to stop and that he didn’t like it…. This was 12 months ago, and having told my son he could live with me, he told his mother he was moving to Nottingham to live with me. Long story short, I’ve been absolutely hung out to dry throughout the court process, not being given an opportunity to ask questions or have the courts put questions and allegations to her. We’ve just had a section 7 report. I requested the carcass officer to ask my son one question….. ‘Why didn’t he want to live with his mum any longer and move to Nottingham with me?… This wasn’t asked…… Which goes hand in hand with a carcass officer, saying on record in court, that ‘It’s not really relevant’ when I asked why my sons mother hadn’t been addressed regarding assaulting me in front of her daughter, which has resulted in a section 47 Charge (ABH) ….
@user-xd5fl3my6lАй бұрын
I understand fathers not wanting to go contact centre. I’ve now been having to go for almost 2 years. It’s extremely distressing to go through. It’s unnatural. You’re watch by strangers. It’s costly. The mother pays nothing and still expects child maintenance. You are treated like you are a criminal or mentally ill… just different. It’s extremely gaslighting when you know it isn’t right to be going through. It’s immensely demoralising. It’s immensely emasculating God knows what this does to my child view of me as a father. I can not do normal father things or take my child places. Feels like mourning after every contact and you then have to endure it to continue other aspects of life and try pursue some success. You then have to go again and it just amplifies. It’s soul destroying to endure. By the time my child is in his teens I’m afraid I’ll be a shadow of the man I was and can be.
@daniellewinton2398Ай бұрын
Please help me understand this a little bit better. Why did supervised contact start?
@user-xd5fl3my6lАй бұрын
@daniellewinton2398 as the mother refused to allow access any other way. I was first sent to a serious dump of a contact centre called Swan family contact centre in Lambeth. This was for about 3/4months. Everything broken and the other parents I witnessed were clear heavy class A drug users/those without capacity to parent and other seemingly on day release. Youre treated and looked down on as if like you are extremely low iq or incapable of being a parent. The staff could not care less and it was beyond me why they were working at a centre. That centre was mandatory and I thought that would be it. Perfect reports expect one were I said we can watch a pg action film some time…. This was apparently undermining to the mother. After that the mother dictated that I should still be supervised for no reason but feelings. I had to oblige or not see my child in person. Then continued in another centre (Ilford also a dump) and a few community contacts also being watched. All good except I brought some gifts for him with one being a children’s vitamin syrup. I allow my son to taste it as he asked and was penalised as was told im again undermining the mother for this and told I could have overdosed my son despite it being a literally taste and I’m a nutritional advisor. After court I was told I’m only allowed to see my son in a contact centre still. In court no one cares about any positive reports at all. Reason being a may potential cause harm to my son and it’s better to cause the actual harm of minimal contact despite my son wanting more than the absolutely undefined potential of emotional harm. These were Cafcasses recommendations and the judge took it at face value. No evidence was brought by the mother and she got a private room with the Cafcass officer and a mckenzie friend that did all her paper work hours before. All my reports and long term evidence of false allegations (false arrests, mental health claims, ect) were dismissed over the mother’s word and Cafcass. £Thousands have been spent and I have to continue doing this until I apply for another court date for more contact. All reports are very positive but after 2 years of this I don’t know what to expect as none of it is rational. These centre i believe know it’s very messed up but it’s not in their best interest for it to change. It’s constant gaslighting.
@user-xd5fl3my6lАй бұрын
@daniellewinton2398 because if the mother is refusing contact it’s part of the starting proceedings. You get the local of being supervised by a very questionable supervisor at a council contact centre. The one I had to start at was swan family contact centre in Lambeth. Absolute dump and the other parents there clearly very incapable of parenting/class a drug use (quite haunting looking people) and those seemingly on day release. You’re all treat equally… as equally considered scum bags. You’re gaslit from the get go. Why it’s not contact unless a danger to child or proven to causes harm is very messed up. After 3 sessions you’re charged for this also.
@veritypickle8471Ай бұрын
4 times. So far.
@StephenLarkin2 ай бұрын
Would welcome some advice as I think your statement on reasonable, balanced and proportionate was inspirational
@mckenziefrienduknetwork2 ай бұрын
Hi Stephen, please contact me at www.contactphil.co.uk
@asdasd46222 ай бұрын
I'm currently self representing in a family court. Just been through a fact finding hearing. Love to share my experiences on any relevant chats in hope it helps others. Mother disappeared with kids 2.5yrs ago. Endless lies to police, court, everywhere. She didn't have much at all as evidence other than mainly her word and our daughters word who went with her. Verdict judge tried hos best ever not to blame either side despite all her clear lies. Felt like he chose to search search search and delve into every nut and cranny to find something on me however tiny. He ruled by me jokingly on a text calling daughter dumbo amounted to abuse. Also that eventhough I rarely swore throughout our marriage of over 25 yrs I text mother "you fucked me up" I swear more than claim. Only police involvement was me and mother had TINY argument, she told me to Shift, I replied you shift and wait your turn, that's it. Daughter blew her top at me I told her to shut up and mind her business. She stormed upstairs was very hysterical on phone to police they visited and went not long after. No caution or anything just went. But stated on report daughter was very emotional, cried and was hysterical so judge ruled something more must have happened, but it didn't.
@GazzaDACEY2 ай бұрын
This isn't even a video it claims to be it's a sale pitch for mckenzie not once have you explained the tools or how they work, CAFFCAS are not fit for purpose and apply blind reasoning to things that they shouldn't
@asdasd46222 ай бұрын
Just gone through a fact finding hearing. Mom listed a wow massive list of all sorts of abuses shes claimed crossed over 25yrs of marriage yet never known by anyonelse throughout our marriage. Despite her been extremely close to her family whom she contacts daily. No reall independent proof. Yet i feel judge tried his very best to find atleast something to get me on simply to please young female barrister. Wow i would never ever think this could happen.
@Imran_A-Mumin2 ай бұрын
False allegations against me have been deemed proved/ true by the family court judge.. this seems to be normal practice in the family court in east london... surely there must be some way to stop this ??
@raskinman2 ай бұрын
Bro .... the only way to escape is to accept and leave this country
@davidlewis69282 ай бұрын
I noticed this. #SCUMBAG$
@IntelligentEating2 ай бұрын
Toothless judges
@FedericoDLP2 ай бұрын
As a police officer, what did you learn about family court procedures other than maybe provide a report on domestic violence?
@IntelligentEating2 ай бұрын
Up for a challenge, Phil? I’ve got one and 16 days to appeal.
@mckenziefrienduknetwork2 ай бұрын
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@wes-70912 ай бұрын
Thanks Phil
@goolashUK2 ай бұрын
I had no idea that a Joint lives with order is a possibility. Thanks Phil!
@IntelligentEating2 ай бұрын
I have requested callbacks from you Phil are you still in Business?
@mckenziefrienduknetwork2 ай бұрын
Hi - Please can I invite you to complete the form at www.contactctphil.co.uk Regards Phil