Another bullshit story....But:: Anyone posting about their inappropriate behavior is stupid... stay away from them.

Tell those friends that are saying that you should take her back into your apartment that if they are so concerned about her they should take her in. You did take her in once and she betrayed your trust by effing your boyfriend , and you refuse to accept that level of disrespect from anyone. She is the one who ended your friendship , not you. You are absolutely right to put your own well being first. Screw me once shame on you . Screw me twice , shame on me. You will not get a second chance. You should thank her for showing you who your boyfriend was.

Yes... you are the ASS....

You don’t even need to finish YTA. Yes, you can be mad about him naming his daughter your ex, but it probably has NOTHING to do with her. He probably just likes the name, and suing him is going a little over the top.

NTA, just leave his sorry arse

At 55 who really cares about another birthday anyway

I'd be out the door if my BF let his ex move into my apartment.

You're marrying the family ... not just the person...this one doesn't sound right for anybody who has any self respect.

YTA! REAL WOMEN uplift OTHER WOMEN!! not MEN!

OP is the AH because he never protected his son. Sending his son away is not the solution, it shows that OP still prioritise his new wife over his son.

Run man, run fast and don't look back.

NTA, you are protecting your child, and you are not answerable to anyone for this, cut contact with all those relatives siding with your parents, anyone destroying your sanity and mental health shouldn’t be part of your life, that’s it

NTA, isn’t that self defence, you try to protect her, all she saw was violence, seriously 😒

BPD woman. Leave and don't look back

Time for divorce

NTA, no he was not your father, he was just your sperm donor

That's a red flag 😮 he has no need to go out with ops sister without op something smells fishy

Nope. Friends wanna defend her…they can take her in…just hope they keep that same energy when she sleeps with their partners.

💯 NTA. You did the right thing by telling the husband the truth because you proved that you’re a good person and your “best friend” is not. A good friend will go through the fire with you, but a true friend will hold your feet to the fire if you’re the one responsible for igniting it. YTA if you didn’t tell him, along with being selfish because it would’ve meant that you care more about your friendship than you do the cheated person.

I felt the same with my so called "friends" when I was younger. I always organised things, I always drove, I always hosted. Then COVID came and went and I thought what would happen if I didn't send the first message, so I didn't and till this day not a single one of them has made an attempt to reach out to me. You shouldn't care about what someone thinks when they don't care about you at all.

Well... yeah. You could find ways to say those things without calling a person a liability... that's just rude. And if you are at a point where you had those conversations previously and the only option left is to call him out like that, then i think you probably overstayed in this relationshop. His behavior is clearly bothering you for a significant amount of time now.... so why you stayed?

Yes, OP needs to be more understanding. She needs to understand the first time he gaslights her and not let it continue. When someone tells you that you have nothing to worry about in a relationship, it's time to start worrying. IRT I'd suspect cheating after that "reassurance". It's rare for there to be a legitimate reason to tell someone that they overreacted. Usually, as in this case, they are gaslighting and are not friends.

I say keep you eyes on them. Your husband should not be hanging out drinking with your sister without you. Why didn't you call you sister on texting and inviting your husband out without you? Your possible next post may be- What do I do? I think my husband and sister are having an affair.

So....... Ryan is exactly the same now as when she married him? Yeah , that's a you problem and you enable it

I wouldn’t have even given her until the end of the week! She should have been kicked out WITH mark

so she posted her affair on SM?

NTA, such family members such siblings and such parents 🤬🤬🤬

NTA, but your boyfriend is definitely a big ahole, not siding with you and not understanding you, if his ex is actually started rearranging things in your house than definitely she has crossed her boundaries which a guest should definitely respect, she has taken your kindness for granted, and the worst part is your boyfriend siding with her in all this, you better not apologise to him till he learns his lesson, this relationship is not going anywhere in this, better talk to him seriously about this or a proper breakup

NTA, why this Ryan didn’t have any other person in his life other than your wife, any family member or any partner or girlfriend, something is really not right as she is constantly prioritising him over you, dig deep OP, looks like divorce is on route for you people

NTA, such in laws seriously, but the bigger monster here is your wife, ask her to stay at home and attend her family, that should better be her headache not yours, that’s your house OP, your place of sanity and peace, and you have every right to take action if someone is destroying your peace, you have every right to do anything in your home, talk seriously about all this with your wife and where your relationship with her is going amongst all this scenario, that’s much needed, and yeah strictly no need to apologise to your inlaws or to back down for having your boundaries with them, such in laws 🤬🤬🤬🤬

Always remember one thing, never ruin or destroy the family that comes from you for the family that you come from, you are protecting your child, and you are not answerable to anyone for this, cut your family members who are against you in this, and costing you your sanity and peace of mind until they learn their lesson

NTA, you should have let it go and move on, seriously, your ex is the one who started spreading lies and rumours about you, and truly dug her own grave by her hands

You should have abandoned your family long ago OP, you have given them more than enough already, already made too much of sacrifices of your time and energy, glad after wasting so many years of life you finally stand up for yourself and things are somehow being sorted

You are overreacting we were just curious, seriously 😒 😒😒, such in laws 🤬🤬🤬

NTA

Relatives were visibly upset, upset about what, for protecting you, dramatic scene, seriously, such pathetic gutter relatives 🤬🤬🤬

Please compromise on everything on your wedding day, it’s just a matter of one day, seriously, your ex laws actually made everything in your wedding about themselves and their status, OP you are not ahole but real iron lady who finally took back the harness of your life from your over controlling ex in laws, glad you didn’t married that spineless eunuch who didn’t have an ounce of courage to stand up for you and to stand up for himself, you definitely deserves a real man, a caring and protecting partner, and you will find one soon

NTA, breakup ASAP, no relationship is worthy of costing you your peace of mind, this relationship is destroying your sanity and peace of mind, than walk away from it, and if necessary cut contact with those Ahole friends of yours who are blaming you for overreacting

NTA, but all those friends siding with your ex are much bigger ahole than your ex boyfriend

Your boyfriend was in bed with your best friend but he still loves you, your best friend slept with your boyfriend but she didn’t want to hurt you, I mean seriously 😏😏😏😏😏

NTA But you should of told him sooner. Also her and the friends that defended her not friends definitely not ones you should want.

YES YOU ARE TA YOU'RE A TA FOR HUMPING JOSH (So is He) YOU'RE A TA FOR TELLING HER (IF you and Josh are NEVER gonna hook up again) And you are a TA and a COWARD for not living with the guilt and shutting up forever Guilt is the price you pay for the shite you do you put your sister and family (screw Josh) through heartache and pain to make YOURSELF feel better

These stories are always so weird, most people are doormats and act like absolute bitches. She did what was right, and the fact she hasn't set Dan straight is beyond me.

No, you're not TA. for telling her. YTA for sleeping with your "brother". Telling your sister is the least you could have done.

Great video! I'd love to see much more of your content if it was horror-focused! By the way... are you single?

The same women who say - “it’s not your relationship and you should mind your own business” be the first one when a man beats his wife. Why canteen they keep their mouth shut then also? Abuse is abuse. You did the right thing. Now let yourself feel the hurt, cut your losses and move on. Lana and those who supported her need to GO OUT from your life.

Maybe Dan's parents were the ones whp could've handled the situation differently by not being a couple of meddling snoopers.

As an adopted person. U are deffo not the buthole. The trauma ab being adopted would come anyways, even if it's told early. And he now is in his feeling rethinking everything. He will probably start acting like he did before again. Bec deep down he knows you guys are his real parents. The people who cared for him like parents should do. He is just trying to understand the situation he's in. It's a part of life that comes with adoption. All hard moments of life are life lessons. Don't worry give him time. And show him unconditional love. He will understand

Did you attend THEIR WEDDING? if so YES you owe it to THEM to speak out