I want to add i asked my ex if he would get my period calendar so he could be more understanding with my hormones. Sometimes we feel it and we can tell our loved ones...but sometimes we are crying or edgy w out realizing it. I havent been good to my body so thats starting now w friends help. So important to get your health in check for hormones.
@ThePortalTheory17 күн бұрын
Having adhd on top is awful. Adhd causes a paralysis where you want to be left alone n be in bed for hours to days. So pms pmdd adhd life is "wow".
@Therover19Ай бұрын
cite the post.
@IWantToDieFRFR2 ай бұрын
You know what, its a great feeling to cancel a plan that you actually dont really wanna do. Be free, be yourself, no apologies
@anarcovision3 ай бұрын
I've known my wife for 20 years. She's great most of the time, her SPMs are mostly normal, but some of them are hell, I have left home many times just to put end to violence. She gets totally irrational, turns completely incoherent. She shows irrational jealousy. She aims most all of her anger to me, makes me doubt my own sanity, it affected my life hugely. We've lived like that all that time. Our daughter is witness of all this violence and suffers. It took me all this time to realise she may be suffering of PMDD. She's undiagnosed.
@ICTBKco3 ай бұрын
Hey, what is the forum? My partner has PMDD and i feel as though its destroying me now also. For her its 1.5 weeks of clarity to 2.5 weeks of emotional rollercoasting and violence.. for me now its just a sense of depression and not being good enough
@JabouJ.3 ай бұрын
Thank you sharing! I feel less alone ❤ interesting you talk about the c*vid jab throwing off your cycle. Thought I was the only one 😮 Us woman our bodies are incredibly strong and sensitive
@moorelivinwithxbeautyy5 ай бұрын
I know I’m late but, I have began taking herbs to curve the symptoms but I was like that until my husband and I nearly separated. Just irritated all the time. He was struggling because I was just mean and hormonal and unaware of what was happening to me. I knew that I loved him and that I never wanted to hurt him. I knew something had to change. All I can say is yes, she does need to be held accountable to seeking help. Yes, there is a diagnosis but that does not make it ok to treat her partner like trash. Every day must be lived with intent, PMDD or not. She needs to begin by being more intentional about finding ways to fill her cup when that time is approaching. She can’t give to others what she isn’t giving herself. What has helped me in HelloFresh meals (meal planning was too much) deep cleaning the house + laundry the week before my period and of course tracking my cycle. INTENT INTENT INTENT. Huge game changer. ❤
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
So interesting. Thanks for being vulnerable and transparent xx
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
I'm going to look up some apps i can use to track my endo symptoms. I was going to use a spreadsheet, also, but after a while that will probably become tedious as you've said 😊
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
Hugs. Seeing you cry is difficult. An active and nutrient dense lifestyle is so important- more than we realise and more than we're taught. It's sad that GPs don't mention these are ways to alleviate symptoms. We have to do all the research ourselves or fork out heavily to see other healthcare specialists such as nutritionists etc. This is largely why I've signed up for a health coaching certification. I need to take more control of my health since the healthcare system leaves much to be desired generally speaking...
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
A great and clear explanation of the illness and symptoms- thank you.
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
Seems like such a great book! 20 days out of the month/cycle is so sad 😢
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
Great tips xx
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
Sending you love ❤❤
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
I wish an audio version of the book is available!
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
Wow, and I thought the length of time it takes on average to get an endometriosis diagnosis was bad! It's so good to hear people explain how it affects them- really brings it to life for others and I'm sure validates others who are suffering from this terrible condition.
@TheWellnessAbbey6 ай бұрын
This is VERY interesting! Im going to purchase the book- thanks for suggestion. A healthy holistic lifestyle overall has so many benefits to symptoms of various illnesses 🙌🏼
@jgirl3456 ай бұрын
Loved this video ... can u read more of these?
@jgirl3456 ай бұрын
I have PMDD and I snap on my boyfriend alot when im in my luteal phase, sometimes its because he tries to make things better by hugging me or holsing me when we lay down and i like my space during this time... so i think he should wait til she is in her normal phase of the month and then talk to her #1 about what she needs during the time of the month where her symptoms are bad and #2 let her know the seriousness of what her actions are doing to ur love for her, ur mental health and ur relationship and come up with a plan,,, if shes not willing to do this then maybe u should consider leaving
@MyPMDDDiary7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much this is such an important topic ❤
@yuriorlov30498 ай бұрын
Im trying to help support my friend with pmdd through a hard time and trying to find what its like to live with instead of a clinical definition, these videos have helped a lot thank you
@PMDDwithC8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment and you sound like a wonderful friend
@nightskystar6139 ай бұрын
Pmdd has ruined relationships, jobs, opportunities, most everything really. After burning bridges I just feel awful and feel like there's no saving the situation because i don't think i could take the rejection if I tried to explain. I'd rather just break it all off and spare these people. Spare myself from heartbreak in a way. Of being misunderstood. I think I have a better handle of it now with tracking and taking care of my body's health, but for the few years where I was flying not knowing, well it was the toughest time of my life thus far. Now I can avoid situations during that time and my tools make the pmdd more mild so there's been less meltdowns as I call them. Still happens though and the wild thing is in those moments it's like you lose rationality because instead of removing yourself you go for more and make it even worse trying to make it better in your mind.
@janetmifsud969010 ай бұрын
I deleted my husband cause he doesn't show me.comfort😢😮
@seangreathouse1850 Жыл бұрын
My girlfriend suffers with PMDD. Thank you for making these. We need to spread awareness of this debilitating condition. The more spouses are aware of it, the more people in general are aware of it, the better it will help the women and the families that live with the condition.
@PMDDwithC11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment and your support for PMDD, it is greatly appreciated!
Does this book go into any detail on PMDD while on continuous birth control? Its something I've found it really difficult to find any info about.
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
I don't think it does - but let me know what you find out!
@bevganley3492 Жыл бұрын
35 years to date having pmdd now in perimenopause and the symptoms are really really severe as if it wasn’t bad enough to start with
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that - I really do hope you are looking after yourself during these horrible moments
@bevganley3492 Жыл бұрын
@@PMDDwithC thank you I’m taking each day as it comes
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
That's all you can do!@@bevganley3492
@TheIlovepie1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your advice. I can relate to this so much. I am waiting for an appointment to see someone about possibly having PMDD. I cancelled a lot on a friendship group lately because of anxiety and feeling low, some of them are sympathetic. But one friend doesn’t reply to me anymore. I understand she is prob sick of me cancelling and so that’s her way of dealing with it. But I feel incredibly guilt when I do cancel and feel selfish. I don’t feel comfortable telling her the real reasons why I cancel. So it makes me question if we might not be good friends after all.
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, it is greatly appreciated 🧡
@tc9528 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Its so hard to get the doctors to believe I have this, instead of just putting me on antidepressants 😔
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment 🧡
@katarinasakoschek5394 Жыл бұрын
Super helpful to know I'm not alone. Probably all stems from being a people pleaser
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this 🧡
@ThePortalTheory17 күн бұрын
Ugh I'm a recovering people pleaser.
@stevestone24012 жыл бұрын
Thank you for adding awareness to PMDD. I am beyond saddened to have recently met a woman that suffers from PMDD and see her challenges and pain.
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Hello Steve - thank you for your comment, it's appreciated. It's so great to have you here!
@panamamrsears2 жыл бұрын
aww just found you :) loved listening to your videos, almost positive i have PMDD, its been affecting my life for awhile now, but didont really recognise it till now that it may be the reason for many upsets in my relationship. thankyou for sharing, loved watching and sharing with you. its hard but i actually feel relived that i may of found the source of my struggles,i will start keeping a journal now.thanks so much, and period just started so yay for now. give me time to prepare for the next ride xxx
@PMDDwithC2 жыл бұрын
Sending lots of love!
@canary.yellow2 жыл бұрын
I had a vacation completely ruined by PMDD with my in-laws before I knew what was going on. I was stressed out and yelled at my kids a couple of times and my mother-in-law. My husband was so confused as to why I was determined to have a bad time and I could not snap myself out of it. With kids, I couldn't just hide myself away, even though it would have been better for everyone. Looking back at my cycle tracker that I had for fertility reasons, I was in "hell week" and now I know to never do that again! it was so, so awful.
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
It sounds really stressful, however it's great that you are able to link this to your PMDD by using a tracker. I hope you are managing okay now!
@canary.yellow2 жыл бұрын
I've been considering buying this book. Thanks for showing this! I'm newly diagnosed and think that I'm "peak and spike".
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Honestly, this book is great isn't it! Hope you are doing okay!
@avig83342 жыл бұрын
I have PMDD, however I make sure to still remain pleasant. I’ve learned how to maintain via threapy .
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Firstly, thank you for sharing this. It's great to hear that you are having therapy. I am going to be cheeky and ask if you could help me with my research survey, considering you have had therapy... us21.list-manage.com/survey?u=281d3a76e3c34cf8fe6017a75&id=9b0bbac38d&attribution=false
@pmddadvocacy73082 жыл бұрын
Super glad to see you here on KZbin!!
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
thanks a bunch!
@Malini1082 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I wonder if PMDD is exacerbated by the anxiety of being in a relationship one subconsciously doesn't want to be in.
@remyd1984 Жыл бұрын
No chance! No matter how many different relationships she’ll have, she’ll always end up at the same place! The only difference is some men will want to work it out because he truly loves her and some men (especially more mature) will see red flags 🚩 straight off the bat and check out!
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Possibly! Humans are complicated!
@MyPMDDDiary7 ай бұрын
I once had a female doctor who had personally suffered from PMDD and ADHD - when I asked her how she overcame her PMDD she looked me straight in the eyes and said ‘I left my husband’. That comment has stayed with me for years!
@ana90laura2 жыл бұрын
Just happened to me last week, but I didn't know that I had PMDD. So I thought that maybe he would come back but I think that's not going to happen. Feel happy to not being alone in this, love from Mexico ♡
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
You are not alone! Thank you for sharing your comment, wishing you all the best!
@JasonMcHenry2 жыл бұрын
It's a real relief to hear this as my partner has PMDD and I only just learned about what it is.
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Hey Jason, thank you for sharing this! I hope all is well with you.
@user-ec8js3nc1p2 жыл бұрын
♥️ thanks i just subscribed I suffer with PMDD & watch these video to get through it.
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Hey thank you for subscribing! And thank you for sharing that you have PMDD. I hope you are able to manage your symptoms.
@janetmifsud969010 ай бұрын
I deleted my husband phone on Christmas Day today am suffering with pmdd too😢😮
@zaynabsiddiqui84912 жыл бұрын
I've been watching all your videos! You're amazing, I wish I could give you a hug across the screen. Thank you for making me feel validated and heard <3
@PMDDwithC Жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you for your wonderful comment, it is appreciated! Wishing you all the best!
@tamerapillay17893 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the content. I have been outcasted by my family and labelled Bipolar. Not Many ppl understand it. we need to spread awareness. I'm trying chaste berry for mood swings
@tamerapillay17893 жыл бұрын
@@Anyways936 Thank u
@PMDDwithC2 жыл бұрын
Sorry I’ve been neglecting this channel. You are absolutely not alone! 🧡😬🩸
@tamerapillay17892 жыл бұрын
@@PMDDwithC hi ive been on agnucaston which is vitex chaste berry. it cured 90 percent of pmmd. pls spread awareness
@ashash4life3 жыл бұрын
Also, are you on Instagram? 💕
@PMDDwithC3 жыл бұрын
Noo I don't have one
@ashash4life3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this 💛 Your voice is so calming Love all the healthy, helpful tips! I love yoga 🧘♀️✨
@PMDDwithC2 жыл бұрын
Yoga is the bessst! Thank you for watching! 🧡🧡🧡
@ashash4life3 жыл бұрын
Also, I know I’m probably more of pme from my history of panic attacks and anxiety. May I, request a video on pmdd and relationships/if someone leaves you from it & how to cope. ❤️
@PMDDwithC3 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion! I will try to make the video soon for you :)
@ashash4life3 жыл бұрын
@@PMDDwithC Thanks so much Take care 🧡 Love your channel 😊
@ashash4life3 жыл бұрын
Subscribed! Going through pmdd right now Feeling so exhausted, slept nearly all day today, normally I’m more active outdoors with going ok walks and hiking but not today. You remind me of Audrey Hepburn ❤️
@PMDDwithC3 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re kind to yourself during your pmdd phase! Sending all the positive vibes! 🧡🧡