75% don’t care, 25% are glad you have problems. As I grow older, I am learning to be more guarded. When I am working(in retail) or forced to be in family or social gatherings, I keep my head down and I don’t speak unless I’m spoken to. I’ve been hurt most of my life and now I do my best to make myself as unavailable as possible. Talk is cheap and when the story is good….
@stanisawgezela697811 сағат бұрын
Happy new year, Chris!keep up the work, good habits and improve everyday! You inspired me to work hard, and i started my monk mode when u did. STAY HARD
@PaulojrFootball13 сағат бұрын
You should get way more views
@jayess8714Күн бұрын
Dude, you got "Chris"? Nice
@DotChris7Күн бұрын
I’m confused wdym😂
@SaschrickDelceppo052 күн бұрын
Amazing seeing this channel grow buddy. I see the potential
@DotChris72 күн бұрын
Everything in due time, appreciate it brother
@SheikhAdnanAhmed2 күн бұрын
great video
@DotChris72 күн бұрын
Thank you
@CG-05-072 күн бұрын
You are absolutely right, I think. Our exhibitionist societies in the West put us at risk by encouraging us to share everything and to share poorly. That's not how we gain acceptance, and we need to keep a sense of mystery for healthy social relationships. Moreover, it doesn’t add any value to clumsily showcase, out of context, who we are.
@DotChris72 күн бұрын
Spot on my friend. Appreciate the comment
@aramebrahimi37542 күн бұрын
Thanks for the vid, staying grounded and in your own frame is a reward in itself, happy new year all
@DotChris72 күн бұрын
It’s the highest version of self appreciation. Happy new year bud
@fabsjaggy55513 күн бұрын
a part of what you tell is true but why a good life has to be always a hard life i think right now it s difficult to have a good life if it s not hard but maybe it better to take time start a good life with easy task every time to have a better life
@DotChris73 күн бұрын
Well part of it being a good life is so that you are able to enjoy doing hard things, choose your hard in a sense. Also I think that hard is abit misunderstood, in the sense that for some people a hard task is something like cleaning their room which is actually very easy
@fabsjaggy55513 күн бұрын
@@DotChris7 lot of people fix hard task to do with the feeling if they not realize it that will be a disaster i think enjoy everytime every task you do and do it with pleasure is the more important no matter what it is be proud of it fix an objectiv you want to tell me as hard task ?
@DotChris73 күн бұрын
@ well while trying to enjoy something works on paper it isn’t always like that, Hard is different for everyone
@doral.51673 күн бұрын
Are you from Balkan? Great video btw👍
@DotChris73 күн бұрын
@@doral.5167 from italy, been told I look Balkan a few times, Appreciate it
@NicoKuba4 күн бұрын
Always good Food For Thought. Keep ‘em coming. 👌🏻💪🏻
@DotChris73 күн бұрын
Appreciate it brother
@abhavyadubey-tx8ob5 күн бұрын
Needed this very much brother . I know whom you are talking about (Hint :I follow you on SM) . Another reason for this behavior is a lot of negativity in real life and online SM which leads to thoughts like , "Maybe if I start to change , I can motivate others of coming out of their negative ecosystems". Sometimes it also happens because of occupied friends and busy family members . Not defending this behavior because as you said it increases pressure , also looks like someone is trying to get cheap dopamine and looks bad as an image . There are some cultural reasons as well . Anyways , thank you for this . Its a reality check I was waiting for .
@DotChris75 күн бұрын
@@abhavyadubey-tx8ob send me a message brother, that aside, This person isn’t someone I follow but I’m sure everyone can mention a handful of people like that. In the end people are free to make their choices when it comes to behavior, you don’t have to force change on anyone other then yourself, the right or wrong people will act accordingly to that
@Jul1n.215 күн бұрын
Already at 750 subs. Your growing fast Brother! Do you have Instagram by any chance? We should link up 🔗 (I just looked in your description my bad for being blind)
@DotChris75 күн бұрын
Fr bro I wasn’t even at 400 at the start of the month, makes no sense. It’s al good dawg you found it😂
@espadakillar5 күн бұрын
I will try to keep it private. Usually it will lead of EOL...
@@DotChris7 Thanks. But i get the idea behind the video. But to execute is a whole different subject.
@DotChris75 күн бұрын
@ aye that’s with everything bro, saying you want to run a marathon is one thing, actually doing it is another
@hastyfellow52016 күн бұрын
Great vìdeo... what lense are you using?
@DotChris76 күн бұрын
Idk brother just an iPhone 14pro and some editing👨🏼🍼
@OrezEdit6 күн бұрын
Exactly 🙏, Am lonely not because i have no friends but because i'm very selective
@DotChris76 күн бұрын
I’m not a big fan of the word lonely as I feel it has some negative stigma attached to it, but in general yes it’s better to be alone than surrounded by people and still feel alone. Appreciate the comment friend hope you’re doing great :)
@OrezEdit6 күн бұрын
@DotChris7 totally agree with you, thanks brother keep it up 💯
@Hogan23457 күн бұрын
Long time no see 🎉
@DotChris77 күн бұрын
Glad to see you again : )
@ThatBoyAjaé7 күн бұрын
I prayed for your channel to grow keep it up bro im watching your videos for self improvement while I’m following Jesus 🙏
@DotChris77 күн бұрын
Thank you brother, much love for all the support
@mayvisionmusicofficialone7 күн бұрын
alone - all-one
@DotChris77 күн бұрын
Alone time together
@akidfromtheblock7 күн бұрын
weve all got bad habits to overcome, one step at a time
@DotChris77 күн бұрын
It’s a journey
@malcolmwhite62047 күн бұрын
Hi, Chris, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your KZbin educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are so absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational channel up, and running, my good friend 💯👍💯👍💯👍💯!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
@DotChris77 күн бұрын
I appreciate the kind words brother, much love for the support. You know it’s an interesting thought, I’ll let it sit in my head for a little and see if anything worthy comes to mind, perhaps something similar to it. Appreciate the idea, feel free to let me know any other ideas you might have in future :)
@SiddharthSingh-py4vs8 күн бұрын
We take stress in life on the things which we cant control .
@DotChris77 күн бұрын
Ironic isn’t it
@NicoKuba8 күн бұрын
Been watching a few videos of yours now. Keep on putting them out! They’re just mellow to listen to with topics that most men are struggling with! Got a new subscriber!
@DotChris78 күн бұрын
Cheers brother I appreciate the support! One too many people yelling on the internet to get their point across😂
@NicoKuba8 күн бұрын
@@DotChris7 Haha you’re not yelling, you’re well spoken and authentic. And the people can tell. 👌🏻
@DotChris78 күн бұрын
@ appreciate you mate
@TreyG-b2e8 күн бұрын
coo fade bra
@DotChris78 күн бұрын
Shoutout to the barber saving lifes
@akidfromtheblock9 күн бұрын
Keep grinding homie, happy to see the journey
@DotChris79 күн бұрын
Nothing else to do, only up from here for both of us brother. Appreciate you
@akidfromtheblock9 күн бұрын
Monk mode ception, becoming a monk in all ways
@DotChris79 күн бұрын
Reject modernity, embrace tradition
@Faxzien10 күн бұрын
really needed this, thanks man
@DotChris79 күн бұрын
Anytime friend, hope you’re doing okay
@ErickAlt-rs3kf10 күн бұрын
666 subs wtf
@DotChris710 күн бұрын
I missed it : (
@JonnyLord10 күн бұрын
Loved this Chris! Sometimes it’s just those small shifts in the way that you think that can make all the difference. Thanks for sharing I will be adopting these thoughts 🙏🏻
@DotChris710 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it brother. Best of luck on your journey
@stanisawgezela697810 күн бұрын
For me the third week was learning about certain behaviours of mine, and what should i change. It gave me a reflection of who i am, and wwho i want to be. Stay Hard Chris!
@DotChris710 күн бұрын
Best of luck on your journey brother.
@TheJurgenEffect10 күн бұрын
Hey Chris, how are you doing bro? I was wondering where you’re living now and maybe it is a good idea to go out en tell us on the street about the nice cars.
@DotChris710 күн бұрын
Hey mate, I’m doing great, unfortunately I’m not living in Monaco hahaha
@sebastianklocke10 күн бұрын
Love your content bruv!
@DotChris710 күн бұрын
Cheers brother!
@Jul1n.2111 күн бұрын
The cigarette example hit home brother. I had stopped for three months from october until last week and I folded unfortunately. But I am going to stop again.Great video like always! Congrats for the 600! Well deserved
@DotChris711 күн бұрын
There should be a sweet spot between not beating yourself up too much and doing so just enough to stay accountable to stopping. It’s a process of trial and error until you get it right. Appreciate it the support brother Much love.
@freeromaniafromdictatorship11 күн бұрын
I love these 0 edited videos where it's just a person talking infront of a camera instead of some super hyperedited videos which destroys your attention span.
@DotChris711 күн бұрын
Much appreciated really, that’s kind of the goal. Tho in future I would like to add some edits and make it more cinematic, while keeping it relatively simple and unedited
@ZookedLabz11 күн бұрын
Deus Vult Brother
@DotChris711 күн бұрын
Man of culture
@Jul1n.2111 күн бұрын
Great Video Bro! I am also working on my religious journey it really helped me find my way. back to my purpose.
@DotChris711 күн бұрын
Thanks brother! At some point everyone comes back to it for the better. Hope you’re doing great buddy
@Jul1n.2111 күн бұрын
@ Yeah Bro I‘m doing good I‘m getting closer to doing content I‘m still waiting for my dji mic to arrive and finish my first script. You have instagram? We should link up Brother.
@DanielMutuva12 күн бұрын
Thanks for this brother
@DotChris712 күн бұрын
Anytime, glad it helped
@MarcusOlilo12 күн бұрын
I rarely comment on posts/videos, but I appreciate you for showcasing this journey, truly inspiring. Will keep following as I embark on mine as well
@DotChris712 күн бұрын
Very much appreciate it mate. Yeah I think sharing the ups and downs of it is an hopeful thing for people. Much love brother
@Woodart-m4c13 күн бұрын
Good video
@DotChris712 күн бұрын
Cheers brother
@connor-mcdermott13 күн бұрын
love the content brother. 'Not negotiating with evil' is so powerful. Just allowing myself to begin arguing with it (even trying to prove it wrong) can be enough to twist my perspective
@DotChris712 күн бұрын
Will probably use it as a video ngl. It’s a process in the end, Evil may win the battle you just make sure you win the war.
@stanisawgezela697813 күн бұрын
Love it I see you growing. Keep it up
@DotChris713 күн бұрын
At quite a good rate too! Thank you for the support brother
@DS-vx3wf14 күн бұрын
built*
@DotChris713 күн бұрын
You know? That’s actually a good point Thank you <3
@SiddharthSingh-py4vs14 күн бұрын
That forearms looking great
@DotChris713 күн бұрын
Cheers brother👨🏼🍼
@pedro_pumar14 күн бұрын
hello from Brasil
@DotChris714 күн бұрын
@@pedro_pumar hey brother
@baptistetsague245114 күн бұрын
Thank you for your words, it conforts me in the path that I engaged myself in recently !
@DotChris714 күн бұрын
@@baptistetsague2451 Thank you for the comment mate, appreciate it. Best of luck with your journey, I’m rooting for you!
@NwithanUkelele14 күн бұрын
Nicely made video! I subbed
@DotChris714 күн бұрын
Cheers brother! Much love
@Jul1n.2115 күн бұрын
You are totally right
@DotChris715 күн бұрын
Once in a while
@Jul1n.2115 күн бұрын
@@DotChris7 Until now on youtube youve always been right Brother haha
@Jean-LucDeIeso15 күн бұрын
I love these videos, can you share more about how your recovery process when bad things or stressful things happen.
@DotChris715 күн бұрын
Honestly dude, I just work out a ton, either hit the gym for another session, loads of pushups and curls with a weighted vest, running, music that gives me energy. It’s simple but it helps me sweat it out and clear my head
@Jean-LucDeIeso15 күн бұрын
@@DotChris7 haha I thought so; nothing fancy.
@DotChris715 күн бұрын
@ sometimes it’s best to keep it simple, but I might make a separate video on this
@ofekarye921816 күн бұрын
Good luck with your chunnel bud, a recommendation: bigger subtitles :)
@DotChris716 күн бұрын
@@ofekarye9218 cheers brother, will make them bigger once I’m done uploading finished videos